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NAFO,Indy🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿, Soc/Dem, MA Hist, Foodie,💗 of Facts & Science,🌶 & 🐈 ND Mum, She/ Her 🇳🇴🇵🇱🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿🇪🇺🇳🇱🇺🇦 #FreeUkrainianPOWs

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@PaniKotki
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6 months
@clairebubblepop I'm with you. I work full time for local authority. Why should UC top up my poor wage? Its madness and false economy.
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@PaniKotki
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10 months
@mandalore1228 @EurekaJustice @TamaraLBennett1 But that's the point! Nothing should be 'boys are this way, girls are that' bc it feeds the negative stereotypes and prevents ppl being/doing what they want - regardless of gender. But this kinda indoctrination starts from infancy. Language matters!
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@PaniKotki
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10 months
@AutisticCallum_ I get in trouble because I keep asking clarifying questions, which some ppl take as 'being difficult'. It's a catch 22
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7 months
@DoomScroling I'm not gonna lie, to a European this has all the overtones of Handmaid's Tale. ' shudder'
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@PaniKotki
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9 months
@mightbeautistic Getting dx as an adult, realising NT's think all this negative stuff about us has been the hardest truth of all.
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7 months
@ask_aubry 'Vibing' like ⬇️ Where the guy doesn't take a no for an answer, so now you don't feel safe and are literally trying to avoid aggro by playing along till you escape. THAT vibe? 👀
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@PaniKotki
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6 months
@MichaelDasani @WomnOfValor I had a friend who only went for dad bods. She liked her men cuddly, she said. She herself is slim. It's just her preference. Happily married w/ 2 kids now. Don't think she'd be cruel like that girl, tho. You didn't deserve that.
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@IneBackIversen My best friend's mum grew up in Norway during the war. She told us how she got her first kiss during a black out in the middle of her 16th birthday party.
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@PaniKotki
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8 months
@WhatTheADHD Maths. Deffo have dyscalculia. Group activities are like watching paint dry. Unnecessary waffle, NT's shuffling about doing their social dance while everything on the inside of me is screaming : WHEN ARE WE DOING THE ACTUAL THING, SO WE CAN LEAVE!
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@PaniKotki
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7 months
@Churcheebs My mum used to tell this one. Gorbachev & Thatcher are having a meeting. T: Why don't you open the borders? G: Oh, Margaret, you want to be alone with me? 😉
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@PaniKotki
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6 months
@mightbeautistic For me, it's brought on by RSD or ableism. I'll start crying and not be able to stop. I want to hide. I physically hurt. My brain is full w/fatalism, there's Deja Vu and 'I Told You You So', and a big sign flashing 'DOOM, DOOM!', and I want to scream 'F U' 2 the world!! Fun 😵‍💫
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9 months
@mandalore1228 I remember an ex bf once saying ' far from embarrassing to buy your gf pads/ tampons as it shows the world you have a woman and you know how to treat her right'. Can't argue w/ that.
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@PaniKotki
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9 months
@AutisticCallum_ My AuDHD has been kicking my ass this week. It's been awful. I couldnt remember convos from 2 days ago, didnt hear half the stuff said to me, drove my lovely colleague mad in a conversation about procedure bc ' make it make sense' and I'm arguing it doesn't. Gah!!!
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@PaniKotki
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6 months
@Sillyshib Sometimes, going to my local Polish shop is like remembering what Europe is like. Big, juicy fruit/ fresh tasty veg, and good value. Meanwhile, the fruit and veg on offer in supermarkets is such poor quality or ridiculously priced that I despair.
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9 months
@_musau_eric @InternetH0F My 4yo raging after his best friend, Martin, whose parents are Nigerian, was described as black. ' He's not black, he's BROWN, mamma!!!
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@PaniKotki
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6 months
@adamfare1996 More research into adult adhd/ autism. Especially women, as vastly under disguised. And bc the diagnostic standard is based on white boys. That excludes POC, too which is another thing that needs rectified. I also really like genetics and would like to know more about that.
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@PaniKotki
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6 months
@Swilua Mine cried at 3yo after he was told he wasn't gonna grow boobs when he grew up. 😂 Cried again when he found out women have 3 holes and he only had 2. (Sorry, but he was only wee, lol!) Love him to bits, he's 12 now 🥰
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9 months
@neuro_lou The difference between ' I'm a crap human' to ' ah, that is why!' - is what dx did for me. Less internalised negativity and more self-love and acceptance.
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@PaniKotki
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11 months
@saintjavelin Proud Russophobe till i die! 🫡
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9 months
@mandalore1228 Wow, I'm impressed. You seem like such a cool parent. Your children are lucky!
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5 months
@AnnMemmott I work on a primary. Dx 2yrs ago and been out at work since. I have noticed the way I deal w/ ND kids is different than system. They focus on bad behaviour, I focus on the feelings. I tell them they're feelings are valid, I hold them and tell them they'll be OK. 1/2
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8 months
@i_iratus I remember a convo i had with my baby friends on mat leave. I was mid flow about income disparity and poverty when the wife of a consultant said ' people live to their means'. And to this day, I'm incensed that she couldn't see that people like her got choices!
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@PaniKotki
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11 months
@JJHobbs12 @ask_aubry The wonderful world of psychology, eh? You identify with the abuser as being weak makes you a target ( like their mother). Violence is shown as form of conflict resolution. Interpersonal relationships are all about dominance. See also A.Tate.
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@PaniKotki
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10 months
@petermbenglish Why is it that we expect medical staff to be nearly superhuman, to work on the premise of kindness & selflessness, but then use the same against them as they demand decent working conditions and pay?
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@PaniKotki
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1 year
@MamedovGyunduz @PoliceKharkiv As fellow Central/East European, I would like to add that none of their depravity or violence is new. We've seen it, endured it and condemned it before. Слава Україні!
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7 months
@PayAlleria @ask_aubry I worked with a girl who went to her cousin's really fancy & expensive wedding. Groom was cheating and the while thing was over 3 months later. £30000+ debt. Why??
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7 months
@egstirling Honest to God, I work in a primary and we don't give a monkeys if they've got eardefenders on or not. It's for the kids benefit, not anyone else's. Jfc, would you remove somebody's walking stick ' ugh, it's so unsightly'? Tempest is so wrong, bt staff have failed, too.
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9 months
@ruinwanderer Couldn't have happened to a nicer person
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6 months
@shesbonky True story. Went to see him live at 18 with a friend. On the drive home, these literal words came out of my mouth: I can't believe ppl think he's gay! 😆
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9 months
@EJPointer They now about Chernobyl like they know WW2.
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9 months
@NoNonsenseND After late dx & menopause I'm starting to think it's better and healthier for me not to work. I'm also saying no to work nights out now bc despite having lovely work mates, I hate socialising like that. I spend whole weekends sleeping due to exhaustion& masking. Gah!
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1 year
@YevYevhenii Linguistically, Ukranian is more similar to Polish than Russian 😎
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6 months
@DoomScroling @EJMcPherson94 Biologically the X chromosomes came first. In fact, the Y is getting smaller and smaller and might eventually disappear. So as a woman, I'm good.
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1 year
@BadBalticTakes Love the Baltics! My Polish mum was born in Vilnius and deported to Siberia at 18months.
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10 months
@ADHDdesigner Executive Dysfunction. The endless internal dialogue going back & forth whilst nothing gets done, gah!!
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6 months
@ADHDForReal I swear my masking/bubbliness/public persona is going to be the end of me. Its so exhausting! It's like i use all my social spoons at work and have none left for the weekend 😒
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9 months
@drjenwolkin I still have a roll of bedroom carpet in a roll on the stairs. I bought it 2yrs ago. I. JUST. CAN'T 😖
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11 months
@BadBalticTakes Voted! This is so fab, and I ain't even Nafo, just a hanger on 🫡
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6 months
@mspark @AnnGarvin_ Same. Went online at 51. Had to change my dating pref's to younger as the older guys were like grandpa's w/ zero in common. Now in i 3yr relationship w/ a man who's 13yrs younger. Never happier! Ps, was like catnip 2 younger men- dnt believe the hype 😄
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8 months
@autismsupsoc I'm not gonna lie, it gives me the ick when ppl use Aspergers. I just don't like the connotation and the insinuation that you are somehow set apart from other autists. To me Aspergers is like a 'little bit pregnant'. Nope, no can do.
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5 months
@_nomadic_soul I'm just here to say women are 1 of very few species, including 🐋 that get the menopause. This developed thru evolution, as we needed older women to survive in order to further the species. Mother nature, eh? 😉✨️
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1 year
@anon_opin Just because I look 15y younger in the outside doesn't mean I ain't falling apart on the inside at the same rate.
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6 months
@taylurk @WomnOfValor There was a reality show with women desperate for a girl. All had sons. When the Dr told the mum they had 1 female embryo, she turned to the husband in a voice dripping with sarcasm & said: - So, you DO make girls!
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7 months
@front_ukrainian 🇵🇱/🇧🇻 supporting from Glasgow, Scotland
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9 months
@AutisticCallum_ The thing is I can often tell I need more information, but none is forthcoming when I ask. Just vagueness. Then i look like a giant idiot bc they make me feel like it was SO OBVIOUS & i just didn't get it/ listened wrong. I can't win.
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7 months
@_nomadic_soul And yet, the most manly men out there are the ones who don't give a fuck either way because they're completely at ease with their sexuality. Funny that!
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7 months
@charlottor Your friends is a legend! I wish him much happiness and gardening in the future ❤️🪴
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6 months
@awt420 @aprebrue @Talyn777 Ignore the clown, folks! 🙄
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10 months
@andrewglynch @adhdjesse Nothing will cure my 'but I don't feel like that now". Especially, pre ordered meals. I tried it and it didn't work. I think I was meant to graze and forrage - but from the fridge etc 😭
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6 months
@FieldsLeaf This is painful to read as a neurodivergent person....so I gave up. 😏
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6 months
@jjfitzgeraldMD I birthed a 4008g baby + episiotomy and forceps. Few weeks later, decided to have quick look on progress. Well, there wasn't any. Did NOT look like 'lady garden' or 'flower'. Frankenfoof recovered. Me, not so much 😆
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@Libuse_Carodej @JessPected It's the usual trope that for society/humanity/ everything we hold dear to thrive, women need to sacrifice themselves. No word about men. Ever. So telling and I ain't buying.
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@AnnMemmott 2/2 It's imperative to understand the underlying reasons for behaviour. So I focus on calm so that after, we can have a conversation about safety etc. I'm no expert but I know HOW it feels & I'm empathetic. It helps a lot.
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6 months
@adamfare1996 Also, the same ppl tweeting how many years its been since they've seen their child. And how sad they are. 🤡
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9 months
@jouni_nieminen @secretsqrl123 @RockpileExecute I still talk about the time the electricity went out on my street in Oslo. Midwinter. Pitch black. -20ish. I was 14, home alone and convinced I'd die by myself, lol! It came back on after 20min. I'm 53 now. That's the only time it ever happened to me!
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6 months
@ADHDForReal It's more like the dread is gone, lol!
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10 months
@_celia_bedelia_ Carl may be freaked out knowing that the egg that made him was produced in the uterus of his gran. We already start losing eggs in utero before we're even born! We're not chickens, though. Maybe that's the confusion?
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7 months
@ADHDForReal 'I'm sorry you're upset' usually followed by a 'but...'.
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9 months
@johnbryanesq This has been the most fascinating thread! Thank you.
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8 months
@DucuGavril I totally agree. I come from a long proud line of Russophobes. Both great grandfathers spent time in gulag.s. Mum deported to Siberia. Ruzzia is a malignant tumor, it has no feelings, no remorse, no humanity.
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9 months
@IAPonomarenko This take from the Slovak PM is so weak. All he has to do is ask his family. They'll tell him what they did during WW2. Or maybe that the problem....
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7 months
@doggehhh My Polish babcia/granny once admitted to me that Polish grammar was like czarna magia/ black magic 😭 True Dat.
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@SpaghettiKozak I studied in Kraków with an American/Polish girl. Her parents came to visit. Astonished at infrastructure, etc. Knew nearly zero about Polish history or culture. Shocked that pierogies had other fillings than potato. I mean, come on! 😂
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8 months
@molls @ask_aubry Neither did I but then Space Karen happened and now this is the new normal on here.
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7 months
@adamfare1996 I have a problem with that whenever it feels completely gratuitous. Game of Thrones, as exciting as it was, was rammed full of extra nudity and gore. Pointless.
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@Nat_freespeech @makewoman1 @KatyMontgomerie I know it is hard to comprehend, but you've already shared spaces with trans ppl! We all have, in the past, present & future. You can act like it's brand new information, bt its you that has jumped on some weird bandwagon that ultimately is anything but pro women. Check urslf!
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1 year
@_celia_bedelia_ @Yulia9191 That's just a word salad 🙄😄
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6 months
@ADHDForReal This was literally my first criticism/ comment back from starting school. ' has problems understanding that she has to follow certain rules'. There was no problem w/ my understanding. On the contrary, I asked bc I wanted it to make sense! Peeps, this is verboten!
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6 months
@ask_aubry Maybe this is how they understand 'therapy'? Infodumping to a strange woman online as a form of confession? Freaking weirdos.
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1 year
@TommyLavinTST @ask_aubry That boat has sailed.
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1 year
@OlgaOfUzhhorod My Polish auntie told me how a friend of 50yrs was talking pro RU to her. This, despite friend knowing my aunt is a survivor of Stalin's deportations to Siberia. My aunt said she cried after!! So, yes. I wouldn't be friends w/ any1 supporting evil.
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@NiallHarbison Think I'm gonna start referring to these threads as counselling 😄 They really act as the counterpoint to the big bad world out there. Love your work Niall 🫶❤️
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@mynamebedan I was playing chess with my partner. He's good, I'm learning. 12yo walks in. Oh, chess! Check mates partner, walks out. Me: where the fuck did he learn chess? Turns out he'd watched utube vid of girl learning How to Become a Chessmaster in 30 days'. 👀
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1 year
@LqLana So, a medical procedure such as D&C is unavailable? Dear God, how unhumane!
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7 months
@mattripkey @GritGrowthCap I can't even imagine living in this 3rd world set up. How do you guys do it, why?I just don't get it.
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@jjfitzgeraldMD Just thought I should add that despite a lifetime of kegel exercises, genetics got me in the end. I got SPD ( pelvic girdle pain) and had a larger sized baby. Even after treatment, I will never sneeze again w/o having the fear of peeing myself a little. Class.
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@ask_aubry I don't think it works like that, Aubry. I'm still in bed when my hunk comes back from the gym in the morning 😎
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7 months
@defnotadino Please send it. Love and care should always be celebrated. I wish you luck 🤞🏻
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10 months
@StrumpetLily @Angrydomo @lingerie_addict The black death also levelled the playing field and in some cases killed off feudalism, as workers shortage meant higher wages.
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@ADHDForReal I think this is why I love cats. They're my spirit animals. And they know how to live!
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5 months
@jeffgiesea @timecaptales I wasn't gonna say anything, but....
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7 months
@EmmittTheeBeast @AngryBlackLady Rose's youngest is a girl, born 2016. I believe the rumour is that she's William's not her husband's. Interesting times!
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@DuchessTeatime @fodderfigure Also, autistic people can be awful. Just like NT people. 🤷🏼‍♂️
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@ask_aubry I'm with ⬇️
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1 year
@Lavrovskyi There's a Polish saying ' God isn't quick, but he's fair' 🫂❤️🇺🇦 Слава Україні!
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@Gerashchenko_en I would even argue that Yalta was a massive appeasement of the Soviet Union and the rot set in centuries ago.
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8 months
@AutisticCallum_ I lurve spicy, hot food so much! I have chillies / sauce with everything! I'm AuDHD & I think it's driven by the sensory/dopamine hit it gives me. It all makes sense to me, tho, as it's just the other side of the same coin 🥳
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@AutisticCallum_ Me,coincidentally switching workplace from secondary to primary school ( after getting dx) and getting as much love and attention off the kids as they get off me. Being 'out' at work means kids feel safe w/ me & parents feel im an ally. I love it!
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@adamfare1996 Honest to God, this makes me so angry! It doesn't take much to just be freaking human and show some empathy. When my mum suddenly died, & I had surgery the same day- I asked for another room as I couldn't handle the mums coming in. They did. & gave me a bell 1/2
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1 year
@ru_research @ramusvanagas I'd add, Lukashenka gone and Belarus free.
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1 year
@RaduHossu I'm Polish and Norwegian and a daughter of Sybiraczka ( mum deported to Siberia at 18months). There isn't a soul in my family that hasn't suffered in some way by RU. To me #russophobiais4life
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@AbortionChat I'd like to point to statistics that show that, even in the pious victorian times, ppl had sex as women were very (!) often pregnant upon marriage. Also
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