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“a well-known LGBT Mormon advocate”— @thedailybeast . “a faith leader to watch"— @amprog . “lively”— @religiongal . he/him🏳️‍🌈🍉🥥🌴

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@calvinjburke
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6 years
I don't believe in Heavenly Parents that move the goalposts, always watching as we fall down, shaking their heads in scorn. I believe in Heavenly Parents that help us, console us, lift us up on their shoulders & take us to victory. And afterwards, when mortality is over, donuts.
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@calvinjburke
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Yesterday in an elevator, I ran into a finance professor—I explained to him I once was an economics major, but became an English major With horror he asked “Why would you switch from Economics to English?” Y’all. I’d waited MY WHOLE LIFE FOR THAT QUESTION FROM A FINANCE PROF
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@calvinjburke
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“When I pointed this out, they declared me a heretic. At first I was confused—but decided they may be right. So, where does a heretic go, Professor? That’s right: The only place in a University where theory actually touches ground—the English Department.” His face was ASHEN.
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@calvinjburke
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6 months
I was like “By the time I got to the 400 level Econ courses, I noticed that, rather than justifying the underlying assumptions of our discipline, they were throwing calculus into models with no grounding. It was like Nietzsche quote, ‘They muddy the water to make it seem deep’”
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@calvinjburke
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6 months
What makes this funnier was he began the conversation by poking fun at my broken toe—& I replied “I’m impressed you made that observation, considering you work in the Business School!” In an all seriousness, the finance professor was a fantastic guy & really great to talk to.
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@calvinjburke
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6 months
@REirikr How dare you insult Astrology, a system of meaning making that has given hope and inspiration to countless people across millennia, unlike economics, which has done none of that under any circumstances at any time, ever
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@calvinjburke
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2 years
The amount of folks in Southern Utah who are defending the actions of the father who murdered his entire family in the comments is disturbing beyond belief. Southern Utah, you are in my prayers. For a number of reasons. Folks who have escaped abuse: I believe you.
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@calvinjburke
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for folks looking to understand more about why English is where theory actually touches ground, I recommend as a primer “Contingency, Irony, and Solidarity” by Richard Rorty & this piece on economics by the fantastic (English Prof) Christopher Nealon💞
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@calvinjburke
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6 years
I spent my Saturday night cradling my friend, another active Latter-day Saint BYU student, as she wept Her active Latter-day Saint family disowned her yesterday after she came out to them I gave her a priesthood blessing. Another normal day
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@calvinjburke
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6 months
@mikekofoed I reared my head back and screamed, “Why would I EVER want to do something PRODUCTIVE with my one wild and precious life?”
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@calvinjburke
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4 years
The doctor I saw at Utah Valley Medical Center broke down crying bc of how Utahns have turned against the medical community when we need them most. I’d never seen a doctor cry before. That’s gonna haunt me
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@calvinjburke
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4 years
Tonight my bishop told me, "I used to be one of those people who spoke cruelly about LGBTQ people. I wish I could take it back. I hope to spend the rest of my life repenting for that. I want to make sure our ward is always a safe place—for you, & for everyone." made me cry, tbh
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@calvinjburke
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6 months
One like & I will email the finance prof “Dr. Dubil, Thank you for the wonderful elevator exchange on Thursday. I shared some of it on Twitter and it resonated with a few others. If you still know how to read, you may enjoy their comments also. Indubitably yours, Calvin Burke”
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@calvinjburke
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4 years
There are an estimated 4,357 LGBTQ+ students at BYU. Tonight is for all of them.❤️🧡💛💚💙💜🤎🖤
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@calvinjburke
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4 years
I am a gay member of the church w/ no official pathway to salvation or a place in the revealed gospel plan, I've gotten constant death threats while at BYU, & yet conservatives are leaving the Church bc of the "oppression" they feel when asked to wear a mask during a pandemic
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@calvinjburke
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6 years
Introductory page to the Book of Mormon: "Now the story of a wealthy family who lost everything, and the one son who had no choice but to keep them all together."
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@calvinjburke
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4 years
Listen I love trump voters, as long as they don’t ~act on it
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@calvinjburke
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3 years
OH DANG, PRESIDENT OAKS IS CALLING OUT THE PEOPLE IN THE CHURCH WHO SAY YOU CAN'T BE A CHURCH MEMBER AND A DEMOCRAT #GeneralConference
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@calvinjburke
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2 years
@AntheaButler @BYU @duke It is crucially important to remember in this discussion that LDS Commissioner of Education @ClarkGilbert —against the advice of Mormon leadership—has removed antiracism from the BYU curriculum and continues to veto & shut down all faculty initiatives combatting racism.
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@calvinjburke
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5 years
TANGLED WAS BETTER THAN FROZEN
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Hit us with your most controversial movie opinion.
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@calvinjburke
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2 years
The shooter was a Mormon.
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@calvinjburke
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4 years
I do not “struggle” with my sexual orientation. I struggle with the way members of Christ’s Church demean, belittle, & disregard me because of my sexual orientation.
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@calvinjburke
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4 years
pioneer trek? don't you mean "latter-day saint intergenerational trauma cosplay"
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@calvinjburke
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5 years
Hot take: BYU students belonging to white nationalist movements should lose their ecclesiastical endorsements.
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@calvinjburke
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4 years
For years, Dr. Allen E. Bergin led BYU's formal research on gay conversion therapy. He was also a member of the Sunday School General Presidency Last week, Dr. Bergin issued a formal apology for the harm he caused LGBTQ Latter-day Saints, renouncing his past beliefs & actions:
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@calvinjburke
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6 years
If the Savior came to your ward He'd befriend the single mom on the last row He'd believe the children coming forward about their abuse He'd wipe the tears off the cheek of the bullied trans woman The Savior won't be in your ward this Sunday; He needs you to be there instead
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@calvinjburke
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4 years
imagine how much good we Latter-day Saints could have done if we had fought racism instead of gay marriage
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@calvinjburke
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3 years
IF THE BISHOP CAN MAKE YOU WEAR A WHITE SHIRT TO PASS THE SACRAMENT, THE BISHOP CAN ALSO REQUIRE YOU TO WEAR A MASK. IT CALLED IS CALLED A DRESS CODE, BRAXTON. JUST LIKE HOW 7-11 REQUIRES YOU TO WEAR A SHIRT
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@calvinjburke
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2 years
“What would Brigham Young do about drag queens?” Let’s learn! Brigham Young’s son, Morris Young, was a drag queen for years in Salt Lake City. Brigham Young made him a cofounder of the Young Men’s Organization. He performed a drag show for Prophet Lorenzo Snow’s birthday.
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@calvinjburke
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3 years
When you find out Emma Smith didn’t go west bc she hated polygamy and brigham young:
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@calvinjburke
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5 years
This is WILDLY inappropriate behavior & these families should be ashamed of themselves
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Hundreds of missionaries from the Philippines are coming back to Salt Lake City today. Social distancing is out the window as people welcome back their family members with posters, balloons, and hugs. @KUTV2News
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@calvinjburke
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2 years
The entire Utah congressional delegation voted to protect same-sex marriage???? A Pioneer Day miracle !!!
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@calvinjburke
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3 years
In my friend’s Provo ward on Sunday, as the 80 year old Stake Patriarch got up to speak, he elbowed the Bishopric & asked “Feeling brave, Brethren?” Then he gave a 20-min talk calling the ward to repentance for being homophobic & transphobic🌈 Good energy for Provo right there!
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@calvinjburke
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2 years
I do wonder what President Oaks is thinking tonight as he falls asleep, now that the entire Utah House delegation (all Mormon republicans) voted to federally protect same-sex marriage🧐
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@calvinjburke
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3 years
You have to understand that waking up every morning & doing something dangerous and vulnerable, only to have it all totally destroyed—& then getting up & doing that same dangerous and vulnerable thing the next day—that is the very essence of what it means to be a Queer Mormon
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@calvinjburke
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6 years
The part of Provo dating that breaks my heart most is seeing some men feign spirituality so they can take advantage of women A sacrament testimony, Insta post or tweets about spirituality ≠ real conversion How he respects your boundaries means more than tears during Sacrament
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@calvinjburke
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@calvinjburke
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3 years
one time on my mission, my bishop where I was serving was like “yeah, I marry gay people. I just don’t tell the Church about it. And who is going to stop me?”
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@calvinjburke
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2 years
Me, during testimony meeting: “Our ancestors did not cross the plains fleeing persecution just so all of you could support Mike Lee for senate”
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@calvinjburke
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6 years
being a gay student at BYU is always intimidating Sometimes I’ll wonder what people think of me Sitting next to me in my religion class though, a girl complimented my phone lock screen — which has a rainbow flag on it :) I feel safer today
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@calvinjburke
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One time the BYU Honor Code Office was like “Calvin someone reported you for having a boyfriend,” & I was like “Can I see the report?” They gave me a copy—& the name of my boyfriend was REDACTED I was like “Hey I’d like to know who I’m dating” “Sorry, his name is confidential”
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@calvinjburke
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2 years
Can’t believe I left byu just for the whole world to turn into byu
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@calvinjburke
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3 years
It’s really weird starting employment at a university that is *not* BYU, because they are like “hello, you are a full human with basic civil rights, and you will be treated like an adult and a whole person just as you are” & wow that is such an amazing thing to experience???
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@calvinjburke
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6 years
As a gay Mormon, there's a part of me that dies a little bit when I hear my Stake President bear testimony that there will never be a place for me in the eternities Yet the Spirit whispers something different "You are my child," It says. "And this man does not yet understand."
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@calvinjburke
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2 years
It matters that the shooter’s name is on the records of the Church. And it matters that the names of queer people like those he murdered are not allowed on the records of the Church. These things matter.
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@calvinjburke
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Tbh if we had women involved in serving on church disciplinary councils, men would be way less likely to get away w/ spousal & child abuse & sexual assault & I do not get why we have not been having that conversation
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@calvinjburke
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4 years
When Sharon Eubank stepped to the pulpit, & said, tears in her eyes, "This world is not what I want it to be. There are many things I want to influence & make better, & frankly, there is a lot of opposition for what I hope for, & sometimes I feel powerless." I felt that with her
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@calvinjburke
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4 years
LOOK THE PROPHET IS WEARING A MASK
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@calvinjburke
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2 years
The Latter-day Saints mad about the "F*** the Mormons" chant at the BYU v Oregon game are the same folks who said last year "Elder Holland calling for us to use 'musket fire' against LGBTQ+ people was totally great actually," so this outrage feels thoughtless & out of touch to me
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@calvinjburke
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3 years
God bless the Salt Lake Tribune
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@calvinjburke
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5 years
In class a student lamented "we just let the gays and lesbians wander around society now"—not realizing I was there too Then our professor stopped everything to talk about how we as a campus & church need to change & treat LGBTQ folks w/ love I teared up at 10am on a Monday wow
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@calvinjburke
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Me, explaining Mormonism’s current identity crisis to a not-Mormon: “so basically right now there are two kinds of Mormons that have never before existed at the same time: Mormons who believe in following Jesus’ teachings, & Mormons who believe in following the Republican Party.”
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@calvinjburke
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5 years
Every so often I see someone talk about “separating the wheat from the tares” But the problem is this: That is God’s job. At no point in the scriptures are we called to be “sifters”— We are called—over & over again—to be *gatherers* Let’s remember that.
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@calvinjburke
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3 years
I was doing an HR training for my new job at a different university today & the FIRST THING they said was “if you intentionally misgender or mock a trans person, you will be immediately fired” & I about FELL OVER “is this real life?? At a RELIGIOUS COLLEGE??” Fr*ck yeah, get it
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@calvinjburke
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4 years
Okay but this—this is amazing. There is hope for us yet, BYU.
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@calvinjburke
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4 years
God bless the Salt Lake Tribune
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@calvinjburke
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2 years
The shooter at the gay bar in Colorado Springs is a member of the @Ch_JesusChrist .
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@calvinjburke
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4 years
Y’all ever think about how devastating it is that Mormon white nationalist can have calling & a temple recommend, while queer couples & families can’t even get baptized? & racist Mormons can hold leadership positions, while even celibate LGBTQ+ Mormons can’t have youth callings?
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@calvinjburke
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5 years
is this a sign
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@calvinjburke
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3 years
Listen I have nothing against anti-vaxxers, I just don’t like when they ~act on it
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@calvinjburke
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6 years
YOU ASKED FOR IT: The Greatest Talks given by Latter-day Saint General Authorities: (A Thread, in no particular order) (I will keep adding on to this)
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@calvinjburke
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3 years
What seems both gay AND homophobic at the same time, and why is it Vocal Point?
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@calvinjburke
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6 years
There are commenters on the LDS Living article telling me to CHANGE MY DIET TO NOT BE GAY. "Walk at least 30 minutes a day. Control your carb intake." I WAS A VARSITY HIGH SCHOOL ATHLETE. I still have washboard abs! Also, still gay. Well, all children of God deserve love.
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@calvinjburke
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4 years
Some ppl are like “tell Cal’s priesthood leaders to excommunicate him for being GAY on TWITTER” as if my priesthood leaders don’t already follow me on twitter Talking about it with my Stake President the other day & he was like “Cal, the WHOLE STAKE STANDS BEHIND YOU” & I cried
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Nobody: Joseph Smith, 1844:
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@calvinjburke
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Kris, I love you so much. My beloved Possum Friend, who changed my life, and made me feel safe when I first came out like no one else did—may our Heavenly Parents hold you close until the great day when we all meet again. Love you.
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2 years
The morning after Hank Smith declared me the antichrist to an alt-right hate group—before anyone from BYU even reached out to me—administrators from the U were in my DMs like “Just an FYI—we take situations like yours VERY seriously at The University of Utah.”
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@calvinjburke
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4 years
Imagine thinking KSL is liberal propaganda
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Sen. Mike Lee says KSL is too liberal, wants the LDS Church to sell it #utpol
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@calvinjburke
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3 years
The first BYU Professor I came out as gay to offered to get me into conversion therapy The second grabbed me by the shoulders & shouted “The Church is going to change because WE are RIGHT & GOD IS ON OUR SIDE” then hugged me so hard my eyes bulged out BYU is weird like that lol
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@calvinjburke
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3 years
idk about y'all but the byu professors who made me question my faith were the *conservative* ones lol
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@calvinjburke
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3 years
Please stop calling it “same-sex attraction.” We are LGBTQ+ people. Use our chosen identities & identifiers. It’s 2021, for crying out loud.
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3 years
MY MISSION TRAINER IS NOW A DRAG QUEEN AND I HAVE NEVER BEEN SO HAPPY TO DISCOVER SOMETHING IN MY WHOLE LIFE
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@calvinjburke
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5 years
I told my bishop about the death threats tonight— he gave me a blessing, & told me to keep on doing exactly what I’m doing here & at BYU His message for LGBTQ+? “You are wonderful & loved by the Lord, just for being who you are.” I love my Bishop.
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@calvinjburke
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3 years
Still recovering from how I sat next to someone at the gate while waiting for my plane and they said “aren’t you the guy who Hank Smith called the antichrist”
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@calvinjburke
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5 years
Like Moroni, I think it’s time we also abandon Trump
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@calvinjburke
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3 years
Honestly it really is a total indictment of us as a Church that we would excommunicate a professional therapist for promoting sexual health before we would a white nationalist actively threatening BIPOC in our congregations
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@calvinjburke
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5 years
being an active latter-day saint in 2020 means putting ruth bader ginsburg's name on the temple roll every time you do a session
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@calvinjburke
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4 years
Don't get me wrong I am really happy New York City is flying in doctors & nurses to help Utahns in the pandemic here now but tbh I am mostly just feeling rage they even have to be here in the first place, bc it shows how selfish & callous the people of our state have behaved
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@calvinjburke
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Honestly, sometimes I see pictures of happy LGBTQ+ families & it just astounds me— What was so threatening about their happiness that we devoted decades upon decades to ensuring they never existed, or even had a chance at a “happily ever after”? Astonishing, & heartbreaking to me
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A v sad irony is Latter-day Saints, whose entire religion exists bc a doubting boy asked a question— & whose religious structure is based on continuing to ask God questions— developed a culture where people are ostracized & cast out for working through doubts & having questions
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@calvinjburke
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I told BYU President Kevin J Worthen I’m a gay BYU student & low-key started crying in front of him & he hugged me & told me I belong at BYU!!😭💞🏳️‍🌈
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@calvinjburke
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3 years
Never forget: The Book of Mormon is a story about a large group of violently racist misogynists who thought they were better than everyone else, & wound up getting annihilated *explicitly because* they would not stop being violently racist misogynists That's it, that's the plot
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@calvinjburke
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2 years
People are not entitled to relationships with others! Relationships are a privilege. If you want relationships, treat others respectfully. Men—those who are husbands/fathers—are *never* entitled by fiat to relationships with wives/kids. Certainly not with those they have abused.
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4 years
Honestly her outfit is gorgeous, 10/10, this gay approves #GeneralConference
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2 years
Okay but since some DezNat person made a meme with my name on it as one of the “FALSE PROPHETS” yesterday I have gained 400 new Instagram followers??
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3 years
Holy. Frick. Gen Z Mormons rank highest of all faith groups in saying they personally have been harmed by religion, faith, or a religious leader—higher than even atheists:
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4 years
found out they paint the grass green at BYU & somehow everything about that just makes perfect sense in the most brutal way
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3 years
Holy cow the Church really updated the Handbook & made DezNat threats of violence an excommunicable offense Amazing. And, about TIME.
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Tonight, students at Utah State University have lit Old Main in rainbow colors, in a show of solidarity & love for victimized LGBTQ+ students here at Brigham Young University🥺💞 @colorthecampus #RainbowDay @USUAggies
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when middle-aged LDS women talk to me they're usually stunned bc I'm the first active gay guy they've met but then we immediately become besties after bonding over how terrible straight men are together & that's become part of my testimony about why the church needs gays
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I’m honestly always so shocked that Latter-day Saints rail against government socialized programs for the poor when quite literally our entire church is a socialized program for the poor Need food? Call the bishop. Need rent? Call Bishop. Need subsidized therapy? Call Bishop!
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wow y'all this is BYU's first ever spring break, what a historic moment
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3 years
Elder Holland: “We are prepared to lose our accreditation and entitlements bc we are prejudiced” The United States Department of Education: “aight, bet”
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Right now I’m thinking about the time at church that a currently serving Latter-day Saint Bishop introduced me to some people by saying “Calvin is the kind of man you want your son to marry.” I will be running on that praise for the rest of my life!!
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2 years
We need an American Girl doll who was married to Joseph Smith and refused to go west because she hated Brigham Young
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3 years
Queer Latter-day Saints are essentially faced with a choice almost exactly like the one we believe Adam & Eve faced in the Garden of Eden: Stay in the Church's good graces and never progress, or leave the Church's good graces & marry, have a family, & progress. Super ironic
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6 years
Please believe LGBTQ Mormons when we say that some of the things said at church hurt. Please believe LGBTQ Mormons when we say some of the things taught and said and done make us feel better off dead. Please believe us. Please believe me. Thank you for coming to my TED talk.
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@flatuselatus That’s an insult to wet sand
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┏┓ ┃┃╱╲ in ┃╱╱╲╲ this ╱╱╭╮╲╲ house ▔▏┗┛▕▔ we ╱▔▔▔▔▔▔▔▔▔▔╲ make jokes about the trauma we’ve endured but also see a therapist bc we r responsible ╱╱┏┳┓╭╮┏┳┓ ╲╲ ▔▏┗┻┛┃┃┗┻┛▕▔
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@calvinjburke
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The amount of Latter-day Saints who treat any vague critique of the institutional religion they practice as a direct personal assault on them is disturbing. That is *not* a healthy character trait
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