Are you really reading my twitter bio? Why? Do you even believe these bios? Ok well I'm sorry I wasted your time not writing one...wow you're still reading?!
True confession:
It's my friend's wedding today, I messed with the dates and couldn't get a cover for work as I took tomorrow off instead of today.
I sent my twin sister to attend the wedding and act nice...
My other friends are relating with her like it's me and I'm at work...🤣
@dedoyinajayi
@TheAblebaee_
Emotional support is the ultimate show of love.
I spent the better part of yesterday reassuring a mutual who just had a baby.
I've never had a child, so I don't understand but I've been depressed so I can relate.
Partners and family need to support these women. It's overwhelming.
I just kept laughing all day at work, I know how stressful this was for her.
It's funny how I could seamlessly play her role.
Last week I went to her house to stay with the kids while she went to work. They didn't know it's not mummy until she returned...😹
I love being a twin.🥰
Update:
The werey gave up and left within an hour.
My twin is not a people's person. She doesn't even talk to herself sometimes...
Making her play this was so chaotic... 😆 🤣 😂 😹
I'm the one who knows everyone... 🥱
When I called her, she warned me never to try it again. Lol!
@Nnestainless
They did, and I replied.
They also called when they didn't see me again, and my twin wasn't picking to update me, lol! I just ignored everyone...😆 😂
@Nonsothegirl
@BabyWhale___
Life will always get better with each passing day.
Now you're self-aware, and the next step is to stop doubting and trust the process.
Take life one step at a time. You're still that special person and you will win.
Sending you hugs, love, and light. 🤗 ❤️ 💖
@omaakatugba
100%
They are correct. In the UK, you start from bottom to top as an immigrant. When you are settled here legally, it is the major ACHIEVEMENT. No shortcut.
I have a 5 year plan to success in the UK. I TICK MY BOX YEARLY AFTER EACH ACHIEVEMENT.
No pressures whatsoever.
@TheOluwabukunmi
I was listening to a podcast today, and the lady said something that left me shocked... "Some men don't really know their friends. They just meet up and get connected over football, alcohol, game, or work. They don't know the depth of their guys because they love without
@FunmiKolz
@Remzsx
Exactly.
Time to work hard and turn the experience into a motivation to create wealth and change her family's story one step at a time.
@_Phoenixblvck
In the words of Pastor Chris, "Don't stop saying it."
Preach sis 👏 🙌 🙏
Let the delulu people come outside and see how ridiculous they sound. 😕
@Wizarab10
Can they start talking about it as a crime?
Can we let everyone tell their stories without downplaying it?
It helps the victims heal when they are heard, and it can also help in the drive for justice.
If it's not shared, no one will know, and subsequently, there'd be no justice.
"Women have no honour."
Your secret is not safe with your friends.
Here's why I don't have secrets. I'd tell the world first before my friends.
Throwing your friend under the bus because her EX triggered you is bottom barrel behaviour. I even thought you and Ada were fighting. 🤮
@Yemmie_
Hilda Baci no cook reach like this before she break world record. Lol!!!
I honestly don't mind, though, but some of these men need to hear the bitter truth.
You don't want a single mother but want to make a childfree woman a step mum.
Make it make sense, please... 😕
Girl to Girl:
Get the best education possible, upskill, travel, get mentors, reinvent yourself, and work hard, but don’t forget to enjoy life along the way.
Put yourself first, and never wait for external validation. Know your worth. Make a name for yourself, invest in family
I will spend this much for a night and will not snap ke?
I will even give the manager my phone to take pictures of us...
Until you're a WOMAN who works so hard for her money and spends it as she please...
Keep quiet... No one cares about your opinion. ✌️
@themgofeelit
@Abiiike
Which is okay for everyone in a relationship.
You only choose to miss her message. I've followed her from day one, Toni and Mandy Hales have the same message. "Get a life outside your relationship."
Which is the balance we're talking about.
The balance helps on a bad day, too. ✌️
@dedoyinajayi
My greatest joy is taking pictures at every opportunity.
I love how excited people get when they see their pictures I post on special days. It's therapeutic 🥰
@MosesIoryue
@PeterPsquare
Only a twin can understand why he kept quiet. He still did not fault his twin brother. That's tact and love on display. Big ups Peter💖
@ManLikeLight_
I'm not interested until I add a business to my name.
For now, let me focus on living my BEST life.
Paying mortgage for 35 years only to end up in a care home at old age and my mortgage sold for the care.
Abeg I no dey interested for now. Zero pressure.
@don_pet
My sister died while giving birth to her 3rd child.
It only took a stupid decision from her mother in law for this to happen.
Every day I think of Mimi, I cry... 💔
It's been 8years, my dad hasn't healed.
For every time my twin was in labour, my dad was right there... deep!!!!
@OneJoblessBoy
I'm proud to see a smart, intelligent, confident, and wise woman after a long while.
I love how she put him in his place tactfully.
Again, some men will look for a way to splash mud on you, avoid it.
Thank you, Kehinde Bankole. You're a rare gem. ❤️
@Oreoluwapelumi3
@Miss_Iloka
She sounds like the classist one and not them.
So you wanna force them to relate with you based on your accent or cos you're a London girl?
Move away, please. I say hello to people in South London, and they ignore me too, I never term them classist.
The average naija babe is
@Esau_Matsiko
Yes, our parents aren’t perfect. They make poor decisions, and they’re flawed like anyone else. I believe it’s important to hold them accountable and analyze issues critically rather than blindly agreeing with them. However, out of respect for them and to maintain peace, I choose
@themgofeelit
@Abiiike
Brand aside, she gave what is expected of anyone in a relationship.
Any woman with her money will book a trip and surprise her man.
He also put in the work and didn't give the bare minimum.
We all see her go back to her work and life after their time together. That's the balance.
@iMotivateAfrica
@Supabara_
I finally went out with a friend from uni who had been pestering me for months, saying, "Let's hang out, Bab, come with XYZ; I've missed you guys." I eventually agreed, and since I was in London with her, I called him.
He picked a fancy restaurant in Canada Water. We had a good
Equipped with dual degrees in Finance & Banking, 2 master's in HR Management & six years of HR experience, I now leverage my problem-solving and leadership skills as a Positive Behaviour Practitioner, supporting individuals with learning disabilities and mental health challenges.
@Solomon_Buchi
You and double standards 🤝
You bullied Tacha with your deleted tweet, and that apology doesn't fix it.
Fix up, man. You should be a Christian.
@bigbraineee
@naturalboifilmz
😕
Even when it comes to parents, women take the lead to care for them. Everyone knows what they are doing.
God bless every supportive and kind woman. 🙏
@theladydams
@Naeto__
Women will never be the problem.
90% of the time, these women are k!lled by men.
The killers are the problem.
More men k!ll men than women could ever. No one is safe out there, but somehow, some men will blame women for being victims. 😕
@adebayocraig1
We're gradually seeing a lot in the hands of some men.
A woman struggling for her life a "failed project?".
If you can say this online to validate your point, you might have said it to her.
N/B:
AS or AC, please don't make a decision that will make anyone say this to your child.
@takeon007
@FunmiKolz
Sounds easy until you come back from work exhausted, manage to make dinner, and your mother in law does this while her son walks away.
Boundaries exist for a reason. May I not meet this kinda mother in law and may I never be like her to my son's wife. Amen! 🙏
@Oh_Katie_Babie
@itsKenBarbie
Me too.
I'd gladly remain childfree and single than have a child and get entangled with a person I don't want to do forever with.
This is the kinda conversation mature people should have.
I love how open and remorseful you were.
Sometimes, we do to others the bad that was done to us without even knowing.
I'm glad you guys sorted it out.
I'm currently in this place, and I'd just have to send that message. 🥱
On my way back from a work trip to Nigeria, I unexpectedly ran into someone I knew from a few years ago. This man was asking me out two months after I had broken off from a long term relationship and I was still trying to heal and find my footing again. Despite my intentions of
Hi EVERYONE,
Based on current happenings, I have decided to cancel all summer plans. Please don't include me in any activities that will cost money or time until January 2025.
Thanks for your understanding!
Regards,
PEPPLE
@somto_Ihezue
I should be the standard of rebellion then. 😆
How I moved from medical sciences to finance and banking and then human resource management should be studied. My parents are still in shock. They wished I failed to prove a point, but sabi girl, no dey too like talk... 😆 🤣
@Nigerian_Doctor
It looks soft until your patient bites you and you become a patient.
Do you know how many doctors are down with permanent injuries from patients?
I've seen things, sha...
No area is better than the other from my experience.
It takes an equal level of skills and knowledge.
@BrightoTriz
@guycalleddammy
Honestly, at my previous employment. Burna Boy na my village boy. Rema na my cousin, Tiwa lives on my street. Make nobody stress me... because na every 2 Eke market days dem dey ask me "Did you see Burna often when you were in Africa? 😆 🤣 😂
@KenEhi7
@Oluomoofderby
It sounds like a lie until it happens.
I know one like that. He sold his company back home to japa. Man is shattered...
I'm praying they manage it well before it becomes a problem.
I don't care what the adults are doing, but please protect your kids before social services help.😕
@MOtales27
I love it.
This is what I know to be marriage. The unnecessary drama and cost attached to marriage these days is annoying.
Congratulations to her.
I might not be the richest person in the world but I have health, happiness, peace of mind and most importantly the gift of life. Thank you God, for blessing me with such priceless gifts. On my birthday, I celebrate these little but priceless things.
#HappyBirthdaySugarstick
🍾🥂
@OloriOfOloris
Might be the step dad...
However, he really doesn't rate that woman not to know the kids' full names.
My neighbour in London once told me about a similar story.
Her ex went to pick up her son and didn't know his full name and date of birth. They were all living together ATT. Omo!
"Everyone can love, but not everyone can care. It takes a special kind of love to truly care for people. The world has many lovers but not many carers. At your lowest, only those who CARE will stay."
~EWI
Dear Women,
Why all the stress for a frontal with a fake hairline?
I've tried 3 times, and I still think a frontal wig is a waste of time for women.
The original essence of a wig is to save time. Maybe this frontal thing is not for me and 2 others.
Signed,
A concerned woman. ✌️
@dat_deltagirl
Why is everything revolving around money and status? How about getting to know people for who they are and if their personality matches what you want in a partner?
No one can do like without support... Make ona sha date good and reasonable people. Life is CHOICE driven.✌️
Unrelated:
You see the way people walk into public toilets and see toilet rolls to use? That's the way women should have free access to sanitary pads and tampons in every public facility.
That in itself reduces a woman's stress by 50%...
My pad dropped, and I almost disappeared.
What if he has something else against you?
What if he knew about this all along?
You successfully dragged Ada and NOT EJIKEM.
Too much emotions on display...
Wisdom is profitable to direct.
Sis, calm down, focus on your marriage, and protect your peace...
Enough said... ❤️ & ✨️
@DemoOfUK
Break up and have peace.
Do not give any woman what she can not give herself else the day you can not meet up... Another man will give her higher, and she will leave you. ✌️
@dedoyinajayi
Very true and realistic.
Envy makes people do the most unimaginable things.
Detachment is better than envy. With Detachment, you don't really care about the person or see the person like you used to, but with envy, it is a negative energy that results in "pull her down
@_ThatCJ
He'd be in jail. She'd be okay regardless.
That's why ya'al should marry reasonable men, financially independent women, and also behave responsibly to protect your family.