LDS w/an ever-evolving faith. I support ethical government & building a beloved community. Love all the people, fight for those who cannot fight for themselves
So
If abortions are banned
And IUDs are banned
And birth control is banned
And condoms are banned
There will be a LOT of women not having $&× with men.
I'm just saying.
A man at church gave a talk with Pioneer stories. But they were stories about women pioneers. He told me afterward that he saw the Barbie movie last night and changed his talk to have a story about a woman instead of only stories of men.
Mission accomplished, Greta Gerwig. ❤️
I sent two pieces of mail today. One held my resignation from the Utah Republican Party. I printed and signed it last week after the RNC.
The other was a thank you note to Pres. Biden. I thanked him for stepping up in 2019, for choosing Kamala as VP, and for stepping aside now.
On FB, I told friends if they had questions about vaccine, DM me. A friend responded with all the reasons she was against it. Few vax's as a child, had covid twice already, long term effects, etc.
I shared some articles with her.
Today she said she & daughter got their shots.
Tonight the YW painted peg doll nativities. As I listed characters tonpossible paint on the board, I wrote "midwives." One of the leaders was amused, but the girls all were intrigued. "Women didn't give birth alone. And according to Mosaic law, Joseph couldn't be beside her."
My 18 y/o niece plans to get married in April after the BYU-I semester ends.
I cried when I found out. It's too young. Both her mother and I married at 19.
I wish I could tell her to wait & be a YA for a few more years. Don't go from HS to wifehood in less than a year.
Sitting in a Utah county commissioners meeting with first time, so nervous I'm about to explode. The room is packed with anti-maskers. It's hot and smelly. But someone has to be the voice of common sense and reason here.
#concernedcoalition
Naked honesty here: I really miss church. I miss talking with my friends and being spiritually fed. I feel spiritually starved. I can barely feed myself, let alone my kids. And my husband has given up the food. It is going to take me a long time to recover.
Bishop's email today:
"We continue to urge the wearing of masks at church meetings that are not socially distanced. Some ward members cannot wear masks at church meetings for health/medical reasons. Other ward members do not wear masks because they are prideful and do not
1/x
I don't want to be ageist, but I'm wondering if having two women over 70 teaching the 16&17 year old Sunday school class is maybe not the right call? One of them told my son if he wasn't paying tithing, he shouldn't bother coming to church.
... want to be told what to do, even by the First Presidency, the Stake Presidency, and the Bishopric. Please do not judge those not wearing masks – you do not know which category they are in."
I mean, he's right, but yikes. Kinda judgey. He is a straight shooter!
Just had a good cry over relationships lost over Trump. Women who were my best friends just cut ties because I didn't like TFG. And he is a SEXUAL PREDATOR. and I am NICE and FUN and they know me IRL! But they still chose him over me.
I wish Utah would invest in more solar and wind. We have so much uninhabited land. There must be some barrier to this I'm unaware of. I hope it's not just Republicans resisting clean energy. Anybody know why we haven't done more?
If you support DeSantis, you are empowering the message that there was a "positive" side to slavery.
LDS friends, would you say there was a "positive" side to Gov. Boggs extermination order? To Haun's Mill?
No. You wouldn't.
Well, slavery was MUCH WORSE. 1/3
I tend to think he was there, but who really knows? I do believe that there were other women present though. They would have had family in the area, or otherwise employed a midwife.
Coincidentally, I hung this piece by Paige Payne earlier today.
You say "lukewarm,"
I say, "barely hanging on."
I know I need to "fill my cup" but it feels like the well is dry. I don't think I'm supposed to fill my cup with my own tears.
@Simone_Biles
We will ALL fight whoever is coming at you, Simone.
I just want you to eat some steak and bask in the love and admiration from MILLIONS of Americans who are INSANELY proud of you.
🙏Please say Mike Lee's name in the hearing today.
🙏Please say Mike Lee's name in the hearing today.
🙏Please say Mike Lee's name in the hearing today.
🙏Please say Mike Lee's name in the hearing today.
@SpencerJCox
Gender affirming care lowers suicide rates.
Representation in media (like library books) lowers suicide rates.
Women having access to needed healthcare lowers suicide rates.
Kindness is important. But we also need to use our influence in our spheres to make meaningful change.
This honestly makes me so sad. My son ended up working 7 hour shifts after school and 12 hour shifts on Saturdays. We never saw him. He barely slept. His grades dropped. Our relationship deteriorated.
We need better protections for our children. HS kids shouldn't work 30 hrs/wk
@GovCox
Working together? Who are we working with? Because I don't see a lot of compromise. I see the loud, obnoxious minority running the show. Covid, gerrymandering, school curriculum, air quality....... there has been no"working together" in these issues.
Do better.
@_megconley
In additional to all this, that means the family needs to feed their family, 2 young adult men, plus at LEAST one other adult. Fitting 3-6 extra people at your table and in your dinner budget is not something everyone can do! I couldn't have done it in my last house.
Remember when we canceled school and made teachers learn to teach online in like 3 days? We made all the kids stay home to keep them safe.
Everyone stayed home to keep hospitals open. We sent HCW food and clapped for them. Called them heroes.
The virus got worse and so did we
@jessphoenix2018
Every time my son and daughter hug me, I try to sear it into my memory in case they aren't here in 3 months.
I rage tweet every politician in my state.
I write to the governor, county commissioners, board of heath directors, next year's teachers.
And cry a lot.
Republican Sen. Mike Lee: “The way Mr. Trump has spoken to women, I wouldn’t hire that person…and I certainly don’t think I’d be comfortable hiring that person to be the leader of the free world.”
(October 2016)
Florida passed the “Don’t Say Period” bill (no menstruation education until after 6th grade), further pushing the narrative that a normal biological function is somehow sexual, dirty, or shameful. 😡
My friend wrote to
@BurgessOwens
about the speaker vote. She said, "Please vote no on Jim Jordan." This was the response.
Yikes.
Does Burgess know what is going on? This form reply is 2 weeks (or 2 years?) out-of-date.
@AdamBroud
All this "show unvaxxed people all they can do when they get the vaccine" talk is useless. Most of the people opting out of the vaccine have been living like there's no pandemic this while time! No masks, gatherings, traveling.....
It's super frustrating.
@calvinjburke
“... the best antidote to any ill that is done in the name of religion is better religion,”... "the solution to Christian extremism will be authentic Christianity. It will be the best of faith that defeats distorting versions of religious belief and blesses communities.”
❤❤ her
Small (very small) victory: after nearly a year of advocating for my stake to do anything more to prevent abuse, I've been asked to share a short blurb & QR code in the ward newsletter inviting all members to take the Protecting Children and Youth training. 1/3
Yet again, one on one communication is FAR more effective than public discussions. I promised to *listen* and answer questions.
I also found commonalities. Thanks
@PantsuitPolitic
for giving me effective communication tools.
2 more vaccinated that may not have been otherwise!
@jaaaketyler
I was there yesterday and your analysis is totally on point. I wish I had known to look for you. We had a bunch of us sitting on the left. 😁
Thank you for being there and trying. I'm sorry for how very oppressive it was. I will stay and fight for you and others like you
I passed out flyers for
@beckyforutah
at the Orem Summerfest parade! There was lots of support for her already and some new people that want to vote out Mike Lee! I even convinced one to register Republican.
@ldsbishopNoMo
If nothing else, he made it clear why a lifelong Republican would have voted Democrat in the 2020 election. And Uchtdorf's "Amen!" was loud and clear!
At yesterday's PTA Advocacy Conference, our keynote speaker was a pediatrician and legislative advocate. When asked what he saw as the greatest challenge to pediatric care today, I thought he was going to say vaccine refusal.
Nope.
Care for gender-dysphoric children, he said.
@ZoeRoseBryant
I DIED at that. 😆🤣😭
So many lines. So many moments. My husband's loves Matchbox 20 and we could not stop laughing at that part. Then we started singing.
It is a sharp movie. Absolutely brilliant.
What does Gen Z want from church?
1) a place where they can talk honestly
2) Face to face community
3) Mentorship without being juvenilized
How can we do those things for the people right in front of us?
(Patrick Mason)
#FaithMattersRestore
@loydo38
@calvinjburke
The official YW theme says "I am a beloved daughter of heavenly parents, with a divine nature and eternal destiny."
I can't imagine they would say anything that would go against that.
Nor will I ever stop telling people they are beloved children of Heavenly Parents.
@danmccay
Utah Supreme Court judges already serve 10-year renewable terms. And they were appointed by Republican governor's and approved by Republican supermajorities.
Upholding the Constitution isn't a bad thing, Dan.
.
This story spurred me to email my stake exec sec. We had just received info srom the area presidency to send to all members about spring flooding. I said, "Let's take this spirit of prevention and apply to something happening far more often: abuse." I'll return and report.
Because I have been given much,
I, too, must give.
Because I have been sheltered, fed by Thy good care,
I cannot see another's lack and I not share my glowing fire, my loaf bread, my roof's safe shelter overhead, that they, too, may be comforted.
1/ Top Utah leaders of the LDS Church have endorsed a group called "Why I Love America" as a resource for teaching members about the Constitution.
The group's board members include at least one 2020 election denier
#utpol
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@danmccay
@MittRomney
@BasedMikeLee
Vance did a complete 180 on Trump.
We have always known *exactly* how Mitt felt about Trump.
Yet one is a "flip-flopper" and the other is lauded as the future of the MAGA party.
Utah was lucky to have Mitt.
I just...wonder... what Elder Holland's intent was. I wonder if he had considered ramifications outside of faculty members. I wonder if he is seeing all the reaction and is...confused? Feels misunderstood? I wonder if he saw that video, listened to RadioWest....Lots of wondering.
Tell me how a Republican can go from liking Trump and hating Romney to liking DeSantis and still hating Romney. Mitt's "big sin" was not supporting Trump, right? But clearly, DeSantis doesn't support Trump either. Why support DeSantis and still hate Romney?
There are 748 GOP delegates here today.
Here's how outsized the influence delegates have on elections.
There are just over 367,000 registered voters and 186,000 Republicans in CD2.
Delegates represent 0.002% of all voters in the district and 0.004% of Republicans
#utpol
@Deseret
@DNewsOpinion
I'm sorry, is John Oliver a comedian or a legislator? Is his job to be funny or find solutions? People who take offense to this are just butt hurt because they know he's right.
Now when Mike Lee mocks AOC's Green New Deal, THAT is something that does nothing to provide solutions
A car pulled up to me at the intersection and rolled down their window to tell me they love my Mike Lee sticker. I'm sending out all the good Juju and it's coming back to me today! My chiropractor even adjusted me for free! Happy Birthday to me!
@lizzywol
Respectfully, I worked in an elem school last year where all the kids were masked. We found ways to make it work. Quick breaks, videos, etc. Kids are resilient. And we had no outbreaks or community spread. This virus is too much of a wild card.
@GovCox
This is what moms are scared out of their minds about today. Not tiktok. (We use Google family to implement all the restrictions you just put on companies.)
We can't use Google family to save our kids from school shootings, drills, and threats.
Anyway, had a good cry about it tonight and I'm feeling better. Grateful to my husband for listening to, validating and hugging me.
I just don't want to lose more people because of TFG.
At soda shops, I rarely experiment because I'm afraid it won't taste good and I don't want to waste my money. But I got a gift card for Swig so why not?
I JUST TRIED RASPBERRY DREAM AND MY WORLD IS CHANGED FOREVER.
Dr Pepper, raspberry puree and coconut syrup. 😍🤩😍
Is it OK for a candidate to call the employer of a delegate and say, "Do you know what kind of person you have working for you?"
It feels like an intimidation tactic and totally over the line.
But more than anything, I'm mad that he's trying to gaslight me into thinking I'm a bad mom. And he's trying to deliberately hurt me.
It makes me sad that one of my children behaves in this way when I have taught him differently.
But his choices are on him, not me.
Your 2 frontrunner candidates for
#CD2
. They could not be more different.
The First Presidency reminded us last week to choose candidates who exemplify integrity, compassion, and community service.
@beckyforutah
is all of those things.
And she actually LIVES in the district!
Peak Alyssa: in one month's time, I cheered at a Pete Buttigieg rally, attended a Tan France event at UVU, and went to a lecture
from Sharon Eubank on the power of women to make a difference in the world.
🎶THIS IS ME🎶
I didn't do anything wrong! I would share something on my wall and they would comment. They could have scrolled on. But they didn't. I didn't comment on their stuff, but even if I did, TRUMP IS A BAD PERSON! I am not in the wrong for not liking him!
Today is my 40th birthday! If you have also reached this milestone, tell me what your 40s have been like. Drop some wisdom or advice.
My 30s have definitely been transformative, and I look forward to this next decade.
It feels like they hate that I'm a "liberal," when that's one of the best things about me and what makes me a good friend. No judgement for leaving the church. Your son is gay? Yay! You have unprocessed trauma and need to talk through things? I know how to help.