@carryonmari
This is legit how it felt dating a man before I realized I'm a lesbian. The way straight women talk about relationships made me think it was normal to feel like throwing up all the damn time 💀
@generalslug
Idk I have yet to see female loneliness portrayed with similar levels of entitlement and condescension towards other groups of people, which is what a lot of this discourse has looked like. That doesn't mean being lonely as a man makes you a bad person.
@gracecamille_
Maybe it's just me but this "story" doesn't sound remotely interesting enough to warrant a video being made about it?? Chances are you can overhear a conversation like this in a coffee shop at any given time lol
@jaxajueny
People who hit their children only do it because they're sadistic and they know they can get away with hurting a vulnerable person who depends on them
@entierrada
I don't think it was your intention but this feels invalidating of people's gender identity because of the implication that physical attributes are the deciding aspect of our attraction. "Oh you like women with [physical feature men can have]? You might as well like men then!"
@dklmarxist
Incels: We want to be legally allowed to enslave and rape women
Queer person: *makes a harmless tweet about an unrequited crush she had*
You: Somehow these are comparable
???????
@WannaplayagameR
@carryonmari
In short, I didn't know what attraction was supposed to feel like due to a lack of experience and warped expectations. I thought recognizing someone as attractive was the same as being attracted to them. It took getting close to a guy to realize it just didn't feel right
@bloomfilters
Like I'm sorry but
1) that's an exaggerated drawing, it isn't supposed to look like real people?
2) there's much more that goes into the trope than just the height difference
@zayaway
Agreed, I would say a relationship between two lesbians can never be heteronormative simply because.. they're lesbians. Implying masc lesbians are "basically men" feels deeply lesbophobic and I would say people who think this way misunderstand
@matildae22
This is also based on the incorrect assumption a person's confidence is proportional to their "conventional attractiveness" (whatever that is). You may see them as "below you" but that doesn't mean they share your perception lol
@bloomfilters
People acting like they are legally prohibited from watching a movie just because it wasn't made specifically for their demographic (for once) 💀
@GuildingLilly
"desperate to mask the reality of their sex" I thought said reality was all about chromosomes and gametes, not hair length or outfit choice? 🤔🤔🤔
@_celia_bedelia_
I don't think it's gross to acknowledge unhoused people have fewer resources and therefore are more likely to depend on public restrooms to take care of their hygiene than the average person..?
@Pupperdoon
@beanjuiceslugs
You are framing this as talking about your preferences specifically but in the same breath you suggest trans guys should experiment with cock and balls?? 💀 Why do you care about their preferences
@helenarambles
I would take it a step further and say I find it depressing as well as discouraging that so much fitness content puts the main emphasis on looks as opposed to improved strength, health, newly gained abilities etc.
@chelseahartisme
@AriDrennen
It's even worse iirc, he first became "famous" because of all the surgeries he got to make him look like his favorite BTS member 😭
@DanFriedman81
@Tyler_A_Harper
Disabled people can still have jobs while struggling immensely in other areas. You have no idea what someone else's life is like
@aletheia327
People say this as if women's tears are ever taken seriously, instead of being seen as irrational and overly dramatic, or straight up manipulative
@toothfairyfemme
Feels like a throwback to those "butches have masc privilege and they perpetuate toxic masculinity" hot takes that would pop up on here a couple years ago 🤒
@CEOofColumbina
@bbokiecore
In what universe is dating a guy simpler? Idk how about the one where same-gender couples get discriminated against and harassed on a daily basis..? Plus the post doesn't even talk about cheating
@elle_carnitine
I have no skin in this game but I've been noticing this trend of self-proclaimed leftists trying to dunk on disabled people or straight-up harassing them about the specifics of their medical conditions, it's so gross. Sorry you're dealing with this <3
@jessicobra
This, plus many "allies" are ready to start emitting Hitler particles whenever they encounter a trans woman who isn't perfectly docile and nice to them
@oatlovr
Abolishing gender doesn't mean your gender will be forcibly removed from you. It would be a long, gradual process. We were born into a world where gender exists as an oppressive structure. It makes sense for us as trans people to find meaning in our gender.