sisseliville ✰
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part of being partnered with a male as a cis woman is losing so much of your autonomy to performance & objectification. never have i ever heard a male say he needs to dress up well in his own house to impress his lady. never.
Rihanna said she wants to look good when Rocky comes home, she loves that man fr 😭
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children are so oppressed & violated society that its even in our language to say ‘don’t talk to to me like that i’m not a child’ as if children deserve to verbally abused.
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male abusers use ‘jokes’ to test your boundaries as a woman. don’t let shit slide that makes you feel uncomfortable the first time. call it out /& disappear.
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mens learned helplessness always makes their basic contribution to domestic labour & child rearing look like this big grand romantic gesture & a favour to women & children. when it should be the expected minimum.
After I gave birth, my husband helped me go to the bathroom (IYKYK). He did EVERYTHING with the baby so that I could rest and recover. He cooked and cleaned. Any item I wanted? He ordered it. He took everything off my plate so I could focus on healing and I’ll never forget it.
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decentring men from your life as a woman is literally do or die. ‘my real name is wendy hunter. i am divorced & he’s broke’ even in her senile state she’s locked in a mental prison ruminating on the abuse that beast of a husband put her through. this is heartbreaking.
It’s really, really heartbreaking to see Wendy Williams like this in an excerpt from the doc airing on Lifetime Saturday. We now know she’s been diagnosed with aphasia and dementia
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i’m saying women should not feel the need to perform femininity in the comfort of their homes & still be adored, desired & revered & misogynettes & pitiful dirtbag males are calling me everything under the sun but a child of god? . patriachy & misogny you will always be famous!.
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calling women having fun ‘whores’ is degenerative behaviour.
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what she’s actually describing is the rape/ sexual harassment culture women have to face in the music industry (dominated & gate kept by misogynistic sexually deviant men) & the things they have to do to conform & protect themselves!.
“I used to not always like my body. If me being attractive is disturbing you, I will help you. So I go to studios in baggy clothes & my alpha mode, I want you not to be seduced by me.”. - Tems
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choosing to look good for your partner is natural, but it shouldn’t come at the expense of your comfort, especially at home. good hygiene matters, but beyond that, effort in appearance should be your choice, not a prerequisite for being desired.
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i urge women to generalise all men as misogynists so the blow is softer when they finally show it (because they will).
SiR being a loser was NOT on my Black History Bingo card!. I’m sliding down the wall throwin up!!
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how can wizkid finish his show like that? is he rude? naaa im never seeing that leprechaun again!.
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nothing about this tweet should move us, but it will because the average man is not capable of showing this basic amount of empathy, care, intention, generosity or consistency to their family. but this is expected from the average woman & they are never praised for it.
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@WTRrah bad faith. constantly reducing valid critiques of societal pressures on women reeks. take yourself out of the equation & exercise some critical thinking.
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rarely do you hear men praise their wives/girlfriends for cooking, cleaning, looking after their children, managing home admin, working, paying bills, risking their lives for childbirth but best believe they expect it. another one of patriarchy’s best tricks!.
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its by design that males do not view women caring for their domestic needs & child rearing as ‘romantic’ but an expected standard. but when males carry out these same duties its seen as ‘thoughtful’ ‘romantic’ by women. its another one of patriarchy’s tricks.
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loser men really get to live like kings off the back of low self esteem desperate women. insane.
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chelsea’s work is so distinctive.
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if not for the pain she was put into by that bastard male she wouldn’t be in this state today. she’d still be flourishing. he’s robbed her of her mental freedom, money, time, energy & dignity & all she wanted from him was to be loved & cared for. how evil. i want him unalived.
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@thevictorfald they are not whores. they are female human beings also known as ‘women’ ‘girls’ ‘ladies’.
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he’s doing the bare minimum of what women are expected to do all the time without any words of praise. & i think its positive to create content like this to influence other men to pick up their basic duties of fatherhood & relieve women of domestic labour & child rearing.
Oomf shared this on her page and I just had to share it on mine…
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wealthy & educated women are the biggest threat to the patriarchy because they have the freedom of physical & mental independence. & only a week man needs a woman to submit to him in order for him to feel like a ‘natural leader’ LMAO.
Corey Holcomb says he likes women in poverty because he can control them better! Women who are young and old and everyone in between, please strive for financial independence so you don’t have to be abused
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man was 1hr late. didn’t bring out no special guests/acts, rushed thru songs, had meedi stage presence & vocals, finished off the show on ‘joro’ (not an old skool classic or an acclaimed single) & the highlight of the show was fuccin fireworks? ayodeji, u will pay for ur sins!.
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@headnavy my point still stands: rihanna is just a vessel to highlight the unsustainable pressures on women to perform femininity, even in their own homes. its ridiculous no matter which side you slice the cake.
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another example of why male centered women are so fuccin dangerous.
Hot tip: If you're a single guy, you might want to check out Pilates studios (not club pilates). Intense Pilates studios can be filled with slender women with Victorias Secret body type. These classes are pricier but the women who take these classes are typically professionals.
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@NotUncleJu no correlation but go off. if your skull wasn’t holding it together, your brain would just melt away.
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@MulhollandL0ver there’s nothing a male wearing a fedora in his avi can tell me about anything ibr. you said a whole bunch nothing 🥱.
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u missing the fact his dad raped her? & she explains that was the main trigger for her no longer wanting to be intimate with him.
@LazarusKumi Nah bro she pushed him into a career he didn’t really want and took sex off the table almost permanently with no explanation, that was never gonna go well.
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i finally saw wizkid perform live and it was fucking sick 😭🤩🥳🤘🏾.
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it exposes the wider conversation that men are such bad people that women always have to be on guard & cannot easily be themselves/soft/loving/generous or they’ll be abused & taken advantage of. its almost like we are giving tips on how to tame or escape our predators. its deep.
You people are deeping this strict babe thing too much, it’s just boundaries. Simple and short. Anyone can have boundaries.
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there shouldn’t be one man in your life you hold in such high esteem that you think they’re above misogyny. its a recipe for peak heartbreak.
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‘men are actually gods’ you’re right on the money here. men use religion as a crutch to present as ‘good people’ & to absolve themselves of their abusive, reckless & selfish behaviours. men are incapable of being faithful because they cannot serve anything beyond themselves.
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since all you bozo males & misogynettes share one brain cell & keep repeating the same tired insults ‘you’re miserable, angry & bitter’ what would be the alternative to actually caring for your sick disabled wife & new born baby? to leave them in pain to starve & die?gymifuo.
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we live in such a misogynistic society that males can openly brag about using reproductive abuse to minimise women’s freedom. disgraceful.
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it’s quite painful to see how everybody quickly believed cassie but till this day meg has never gotten that same support or solidarity. colourism is really a disease in the black community.
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7k people agreeing you’re ugly? oh god hears the cry of ishmael.
Sir, you are UGLY. nobody is asking you for anything except to leave the club. Face is scaring the babes :(.
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@whoisnashiii its pitiful to watch patriarchy win every. single. time. you don’t owe anyone ‘beauty’.
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emotional abuse is so normalised its crazy. males get hide behind ‘jokes’ to disrespect their partners with impunity. i’ve seen bare of their content & i’ve never laughed once. most of the jokes are at her expense. & young black girls are gonna watch this & be influenced?.
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1 Timothy 2:8-15 in particular verses 11-12 sealed it for me when i first heard it: . ‘a woman should learn in quietness and full submission. i do not permit a woman to teach or to assume authority over a man; she must be quiet���. LMAOOOO am i dickhead? STFU man!.
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community means the males they had those kids with pick up their equal share of child rearing so mothers are free to socialise. no mother should have to bring their child along to brunch.
please don’t stop inviting your friends places just because they have kids. community means the baby gotta come to brunch now lol, it is what it is.
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you’ve missed the point. you’re at home. you should be able to exist in your natural state & still be loved, desired & respected. which is a privilege all males have.
Can’t wan look good for ya man :(.
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men. stay. on. code. this is marvellous!.
We ain’t takin no more not3s slander kmt.
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uno i’ve never seen men together in a class learning how to stroke properly, be more sensual or eat pussy? ah okay.
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if this was true the average male would not have halitosis, rotting teeth, bad b.o, receding hairline & terrible dress sense. my sister in christ lets stop the cap ijn!.
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- DEAD EYES.- makes all convos about sex.- tries to touch on you on first link.- tries drastic sexual things without your consent.- doesn’t listen to your sexual needs.- can’t keep it up during sex or finish.- emotionally immature, lacks depth, quick temper. - NEGGING.
Ladies, what are some red flags you’ve picked up on that indicate to you that a guy is dealing with a 🌽 addiction??.
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hetero relationships are supposed to largely benefit males & anything males do for women should be seen as a ‘favour’. & women are always expected to abandon their own self interests & bend their needs & wants to suit males to boost their ego’s.
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why is the conversation always men need to ‘learn’ or we need to ‘teach’ men how to treat female humans like humans? men do not treat other men like this? why? because they’ll die. they need to face the full consequences. be ostracised. put down like a dog. its enough.
Modesty and not having an onlyfans did not stop those men from stalking and violating the privacy of that home depot girl. So maybe the conversation needs to shift from “girls need to be more modest” to “some men need to learn what boundaries & respect is”.
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prayers up for asake, i hope he gets through this dark period & doesn’t blame himself & has love & support around him.
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i’m yet to see a reply that says they value the connection they have so much they don’t want to do anything that would break the trust & cause emotional damage to their partner. like not one answer about wanting to avoid the real consequences of cheating.
For the men that don’t cheat, what’s your secret?.
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there’s an uptick in religiosity & missionary work because ‘too many’ women have full body autonomy to build their careers, preserve their wombs & stay away from males & that doesn’t benefit the economy. & whats the quickest way to subjugate free women? religion!.
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i think that’s one privilege men have that women look over is that they are allowed to be ugly & have bad hygiene & still be deserving of human decency when the average women could never.
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men that think like this are mentally & emotionally rotten at their core so whether its 50/50 or he’s footing the bills you will be treated like shit.
If i pay the rent and bills i’m bringing home whatever bitxh i feel like from the club and idc if it’s 4 am . if i say wake up and go sit on the porch til me and shorty done that’s what i mean or call ya mama.
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bonnie blue exposes how degenerative the average male is. do you think you could find 50 average women to sleep with one man let alone 1000? the problem will always be the parasitic deviant males.
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there are people that have been in my life for over a decade that have never hurt me. that have always handled me with love, gentleness & care. & i get that its based on luck. but i’ll rather be lonely than have to tolerate people that play with me. we all deserve our tribe.
y’all don’t be having long term friends cuz u strict as hell & don’t think big picture. One of my best friends hurt my feelings and I could’ve cut him off easily but when I picture my wedding day, the birth of my first kid, or any other major milestone he’s right there next to me.
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this is why women misinterpret basic acts of care & kindness from males as ‘romantic’.
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the darkest part of the slate column is when she expressed the violation to her family & friends & said ‘EVERYONE has gotten together to tell me I should give him a second chance. That I am overreacting because of my issues’ abuse is always communal. traumatic.
I read this article how a woman divorced her husband a day after their wedding because she told him her one rule was to not smash cake in her face since she’s claustrophobic from a car accident & guess what he did…he smashed her face into their wedding cake 🤦🏾♀️.
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its by design that the average woman lacks so much knowledge on how their body works specifically when its to do with pregnancy. the more you know the less you’ll want to do it. & that doesn’t benefit society.
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you guys don’t hate males enough for me cos these bants don’t even hit like that. just bare cringe.
practicing your riding skills on male friends so you don’t disappoint your man.
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@okaybellax that’s fuccin insane! so glad you got away from that dirtbag alive. so sorry you went thru that bella 😖🤬.
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meanwhile the husbands health gets better, pockets get deeper, wife’s lore makes them look more attractive & they have more free time. not only is the game rigged but males use marriage to leech off women’s shine & spirit to better themselves.
I worked at the bank for five years & saw that a lot of women looked amazing before they got married—nice hair, stylish heels, glowing skin, doing well for themselves. But once they got married, they changed. They'd keep braids for two months, looked tired, dull demeanor;.
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contrary to popular belief on twitter; the average woman is indeed a pickme that is always ready to go behind a man. m.
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men 🤝 false equivalences to purposely misunderstand womens issues & consent. misogyny is so interesting paa.
Lol if this was the gym it would be invasion of privacy lool.
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qt’s should be enough to radicalise you black women that stay behind black men & boys. they don’t even want to help themselves & don’t even value your help. pitiful washed up bunch. take heed & leave them behind 🤟🏾.
Black men, please….I beg you…. be a mentor. These boys out here are hurting. They need you.
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they can’t accept WOMEN getting compensation for being sexually violated because it validates their pain. because i don’t hear pim from men complaining about adult men who were molested by priests being paid millions in compensation every year by the catholic church?.
For police brutality , you can understand settlements and compensation. For work discrimination, you can understand settlements and compensation. For all fuck ups in line, you can understand settlements and compensation. For sexual abuse though? Oh noo dumb dumb.
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men 🤝🏾 using religion to obtain plenty of sex from different women & free labour.
I’m appalled at the way sisters on this app HATE polygamy. Y’all are Muslims ffs!. Do you even know what being a Muslim means? It is complete submission to the words and will of Allah! . All forms of words to counter Allah’s word is standing against Allah!.
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watching women crash at the thought of critically analysing how pathetic & wasteful certain gendered roles are is always a sight. meanwhile, the opposite for males is always to just exist.
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if this was a thing, i’d be there bright & early practicing my boo helping the choir set up.
Booing in church should be a thing. We let Pastors be agents of foolishness and not the Lord.
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someone said tupac is hiding in croydon. i'm going to bed 😭😭😭.
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what you’re describing is choice feminism, which i don’t subscribe to. women’s actions don’t occur in a vacuum. it’s important to analyse why we do the things we do, rather than assuming every choice is fully autonomous or free from outside influence.
Misogyny is rejecting the fact that some women enjoy the things that you yourself do not. You’re rejecting her autonomy because it doesn’t fit your definition of feminism. How are you any different from a man telling a woman how she should act?.
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this is the main reason i do not want to have kids. because its so normalised for women to suffer in silence & not expect help from their partner but rather push that on other female members of the family. its pathetic. caretaking responsibilities should be taught.
I’ve noticed in a lot of marriages the tension between husband and wife with a newborn baby. The woman thinks her husband doesn’t understand how she feels and she’s doing all the work. She’s not sleeping etc. Here’s the thing:. No man will TRULY understand what it’s like to.
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its by design. religion was created to distract people from rising against the government, in particular, poor people.
Why is there such a disconnect between Christianity and activism against social issues like Jesus was a whole activist who fought for social justice and economic freedom! Yet you see how Christian’s of today act when things are going wrong. No support or advocacy hmm.
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idk man, boundaries are great. but there is always a constant underlining theme of these ‘boundaries’ & ‘dating tips’ that make me really question if these men are truly compatible with women fr if we as women gotta do all these things to ‘protect’ ourselves to be with them? :/.
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males don’t even come together to shame male cheaters, rapists, abusers or child molesters. & you as a woman wanna join these spineless degenerates to dogpile on a young black woman just for dancing? do you see how stupid you are?.
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women LOVE to feel like they are better than other women when its in relation to how they are treated by men romantically. it’s actually pathetic because buff or not, men don’t discriminate when it comes to rubbishing women lol.
The way the buff women flex on other women is so funny to watch. Women don’t clock it either . When women share their woes they are like “damn that’s crazy. COULD NEVER BE ME THO”. 💀💀💀💀💀💀.
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i’ll never be liberated enough to think this is not dehumanising. what sexual act do men have to perform to pleasure women that their body goes into a big state of shock that their bodies physically panic?.
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you see how males are so loud at expressing things that bring them no pleasure? but women cannot collectively agree penetration is fuccin mid (at best) as a whole? lmao we are finished.
@LongLiveK_ She doing that grinding ting that only feels good to them.
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& really enjoyed how raw, soft & open milena was. you’re right she really brought different views & held down the trio.
Very sad news about Milena and #TheReceiptsPodcast. They will need to find a third person just like her because Tolly and Audrey’s perspectives are too similar. Yes, it can still work with just them two, but someone with Milena’s view made it whole.
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hello ladies 💖 if you want the tools & support to help yourself embark on the journey to decenter men you can start off by listening to the lovely @charliestoolbox podcast on spotify & available on apple podcasts.
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& may the new women never stop choosing themselves 🙏🏾.
Men been choosing themselves and moving however they want in regards to women since the beginning of time. The millennial generation of women pulled up and decided we gonna be on the same timing and as selfish as men now it’s we losing recipes and ain’t no good women left 😭.
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male solidarity is always boundless & morally bankrupt. you know exactly what she is saying &! you’re trying to move the goal post to shame her? just so you can desperately go behind a man? shameless.
I mean it doesn’t help when your both on the same holiday. Secondly stop bringing your stuff to social media. What is social media gonna do about this situation ?.
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you need consistency to build a connection, trust & understanding. if you applied this formula to a romantic relationship everyone would clearly see how quickly it would crumble but with friendship its acceptable? maaaaaaaaaan.
Im sorry but making new friends at this age is just so long because I feel like people expect you to talk to them 24/7 especially at the start and that’s just not me.
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i’ve never seen one thread of men sharing tips on how to stay safe, maintain their dignity, stay on their life track whilst dating women but there are countless threads on how to do that for women to date men, why?.
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do you see it? . & children are a ‘punishment’ to women because it physically hinders their body, mental, finances, TIME & inevitably decreases their sexual options because it’s mandatory for women to be the default parents (unlike males) or they face great social penalties.
I have theory on why people hate women who childless by choice. They think women who are childless by choice are having sex without consequences aka children are a punishment for women having sex.
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it hurts me so much. even things like how women are socialised to abandon their human sense of attraction ‘looks don’t matter’ when picking males & you think you’ll orgasm with a beast that you’re not attracted to?.
I always feel sad when women are living orgasm-less lives. Our capacity to enjoy sex is much higher than men’s and yet so many never experience that. Misogyny robs women of so much.
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