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Lost lefty in a political wasteland. Stories matter! Language matters! Truth matters! Writing a dystopian novel whose premise seems more plausible daily.

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8 months
My friend June runs an animal rescue in Cyprus. She's just had major surgery to her cervical spine after searching for nearly a year to find three paid helpers to care for her animals while she recovers. One has left her in the lunch, putting pressure on the others. /1
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Urgent appeal. June of desperately needs PAID volunteers to look after her rescue cats and dogs so she can have and recover from surgery that is needed now to prevent paralysis. (Cervical spine.) @rickygervais if you see please share. Very very urgent /1
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@LadyBellatrix1 Get the police involved. This IS a serious issue and the school will sit up and take notice once they're under investigation. Good God.
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@The_Globe Why do you think erasing important women in history (and, comparatively, there aren't many, because, you know, we've been historically oppressed) is progressive?
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@shoe0nhead This is really vile. Paedophiles are operating in plain sight with more confidence than they've had in years.
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@peterstopcrime @dmisstify1 When a dog's eyes are rolling back in its head and there's possible prosecution of the owners, there's not "lots of time". Internal damage to organs can be done very quickly. Dogs shouldn't be left to suffer for a moment longer than necessary due to owner cruelty and negligence.
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My school today issues guidance for gender questioning students. I was pleased to see that we were told in no uncertain terms (bold and highlighted!) that no student should be using a toilet for the opposite biological sex for safeguarding reasons.
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@ScallopSnail @devdevnumnums Begging, or demanding?
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@Independent Opinion: is this ridiculous article the final nail in the coffin for the Independent, whose slavish fawning to an ideology makes its name a misnomer?
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@StateRepHong Those who give birth, or possess the capacity to, are not "bodies". We are female human beings, i.e. women. "Birthing bodies" also makes no distinction between any species. It is dehumanising. Stop it.
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Are there any female women's officers left in Labour?
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@ChelseaClinton @PhilomelBooks @penguinkids @PenguinClass Shame I can't buy any of these for my son now, because I'm simply not giving money to a company that is gaslighting and betraying women. So many women deserve a book but you give one to a privileged middle-aged white male who is rewarded for displaying his fetish in public. No ta
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@NationalNOW Intersectionality used to mean being aware of how additional vectors affect people's lived experience e.g. being a working-class woman or a disabled woman or whatever - i.e. genuinely trying to include and understand minorities within the minority. Now it just means include men.
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@tr00npregnancyI Yeah, no. I'll talk about my experiences when and how I want, thanks. And if I try to spare anyone's feelings around pregnancy and periods, it sure as hell won't be men's.
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@ThomasWillett9 Oh do bore off. Brianna Grey's death was not motivated by transphobia. Nor is it remotely related to this protest. Go and do something useful.
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Opinions on the John Lewis home insurance "Let life happen" advert? I saw sexualisation of a male child imitating OTT feminised posturing, who was also acting like a bully and vandal... And the mum and sister should just let it happen? Parallels to real life are shrieking at me!
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@guardian I don't believe @guardian would have the journalistic integrity to award person of the year to @jk_rowling even if she were democratically - and overwhelmingly - voted so. Am I too cynical?
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@CraigMurrayOrg Oh dear. Let me explain. You missed the point which is that women, whatever their income, are able, when in like-minded company of their own sex, to use humour and love to overcome setbacks of all kinds. Glad to help a slow learner.
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@DrProudman Er ... He's not a genius, he isn't violent, he doesn't rule. Admitting you've not read more than than five pages and then doing a summary isn't the brightest.
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@shirleneobuobi I would feel unsafe with you as my doctor. You're prioritising the "comfiness" of a minority, when the gesture is unnecessary, but don't care about the genuine concerns of a larger group of patients? Doesn't speak well of you.
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@Wickes Ooh, I really like a bath from a place which doesn't discriminate against me because I believe in biology and safe spaces for women. #boycottWickes
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@MollyOShah @jo_bartosch If you are a proponent of queer theory, you're no feminist. And if you support current TRA tactics, you're supporting the type of behaviours employed by authoritarian governments throughout history.
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@AnnelieseDodds You mean Labour will: * Stop legitimate therapy in favour of affirmation (the real conversion therapy) for very vulnerable people * Appoint an envoy for T rights and the destruction of LGB rights globally * Destroy women's protections under the Equality Act You're a traitor.
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@BostonSportsHb @nytimes No, and in fact it seems a back door way to push progress on equality of the sexes backwards, because stats like this will "prove" women are getting the same opportunities etc.
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@womensmarch What do they have in common with all women that they don't have in common with men?
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@peterstopcrime @dmisstify1 She hasn't said anything about that. You've inferred it from nothing.
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@Amandycat Your sign is factually inaccurate. The rights of women, gay people and children are being threatened - needlessly - by some hard-line TRAs.
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@YaboyMrJinks @Slatzism @HJoshington It should be treated as fraud, child sexual abuse and manslaughter as far as I'm concerned.
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@EmpressXayide Women need to colonise the men's bathrooms in places where this happens.
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@artisanne @sfbpage @MzzPatzey @Pandamoanimum My mum once scared one of my dad's clients away by answering the phone with "Hello *TownName* Madhouse." When asked for my dad she replied, "I'm sorry, he's just escaped!"
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@royalsociety Oh FFS. Everyone is non-binary in the stupid sexist regressive stereotypes of gender sense, because it's made up horse shite. No one is non-binary where it matters, their sex. Please can it.
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@leroy_labour @DadRogd Maybe we need men to start a letter writing campaign to national papers giving this perspective too.
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@PeterTatchell @MailOnline It's not transphobic to say men cannot be women. It's scientific fact. But it is paedo apology to write to a newspaper saying kids from age 9 can consent to, and find "great joy" in, sexual encounters with an adult.
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@MFWitches That would be handy for you, wouldn't it? It would mean women aren't allowed to speak if they have to abandon events every time a bad faith actor turns up. Nazis doing your job for you. Sounds like you're at least Nazi adjacent by your kind of logic. Stop silencing women, fascist
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@gay_lumberjack @oldenoughtosay Trying to meet your level, perhaps.
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@OakesMarianne @Mermaids_Gender Lies. All studies show that 80+% of kids with gender dysphoria will outgrow this during or by the end of puberty - almost like it's a necessary process. There are reputable also longitudinal studies showing that most "gender non-conforming" kids grow up gay.
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@PSNILGBT I feel it's important to make your position on yours values regarding women, too, since we're the victims of the majority of all sexual crimes and are murdered at a rate of 2-3 per week. So?
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@ShamashAran @ask_aubry I do. They said she wasn't needed, wasn't a part of the family, called her names... Why should she organise, pay and pack for a big expensive trip?
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@DatCatDer @jk_rowling Which strange, because that's invariably when people ring my doorbell.
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@AmyCMason @BBCWomansHour Well I'm ecstatic and relieved that Hadley was able to shed light on editorial abuses at the Guardian, among other things.
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@UN_Women So in countries/camps where women are routinely assaulted and raped when trying to perform their ablutions, I assume you'll halt all projects for single-sex facilities, inform said women and girls they're all bigots, and let the men just say they're women? /1
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@benhodgee @reel_woman They very clearly state on their banners that they are lesbians. Homophobe.
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@peytonology Nah mate. She just felt the constrictions of a misogynist society, as many did and still do, and that was amplified by the expectations of the time (she also uses language of the time to express it). /1
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@MalesInDisguise Not only that. He's *JEALOUS* of the child he's abusing.
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@UNICEFROSA Isn't it a bit racist to imply that boys and men in non-western countries would be a danger to women in their toilets? After all, you think any boy or man who says they're a woman should share female toilets in the west. What's the difference?
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@PinkRangerLB No one ever posts anything except YouTube videos of people talking about how she's transphobic but still never quoting anything transphobic. It's an ever-decreasing spiral of opinion and interpretation, with ne'er a true quote in sight.
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@ROBINSONSBAR You seem to have a very different idea of a "warm welcome" than I'm used to. Being assaulted by a member of staff sounds quite the opposite.
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@InchesNFL @3113Leyland @buitengebieden_ 'Dude' is pretty gender neutral.
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@gwentpolice How are you getting on finding the perpetrator who defaced this lamppost with a directly hate-filled message and implied threat of violence (gun pic)? Hate and criminal damage, if those are the charges, and the former an actual example rather than the trumped up charge here.
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@UN_Women @free_equal I really don't understand your logical disconnects. Why are single-sex toilets a priority to save women from violence in some countries, but bigoted in others? Why can't women in Afghanistan or Iran just identify as men and leave violence behind? Sort yourselves out.
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Princess Grace Hospital could learn a thing or two from this. As could the NHS.
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@SusPolTransLead @sussex_police @SXP_LGBT @SusPolDiversity Great news there are diversity leads. Please could you add Twitter handles for those representing women, disabled people, faiths and so on?
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I'm 43 and I feel like my life is over. I've been single for 6 years and now can't imagine anyone ever wanting me again. I'm hating every second of my job and feeling like I'm a has-been. And I haven't the energy, money or flexibility (being a single parent) to pursue other paths
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@OakesMarianne @Mermaids_Gender Stop telling children they're in the wrong body and doing the wrong things for that body. Stop pushing regressive ideas about what girls and boys are, or can be. Stop unnecessarily medicalising children for life before they have had time to find themselves. Stop sterilising kids.
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@richardosefton @carolinep0 What has she ever said that was threatening or abusive? Receipts please.
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@Veza76_1 As it's always been mixed sex she is on firm ground in saying it will remain so.
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@babybropatto @mjeslfc And "deal with it" should mean instant and permanent expulsion from the group plus a policy overhaul on mixed sex matches. Somehow I doubt that's what they meant.
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@AliceDreger Bio essentialism suggests there's an "essence" of womanhood. Boiled down, it means gender stereotypes. Last time I checked, TRAs and gender ideologists were the ones keen on those. We actual feminists stick to rejecting the stereotypes and recognising bio sex (aka reality).
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@jk_rowling Love it. 'Peacefully intimidate.' Captures their 'logic' in one perfect oxymoron.
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@DSanderson_85 Whoever writes these is not up to the job. Where on earth did the gas chambers bit come from based on the context beforehand?
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@charilaou_alex @JessicaLBarnard For a start, it should be "Jessica Barnard and I ...". Secondly, your pledges sound awfully misogynistic.
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@MayorofLondon It's funny but I can't see a single tweet of yours about #DisabilityPride month and we're more than a week in.
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@jack_turban All those august institutions and you're still just a bully peddling lies for cash.
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@aleprechaunist @craicedup Especially as they keep assuring each other how cute they all are!
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@Bronwen85 Using "Karen" as a slur is ageist, sexist and misogynist. Do quiet the hate.
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@tatjna @FondOfBeetles @fahad_s_ali Oh, mate. What brand of shovel do you use? You dug that hole so quickly and neatly.
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@AnneICoombes @sharrond62 Sharron knows the only pertinent facts: you're male but present as female, and when someone assumed you'd use the unisex option you had a hissy fit and asked for her to be re-educated. That's arrogance.
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@leakylike @sally_hines A tried and tested male response to women - variations on the theme of "you're not hot enough anyway so shut up/we don't believe you".
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@IndyVoices @theothercoogan After a certain point, you have to wonder whether the Independent is under the impression that journalistic integrity and truth no longer matter.
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@TransChicken2 That's not small. It's grassroots action and education!
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@billybragg @jk_rowling @grahnort But you said that you agreed with Graham's stance that cancel culture (so things used to silence women and others, including doxxing, harassment, loss of jobs, death and rape threats) doesn't exist - it's just "accountability".
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@GeorgeAylett @Keir_Starmer If the truth is transphobic, there's a problem with your ideology. This is the new fascism.
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@gwentpolice Whatever the charges, what's your justification for sending a vulnerable disabled woman out on to the streets without any way to contact a taxi or her family in the dead of night? Hmmm?
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@DuncanHenry78 THIS. It doesn't show that feminists are suddenly in bed with the right wing. It's a bloody miracle anything could create common ground for such disparate groups. So the fact it has says a lot.
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@Tony_Robinson I can't. I'm a woman with a child, and I still have enough self worth that I know what being a woman means, and buckets of determination to ensure child safeguarding. Keir doesn't think we should say only women have a cervix. Lammy thinks we're dinosaurs. Labour needs to rethink.
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@LaSenza If you can stand firm (bring on the underwire) in the face of the gender ideologues' onslaught, you will have a loyal customer base for life. Don't betray your core customers for loud-mouthed, porn-addled males, because women won't forgive or forget.
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@BBCWalesNews Everything wrong with this headline. Actually disabled woman arrested and held for hours without questioning and her house raided, for putting up stickers for human rights - all while a KNOWN man who is stickering threats of violence and outright hate is not harassed.
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@BBCNWT I'm angry you've included men on a list of 100 women. There are thousands of female candidates who deserve a place on that list. And the fact one of your "inspiring" "women" is a man who campaigned to have a woman who said he was a man jailed - for 25 years! - takes the cake.
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@EndoSouthC Anyone advocating for removing the boundaries separating adult and child is someone to watch. 🚩 Ditto someone whose post history besides this shows violent and insulting rhetoric towards women.
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@ThePosieParker Would consider standing and would definitely vote for your party.
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@PhilipPullman No. They intended you to think, this violent woman-hater has rightly been arrested for committing a crime. Their transness is immaterial. You're making it the point to avoid acknowledging your misogyny.
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@Jebadoo2 My son plays with dolls' houses, a fairy house, a toy kitchen and Barbies alongside Lego, Paw Patrol, Octonauts, superheroes and many other things ... I'm a firm believer that most kids, given free reign and freedom from judgement, play with most toys here and there.
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@Paul_Ilett No, I'm tired of misogynists using trans as an excuse to bash women and pretend their rights don't matter though.
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@Toadsanime @jk_rowling Does this include non crime hate incidents where people can report women for putting up stickers though?
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@JustinTrudeau You don't empower women by removing their safeguards and protections. You don't empower women by letting men define them, speak for them or pretend to be them. What happened to you?
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@StephenKing Maybe you could say something in support of JK Rowling, who has received further death threats just for expressing her solidarity with and sorrow for Salman Rushdie. We all feel better when we do the right thing.
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@Craig_Simpson_ @sciencemuseum how many complaints are required before an exhibition aimed primarily at children is changed so that scientific fact is obscured to push a non-scientific agenda? How many complaints are required before it's changed back? How many women's voices equal one man's?
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@billybragg @Womans_Place_UK @jk_rowling Their thoughts are with the victims - no qualification. Do pipe down, you malicious, craven little man.
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@sportwritertom @sharrond62 @MarkDrakeford It wasn't a joke, it was a mealy-mouthed way to dismiss a valid point. If you have to tell people it's a joke it's usually because it's not funny.
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@JayneOzanne @KirstySNP You got the wrong MP. Joanna Cherry has been dealing with discrimination, pile-ons and threats of rape, violence and death for a long time due to this pernicious ideology.
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@Neuro_Matt @DocMcAndrew Imagine if no one ever took a stand about something due to a strongly held principle, for the sake of truth or others' good. Doesn't bear thinking about.
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@YahooEntsUK There's no one more accepting and loving than @jk_rowling . Whoever that is can bog right off.
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@LadyJuanita83 @KProtein19 @KnownHeretic @my_real_name Tell work you're genderfluid and your pronouns are different depending on the colour you're wearing, how you style your hair etc. Be vocal about misgendering.
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@glosswitch "A monument to hate". Nah, that would be the number of men perpetuating violence against women and girls, creating the need for this service, mate. Snivelling, misogynist, privileged crap.
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@joenellist Hmmm let's see. When else might know what it feels like when your rights, safety and freedoms are constantly debated and attacked? Ah yes, women. And lesbians are being hit doubly hard.
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@simonjedge Jameela called a black hole a black hole. But the black hole identified as a planet. It ate myriad real planets in its rage. Jameela called more black holes planets so she wouldn't be absorbed in their narcissistic energy fields. It didn't work. Real planets knew it wouldn't.
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@PeterTatchell There's no equivalence in the tactics employed by the two "sides" so don't tar us with the extremist brush.
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@ARadgick @alicemydaughter @mara_yamauchi @Martina @sharrond62 No. Fair sport doesn't mean everyone will be good enough or that all body types will be equally good at all sports. But sex categories are there for a reason. Without them, female sport dies.
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@the_mod_woman Hardly. The original pride flag included all races without having to make them a separate stripe of humanity.
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@JamesBarry1789 @theJeremyVine She's also passionate, eloquent and brilliant on issues of child safeguarding.
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Imitation *isn't* always the sincerest form of flattery, but I'm copying Terfy in that spirit.
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Pinning this because it is a work of pure genius and I want to see it daily
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