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@wrath_776 It is very common for toxic people to claim they learned that their personalities are totally healthy from their therapist. Or they go twice and claim they were healed.
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@Kissmyazz24 Also: we are unable to stop ourselves from SA'ing people.
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@DogginTrump The question is, can be still run from jail? Will he return to a natural skin color? Will the lack of hair products finally reveal the 666 on his scalp?
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@bjportraits I have asked in groups with thousands of members online if anyone knows of one male person of color who came out as trans after being married to a woman and having kids and expected everyone to just roll with it. Not one person could name anyone. Not one.
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@nikicaga I saw her live in a small chapel in 92 and I was with a gay man and a straight man. When it was over even the gay man said "My God she is hot." It literally doesn't matter what a person looks like. Also I think they had an open marriage.
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@ImWatson91 @ask_aubry I used to be a frequent visitor there. It boggles my mind when the guy publishes a book of information about their past sex life and how hard this all is and on and on. Then people start asking for details and he says "We have a two month old, a two year old, a 4 year old.
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@reyslapier @nikicaga How do we know she didn't? She is smart enough to hide the evidence and not leave anything for the other person to use against her.
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@oflifeandwild @datepsych Then don't date those women. Problem solved, right?
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@DecodingFoxNews He meant if you ran into him on the way.
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@_nomadic_soul I really wonder how men can even work at all or get anything done in cultures where people only wear bits of clothing to cover their genitals. It's almost like its not biological but a culturally ingrained type of fetish.
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@GeauxGabrielle This is dumb I know, I live in MO and you can't get divorced if the court knows you are pregnant because you can't do a paternity test until the baby is born and that's a part of the divorce. But I can't figure out how it is different from states that make you wait until you....
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@Shrink_at_Large I had an abusive marriage therapist who literally texted my then spouse and told him I had BPD because I left a session crying after being gaslit and body shamed.
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@LebergerDavid Fred Sr. (D's dad) was a sociopath who raised D to be a sociopath.
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@The_Feminist_TM People literally spend more time arguing about dating trends and who is attractive than they do trying to actually date. It's like a hobby in itself. If you want a partner, go touch some grass and be social.
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@amayadeakins @BlanchardPhD Can you elaborate on how it makes your life harder?
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@cpaforerp @Inhumansoflate1 Have you ever heard of intersectionality?
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@LeslieStreeter It is ok to have dating standards. We aren't a public resource that needs to be doled out evenly among the population like the US mail. No we don't owe everyone a chance.
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@cpaforerp @Inhumansoflate1 Gotcha. So this was kind of just pointless arguing for arguing sake.
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@nate_postlethwt Our culture refuses to allow people to have dark moments because it interferes with our production as workers and our consumption as consumers. When you find the people who can truly hold space, don't let them go.
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@DecodingFoxNews Ha! I'm dead. The only spices they use in hotdish are salt, pepper, and cream of mushroom soup. If you even put parsley in it, or white pepper you would be kicked out of that Lutheran church and have to convert to Catholicism.
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@RRR0BYN I can confirm. I gave birth in a birth center and went home that day. Baby and I slept for about 6 hours. It was great! After that she woke up every 4 hours and didn't sleep through the might until she was 5.
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@DrDoyleSays Everything bad that happens to us is our fault according to our abusers. Even having "bad" feelings is our fault. I was to blame for other people's actions, getting mono, getting swimmers ear, a pastor hitting me at church, it is all so we don't blame them.
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@rustbeltenjoyer The weird thing here is every street and every area is different. Drive down any main road long enough and you are going to see abandoned buildings and homeless people and two blocks over gentrification and two blocks later a gated community.
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@24trump4prison @Chris_Mench Most people in Asia eat them.
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@EricRavenwolf @IanKarmel I had WLS ten years ago and Idk of I would want to be reliant on yet another medication for the rest of my life, but it is so amazing to have options. So many people can't do surgery or don't want it. Take it and don't look back!! Cheat!
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@Stopworkplacebu Refusing to accept work done, constantly changing your policies and insisting someone redo their work so they can't meet their performance goals. Forcing people to constantly change desks to isolate them from their team. Sneaking up on them from behind to create a startle respon
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@MarquisGovan1 Isn't the city vastly understaffed per capita in number police officers or is that not a thing.
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@ImWatson91 @ask_aubry It also blows my mind how many hetero women are on there whose male SO's ignore them completely sexually. Usually it turns out they are cheating or addicted to porn but sometimes its depression. Mine was taking estrogen and T blockers.
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@IvyMedia702 @oflifeandwild @datepsych A severe lack of disappointing sex?
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@RayAlexWilliams @profjmb Blanchard himself in a recent interview stated that it starts out sexual "but turns into something else". Which I believe applies to my ex. And we live in such a puritanical culture that anything related to a paraphilia at all is seen as evil. Its really a shame.
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@littlesammyxoxo The Madonna/whore complex. There are women who are pure mothers and women they use for sex. It's the basis of western civilization.
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@avirgoworld Some men can only get attention from women through trolling and arguing. It is like a toddler misbehaving to get mom's attention. Once I realized this I stopped arguing with any men online. Just noping all of that.
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@DrDoyleSays There are different levels and kinds of forgiveness. It doesn't always mean you act like it never happened. You definitely don't have to ever trust them. You can cut them off. It can just be letting go of the desire for revenge.
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@thescottbarber H Clinton has said many times she stopped wearing dresses when the press literally started to try to get upskirt shots when she was on stage. Also in the 90's people body shamed her ankles. It was really a thing.
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@RayAlexWilliams Someone needs to find people who had sex with AGPs and know what turns them on intimately. Oh I know! Transwidows! Ask us, we are more than happy to participate in research.
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@BurtMaclin_FBI @MaryLTrump Her father was Fred Jr, he died from heart issues due to alcoholism and then Donald denied Fred's children their inheritance.
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@PaulAustin3w Vaginal LSD for IUD insertion.
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@KellyAizicowitz @clhubes It's another way to make women feel like shit and pit against each other. Instead of focusing on helping kids who are abused for real or neglected for real we obsess on all these elements that aren't going to matter in ten years.
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@RayAlexWilliams My question is were they asexual before they started taking two substances that destroy your libido?
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@DrDoyleSays My dad's mom and sister immediately told me "you should just forgive bc Jesus forgives" and threw all this toxic Xian BS at me after I told everyone that my dad had SA'd me multiple times starting at age 11. Makes me wonder who else in the family they were covering for.
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@ppppp1245688 A LOT of men who hate single mothers were raised by single mothers. Maybe some kind of healing of mother wounds would be helpful.
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@dillearyus @aletheia327 There isn't. This started with an opinion piece in Psychology Today. There is no evidence to support it. People can be single. They can be lonely. They can also be lonely in a marriage. Does that make it a crisis?
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@wanyeburkett LMAO. Not at you. But I have worked in 3 different preschools. And I wish we could video what happens after the kid looks out the window and sees mom pull away. Instantly the tears stop and they go play. It's unbelievable.
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@emilykmay "I think I've done enough damage for the day," as he gets his stuff ready to leave work.
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@KingMidas378719 @RevDaniel So true. But as the unchosen ones we have free will and can easily choose not to associate with them anymore, right? The "friend zone" isn't a prison even if it feels like one.
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@goldietaylor They listen to J Rogan & mr Tate & believe that women don't know what we want and that they can't ever believe us when we tell them what we want anyway. The problem is we want personality and you can't really change that. They want us to want 6 packs bc there's a gym for that.
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@baddestmamajama "So you're telling me....this guy gets off on not wearing a mask?"
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@softtail65 Hello. Vote blue all the way down the ballot. Everyone starts somewhere. Stop them early on in their careers.
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@RayAlexWilliams Where do the older AGPs hang out? I keep thinking they all have transed by now but we get new women in our support groups every day whose 40 to 75 year old husband has discovered the joy of twirling in a dress.
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@callmelongfell2 @ItsSoLinz I refer to that as "business casual cleavage". You just have larger breasts, which shouldn't be something that your employer comments on. Its a cute dress!
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@thetierdrop @ppppp1245688 And then run away when they get her pregnant, be a dead beat dad, etc. IF they can get a date, which apparently a lot of them can't, which is sad. It seems like so many young men have no social skills. So they just complain to each other.
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@DrDoyleSays Or "if they really knew what happened to me, they could never love me". As if outside forces can take away the value of your soul and who you are as a person. No one can take that away from you.
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@smalltown_wife People who work in the clinics do report that they see women coming in who are well known protesters at other clinics and have excuses as to why their situation is different. Just rumors, but who knows.
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@F_as_in_Ford @TheRealThelmaJ1 He most likely got it permanently removed right around the time he started wearing makeup. Facial hair and foundation do not go well together. Ask my ex husband. I mean my ex wife.
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@BlanchardPhD In the US young women can't get their tubes tied because some future husband might want her to have kids with him. But no one asks these guys what their wife and kids will think and how unlikely it is that the woman will still be attracted to him with breasts.
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@UpTambourine I really think men are just happy to be having sex and they are attracted to a much much wider group of people than women tend to be. And if your husband doesn't respond well to this experiment, DM me because I have some questions for you.
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@BlanchardPhD And I was dumb enough to believe him. But I made it very very clear that I didn't want to me with a man who preferred men or a transwoman. He started taking hormones behind my back soon after that. Thanks for being in Looking Glass btw.
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@psybalazs I thought that post was satire.
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@Shrink_at_Large The rates are high for that female age group here as well and I do think not giving HRT has a huge effect on depression. The tide is turning back in the US and they are Rxing it more now. But they thought it caused cancer for a while. Personally I would rather die from cancer
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@Stopworkplacebu For sure. They can f the f off with that nonsense! Most of it stems from intense jealousy.
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@avirgoworld There is no table. This is not a transaction.
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@harmonizedgrace Maybe waiting to have sex until marriage in purity culture isn't a great idea.
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@ZacKaizen @Cluffalo Exactly. They want them to fail also because then there are more women available for them.
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@Aksinia00447 @_nomadic_soul I'm wondering if the 17 means he is 17 or was born in 2017.
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@transwidows @DailyMailUK I'm friends online in support groups with some of the women in this, this is all very real unfortunately and very common among the ones married to women.
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@cpaforerp @Inhumansoflate1 Technically veterans are a protected class of minority.
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@sabinethegem And shit is coming to light. This moon has me up all night tonight too.
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@MarquisGovan1 The day they stopped making chocolate chip bagels is the day part of me died.
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@DecodingFoxNews Is it common for people to call in to something like this? I don't watch TV anymore. You would think he would want to have a camera on him but he seems to be calling on the phone a lot. It makes me 🤔 how long it takes for him to get camera ready.
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@Shrink_at_Large I'm over it. I've had a million great therapists. I didn't figure out that she was working with my ex to gaslight me into believing he was a cis het man until it was too late to report her to her licensing boards. But I spread the word locally whenever I can.
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@LeslieStreeter "What's it made out of, gold?????" Looks like windex with ice.
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@Oaken9483 @piper4missouri Thats an idealistic view when many parents just don't care, or are the actual sexual abusers.
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@LeslieStreeter You also shouldn't have to change doctors, therapists, medications, pharmacies, etc etc every time you change jobs.
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@rwillowfish It is just going to too much of an extreme. They have some good points but take it way too far. This is one of the problems with monetization of social media. You have to have an extreme position or have your tits out to get any attention. Or both.
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@LakotaMan1 Pow wow!
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@MailOnline I'm a transwidow and know two of the women in this. This is 100% real women telling their truth.
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@naima @ThinkAbtThingz I think so. His tiny little heart is extremely loyal to the US and Trump could tear down everything he worked so hard to build. And yet build through violence and destruction.
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@cpaforerp @Inhumansoflate1 I'm not sure what you mean, in terms of what?
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@bjportraits Middle aged women are too busy getting advanced degrees, traveling, starting businesses and buying houses.
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@IntrovertProbss I'm the same way. I love delivery services. If I ever get into a relationship it's going to have to be with someone I already met. 😀😃😄
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@piper4missouri "Dad's back hurts from the chair he was sitting in but he's being brave."
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@justin_garson I'm really sorry that happened to you. People should be using a tool of some kind and their own clinical judgemental to see what a person might need. But the problem is that putting someone in psych jail is not helpful in any way. It is traumatic.
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@simoncholland Tell her you deserve a hug on behalf of all us divorced single empty nesters who just cried by ourselves. Be sure to say things like "we did it, honey."
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@ValentinaForUSA @KamalaHarris That's not how the mortgage industry works.
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@emzorbit Honestly if they don't follow politics, how do they even vote?
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@DrBobBeare My ex MIL thought "lol" meant "lots of love" and posted that in a comment about someone's untimely death.
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@sselrehtaef @ask_aubry I wouldn't be surprised if they didn't have groups for women in these countries who are trying to get to the US to help their families to share their tips. And "best ways to avoid sex: how to fake a yeast infection."
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@rwillowfish I'm so glad you got help.
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@DecodingFoxNews @JuddLegum Am I the only white person who literally gets uneasy when you are in an only white environment? Something is off, this isn't normal, why are all the people of color gone? Like the farming area where my ex's family lived creeped me out.
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