Jasmine Valentine 💙
@indiemama8467
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A fan of horror and some other stuff
Australia
Joined January 2016
@Michell22588142 @ask_aubry Oh no, he accidentally choked to death in front of me years ago.
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@ask_aubry My husband pinned me face down and anally raped me because I wasn't thrilled with being a mother and didn't want sex. I thought my barely healed cesear wound was gonna tear.
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@12thBrokage @Michell22588142 @ask_aubry All your responses have made me laugh. Compare this to my doctor. Several years later, I went to him in a flood of tears because I'd only just come to terms with the abuse and was very depressed. The first thing he said was, "Have you forgiven him?". I don't go to him anymore 🤬.
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@DrDoyleSays I don't mention my suicidal thoughts because then the focus will be on that, rather than WHY I feel this way. I've wanted to die for more than 20 years. I've learned not to spook the normies because it's usually detrimental for me.
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@RevRichard3rdJD @MaestroMorgan17 Unless my partner was a mechanic, I would never ask them to fix my car.
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@RevRichard3rdJD @MaestroMorgan17 No "lucky husband", I'm happily single. Why on earth would I ask anyone to do something they weren't qualified or experienced enough to do?.
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@ask_aubry I kinda love it when guys show themselves that early. It really saves time and make-up.
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@GluttonForPuns @slutriarch No fault divorce is the reason most men don't know what anti-freeze and coffee tastes like.
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@BadMedicalTakes I'm left and feminist af, but also a nurse. This rhetoric that vasectomy is so easily reversed that it's a good temporary form of birth control is factually incorrect. If a man knows they never want kids in the future, it's a great option. But it's often permanent.
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@BadMedicalTakes I had to read it twice, and I still don't quite understand what he's asserting. Babies are connected to the internet via vaccines?.
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@NickySimpson98 "I'm not a transphobe, but if you dare to be anything other than undeniably straight, I will treat you like you have an infectious disease".
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@adamliaw @AusElectoralCom I know right? The more I learn about the US system, the more I appreciate ours.
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@DaphneMPenn I went to a doc because I had constant pain in my neck and left arm. I suggested my HH boobs might be a factor. I was told some women would LOVE big tits and I should just lose weight and offered no pain options. Turns out I have a prolapsed disc in my neck.
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@nuclearfem Unfortunately, movies, TV, and stories have long trained us to equate attractive=good, ugly=bad. It's literally one of the reasons the Prince being the bad guy in Frozen was an unexpected "twist".
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@haveyounofaith @littlecowplant @slutriarch @fossilizedsaps Parents getting divorced doesn't mean the kids go without a father. If either parent completely bails, it's because of deeper issues that the marriage could not possibly have fixed.
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@phildirtbike @ask_aubry And then the outer labia gets sewn together, leaving a gap for the vaginal opening. This suture is torn or cut open during childbirth. It's not even close to male circumcision (which is also mutilation).
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@IntrovertProbss An actual conversation I had: "so if you're not going away somewhere, why do you need a holiday?" "I don't need to go anywhere, I just need to be not here" "but if you're not travelling somewhere what's the point?".
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@VickiPlatt5 @JaneCaro @johnfraser54 I was repeatedly raped by my fiance. I didn't report it because I didn't want CPS involved, I had no hard evidence, I had nowhere to go, I couldn't afford rent alone dispite working full-time, I couldn't afford to quit my job to look after my kid.
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@ask_aubry Message to all men. Just because you get sexual stimulation from anything touching your dick, doesn't mean women experience the same.
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@mandalore1228 I definitely consider any man who proudly calls themselves "alpha" a major red flag and someone to avoid.
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@DoomScroling @Avviegamergirl There are tons of examples of sex-strikes working. Iceland's women famously went on a complete strike of sex, childcare, and work (where practicable), and now there have the highest gender equality rating in the world.
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@th0ughtvect0r @gaypornig2 @githii In Australia, it's usually cheaper to buy raw ingredients than processed ones.
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@BadMedicalTakes This reminds me of when I got into an argument with a Christian friend because she refused to believe in the reality of a fatal disorder because miracles exist.
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@DaphneMPenn A different doc said a glass of wine would treat vaginismis. Another one said "all this over a boy?" because I was crying from repressed memories of how sexually abusive my dead fiance was. He then asked if I forgiven the fiance. I avoid doctors now.
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@Carina_Amyth @ask_aubry I had a boyfriend who PARTICULARLY liked having sex during my period. He seemed to like the smell and mess (on a towel). In hindsight, that was weird in a whole different way.
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@I_Like_Trans Mine had to be checked for this very condition, but was ruled to be just within normal puberty limits. So she's 11 with the puberty level of some 15 year olds.
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@nogod_pinesnake @BadMedicalTakes I'm talking about when it's touted as a temporary thing that can be reversed as a form of birth control. I want men to stop cumming and leaving, but this particular method would render some men who want kids later as infertile. This is not a good way forward.
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@MFWitches If I went on a date and the guy insisted on ordering for me, I would leave. If they don't respect my autonomy to choose what I eat they won't respect anything else about my choices either.
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@miriamcosic @RadioNational I'm in Perth. We have one casino in the whole city and pokies are banned in pubs.
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@NobodySpecial_3 @BadMedicalTakes Ffs, I made it pretty clear I was talking about people who are saying it can be used as a temporary birth control measure and then easily reversed hon.
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@jefferson_guine @GluttonForPuns @slutriarch My grandmother told me that sometimes fed up wives would encourage their husbands to smoke, drink, and eat fatty salty food to hasten their death.
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@mommadukes2023 @BadMedicalTakes It was trialled, Participants reported acne, weight gain, mood changes, and lowered sex drive, so trials weren't continued. Literally, what women experience with the pill as expected, common side effects. Or just menstruating.
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@Meowdip @BadMedicalTakes Great Scott! You mean the vaccine makes MAGAs reject me AND gives me internet superpowers? I'm gonna go get another today!.
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@RevRichard3rdJD @MaestroMorgan17 I don't require a man to fix things or do DIY to be a valid person. Everyone has different skills, and none of them indicate specific gender value.
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@aboardgravyboat @ProximaDArt "The ability to provide" isn't even on my list of desired things in a man. No-one should be financially dependent on a single person if they don't want to be.
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@fossilizedsaps @slutriarch I'm a kid of divorced parents. Yeah, it's hard at first, but it's soooo much better having everyone happy and apart than together and miserable. I have no positive memories of my parents being together.
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@nogod_pinesnake @BadMedicalTakes There actually is a male birth control pill that, like the female version, works as long as you take it. Convincing male CEOs to fund it, much less convincing men to take it is a WHOLE other conversation.
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@TJ_onfire I never go to parties, dress provocatively, or walk at night alone. I was raped in my own home.
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@LilyBaby2021 @Karmatrumpsgod @sahbdeane @Hookrack2019 Really? I've found motherhood absolutely sucks most of the time. I can not honestly recommend it to anyone. Do it if you want to, but don't go into it with rose-tinted glasses.
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@williamlegate @USGeneralMayhem Note to all Americans; inflation is happening all over the world. It's not a unique US problem. Where I am, it's referred to as the "cost of living crisis".
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@Henry3Studios2 I am fucking baffled how many people INSIST Celia is trans. Y'all so transphobic you're harassing non-trans women now 🤦♀️.
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@LindaDHoward @JaneCaro I experienced frequent marital rape. I didn't go to the cops because A. Unless I walked in with visible injury they wouldn't have really done anything. B. I didn't want my child taken away by CPS.
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@CitizenPort @BadMedicalTakes The human body is like that. A healed wound that disappears in one person might leave a scar in another for the same type of wound. Vasectomy is reversible some of the time, but permanent for many others.
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@Mythical I'm 5"2. I would love to meet a short man. Partly for the novelty factor, partly so I don't have to have my head snapped back like a Pez dispenser just to kiss them.
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@smc429 Those of us who live in countries for whom guns are rare to see were pretty repulsed too.
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@REirikr @mommadukes2023 @BadMedicalTakes Please research the sheer number of women who have major reactions to current chemical birth control.
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@ERosson1982 @HighnessOphelia I was repeatedly raped by my husband after I gave birth. I didn't bother going to the cops because I knew it wouldn't amount to anything and I couldn't afford to move out.
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@ask_aubry I once had a guy open the online conversation with "do you do anal?". I stopped online dating because so many guys are clearly seeking a free prostitute.
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@loshoneylive @CalltoActivism I used to be baffled by Trump's makeup and hairstyle. until I saw what he looked like without it. Tangerine is the best option he's got.
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@adamliaw I was an enrolled nurse and pharmacy assistant. The lack of public understanding of some VERY simple human biology is driving me mad. What I've discovered is some people have an innate distrust of anyone who is an expert in their field 😑.
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@Hookrack2019 @LilyBaby2021 @Karmatrumpsgod @sahbdeane Not everyone considers being a parent to be the best thing in their life, and there's nothing wrong with that.
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@amy_sargeant_ To whomever needs to hear this, gender identity and sexual orientation are completely different things.
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@kennedytcooper I have puffy majora and very petite minora and "button". She'd probably think I'm trans, but I could bitch-slap with her with my sagging big and naturals. TMI?.
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@sheologian I was so sick I lost 9kg in 8 weeks during my first trimester, then after an emergency caesarean, my wound got a staph infection that nearly gave me septicaemia. Top this off with antenatal and post-natal depression. yeah pregnancy wasn't good for me.
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@mxhwd345 @sacha_coward I only use cis if I'm in a conversation about queer people or issues to add context to my perspective.
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@adhdjesse My kid has ADHD and is a total night owl. We have to maintain a sleep schedule for school, but on Friday night she can stay up as late as she wants and get up whenever on Saturday and Sunday.
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@Aborti0nRights I had a man insist that sometimes men pay for dinner on a date WITHOUT the motivation of sex. Like, what fantasy world is he living in?.
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@Xather2 @BadMedicalTakes A much older man around the corner of me likes to water his garden wearing nothing but a pair of rolled down speedos. He looks at least 65, sorta fit, and very tan with no tan lines. I admire his complete lack of fucks to give about it (Perth, Australia).
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@RonFilipkowski I'm liberal and atheist. I couldn't care less what the wording of the greeting is, only that it means something friendly and positive.
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@therealevel1 @Aborti0nRights Really? I love my child, but I haven't enjoyed being a mother at all. The sheer lack of mental stimulation, yet exhaution of being a SAHM made me want to put my face through a window, and that was ON antidepressants.
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@NickySimpson98 What a douche! My kid is autistic and hates being anywhere too loud. I myself feel stressed and unable to make normal conversation in a noisy restaurant. Trying to "deal with it" just leads to masking and mental exhaustion.
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@haveyounofaith @littlecowplant @slutriarch @fossilizedsaps That situation is awful. My parents never went to court and made an arrangement between themselves, and I stayed with him day every Saturday night and Sunday (he worked a lot). I consider myself lucky. Getting the courts involved is less common in Australia.
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@Vexxie_in @nuclearfem That's why I said "part of." If he had been ugly yet as confident as the prince, the dynamic and audience expectations would have been different. For an ugly character to be "good," they are written to be dorky/clumsy/naive/puppy levels of sweet.
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@MrDenmore @JaneCaro The men on here - Scomo is ended!.The women on here - Welcome to our world. You're gonna need a much higher tolerance for disappointment and frustration than that.
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@Laocitheronia @Aborti0nRights I ghosted a therapist because his advice was to immediately comment on my clothes (I threw on the first thing to hand) and to tell me to pay more attention to my appearance and do breathing exercises while drinking chamomile tea. Yep, that will address childhood trauma and rape.
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@wilmathecat @JaneCaro @RadioNational @ABC We had to repeatedly report a surgeon who consistently underprescribed pain relief for tubal ligation but was very generous with the painkillers for vasectomies.
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@noplaceforsheep I had be immunised against Hep B and take the flu shot every year to be a nurse.
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@RobynInTheStix @LindaDHoward @JaneCaro I'm all good. He choked to death in front of me 6 years ago. I grieved for years and have only recently accepted the reality of that relationship. My kid is bright, bubbley and self-assured AF.
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@HorrorNHaunted I would post a picture from Cannibal Holocaust, but I don't want to get banned. .
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@GoKatGo1968 @peaches_e78 @ErnieDingo1 @jcatts05 I have chronic mental health issues too, but I've never used them to defend my opinions. "I'm fucked up so you have to accept my thoughts" is not the hill you want to die on.
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@rickygervais @bosh53 @Humanity @supernature On behalf of all Aussies, that is the most disgusting thing you've ever said.
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@adamliaw Oh FFS. This is hands down the dumbest thing I've read today, and I'm following the Jan 6 hearings.
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@mrhappy255 @NobodySpecial_3 @BadMedicalTakes Genuinely baffled. What does "we don't write the way you are" mean.
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@CoralRose222 @Carina_Amyth @ask_aubry He did sit through Twilight even though I walked out of the cinema halfway through the film 🤔.
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@JennGranneman I literally procrastinate about getting haircuts because I hate the small talk.
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@rachelrwithers When my partner nearly broke my arm I didn't tell the police because: They would have taken away my young child, I couldn't afford rent alone, I didn't think they'd take me seriously anyway, I had to get to work the next day, I still loved him and hoped it could work out.
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@BadMedicalTakes I'm really confused here. What point is he making about people with tanned skin?.
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@thechosenberg I don't understand. I would want a shower first and would be really weirded out if any person dressed me. I'm not an infant or an invalid.
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@Peachyfruitcake @Michell22588142 @ask_aubry Nope, we were flat broke, and that kind of insurance isn't as common in Australia.
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@nathaliejacoby1 I'm not American, so I haven't tried it, but sweet potato marshmallow casserole sounds revolting. I'm continually blown away by how much sugar is normalised in America. And I'm an Aussie, so I have no leg to stand on regarding health and obesity.
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@daveyk317 @adamliaw @JohnRowsthorne I don't mind if they only get taxed 20%, but I think the loopholes should be closed so they ACTUALLY pay that amount, because right now far too many of them wiggle out of paying almost anything. How do we afford better healthcare and education? Reducing tax avoidance would help.
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@fuckyouiquit @scooterscoffee If employees are required to wear uniform and work in conditions that require a jacket, why isn't a uniform jacket available. Plenty of workplaces provide one. It shows the most BASIC recognition that workers are human beings.
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@haveyounofaith @littlecowplant @slutriarch @fossilizedsaps I was lucky, but about 1/3 of my classmates were children of divorce, and in my 40 years of life in this planet I have yet to see a positive outcome from the parents staying together for the sake of the kids. If anything, it made a constantly hostile and miserable home life.
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@ChuckySource I love everything about this show, but I especially love Alex Vincent reprising the role of Andy.
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@wtf_rema @InternetH0F I would never see personal benefit as a reason to do anything for my child.
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