@AskATranswidow
It's unhealthy coping: either "can't be gay, so be Trans/NB", or "can't be a femme-boy or a boyish-girl, so be Trans/NB!", or "I was sexually abused and hate my own body, so I must be trans" or "I am an AGP male, let me push my fetish on people!" Or I need attention!! Truly sad.