Amanda 💜🦋
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Relational dynamics, intimacy, sex, energy exchange & faith ☺️🌺 Coach, intuitive touch, kinesiology & energy work 🤲💫 “Therapy that feels good…”
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Rights-of-passage for sexual healing:
🔵 ‘Worshipping*’ someone else’s body
🔵 ‘Worshipping’ your own body
🔵 Being ‘worshipped’ by another person
*worshipped: adored, loved-on, honored, cherished, admired
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@TylerAlterman
Oh nice!
Personally one time I transferred a ‘feeling’ of “surety” to a woman who had anxiety issues. She don’t know what the feeling was, so I said “here, tune into me!” And I embodied it strongly in my energy field for her to feel! It felt like a Bluetooth transfer. 😅
Also,
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@Lovandfear
It’s winter time in the second picture. See his coat? Maybe HE was the gardener.
I love romance. I’m cautious of ungrounded romanticism.
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@Aella_Girl
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@paularambles
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@SayItValencia
Remembering that we’re all figuring things out through our own dirty lenses 👓 🙂
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@amandaperera
@kindnessservant
For burnout: Thiamine (B1), a pure electrolyte powder, early bed, strengthening spleen and heart meridian, very gentle exercise, pleasure practices and good solid meals are very helpful. 💜❤️🩹💝
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@HeidiPriebe1
A common journey:
1. “I’m nice 🙂”
2. “I hold the capacity to be really bad 😮”
3. “In the ‘bad’ is some power that is NEUTRAL & I can discover the well-honed ability of working with it, for a truly GOOD purpose”…
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My house is a healing house.
My hands are healing hands.
My heart is a safe place.
I am blessed.
Blessed to be a blessing.
I love it ☺️
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@alextopol
I’ve questioned this teaching when seeing it passed as ‘fact’ in tantric circles.
As our chakras are shifting constantly. Every new moment, thought & experience.
The degree of real energetic intimacy that occurs is not necessarily proportional to physicality.
Some people
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Safety in their union… so she’s free to deepen, fully, into every sensation
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I’m currently convinced that a lot of people are looking to ‘sex’, in order to get what a really good hip-moving dance session can also provide.
As in:
What core things for your wholeness are expressing themselves through “sexual” needs?
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@theRiseofOne
@Theholisticpsyc
🥰🥰🥰
I feel so much ‘wow 🤩’ at how you must have communicated your need well and he found a solution to help with that.
I see provision, protection and care being given from him to you. 💝
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You’ve heard of the g-spot (that area that feels textured & spongy when a woman is aroused)?
There’s also the k-spot … ‘k’ as in ‘kundalini’. It’s right where the sacrum bone meets the coccyx. It’s accessed via the back wall of the v*gina.
It can be ‘pulsed’ lightly with a
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You can tell the men w/ a hint of the divine tantric in their sexual repertoire!
In this mode of their sexuality, they *attune* to the woman first, without holding back their heart/soul essence.
There’s energetic + emotional intimacy, not just a rush for physical intimacy.
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Energy orgasms are real.
And they can be given by distance. Or activated solo.
There’s so much more possible than we realize… with a little focus, connection and trust ✨💗
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@xuenay
I support that. I’d propose this too:
Indecision can also be a trauma response to…
1. Personal power seemingly being taken by circumstances/a person. So the basic power to make decisions feels harmed!
2. Damage to the CNS & brain, due to emotional & physical overwhelm!
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I’m on a plane & the man next to me has the fidgety leg thing happening.
I’m tempted to share how this energy can be redirected up through his spine & out through his auric field, just like sexual energy.
Or, it can be grounded down. Like tent pegs pinning down the energy
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@amandaperera
@kindnessservant
Spleen meridian. Hold the first points (first one side of the body, then the other) for about 2-3 mins. 2nd points for ~1 min
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@quotidiania
Things that have made me feel unsafe with a man:
~ when he was incompetent, yet expecting my full open trust
~ when he did big things without consideration for me, that def affect me
~When he’s dysregulated & I was expected to be fully receptive to his energy & leadership
~
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@Mrs_L_Olivier
@snide_sally
@IsabellaEm1
@BonzillaG
@Kissmyazz24
@Dumfukdetector
@pondering_patty
@Evie4Freedom
He’s allowed to like things. She’s allowed to disagree. In this instance her wounds got triggered badly by his approach
😢 they don’t have the skills to go TO each w/ their hurts & heal TOGETHER; reaffirming love in the midst of pain, & figure out how to say/do things better ❤️🩹
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@blacknredtext
Sex is more than connecting to a ‘shape’.
For most people, anyway.
There’s a whole sensory, emotional & mental (& maybe spiritual) experience; which often goes beyond whatever is making direct contact with the gen*tals!
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How much of “YOU’RE TOO HORNY!” is:
“Oversexed” Person A:
1. Actually normal & healthy!!
2. I have sensory issues. I REQUIRE certain stimulation to be ok. No one’s told me about this, I just presume I need sex! I only seek options in the realm of ‘sex’ but other
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"Men are terrified of a woman's depth of love & the energy that moves w/ her sexuality & emotions. At the same time, men want nothing more in this life than to merge completely w/ a woman's devotional love & wild energy. Only as a man outgrows his fear can he handle a woman's
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@guideforlovers
Women who send love letters to thieves & serial killers for attention are seeking to resolve their trauma & attachment issues
Healthy, balanced women seek healthy, balanced men they can look up to & trust
My heart/radiance would selfprotect from a man who deliberately mistreats
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For someone:
Sexual desire is safe in my body
Anger is safe in my body
Pain is safe in my body
I don’t have to escape or feel shame with these movements in my body
I can learn how to live & work with these sensations…& be sovereign or lead myself to get help.
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The key thing is commitment to the process, for as long as it is right 👇
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Ever experienced/witnessed narcissism?
This person 👇 says:
“Spiritually, the narcissist’s job is to teach you to [have self worth] & learn how to not be a doormat.” 🌟
🤔 Thoughts?
#Narcissism
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🤫 Secret Sexual/Intimacy Energy Hack
In the moment you want to REACH out to someone for pleasure/touch/intimacy/connection (to help you feel better)… 🥰🥰
Notice that OUTWARD moving desire & pull it BACK into you for a bit
You can even talk to it:
“Hello old friend… I
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‘Horny energy’ typically builds up in the body causing agitation OR it reaches out, seeking to be received/met
Both of these are flows of energy that can be harnessed for personal benefit; and are not just situations that a person is a slave to.
~~~
Just now, I recognized a
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I was getting subtle highlights in my hair, & I aim to be social with people in close proximity to me, so I asked myself
“what is right for talking about w/ THIS woman helping me?”
I sat, quietly, for a long time. Feeling things out, before I finally noticed that her nails
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@alpharivelino
A man can be a powerful lover without being vigorous…{Just ask a Tantra practicioner!}
& sometimes vigorous love-making is the least powerful. ie All movement & no real connection.
I suggest googling ‘5 erotic blueprints’ as a good eye opener!
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@LeahDiscovers
How did I get him to commit?
I DIDN’T try to get him to commit
He *wanted* me in his life
He wanted a family, marriage & kids.
He had a vision & we both went for it.
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All sexual energy is not truly ‘lust’
True lust has no beauty or care.
A similarity is: calling all wealth creation ‘greed’; or the focused first steps of a child as ‘selfishness’.
No… 🤥
Actual lust is surprisingly ‘🩶’ like a heavy & molten metallic substance that’s
The pure sweet desire to kiss & merge beings…
transformed into pure energy that is breathed & expanded throughout the body
…& shared to a Lover across the room, or at whatever distance. ✨
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@cranky_and
1. Yes. No one should have to feel the shame of the opposite sex sniggering at their private parts. Horrible!
2. Where did the woman’s shame come from?
I wish she had been so comfortable she said “VAG*INA”, extra loud & with self-love, when she heard the boys sniggering. Then
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There’s rarely any men with any kind of *potency* at my local swimming pool
It’s a shame 😢
& no, I don’t need to get laid 😉
I just like to be around it, absorbing it… 🥰
I’m guessing it’s due to a mix of our society’s tiredness, dehydration, self-disconnection, inadequate
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The masculine serves the feminine,
& the feminine serves the masculine
Both, from a place of their innate power
This makes them both ‘more’
…creating an ongoing loop of mutual honoring
👇👇👇
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@celestialbe1ng
Magnesium oil. Can be blended with a scent.
The Mg Chloride deters odour…& who couldn’t benefit from more magnesium? ☺️
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@VitallyMelanie
My husband’s smell has changed over the years. A big part of that was diet & stress/ job related.
I believe there are many other factors for determining long term relationship viability!
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Pompoir: The art of milking the lingam with the yoni
{I don’t think many women could do this for entire 10-15 min warm up, let alone a full sex session…!}
#kegeltime
#tantra
fyi: “Lingam” is Tantra speak for 🍆
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“Many of us pursue pleasure with such breathless haste that we hurry past it.” 🌸
~ Kierkegaard
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*Feeling* loved & *mentally knowing* you’re loved are NOT the same thing.
Love at the feeling level (often) trumps any mental knowing.
This is why regularly wooing your Lover’s heart—till they actually glow with happiness hormones 😍, has such profound & life-changing results
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A thread of a few pictures I have in my saved pics folder!
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@richardgordon22
created the vibrant cosmos ones!)
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@DrCamiloOrtiz
So often the kids’ poor behavior is massively from screens, nutrient deficiencies & trauma they can’t define with words anyway.
So they’re harder to manage, then the parents lose frame faster bc they’re burned out; & feel unable to be both loving & firm at the same time
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@CrochetLady15
@JamesEsses
Yes. My husband worked against incredible odds to be doing what he is; but many people point & say ‘white privilege’ completely unaware of the real story of struggle, vision & commitment.
Further, maleness & whiteness were two more things working against him!
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I’m currently convinced that a lot of people are looking to ‘sex’, in order to get what a real, complete, meaningful conversation with someone they’re drawn to, can also provide.
As in:
What core things for your wholeness are expressing themselves through “sexual” needs?
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Let’s focus on: Two ways of doing ORGASM
1. As an offering. A profound gift to your Lover. It moves through you to THEM. It is as much or more for them as it is for you.
2. It’s FOR YOU. It moves through YOUR OWN system. If your Lover benefits, it’s bc they’re attuned to you
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You’re uncomfortable with being dominant?
Good
Now drop the fear, stay aligned with the wisdom…& notice the needs that exist; that crave for you to be in that aspect of your power.
💙💜
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SEXUAL ENERGY & ELECTRICAL THEORY {musing}
Voltage ~ some people are sexually full-on💥 It can be wild, hot & fast
{note: If a person isn’t ready / it feels unsafe to their system, it may ‘blow a fuse’ from fear or the impression “he/she doesn’t really care about me”}
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**A “sexual”/touch system-activation session**
I asked her to stand: arms up & legs apart.
I started with my palms on hers. She exclaimed that she could feel my energy!!
I smiled mostly to myself. I was barely flowing any energy through my body, yet
She closed her eyes as I
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*It’s not always real sexual energy*
Often it’s nervous system irritation seeking resolution at the genitals;
in the same way a person reaches for a cigarette to ease tension.
😵💫
Imagine the sex lives of two people with high nervous system tension who have different ways
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@TraumaInformd
@TylerAlterman
Oooh… this makes me want to launch into Dom/sub nervous system dynamics…! 🩵
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@guideforlovers
That they can do everything.
The feminine soul can’t ‘push’ in the same was as a man.
Well, she can masculinize herself…
Lying to her feminine heart that wants to be protected, and softer. 🌸
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I’m currently convinced that a lot of people are looking to ‘sex’, in order to get what a loving body-touch session can also provide.
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“Submission” My first thought:
*Being taken care of well 🥰*
Also:
Healthy submissiveness w/ adequate personal power, & gracious communication; so the submissive is free of co-dependency, disassociation or excessive struggle in living out their *chosen* submission to a *loving
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Intimacy services—that need to be common!
~ Head/hair stroking while sitting in closely to someone with a caring heart
~ light feathery-tingly touches over the neck, chest, arms etc
~ slow tender kisses all over the neck & collar bone area; while being held gently or fiercely
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Over the throat, if the receiver rests back & really opens their throat area, the giver can subtly find which angle to direct the sound frequencies.
Releases may occur (laughing, body rolls, crying, fingers gripping)
This can be done in an arousing, caring, D/s environment.
I’ve been playing with tuning forks over & on the body in different areas
Clothed & naked
The vibrations activate the body in intriguing sensitive ways...👄🔊
Sometimes the body arches or trembles if the person feels really safe & connected to their felt-experience!
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I am getting fake followers {people with zero tweets or likes}
Any advice? Do I block them?🤔
I like real.
I like connection
I like community, care & passion
I don’t care for numbers
{Help! 🤍}
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I’m currently convinced that a lot of people are looking to ‘sex’, in order to get what a really good energy-merging session can also provide.
To get energy flowing through more their system again.
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I believe in your ability to have a hard conversation
I believe in your ability to communicate your needs
I believe in your ability to speak truth with love
💖
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@hollowearthterf
Yes. It’s true, & it’s sad, & the situation needs to change. 😔
Believe it or not, many men would say the same about themselves—that their attempts at ‘masculinity’ for their partner’s adoration, respect & sexual response is …tiring.
This all points to healing being required,
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SOME SEXUAL *NEEDS*
💞Sharing touch during the day, to feel safe for deeper giving & receiving later
💞Quiet time playing w/ a Lover’s body, to feel secure in relationship
💞Meditating ‘TO each other’, to merge energy circuitry
💞Talking together. Feeling seen
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@antiquatedabbie
2/ l remember laying on the floor with my eyes closed, holding a cushion up for my 3yr old to kick repeatedly, while trying to breastfeed. 🤦♀️
Exhaustion from the *constant* go go go of little active kids blows out the adrenals and hormones too 🤷♀️
🙄
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When u r soo sleepy & ur husband is cuddling u, gently speaking in ur ear—in calm masculine tones, about how he handled a situation w/ the kids & u admire his wisdom & leadership so much it makes u 🫦:
Me: “I want u inside me”
Him: “U look sleepy, I don’t believe u”
Me: “update:
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@basedethos
Thank u, I feel the need to add to this tho.
‘Mastering’ sexual urges may also result in ‘astral demon enslavement’
Fear &shame of the body’s natural urges & processes opens a portal,too!
We can masterbat*e w/ an open heart & joy &experience a full suite of beneficial healing😌
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“Sexual Healing”
They think: orgasm w/ some1 showing interest
I’m thinking:
🌹Capability to give & receive
🌹Responses to arousal
🌹Ability to 💗 other & self
🌹Knowing one’s own power & respecting the power of the other
🌹Finding ur & Lover’s erotic style/s
Stuff like that 💛
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Good love-making fundamentally comes down to:
…Repairing {resetting} blown fuses…
[The right kind of foreplay IS *energy work*]
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I’m currently convinced that a lot of people are looking to ‘sex’, in order to get what a loving eye-gazing session can also provide.
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I’m noticing that many men do not know how to get their physical love & touch needs met in their relationships.
Here is one method with a loving-dominant approach:
1. STATE WHAT YOU NEED
2. RESOLVE ALL IMPEDIMENTS TO THAT OCCURRING
Ex: “Can you be free for 45mins- 1 hour
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I’m getting better at working with arousal
🗽sexual arousal
🗽emotional arousal
🗽feelings arousal (I can sometimes have feelings/inner sensations/qualia without any distinct emotion)
I may:
Circulate it through my body
Ground it
Direct it to a location
Gently be with it 🩷
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I’ve noticed that an important part of relationships is “WHERE we release our love frequencies from”
Stay with me…
If a man only loves a woman from his pelvis space, (bc elsewhere there’s a block) she may enjoy his sexual love for a time but then feel starved of love that is
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The pure sweet desire to kiss & merge beings…
transformed into pure energy that is breathed & expanded throughout the body
…& shared to a Lover across the room, or at whatever distance. ✨
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@realfemsapien
👏👏
The post partum time really makes a woman dependent on her care giver.
Many men want a ‘submissive wife’ & this is certainly a perfect time to prove that he can lovingly lead & properly care for a ‘submissive/dependent’—listening & learning so he can do this well 💙
It
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Teaching another person to use a safeword must include:
“When you use your safeword, it doesn’t mean that the fun has to stop or that I will leave you on edge. It’s ok.
Your safeword tells me an adjustment of some kind is needed—& I have capacity for that.
I want you to use
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A moment of appreciation for men’s voices… 😻
Masculine beings, making things happen whenever they speak with kind and clear authority.
🤍
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He held her hand & made her feel secure in the world - a sexual act!
She smiled up at him - a sexual act!
He sang from his soul - a sexual act!
She did her hair nicely - a sexual act!
She rebelliously left her hair tangled in a mess. She looked wild & free. - a sexual act!
Me “…I’m at a point in my life where anything can be a sexual act bc we are inherently sexual beings
The way I feel in someone’s presence may cause a cascade of hormonal responses… even if the person isn’t ‘doing anything’!” Their ‘sexual act’ is to exist, in the way they are
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Half asleep, I meditated in my mind on the idea of a loving Dom looking down on a sub’s almost naked & writhing body. My ‘dream’ came alive. I watched the man quietly note that the woman was in ‘self protection’.
She had a locked-up heart. Her actions were all for show, & not a
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@namitaj68
@drjenwolkin
Yes. Often people give what they wanted to get.
It’s a choice towards goodness, 💛
…though there is often the distortion that there are beliefs/fears/blocks around receiving.
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@alpharivelino
Masturbation is often about filling a need of the psyche, so…
If she craves soul connection… she may imagine a masculine man connected to his heart/soul.
If high strung, she may visualize a man with a presence that soothes her nervous system & merging w/ him.
👇like men…
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What is ‘energy cock’?
This translates to the following experiences for me:
1. Feeling masculine loving & sexual essence up all through my body in a general sense causing me to feel incredibly secure & lovely in my whole being… my heart open, my lips warm. 💖
2. Feeling
When u r soo sleepy & ur husband is cuddling u, gently speaking in ur ear—in calm masculine tones, about how he handled a situation w/ the kids & u admire his wisdom & leadership so much it makes u 🫦:
Me: “I want u inside me”
Him: “U look sleepy, I don’t believe u”
Me: “update:
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@KnightShore
@savannahvicario
@BrazenCrone
Safe - the feeling of being with a man who has his own structure, frame & awareness; so he’s not dumping his uncomfortable emotions or nervous system dis-regulation directly into her system without a filter or care for her receptivity to it.
Safe - the feeling of being with a
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Social timeline cleanse 🫧 🕊️
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An easy mistake men make when first developing their inner power/dominance, is to shut off their real selves & act TOO HARDENED*
It’s quite special when a man reaches that stage of Dominance where it feels easy & he can be playful in it.
Effortlessly & powerfully himself
—a
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If you’re falling out-of-love with your partner when you’re experiencing ‘rising in ‘love’’ with someone else…
Take a good look & ‘autistic-ly’ list & do healing work on:
~Hurts
~Un-communicated needs
~Lack of ‘connection actions’ (doing bonding stuff together)
~Why you numbed
@rachelclif
Yes absolutely people can fall in love w/ someone new, without falling out of love w/ their partner, but it does need careful awareness & action.
Ideas👇👇
It’s too easy to focus a great load of new attention on ‘Mr/Ms New Love’ and short-change the focus on our partner/family
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@AlpacaAurelius
I once did raw veges *only* (plus herbal teas, & honey & olive oil) for 10 days
It profoundly supported my gut bacteria for super easy 2-3x daily elimination
Note: I had lacto fermented raw veges too (probiotics)
no significantly anti-nutrient green plants
Life changing!🤸♀️
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To the gentle, beautiful unfolding of the deeper aspects of you & of me, & of us all.
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What is foreplay?
Foreplay may look like…
~ “sit in this chair & watch me do the dishes. Stay there, rest & be with me. Don’t worry about anything else. I want you close to me while I show you how much I love you”.
~ When putting on the kid’s seat belts: “hey Kitten, sit
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Some people need to be touched a lot, in particular ways, to help them clear off the ‘energies of the world’
~~~~
Basic exercise may suffice…
but more complex, dynamic movements are a better alternative
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Keep cleaning up the stuff that resides in your heart
Especially if you like to follow your heart…
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@bymoonsoulchild
It depends if you’ve grown & changed…
Sometimes rekindling an old connection at the close-friendship-level-only is the healing that you both have to experience to come full circle 💛
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I just spent ~40mins working subtly w/ a woman’s hand
Afterwards I cried & she was without words
Then she moved her fingers & I noticed I was still *so* connected to her I could feel her movements in ‘me’
That level of intimacy is so profound & it’s an incredible space to work
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