“Hey babe, imma be really busy today and can’t talk much, but i love you and i will hit you up as soon as I’m available to talk” 🟢🟢🟢🟢🟢🟢🟢🟢🟢🟢🟢🟢🟢🟢🟢🟢🟢🟢🟢🟢🟢🟢🟢🟢🟢🟢🟢🟢🟢🟢🟢🟢.
If I ever stop talking to you & remove you from my life, I hope you understand how hard it was for me. I have a bad habit of holding onto the little bit of good in people, no matter how bad they clearly are for me. So if I don’t fw you anymore, it’s bc you pushed me far past my.
Being in a healthy relationship has taught me that there’s no such thing as “this is who I am, take it or leave it”. When you genuinely love a person, you work on those toxic traits, you learn to communicate, you listen to each other’s feelings and encourage individuality.
I think when you’re transitioning from being a people pleaser to someone with more boundaries it’s so weird, because it’s hard to tell if you’re being mean or if you’re just listening to your own feelings because you’re so used to this & only thinking about others.