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@DorothySporsnak
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1 year
@ask_aubry "I make all our money and she leeches off me and has for years" Next breath: "We have both lived rent-free in a million-dollar home she paid for in cash" Something tells me his income which has been supporting them for years falls drastically short of $950,000.
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@DorothySporsnak
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@rxmsxy 25 and 30 year olds befriending 16-year-olds unsolicited to magically only having romantic feelings for her the second she turns 18
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@SMcgrell @birgitomo A study was done with hundreds of job applications sent out with only a few different demographic/socioeconomic profiles. Guess what? White men with a felony conviction got job offers MORE than Black men with clean criminal records and comparable experience
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@DorothySporsnak
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@fiszercorp @_madisontayt @czescjacek If you refuse to participate in the culture you are visiting...do not visit. It doesn't matter if you don't like it, that's how it is and you can either pay the person serving your food, or don't go out to eat so they don't lose wages.
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@DorothySporsnak
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@wagatwe Elsewhere in the thread she says an ob/gyn stopped her from being in the cadaver lab because it was weird and her dad then just bought her cadavers to play with. She bragged about how easy "research" is if you really wanted it.
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@DorothySporsnak
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@PusherofPapers @IBJIYONGI You probably also think astrology and astronomy are the same, right?
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@emilykmay I don't think I ever heard anyone on there go debt-free who wasn't making at least 6 figures (15 years ago) and/or had some significant family contribution
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1 year
@ask_aubry Classic "my wife has emotions and it makes me uncomfortable so I do the thing to make me comfortable that leaves my wife isolated and alone and ignored, am I the ass?"
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@lifeformchris @NedERobinson @ninaturner You did. The point was when it comes down to it, who is considered essential? Because whatever inflated sense of self you have, no one can eat your social media skills of selling shit no one needs. She would last longer at your job than you would at hers
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@MattWalshBlog Seems like this would create a perfect situation for a man to hold power over his wife. Especially considering you view the marital assets as the man's assets.
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2 years
@SMcgrell @birgitomo There are hundreds of studies in hundreds of different categories that show the same racial disparities. With white people usually faring the best.
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@DorothySporsnak
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2 years
@jpruli12 @Hibzster @RexChapman 1. You don't "look after" your own kids 2. Both parents have the job of raising their children. 3. You sound like someone who likes to have the pic of kids to show off but doesn't want to actually interact with them.
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@freedomsbride This is a fineable HIPAA offense, if you feel comfortable reporting I am very sorry this happened to you. People should feel safe going to the hospital.
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@DorothySporsnak
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2 years
@MikeBaggz And yet here you are spewing homophobic hate on a black woman.
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@DorothySporsnak
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2 years
@ask_aubry 100% he sexually assaulted and harassed her friends and likely others...the mother is complicit and taught and reinforced this behavior in him
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@Phil_Lewis_ Was his "prank" running up to strangers and picking a fight while someone filmed? I wish people would stop calling those pranks and just call them what they are...assault
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@DorothySporsnak
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@PusherofPapers @IBJIYONGI 😂😂😂😂 Trying to save face isn't working for you
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2 years
@HonestYPTweets You unsurprisingly gave women a chore list of tasks to do for others.
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@DorothySporsnak
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2 years
@lifeformchris @NedERobinson @ninaturner And as I said before, she would last longer doing your job than you would at hers. Doing a job well takes skill, which is more than this clip shows. Just because YOU see it as skill that is beneath you doesn't mean it isn't skilled
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@oranicuhh @KiekNu I don't know how to tell you this but when a baby cries on a plane the entire plane hears. There is no magical soundproofing of first class.
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@queend236 So many people cling to dead relationships when neither party actually seems to want to be in it. They are just retaliating against each other.
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@Swishcantmisss @angryblkhoemo Billionaires aren't successful, they are exploitative.
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@KingBelloIII1 @kaitlancollins You can't have peace talks with an entity that is not interested in peace and fires on citizens during a humanitarian ceasefire
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@ask_aubry And he doesn't even mention their kids except for listing it as a reason of hers that he disagrees with.
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@emilykmay If you didn't spend every waking moment miserable and working and exhausted then you weren't working hard enough.
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@KathWertheim Why are 200,000 rape kits sitting on storage shelves, untested? Because our society doesn't value girls and women.
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@yumcoconutmilk Late-stage capitalism: when food that tastes good and is nutritious is only for rich people
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@AshleyMunoz45 @TalbertSwan Hatred? No. Showing love for and defending the black children and other marginalized children is not hating on the white kids. Wanting white kids that are bullies to get what they deserve is not hatred.
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@AngloChristian_ @rxmsxy It would actually be a slippery slope 😂 but it isn't a fallacy when history supports it
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@blindedrxn @PopCrave Everyone commenting "he's French" 🤣 like that makes cigarettes somehow not smell disgusting or give you cancer
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1 year
@ask_aubry He will be unable to find a woman who will be with him for him, it will always be for money or what he can give her. He will come back in a year and post crying that women are horrible shallow gold diggers
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@BovbjergMarit @lizziechad white gets dirty easily and washes a lot of people's skin tone out. Why can't people protect themselves and others and also match their outfit, hair, or whatever else? Why can't people be safe and fashionable? Maybe normalizing it in that regard would increase use
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@BleuCapone Ladies have to supply them with the number of dudes that conveniently do not bring them and try to push it anyway. Just say you don't like when you can't manipulate them.
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@danielleweisber On the other hand, I feel like those who go out of their way to say how easy their long term intimate relationships are, have never had anything remotely negative ever happen to them. No baggage at all. No trauma. Or are with the exact same person as them. Just as weird, imo
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@sohelpmejesseca I wish I had the confidence of a white middle aged christian man
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@cenkuygur Please don't purposely misinterpret "clinical settings" when you know good and well that when referencing medical statistics, nonmedical people (journalists and politicians ) should still be using clinical and inclusive language
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@thatssocheeky This right here is why homeschooling should have more requirements.
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@DeSyncRat @nicolebarnes514 @lapatina_ That is tantamount to saying you are perfectly alright with sacrificing other people, just as long as it isn't you or your loved ones. If it was your children being bombed and raped you might feel differently.
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@Canisowy @fiszercorp @_madisontayt @czescjacek It absolutely should be aimed at customers who want a service, get a service then refuse to pay the person for that service. If you do not want to tip...do not go out to eat in the u.s. Otherwise you are directly contributing to exploiting that worker, you are the one exploiting
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@TheNAHQueen @ERnurse86 It is literally how the term originated, no regionally about it. White people have since tried to coopt it to mean other things.
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@ask_aubry Sneaking in the fact that he's 28 and looking for 18 to 22 year olds at the very end. Sure, the "shadow bans" were for no reason
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@lloyd_wade @OverACheatah Not a book but a compilation of 20 years of research
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@VictorHarford @ask_aubry Because the idea that a woman can be "ran through" is misogynistic. A person's value is not determined by who or how many they have had sex with in past consensual relationships. He was content with her until his insecurity and warped view of women and sex came into play.
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@adamfare1996 I was told that those diagnosed as adults don't know what its like growing up Autistic because no one knew they were Autistic
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@wagatwe There really are no words, just screams.
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@ask_aubry This is an example that a lot of men don't see relationships with women as a dual partnership, but instead, as an object to fulfill their wants and "needs".
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@MetalJemz @in_the_sky34221 @ProChoiceTakes @MartinDougher12 You literally want children to be punishments. You want to force people who don't want kids to be punished with a kid
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@iSmashFizzle This can happen a lot with massage. It is a completely normal and common reaction. It sounds woo and even I don't fully understand it, but our tension holds so much unresolved emotion. I have seen it a lot with clients.
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@Bsmpsn96 @pierrefleury_ Men aren't fetishizing 30 year old virgins
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@ImperfectUSA @KeneAkers Multi-generational Chattel slavery is a whole different system. Very few civilizations built their entire economic system on the backs of enslaved people as they did in the South (and North indirectly). People that weren't even considered human, hence the term "chattel"
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@TheNAHQueen @ERnurse86 Wow. No. This is yet another example of white people taking something Black people created and trying to change the meaning to suit themselves, all while ignoring the original contribution.
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@AngloChristian_ @rxmsxy Why do you think governments implement age-of-consent laws?
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@ask_aubry They always assume they will be "managing" the household but not doing the housework But here they are, not managing anyone except their kids and doing ALL the work.
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@wildelectricvin @ask_aubry Every time. They always seem to leave out vital information that in context makes their behavior look exponentially worse. This is horrific. He KNOWS she is trying to save to leave
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@billbucklley @luckysean If he owns the house those are his responsibility 🤣 And you say"no rentals" like having no landlords would be a bad thing
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@DonZionda @Dreadful4Tymes Even then, the US embraced the nazis they thought were useful after the war and brought them over and gave them jobs in the government.
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@fatfabfeminist So he just wants to be terrible for his future wife? Weird
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@TrooperGalactus @AKBrews "In the moment he is not concerned about his, or the public's safety " Which is a huge reason why people don't like police.
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@MBlackrane @ask_aubry I'm gonna start asking men who make negative comments about how women look why they still have their eyes.
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@latkedelrey Why are humans so unintelligent with long term memory problems?
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@JoelWBerry Yes, speaking *figuratively" regarding rape
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@NikaMelkozerova Taking children from one group of people and placing them with another group is considered genocide.
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@KT_Hamilton1969 @ERnurse86 @FaralynPadilla You know that not all women menstruate, right?
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@kristinrawls @McFaul The telling part is that he has been repeating the term "ethnic germans" over and over which would lead one to think he has pretty specific ideas on what that means.
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@mbaig808 @blkpalate @anas_mundi @Nosterafu @ElijahSchaffer @elonmusk Singular "they" in the English language has been in use since at least the 1300s. Yes, neoliberalism indeed.
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@QueenMab87 He should have to repay ALL campaign donations....it was fraud
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@OCDismay @SocietalCanary @lachancenaomi27 "if you don't agree with me about how your genitals look I'm going to going to further weaponized my incorrect assertions to inflict as much harm as possible on people who did absolutely nothing to me" What a nightmare of a person
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@GaryCallahan76 @incompleteocean If you can't accurately reference the anatomy...you definitely don't get an opinion
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@ask_aubry I lived in Germany and saw how American cis (usually military) men treated German women, or any local. There is a reason no one wants to go home with him. It's him. He is the reason
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@thatssocheeky No, because people like you use homeschooling to teach children facts are lies and indoctrinating them. You think you are teaching them the truth but you are setting them up to be unable to engage with society.
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@tamagothy @arakkisuperstar It's amusing that it then become a hysterical American issue and implied that we were duped by "ads" when it's everyone else that stinks and giving themselves and others cancer
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@Imani_Barbarin 120 nations voted in the UN General Assembly for a humanitarian pause. Only 14 voted against. The U.S. was one. No other major ally outside of Israel is with us. I don't understand how this course of action is sustainable politically
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@korinbjj @sablaah If businesses stopped price gouging and paying their CEOs exponentially more than their employees, maybe stealing would go down.
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@Beannthh @NoEmmeG You take in another person's lived experience, validate it as being from a person with thoughts and feelings, and use it along with other information such as power dynamics in our society, and other experiences to form a full, compassionate opinion about current and future issues
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@JDCocchiarella @byetwit I am loving his team's reactions and those shameful women working for him that thought they could shut her up. I hope he gets screamed at wherever he goes
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@Bsmpsn96 @pierrefleury_ If there was a market for 30-year-old virgins there would be porn for it. You are being intentionally dishonest if you think men view an 18 year old virgin and a 30 year old virgin the same
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@Bsmpsn96 @pierrefleury_ Please show me all the porn channels devoted to 30 year old virgin fetishes
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@ask_aubry 100% he left because he didn't see his wife as worthy of empathy/support because she miscarried. His mom is still pregnant and he sees her as being worthy because of that. He sees his wife as an incubator
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@KCDavisSays I definitely think men and white people are given much more leeway to express their neurodiversity than Black people and people of color. I have been trying to be much more aware of this.
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@Ansh__95 @MichaelGLFlood When 95+% of rape and sexual assualt is committed by MEN, you should probably stop trying to say women are also perpetrators. Not even close to the same. Men are also more likely to be sexually assaulted by men than women.
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@ask_aubry "I do honestly like her FOR SOME REASON" He has not had one introspective, self-aware thought
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@ndrewlee @killerguerilla @thestoryofshama He wakes up at 4am to check emails to center his headspace, workout, and go to Starbucks. It sounds like super hard work and not at all just stuff he does for himself
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@skepticktank @H_Hill_DPT2B The majority of people in prison have been abused with physical punishment. Their abuse wasn't helpful. There are many different ways to approach childhood behavioral issues besides beating them
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@ZkandeTly @Canisowy @fiszercorp @_madisontayt @czescjacek I am fully aware of our shitty system, like who do you feel the need to be condescending? Me addressing it isn't me endorsing it. But if you are going to a country you learn their customs and you don't shit on workers so you can feel morally superior
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@Asurasfaith @mengiemeng @RightWingCope How? By convincing them all their problems are because of women and liberals?
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@TheRealEVS999 @SamtheNightOwl @cubano_sucio A serving size "glass" of wine is FIVE (5) ounces. You can't just pour a giant glass of wine and call it one glass
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@PetuTNTS @abbyvesoulis Because she has probably already told Greg all about her husbands hobby and didn't want her husband to embarrass himself by falsely claiming himself as a pilot.
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@NicoleLewisLCSW Hold society together as best they can with their blood, sweat, and tears because society gives them little to no other resources to do so.
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@artista_elias @girldrawsghosts @LadyCyanide @heykody @Adobe You are failing severely to acknowledge that a piece of art is not just an object. It is decades of education, effort, time, and life of the artist. It wasn't created out of thin air to be an emotionless blob for you to feel entitled to it.
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@ERnurse86 Definitely all of those plus Louis C.K. for obvious reasons and I was really disappointed when I found out Snoop Dog was fatphobic and abusive to his daughter because of it.
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@ja_alcorn @BrandonLBradfor It sound like a classic case of the woman being open and upfront about their boundaries and limitations and the man, instead of treating that respectfully and doing the same, uses it against her to excuse his own behavior
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@JaPharii757 @NicoleLewisLCSW You could focus your energy on providing therapy sources for men but instead you are choosing to prove why she has chosen to stop taking men as new clients.
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@wagatwe She also has threatened to teach classes to cis men on how to tell btwn trans and cis women unless people stopped disagreeing with her about their genitals. She knows full well what cis men do to trans women.
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@ask_aubry "Is it sexist to think women don't have the capability to make decisions for themselves?" They are proving the "there are no bad questions" thing very wrong, every day
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@SethRhinehart21 @JeynDawson @punishedkimbo In the U.S., maternal mortality from pregnancy and child birth is 30 to 50x more deadly than abortion. Yes, pregnancy is a horror
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@Bsmpsn96 @pierrefleury_ You seem to think that women do not regularly interact with men on a daily basis. We talk to each other and are fully aware of how men view and treat women.
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@nguyen_elissa @ask_aubry Not everyone uses "date" to mean sexual or romantic in nature. I've seen it used between platonic friends of all sex and gender combinations. Siblings, cousins, niblings, grandparents.
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@StudentsforLife I think it would be fine considering for most this would be all they see, minus the blood
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@Thrilla1986 @emrazz If men are so great and supportive and protective...why is the number one cause of death of pregnant women homicide by her male partner?
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