Starved For Grace
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More humility and less pride. More introspection and less paranoia. More love and less hostility. Sometimes it’s just projection.
New Mexico, USA
Joined October 2015
I’m so desperate for good fiction books that I’m taking my plea to Twitter:. I enjoy reading some heady and deep novels, but for the ultimate R’n’R I require a good horror/dystopian/dark sci-fi/cataclysmic book. I’ve read all of:.Steven King.Cormac McCarthy .Philip K Dick.
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@JoshLekach She’s a small business owner who wants her busisness to thrive so she’s marketing herself. I’d rather have a chipper retail worker than one who hates their life, your life and everyone else’s life. Like you, homie.
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@TheBasedPluto Did you even take the time to watch his videos? I did, and it absolutely makes sense why he doesn’t have a girlfriend. 1. He hugely obsessive. Watch his videos “I used to love this girl” where he confessed his unrequited love for a girl he knew from church. They never hung.
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@wanyeburkett I’ll send him a picture of my relatives stump after it was run over by a mower in the 80’a when she was 6. He’ll love that, it’s pretty gruesome.
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@WinterTrabex @billisajoke @cannafeminist I’m an atheist. Christians and other people of faith give more time and money statistically than any other group. I’ve also seen that reflected in real life. Christian are the ones out there trying to help and they aren’t complaining to the govt to do if for them.
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@TheTumboy He cried for his mother because he was still a child thrown into a man’s world, there was no other option in that day. You got called up and you went.
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@bigbabymag It’s the same reason why Mr. Beast gives me the Ick. It’s because they are using something that has a thin layer of morality to make money and in this case, humiliate someone on video. I have dreamt of lighting my father on fire and watching him burn. He sexually abused me.
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@crazyclipsonly Gotta love dad stuffing his face with the sandwich and not offering his “starving family” a single bite. Just stuffing himself while he makes the women and children do the work.
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@PhilipPullman The consequences of these people actions:. 1. Someone who had an aggressive cancer was prevented by these people’s actions from making their appointment, and they had to reschedule for an appointment TWO MONTHS LATER. 2. Several people missed the funerals of their loved ones,.
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@chaedria That isn’t research babycakes, that’s stalking. I bet you’ve never had a stable relationship in your entire existence.
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@egalecanada I’ll clarify it for you; it’s not the “trans” part that is bothersome, it’s the “male” part that is bothersome. He’s a man. He belongs in men’s or coed sports.
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@SahajKohli @washingtonpost No one, since I was a a child, has ever pronounced my name correctly. Only those closest to me get it right. That being said, it doesn’t worry or bother me because I base my dignity off my own actions and not off a perception of aggression or disrespect.
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@jordanbpeterson I took my jabs and I’m incensed that they are trying to coerce or force everyone else to. I can still get and give the virus, so all this squawk about “if everyone takes it, we won’t have to wear masks” is drivel.
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@BlancoFlaco91 It isn’t. I will say that a 26 year old man should not be “cuddling” with an 18 year old. Why? Because at 18 they are still a child, still sexually naive and still very confused about the proper rules of human interaction. He is inviting drama into his life because he wants a.
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@OldHeadHST @MrsBundrige @axmedamiinmax Just handing out money doesn’t solve anything. Is someone is not used to money, that 4800 is gone in a weekend, and they be back begging for double. If the “play” falls through, same deal. If you really want someone to help, ask them to help you with school, tutors, a.
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@FredTJoseph Weren’t you the guy that accused an Airbnb of having satanic items littered around the home? . LMAO, well I’m glad your revenge fantasies finally came true.
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@KandonDortch @_welivetosin There’s nothing better than hanging out in the same room/house with a friend or partner, just doing your own thing. You get peace, quiet, your own time AND the comfort of a loved one near by. My husband doesn’t get this yet….he’s a Chatty Cathy, that one.
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@CreepyOrg Sometimes the worst pain isn’t the most intense pain. I used to struggle with chronic UTI’s. I would pace in my bathroom overnight for hours and hours because the pain and pressure to urinate would force me to try to pee, then I’d sit down and let out a drop which would burn.
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@a_musingcat Saying that is akin to saying that the female experience is knowing that only women get hit or sexually abused. It’s simply not true. I’ve known many many women who had no one to turn to, and even when they did reach out for help, they were spurned. Stop acting like the.
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@KrisGoldsmith85 So, lies are ok, if they are politically helpful? Disinformation is GOOD, when it’s done right, do I have that correct?.
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@stormrobinson That was an incredibly kind and understanding gesture on your part. Both changing their tire and not taking their fear personally. I wish you all the blessings!.
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@ladyblovebytes Honestly, this is the worst part of your story. As women we have to chuck our dignity in the dumpster and do our little sweet charming monkey dance so a worthless cruel manchild won’t throw a violent tantrum. It enrages me to see my sisters give up thier agency and dignity.
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@NomikiKonst @mysteriouskat Since we’re now just imagining anything within the realm of possibility with zero evidence, isn’t it possible that a grown woman manipulated an aging man into a relationship with her so she could use him as fodder for her work? I mean, we don’t really need evidence, since we’re.
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@prendefem2 Absolutely not. Post partum psychosis, in which you may not be able to tell the difference between right and wrong is extremely rare. Post-partum depression may be difficult but it is not a barrier to understanding right and wrong and thus not an adequate defense against child.
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@notcisjustman If you’re parents had said no, you would have said that they were abusing and neglecting you. If they said you, you would have gone to your teachers and friends and started a war against them. You would have told Twitter and TikTok how narcissistic your horrible parents were.
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@shoe0nhead I agree, however I think it’s a good idea to keep in mind that many actresses do this because it looks better on screen, not in real life. It looks terrible in person, but the camera distorts and it ends up very flattering on camera.
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@movieloverblake Monkey=child actors.Horses= beautiful celebrities .Alien ship=us, the spectators who consume the spectacle. The movie is about the “the spectacle” i.e celebrity drama, tmz, $$$$. We consume the spectacle which makes $$$ and it gives you, the celebrity, access and money, but you.
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@SexualSocialist @metalheadfem @___inCANdescent Exploitation is exploitation but sexual exploitation is particularly nefarious. Your body is not a commodity and to treat is as such is to deny your own self-respect. A body is not a widget, it’s not an object you can throw on the shelves to sell and not feel the consequences.
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@bigkdawg22 It’s one thing to laugh privately with your family about frustrating issues about your children. I can understand that. It an entirely other issue to mock your own young child publicly for internet likes. It’s abusive. I imagine you and your wife both experienced humiliation.
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@Robyn_Medhurst On one hand, no you should never heard or read any of this after your situation. All medical professionals should have their social media on lockdown AND never speak of any medical incidents on them. On the other hand, the best medical professionals do have to compartmentalize.
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@dieworkwear I love reading your “comebacks” precisely because they are not a “comeback”. They are very well thought-out and written reasons on why you think a specific way, and that’s rare on this site. Less emotional outbursts of anger and bitterness and more thoughtful reasoning.
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@flyinglawyer73 I don’t know bro. It’s pretty bold for a middle aged man to sexually abuse a 14 year old boy. It’s pretty bold for that same man to proclaim himself a woman so he can wear his fetish in public. It’s damn bold of that man to pretend to be morally superior to others after.
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@tracewoodgrains As someone who worked as an emergency vet tech for almost 20 years, this is a very common and very unsettling type of person. It’s NEVER actually about the dog. It’s always about the person and the psychological drama they have invented for themselves, and the purpose is always.
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@GilmoreJNurse @DrMaryRogan Ah, there it is. The fake moral supremacy and your achingly desperate desire to be seen as a hero. You’ve based your entire identity off of fantasies of heroism, and you actually believe it. You can’t help but think of yourself 24/7 and worry about how others see you.
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@wanyeburkett They were able to put the foot back on, well most of it, she only has one toe (it looks like a bound Chinese foot from the 1800’s) but she has had and will always have lifelong pain and complications. You never realize how incredible your foot is and everything is does for you.
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@martyrabuh @superloafcat I only have a light period, every period. The heavier period tampons are bigger and much more uncomfortable to insert and take out. Why give myself a vaginal rug burn when I can just use the light ones?.
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@AmyGDalaMD To my fellow Gen Xers,. You have *got to* stop bending to peer pressure by younger cohorts just because it makes you feel insecure. It makes you look weak and silly, and not in an old DARE t-shirt kind of way.
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@ArtOfDialogue_ There’s something very bothersome about her smug look while she boasts of sending money and material items while failing to comprehend that her own child very specifically addressed missing out on the emotional connection with her. She’s denying the reality of issue, while.
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@daloore @TiredMemeClown @WomanDefiner It’s pretty obvious the second was a man posting it, the porn speak makes it evident.
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@owenbroadcast I love old blue-collar women, they had too hard a struggle in life to give two shits about anything. Especially your feelings.
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@EmmaVigeland No, you don’t stutter, you vomit talking points handed to you in the institutes your parents paid for, because you’re a privileged white woman with very little understanding of the real world. I think you feel bad about that’s so you project your hate into defending an ideology.
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@___inCANdescent @metalheadfem My mother got involved with porn industry when I was a small child, and her mental health cratered afterwards. She spiraled down into depression and psychosis and eventually shot herself. Sex work destroys your self worth and respect. No woman deserves that.
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@dreadconquest Any new tech will be used to porn immediately and will be the first use to make $$$.
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@Lookin_Exotic @royal_bobby24 @SaycheeseDGTL I worked with severely autistic adults, who couldn’t even speak, they only made noises and grunts. They would act out violently and put me in a head lock or grab my clothing, but it was always an act of trying to get attention to the distress they felt. They had no idea they.
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@milky_selena When women do share why they don’t want to have sex anymore, i.e they want more love, some help around the house, more romance, they want to be respected and feel safe, etc, then men will ignore them and make up their own hypothesis. “She’s bored! She’s showing her true.
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@DeborahFW My father sexually assaulted me for 6 years, and not my brother, because of my sex. My uncle sexually assaulted me and not my brother because of my sex. I was sexually harassed by random men when I was 12,13,14,15,16 and not my brother, because of my sex. Sex matters.
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@ShantiPixie @flyinglawyer73 I’m hoping police would be more on the ball with someone who commits sexual assault against a minor and violence (smashing someone’s head with a club). One involves hurtful words and the other. well the other is a mark of a man who shouldn’t be around the rest of us.
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@dyingscribe Bummer you’re just pivoting to softporn for engagement. I did appreciate your feed previously.
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@ontopofit2 @ggreenwald And who gets to decide what information is correct, the government? Didn’t Cuomo hide nursing home deaths? You really want politicians deciding who to censor? You don’t think they’ll come for you soon?.
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@pearlsandopal I get where you’re coming from, I truly do. I’m also on the receiving end of a mother who ended it. She did so when I was 9 and in the next room. My brother and I are in our 40’s and the effects are still profound and very difficult to deal with. My brother is an alcoholic.
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@kwertzy @jessesingal @PunchingUppp @indyfromspace @semaforben And yet, you still haven’t provided one piece of evidence that showcases your accusations, just opinion pieces written by online rags. You won’t either, ever, because you don’t have any substantial rebuttal, just weird hysterical accusations.
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@hartgoat @Morbidful It’s not about liking, it’s about ownership, power, resentment and rage. It has nothing to do with love.
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@louise122884 You’re missing a lot of data from this study:. 1. This was a study of 18-35 year old men, who were all also single ( they would not be allowed to be apart of the study if they were in a relationship) and most of them were not educated beyond a high school degree. Only 26 percent.
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When I was a teenager, I was not good person. I had a multitude of excuses for behavior, for my lying, my thievery, my manipulations. I had such excellent excuses that even now I’m sure if I laid them out before you someone would quickly rush to soothe my shame. I was cured of.
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@troonytoons It’s probably very affirming that men will never hit on her or make a move. Probably feels very safe.
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@kitten_beloved Woman would do better if we adopted the masculine “up the elevator” approach to friendship as opposed to “down the elevator” approach must women adopt. As woman, we want everyone to feel loved and appreciated for who they are now, and not who they can become. So we don’t hold.
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@growing_daniel The problem with many feminine friendships is that women lean towards using the “bottom floor” elevator technique as opposed to the masculine “top floor” elevator technique. What I mean by that is women will sooth and comfort by bringing themselves and their friend to rest.
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@ardaiel @VanityFair @BarneysRubble0 Did you read the article? Did you read the words of Britt? Did you read of her life before her affair with the author? . Your world is split so cleanly between good and evil, black and white, you can’t even begin to see the gray that makes up the vast majority of real life.
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@GmorkOfNothing Those long drives as a teen when I bought my first car and gas was 99 cents a gallon: pure therapy and freedom from the real world. I miss those days.
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@Realitycounts7 The squeaky wheel gets the grease. You need to release the name of the hospital, the ward, who is in charge of the ward. Those inside need to make videos of what’s happening, they need to make videos of how the staff is respond to their questions and concerns. It is the only.
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@jordonkry36 @PiningForAFjord @tatamitimon No, you should have to die for the kids because you’re a grown adult and you’ve had your chance. Those kids haven’t even experienced the world yet. It’s not about being a teacher, it’s about being a part of a community that protects its children, whether you are related to the.
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@SWENGDAD She’s crying making a cake in a beautiful home I might add. Sorry everyone, once you have kids, your birthday doesn’t even really matter anymore. That’s ok! Now you have kids who have birthdays! Yay!!.
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@BaylanSkolLager @PhilipPullman It doesn’t matter that they themselves were not at the actual protest. If you read the documents, they are the ones who directly organized it. They funded it, they purchased and gave the climbing materials and supplied the safe houses. If someone gives the orders and money.
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@SwampCommunist My friend bought her first home and when it was time for her to move, she sold it to a man who claimed it was for his mother who was elderly and needed a good home. So my friend so it to him cheap. There was no elderly mother, the man was a flipper who sold the home for profit.
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@guardian Because being a girl/woman can be a very frightening and intimidating experience. As a woman you learn to tell weird men to screw off, but as a girl you haven’t learnt to defend yourself and have agency. We should be honest how difficult REAL girlhood is. It isn’t sleepovers.
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@GoldieDad23 It only sounds like an unreasonable story because you “dodged” the bullet. In English, that would you mean moved faster than a bullet to get out of its way. In reality, the shooter had bad aim and missed you. In the future, when writing in English you might say the shooter.
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@FalconryFinance Everything about this 30 year old man screams 17 year old boy. The looks, the personality, the posture. Even his romantic philosophy is stunted. Women his age will notice this and they will pass. Especially since he couldn’t even grasp that her one-word response of “cool”.
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@thisisjustina @x_cixra_x It’s always the onlyfans. Any girl I know that’s worked the street isn’t happy about it, they got taken there as a last resort and it soul-killing. Onlyfans and can girls have a delusion of sex-working, which it isn’t.
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@thisisfoster I’ve noticed a huge generational divide when it comes to public teasing. People who are 30 and under cannot abide by any good natured ribbing and generally translate everything into its worst possible meaning.
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@Shipp11Angela @hoovlet @SVPhillimore When a man like you gets called out for who you really are, this is how you react. 🤷🏽♀️ same old same old. Same lyrics different tune.
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@MrsMelCole I see the conservative white female pick-me’s are doing everything they can to retain their husbands. No worries, sweetie. You stay married to him and the rest of the women will enjoy their white feminist downfall while laughing, dancing and singing.
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@Meta My Facebook account was hacked several months ago and despite me using every single channel to get it back and also reporting the stolen account multiple times, it remains stolen. There is NO way to talk to anyone in person, only algorithms. We need to fix this now,.
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@joe_r_Odonnell Sure, at a place of business, not dig up a personal cell number and cold call someone while they are not active working. Bad idea.
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@robkhenderson The women is a trophy then, correct?. She is not longer a human being with her own desires, she is merely a symbol of a man’s success. Why get rich and famous just to marry a woman whose age is symbolic of failure? . The true test of a man is to eventually own a woman whose.
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@Uggg @peterboghossian @Serena_Partrick The tiny population of “intersex” people are firmly either male or female. They have a condition that may give them certain traits of the opposite sex, but never for a moment do they have a “combo”. There is no hermaphroditism in the human species. There are only disorders. To.
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@tiffanyrg9 Why are black women always being compared to transgendered women? Seriously? How crazy is that?.
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@cremieuxrecueil I hope so. I’ve never met anyone who was schizophrenic that didn’t make me devastated on their behalf. All of us can count our very lucky stars we were not saddled with the prison sentence of lifelong psychosis.
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@charlesxholmes Just watched So Long, My Son and I realized two things: . 1. The Chinese have overtaken the United States in the Arts and Cinema. 2. 3 hour films are superior in every way at achieving Art in Cinema, and 90 min movies are usually just mediocre entertainment.
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@jjfitzgeraldMD If you actually read through his entire thread, you would understand his point instead of immediately relying on identity/hysteria politics. There was no reason to be offended, he has a great point, one that affects women greatly.
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@girldrawsghosts @pattonoswalt If you’re going to draw a hard line in the sand, don’t get your feelings hurt when people make a decision that doesn’t fit your desires.
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@dieworkwear @dvh340 Exactly. Fashion is an indulgence for one’s self and for one’s own pleasure. It is not and should not be something you do for anyone else or expect from anyone else, or you risk becoming a boring old scold whose hobbies are now moralized and forced upon everyone else. An.
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@dieworkwear This is the absolute truth. “Texmex” is NOTHING like what mamas are cooking up in their kitchens.
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“The Leaders” has a certain dystopian ring to it, doesn’t it?.
The Leaders are committing to target the Russian Central Bank, the single most important financial institution in Russia. We are planning to impose measures to ensure Russia cannot use its Central Bank to support its currency and undermine the impact of our sanctions.
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@VanityFair @BarneysRubble0 Had anyone actually read the article, they would have found that McCormick already enjoyed the writer’s previous essays about him. You would have found a complicated story about men and women, acts of brutality at the hands of a cruel world, and the ability of love to act as a.
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@graceelavery Since you’re on the precipice of quitting, may I suggest that you offer an excuse of “fearing for your own personal safety” after receiving “numerous threats”online. You won’t even have to provide proof. It’s works every time.
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@GlennLoury This is exactly how I’ve felt as a woman in the past 25 years, since high school. No, I am not extrodinary, but I know that any extra ability I have and show in my workplace is always at risk of others seeing it as affirmative action. I knew it was coming when I saw the worst.
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@MinglewoodRR @SwampCommunist A large number is these flippers make aesthetic changes that are designed to hide larger structural issues, and they make a pile of money selling overpriced homes that end up being money pits. The buyers could have used the money that went to the flipper’s large profit margin on.
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@tracewoodgrains I wasn’t troubled by it’s ugliness, I was bored and offended by its inadequacy as art. It was as if a high school drama class was given a massive budget and misused the funds. There was NO professionalism, no display of expertise. The dancing was sloppy, the actors were.
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@tracewoodgrains Stabilized is not the same as “Sane”. We use to be able to institutionalize patients even when they were stabilized if we knew that they would deteriorate without round the clock care. But since we never pumped money into those institutions till begin with, they were often.
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@theneonrequiem @terfasaurus It used to be, back about 70 years up to about 10 years ago, that when groups worked together to fight for a common cause, it was understood that each group might have polar, conflicting interests. These interests would be set aside for the moment to achieve one’s goal. Now.
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@lindypatagonia How is avoiding the lived experience of half the American population “high openness”?.
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