@msthickherself
@stuckkuppk
he’s grooming y’all but i know it’s a lesson you’ll have to learn for yourself. just remember there’s a reason he isn’t with someone his age and pls be safe
@kissesfrmzuri
i’ve had a friend get mad at me for this before, and we’re not friends anymore. you’re not entitled to her business, you dk her reasoning for not telling you
@KodakPink
@ParkAveLoafers
@iamkatelyngrace
i agree that it is, i wasn’t ready for either one but that’s not how my life went🤷🏾♀️ doesn’t change the fact that im not ready though. if things weren’t to work out, i could still coparent well without being legally tied to someone
@msthickherself
@stuckkuppk
not saying this to attack you, just a friendly warning. i was talking to niggas in their mid 20s at fresh 14-16 and i had the same mindset as you and now i dont talk to anyone more than 3 years older than me
@ParkAveLoafers
@iamkatelyngrace
yea im not married, will be in a few years, not ready yet though. but my bd told me i could stop when i was literally a month pregnant, i just didnt want to lol, i definitely had a choice.
@Mya60277324
@zehannuh
he was 30 in a poly relationship w a 19 year old and i think the other girl was 28. the older girl left the relationship and exposed him for being abusive and controlling and everyone was convincing the younger girl to leave him but she still hasn’t
@Aryana_Assassin
@iamkatelyngrace
yes i definitely didn’t grow up w financial stability at all even though i was the only child, so i always make sure i work in almost all the free time i have. but i definitely am! this will be my last week working for a whileee
@Msupdasco13
@kaiitheearies
nah i don’t think it’s hating, it’s just the truth fr. i been doing for myself since 17 and im 20 now and it’s just sooo much shit that ik now that i didn’t know at 17
@AFCpez
@bexilicious22
yes, your opinion is invalid because you can’t tell black people how to feel about something affecting them when you’re not black..
@CerebralMermaid
maybe i should bookmark and update you in 2 years 🤔. dont put negativity into my life just because you’re miserable and have to troll all day to get a reaction from ppl
@tiaanax13
she definitely didn’t make it 😒bc wym nobody has ever asked to see how their dress looks and why was she so quick to send a deposit back for a dress that’s supposed to been already made
@tikakv9
@keonaaa_w
i hid mine until 28 weeks bc it’s honestly just nice to have the privacy and not have to hear everyone’s opinion or have negativity around you
@callmeePEACH
@Chaneltheboss1
@faamousstyy
i was still 16 my senior year of high school, im not getting how this is too young. y’all know majority of teens are sexually active around this age, it’s not taboo
@twig_lalaland
@Embiitch
literally?????? like these women are being sexualized by all these men that are applauding them for not sexualizing themselves??????? it seems to only be okay if they do it apparently 😂
@iamkatelyngrace
idgaf, nobody can make me feel bad at not being married at 20. my grandma got married at 19 before she had my uncle and still got divorced and was still a single mother even though she was married. marriage can guarantee stability for certain ppl but that’s not always the case
@CerebralMermaid
also a junior in college, own place/car since 17, and TONS of support from my family and the dad’s family 🥰🥰 literally didn’t have to buy a thing for my baby, only clothes i see that look cute when i run errands
@2high2touchh
@iamkatelyngrace
i know my bd can definitely take care of me 100%, i just can never trust anyone enough to fully financially depend on, not even my parents. i enjoy always being able to have my own that nobody can say they gave to me, it gives me so much gratification.
@BuggysComeBack
@msthickherself
@stuckkuppk
the thing about pedophiles though is that they prey on girls like this and make them feel like the relationship is acceptable and okay when we all know it’s not, it’s all apart of the grooming sadly
@starsky43231
@ParkAveLoafers
@iamkatelyngrace
i’ve agreed w this statement multiple times in this thread. i just happened to get pregnant before i got married, but i wasn’t ready for either one and im definitely not rushing marriage just because i got pregnant
@goldluxurie_
@Jaazlovee
well obviously you haven’t been in a position where a man has threatened you or made you feel unsafe and uncomfortable to continue to say no after you’ve said it multiple times
@BothEyesClosed1
@iamkatelyngrace
i never said i didn’t need him, but i’ll never need for anyone financially regardless of my situation. if you can’t even fall back on yourself, why would you depend to fall back on someone else?