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I love good books, big trees the mountains and my family. đđ§âđ§âđ§âđ§
Probably on a trail someplace
Joined September 2024
@hollowearthterf How many âsmart girlsâ were tasked with babysitting misbehaved boys to help keep them on track in class? No one ever discusses this.
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@hollowearthterf Robert Bly discussed this in Iron John. Boys need to separate from their mother in order to become men, but that requires the mentoring of their father and other older men, who often donât take up that mantle. It leaves mothers to do a job they canât.
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@oliveegger âGo back to Sex Ed Babyâ đ then I realized tax payer funds covered HER education đ¤Śđťââď¸.
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@castlehillmom I have a friend who was married to an pro MMA fighter. Heck of a nice guy, but years of head trauma changed his personality in a dark way. Heâs not safe to be around anymore. Granted this is an exceptional case, but they exist. Heartbreaking.
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@Morbidful They gave him the option of amputation or death and he went full send on this life. Montana men are built different. Hereâs a pic of him and his wife. I guess they have a YT channel.
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@Acid_4_Blood @GreenTextRepost Anon made this post up. Iâve never seen anyone complain about a pin. That doesnât happen.
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@wil_da_beast630 Freshman year at Uni a guy drugged my drink. A group of other men noticed and got me to a hospital (had to carry me). Later they asked if I remembered what the guy who drugged me looked like. I said kinda why? They laughed and said âHe doesnât look like that anymore now lolâ.
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@Dialectiks My son knows if he did this to a girl, and abondoned her, I would no longer have a son, just a brand new daughter with a grand baby on the way. If sheâs good enough to knock up, sheâs good enough to be your wife for life.
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@TheRoyalSerf They stare at screens 10 hours a day, canât go anywhere without their emotional support vape and most have larger boobs than I do. Not exactly threatening.
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@CuriousBunnie12 I also think itâs confusing because even in more traditional cultures where people are expected to get married young, college kids can get married and finish school no problem. In fact they often have access to more grants because they donât have to claim their parents anymore.
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@ThymeToBeBorn Yes, itâs a bad argument. Itâs also funny how theyâre neglecting most saints never had kids, and yet theyâre honored for their sacrificial love of others regardless. Motherhood is awesome, but itâs not a golden ticket to enlightenment.
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@Pellegrinoadict I just people to be healthy and normal instead of âIG hotâ. Fillers, veneers and Botox make everyone look the same and overdone. PEDâs and plastics are dangerous and they donât look good most of the time. I want to see them joyfully embrace their natural looks.
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@Dialectiks Was she really that bad? I think most of her female followers can relate to her takes to a degree. Sure sheâs over the top, but thatâs part of the bit. Of course men say women arenât funny because they canât understand our humor.
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@nealjclark1 Small towns are great, but young people usually need some kind of âheroâs journeyâ in order to fully appreciate what theyâve had all along. That usually involves braving the wider world, doing something meaningful and returning.
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@EdmundSmirk Some maladjusted men will never be happy, even if you give them everything they say they want. They say their misery is everyoneâs fault but their own, and a lot of girfters are enabling their victim mentality. Theyâre gonna end up getting left behind if they canât wake up.
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@surrounding3rd I noticed that Jillian Michaels was wearing the same kind of outfit and no one complained about hers. Whatâs different? Less lace, warmer tones? Iâm genuinely curious, help me out here!
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@SWENGDAD If my son ever does that to a woman I will buy a full page ad in the newspaper to shame him.
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@wil_da_beast630 True. I lived in PDX for years. Itâs probably one of the whitest metros in the US, but thereâs still a ton of crime. Itâs the drugs, folks.
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@Babygravy9 Itâs extremely repetitive. Also who the hell is cutting the grass in all these abandoned suburbs?.
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@datepsych Correct me if Iâm wrong, but arenât most dissertations written on super specific, niche topics that would sound strange to laypeople? Isnât this pretty standard for academic work?.
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@mistresstailor @BovbjergMarit Properly fitting undergarments are comfortable-I just think the skills required to craft them are less common than they used to be. Fast fashion has messed up a lot of things with streetwear.
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@QuetzalPhoenix It gives me a flashback oxytocin bust every time it shows up on my TL. Iâll never get sick of seeing it.
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@OldHollowTree Those kinds of things are pretty difficult to explain to others. They donât usually understand and it just results in judgement, plus itâs depressing and borning-all messed up families are the same really.
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@mrsdobbins_ A lot of this discourse is bitter MIL coded. I think unstable people get weird in these situations because theyâre not the main character. It robs joy.
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@SWENGDAD Mostly agree, but ladies need to be careful with too much pursuit. A lot of guys are complacent by nature and will passively settle for a girl theyâre not crazy about if she makes it easy for him by driving the whole relationship.
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@owenbroadcast A lot of kids know. They take it as play. You can have a lot of fun with it if you let them know itâs totally unserious. How else do you small talk with them? They donât care about sportsball or the stock market. Isnât it great?.
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@CuriousBunnie12 Agreed. All young people are struggling, but these entitled children think theyâre special. Itâs an opportunity for the older generations to pour resources into young people. Invest time and money into our future!.
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@the_dirtturd @Morbidful Any of our spouses could have an accident tomorrow and weâd be in the same place. Thatâs why the vows say in sickness and health-you accept the commitment regardless of the outcome.
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@misandriquen @user84829272 Exactly. If he wants you bad enough, heâll seal the deal fast. After 12 years itâs a decade deep into âpaint or get off the ladderâ territory!.
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@RaspyRacoon @hollowearthterf My daughterâs teacher tried to pull this crap with her last year. I was not having it. I know theyâre in a tough spot, but itâs not fair to do that to other kids.
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@castlehillmom Thatâs an excellent point! Having a job wonât stop those bad situations from happening. In some cases, it could even exacerbate stress that would increase marital strife-like a self-fulfilling prophesy type thing.
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@Dialectiks Ngl itâs low brow for grown married men choose places like this. The beer is flat, the wings suck and they play terrible musicâŚbut booba I guess đ¤ˇđźââď¸. Go to an establishment for serious adults and just pass on the slop.
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@CuriousBunnie12 Gotta love it when DR guys complain about âmuh birth ratesâ every day on here, then also complain about this.
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@5Gforbreakfast âHiiiieeee you guise! For vlogmas I thought I would like do a book review type dillâŚand I liked the cover so so much. It looks grrrret with my legos. This BAP guy doesnât spell very well tho. Thatâs OK cuz I donât read so goodâŚso anywaysâŚâ.
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@brianwut @pli_cachete Very well said! We do indeed walk a fine line when it comes to productivity and in the short term vs long term losses when it comes to health.
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I donât disagree, but the fact that men only care about us insomuch as we are their property isnât a glowing endorsement of western men in general. A lot of RW types on here are appallingly hostile to us. And some âjokinglyâ endorse sharia law and child marriage all the time.
There needs to be a case made for "conservative feminism". If men do not see women as "theirs" then the urge and need to protect them will go down. If they are just individuals, it won't matter as much. What happened in the UK didn't happen to girls, it happened to YOUR girls.
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@imnotabotbiatch If my kids are ever lucky enough to get married I hope their spouses can trust me. Even if things donât work out, I hope they see me as a positive force in their lives-especially if theyâre kind enough to make me a grandma. Family is family.
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@Rothmus For every pound of âenrichedâ uranium that goes into a nuclear reactor, there are, on average, over 5,000 pounds of radioactive waste is produced in the mining and processing of uranium. Also takes a shit load of fossile fuel to extract the ore from mines.
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@DarbraDawn I went through a tent phase as a teen. I felt like my body had betrayed me when I began to get unwelcome male attention due to changes I couldnât control. Lots of girls do. Many donât make peace with their bodies until theyâre much older, hence the momâs aesthetic.
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@Broseph45775884 @leamaric The whole aesthetic looks bad imo-the lashes, extensions, fillers, boob jobs and micro blades. Itâs all so overdone. Everyone looks the same. Fashion is about having a signature style, not Kardashian beige.
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@CartoonsHateHer Maturing as a woman means discovering the most powerful troll you have access to is simply being genuinely happy and comfortable in your own skin. All the worst kinds of people get really upset whenever they see it.
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@tenobrus I met my husband in a dance class. He kept talking to me and I flirted with him A LOTâŚit took him a bit to figure out I liked him and wasnât just being nice. He was pretty nervous to finally ask for my number/socials. I found that kindof endearing tbh. Just try OK.
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@EdmundSmirk Most older women who married men decades older warn their daughters not to do the same. If you want a family remember that your grandkids are gonna suffer if grandpa isnât around for them.
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@nealjclark1 Iâve never seen anyone stuff so much rage bait into so few characters and frankly itâs humbling for a Monday morning.
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@FrailSkeleton âBAP isnât gonna change society with a tweetâ.He a did a little comedy bit and started a cult on accident. The manâs sheet Nietzschain force is too powerful and it scares meâŚ.
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@pissmarck If I suggested to my son that we do a tic tok dance he would disintegrate Thanos style from the cringe I just triggered, and weirdly I think thatâs probably healthy.
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@Coco_felony @castlehillmom True. And a lot women donât experience physical abuse until theyâre pregnant for the first time, so it does come out of the blue for many. Thereâs a balance between ease/trust in your spouse and establishing an exit plan. Prolly looks different for everyone.
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@vocalcry Anytime I see a man on here attempting to engage in gender discourse weâre gonna have to determine if he is in fact actually attracted to women. This happens A LOT.
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@blix_hanz @TheRoyalSerf The distain is reserved for entitled children who threaten everyone else because they werenât handed their gibs. No one owes you anything. Go be useful and quit playing though guy online. Serious men donât behave this way.
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@Inv3ntive15 Iâd call that wage stagnation for sure tho-if you assume an inflation rate of 3.5% itâs really abysmal. I wonder how the benifits packages compare.
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@CSharpDad @Rothmus Iâd love to see how much the law firm took off the top of that payoutâŚ.
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@feral__mama Why doesnât it ever occur to them that women live decades past menopause. Natural selection had to allow for thatâŚitâs almost like old women are useful for a populationâs survival or something. Crazy huh?.
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@EdmundSmirk Agreed. I also think her account was just a funny bit and some fragile men got entirely too precious about the comedy routine.
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@oliveegger If youâre on the fence, go for it. Thereâs something about your second kid that just shows you how much of a gift children really are. Mine was a girl and she healed me in ways I didnât even realize I was broken. Iâm grateful for her every single day.
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@SWENGDAD Relationships canât be approached with a consumerist mindset. Donât look at what you can get from a person, but rather consider what you can build together.
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@HazelAppleyard_ Can we just support moms without being all dogmatic about meaningless triviality? Support all moms.
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@getabass Most pick me girls have mean moms who bullied them and I can see it very clearly with Rachel. Itâs so sad. I wish she wouldnât make her childhood trauma every womanâs to bear. I hope she heals.
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@KeithWoodsYT How do you guys reconcile a love for your folk, but are openly hostile to your women and normal, healthy married/family life? It doesnât make sense to any regular functional adult. Iâm sorry to be so blunt, but you all seem to miss the obvious here.
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@EdmundSmirk Apologies for the therapy speak, but Iâm pretty convinced it all comes from codependent men who have an addiction to women with cluster B personality disorders.
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@oliveegger Lol. I got this for my husbandâs birthday last year, and it turns out heâs a lot more Irish than he advertised âšď¸.
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@deadnotred @McNolf @hollowearthterf Youâre conflating empathy with pathological altruism in a migrant case. Thereâs also a status seeking component that has nothing to do with concern for others-antithetical to empathy. True empathy is a healthy impulse toward genuine connection, a synergistic spiritual force.
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@anglotradboy @NecktieSalvage Yup. People forgot how pre teen boys eat their weight in food every 72 hours. Itâs just a conveyer belt for calories. Totally insane.
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@vocalcry People like to crap on Costco, but a lot of Kirkland brand foods have pretty decent ingredients for a reasonable price. Their meat department isnât bad at all.
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@blonde_emk @AuDHDSage She probably didnât like that the naps impeded HER schedule in some way, then took that out on you. (Iâve seen more than a couple MILâs do this).
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My husband just brought me coffee this morning and has ready showed me 2 funny videosâŚI can feel my soul draining from my body.
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@Feralfairy13 Itâs raining so I stayed inside and mended my daughterâs pants this afternoon. Made a matching scrunchie from an old skirt. She wanted flowers, and she got em.
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@hollowearthterf Everyoneâs broke when they start out. Either youâve got an entry level job and no money, or you have student debt and a slightly higher paying entry level job. The break even point for both is ~36. No matter how you do it, embrace the struggle together.
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@OBWoodchuck @Rothmus IIRC she had several skin removal surgeries and the recovery was brutal. I think thereâs a documentary about her out there. This all happened awhile ago, so Iâm not sure where she is now. Mad props to her for hard work.
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@kneadtotalk Irl about those charts. I always got yelled at for having kids that were âtoo skinnyâ, but they ate fine, were active, healthy, hitting milestones, growing and had plenty of diaper changes so I just carried on like normal. Theyâre grown up some and doing just fine. Donât worry!.
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@hollowearthterf If someoneâs too broke to get anything off the registry or just canât for some reason, then opt for money or gift cards instead. If thereâs a special sentimental thing they wanna get, then give it later after the kid is born, donât demand they use it.
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@VivaldiVril I grew up in a traditional culture and EVERYONE was expected to marry young (18-22 ish). It seems like a couple accumulates wealth much quicker than single young people. They had an easier time holding down jobs and paying bills. Economic stability promotes emotional stability.
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@captivedreamer7 I think itâs weird Americans canât move to European countries-I mean some of us are like 60-70% English or whatever and itâs weird we canât make a case for emigration based on ancestry.
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@castlehillmom When mine were born I got a sense of their essential personality the minute I heard them cry. Anyone else? I feel like we all do this one way or another.
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@revenant_MMXX A lot of alt girls ended up doing this. If you understand counter culture movements it makes total sense.
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@BravePoaster @p8stie That mentality never completely left them. Iâve read so many books where descendants of those people decided to fight âlike dead men walkingâ. Itâs amazing how this stuff stays around.
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@wil_da_beast630 This is one of the many reasons I love my husband-he falls on that grenade of telling annoying people to F off for meâŚI fall on the grenade where I pretend to be enthralled by his relativesâ boring stories (even after hearing them 50 times before) I always pretend itâs new!.
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@TheKanehB The only reason thereâs all this focus on immigration rn is so the government can advance the real id agenda. It will limit travel significantly. Anyone else notice youâre having to scan cards more to go into places?.
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@Dialectiks In American society weâre often mocked for being âparanoidâ if we think about risk mitigation in any kind of tangible way. Regular people get upset when the prospect of vulnerability or danger is even brought up.
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@normonics Conversely, asking old people about the mundane aspects of their daily lives when they were young is fascinating. Youâll be surprised what youâll learn. Life isnât always lived in the big moments, sometimes itâs all in the small routines.
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Im not one to kink shame, but til some men enjoy disappointing multiple women at once.
yeah i'm doing 4b. four bitches at the same time!.
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