I'm UnholyLykoi aka Sylar (or Sy!)
Intersex Male It/He, AuDHD, DID System, Aromantic + Gay, Polyam, Puerto Rican Taino, 4'7, Satanist, Therian, Sex + Kink Positive
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If a gay couple includes a masculine and a feminine partner they’re not heteronormative. They’re not imitating heterosexual couples.
A feminine gay man isn’t a woman and a masculine lesbian isn’t a man.
They’re still fucking gay.
@slimmeroo
Tbh furries respect art so much. If I say I do art for a living around most people I get The Look but around furries they get excited and want to see my work
@Dishwas13586162
If people can not comprehend any couple that isn’t feminine dating masculine then yes that would be a heteronormative mindset, but the couples themselves are not heteronormative
@FaeSpaceCritter
God it’s such a childish way of dealing with things. That’s so frustrating. If you’re not ready to back it up publicly then don’t say anything publicly at all??
I get warning friends privately that’s totally different of course.
@ShouldHaveCat
I love this but it looks like some sort of weasel, not cat. Body is too long legs too short head too small and pointed and ears too round
@SJBsMama
As a criticism for fiction I think it’s fair to point out the lack of diversity in gender presentation for sure. However even if it was specifically that using those phrases was a bad idea.
sadly a lot of replies to that post by others were talking about real people
@autismpills
He’s 100% a twink. I think a lot of people get weird about old twinks because many people grow out of being a twink but old twinks still exist
@TracerRacerX
@muddaub
The only time this trope is acceptable (and even good imo) is when the character tries to be conventionally pretty and normal and the person they did it for is confused and turned off and says they loved them for who they were before and that they don’t want them to change
“Oh yeah? How about depictions in fandom and media?”
If someone will only depict lgbt couples as having 1 masculine person and 1 feminine person then they have a heteronormative mindset.
The couples themselves still mirror real lgbt dynamics and are not heteronormative themself.
@camelotslibrary
@BRATZULA
@downix
Yeah I’m like. Oh. Many intersex men take viagra. Sorry that some people just want to be able to enjoy sex idk how the fuck that makes us creepy
@jewish_activist
Rural people aren’t bad by default and judging people based on their level of education (for example making fun of non leftists for not being able to attend college) is actually perhaps bad
@Hbomberguy
People who go “u should stay my friend even tho I dehumanize minorities on the regular” and claim ur in an echo chamber are the same people who scream at u to never talk about anything they disagree with because they gotta keep their own echo chamber
i honestly get bored af if i dont time travel in animal crossing once and a while because like....everything is time based the fuck u expect me to play for a little bit every day?? what if i wanna play for 8 hours fuck u
@chaoticgaythey
YUP!! I’m often left without meds because it’s so strict that if I run out by a weekend of holiday I’m left without for a few days, I’m left without for a few days waiting for the pharmacy to order my meds, etc.
Kalvin Garrah spends years mocking people online and getting them harassed and hated and someone makes a video saying “hey that was mean that you did that” and he has an absolute fit about it omg this is so funny
sexy fursuiters and kinky art makes the furry fandom very hard for large corporations to take over. this is because large corporations generally need to keep their clean reputations.
associating with groups that are known for being so sexually open can lead to a loss in revenue
@elijahdaniel
I looked it up and that fetus is from an ectopic pregnancy which means the parent would have died if it grew too much and the fetus would never have been able to survive. What a fitting picture for this idiot to use
@chaoticgaythey
Like I don’t fucking care about how addictive it is I literally NEED the medication to fucking function. Why is potential addiction being considered a more important issue than me functioning
@SaberCoded
imo anyone who doesnt like furries doesnt deserve a slot to sell at a furry con since dealers dens at furry cons can get really competitive. many also see furry cons as safe spaces away from those who hate the fandom so having someone who hates them making money off them? nah
Furries whining about not being invited to kiwicon, a private party for friends, is a good example of entitlement and parasocial relationships. You don’t know these people you’re not friends with them you’re just a fan of their art or a follower. Make a party for YOUR friends
This dynamic isn’t the problem to begin with so criticizing it doesn’t make sense.
Someone thinking that a relationship cannot exist without one person being masculine and one being feminine is the issue here.
You can criticize that without going after people with that dynamic.
@spitegoblin
This is well said tbh better than I can say it! It reminds me of people who misgender people they disagree with or people who attack people based on their mental illness because they disagree with them. It’s not okay it doesn’t matter why you did it it’s wrong
Shout out to those emo art kids from high school that couldnt be fully emo until their parents let them have more freedom so they only wore one or two accessories they got from hot topic behind their parents back and now they’re punk as hell
@itskeithsfault
I don’t care about the ship of voltron but can you maybe not water down pedophilia and predatory behavior to people who like shipping two adult characters in a consensual relationship lmao wtf
@passionpeachy
Glad to see that you actually took the time to think about what you said and acknowledge how wrong it was. I hope other people who thought it was okay see this too and realize that it shouldn’t have been excused. Thank you
@SciWiz373
@epicfortnitefa1
While it’s a cat and I understand your meaning I’d appreciate not calling intersex animals “mutants” because humans can also be xxy
this is what i mean by the image lmao
large corporations don't want big parts of the furry pie (some will make small references though) because we're way too hot and horny and can make them lose money or their reputation
@brad_polumbo
@AlecStapp
My phone number was hijacked by a spam caller and I ended up needing to change it completely because I’d get overwhelmed by calls and texts and threats by angry people….so yeah it’s unusable
@crockejo
@Rechanmole
@DanPriceSeattle
The problem isn’t feminism it’s your personality and misogyny and no matter what country youre in women won’t like you until you work on that, sorry bro
Hey y’all I’ve been in the psych ward since the 21st and I’m going to be here for another 5 days. While I have limited access to my phone I haven’t been able to work and will not until I’m home.
Please consider helping me out thank you 💜💜💜
@coldchillipotat
@chaoticgaythey
the issue is it DOESNT work. The rules on adhd meds are so strict that I can’t pick them up early. This means I HAVE to make sure I’m available at the exact date every single time. This means that if there’s a holiday the day I’m out of meds too bad for me.
"it makes me uncomfortable" doesn't automatically mean something is harmful. you don't get to use your discomfort to restrict other people's rights. Just don't look.
@brennenbeckwith
It also upholds the patriarchy by continuing to state that men are supposed to be emotionless and not allowed to express vulnerability
@birdlegscass
I grew up in a cult and was drilled into my head how I’m going to hell if I’m gay and I just?? Love this concept so much. Their love is more powerful than religion and some shitty god. It’s a great idea
@lanceinblack
found families becoming romantic is not uncommon in person and the idea that this somehow invalidates a found family is ridiculous. your partner should be your found family. i never watched voltron idk the characters but i cant understand how this would be harmful.
Abusive people CAN change but an important part of changing is letting your victims keep their distance and not trying to harass them into forgiving you 🙃
@ACLU
Reminder that the exact same medical care they’re banning is allowed for non transgender youth. It’s ONLY banned in the context of caring for transgender people.
@challah_chic
@passionpeachy
Honestly yeah I’m going to have to agree. If you’re so blinded by your beliefs that you can never listen to even an ounce of criticism or admit you’re wrong then there’s a problem.