@jon_d_doe
Regarding point number four, we face a significant challenge, particularly among African men and women.
You encounter individuals with very modest incomes yet they have over ten children, which raises questions about whether they planned or considered this.
This situation has
@Solomon_Buchi
Real men protect and prioritize their families above all else.
Even if a colleague is in an emergency, you're not the doctor treating them directly—you can attend to it later or involve other colleagues and their family.
But leaving your pregnant wife alone in the hospital,
@jon_d_doe
I am kindly requesting Men who are following me to read and heed the knowledge and wisdom in this thread.
Married, not married please let's take note of every line.
Thank you Sir, Agba for the Summary!
This was a great day and we all appreciate!
@jon_d_doe
It's tricky.
I'd be on his side if he were hustling and, whenever he got money, they shared it, brought it to the table, and planned together. If he left the woman with some money for household expenses and food, that would be a different story.
But if it's a situation where,
@jon_d_doe
Great One!
Sometimes we blame our parents, who are now in their 40s or 50s, for not laying a strong foundation for us when they were younger.
We often forget that they were once in the same stage of life we're in now.
They faced the same temptations to spend rather than
@jon_d_doe
@MorningAlinda
My wife
@MorningAlinda
and I are extremely grateful for this page.
It has taught us so much and has saved us from countless challenges. She often reminds me, and I do the same when we occasionally go astray.
The wisdom in the many comments from you all has been invaluable, and
@jon_d_doe
Whichever lady or man reading this, please let's be cautious in how we treat each other.
The tables can turn at any moment. Treat each other with love and respect as fellow human beings. Otherwise, when the tables do turn, you might find yourself regretting and cursing your
@jon_d_doe
The same thing happened to my cousin sister with her ex.
When she gave birth to a baby boy, the husband found out that the baby wasn't his. The pressure was too much from the family; the baby used to cry and did many other weird things, which made him doubt.
That pressure
@jon_d_doe
The two years, being away and not caring at all plus the pressure on him. I can't recommend them getting back.
I think this was enough experience for him.
And he was a honest man...
@jon_d_doe
But, how can you separate with your man just because of a phone?
You guys have have made relationships lose meaning.
Was there a bond or connection really.
@SheilahGashumba
You need to take some time and heal.
Who's pushing you to the edge like this?
You seem to be battling a lot, and while you may have money, something deeper isn't sitting right.
I'm keeping an eye on you😂.
And btw, some of us don't give a fuck about your age. Age is seen
@jon_d_doe
Perfectly well said!
I also don't encourage him to go back to her.
Otherwise, she give him a shock of his life.
Their brains are not like ours! I am sure she's following all these and if they get back together, she can actually all this hate to do something big!
So, I
@jon_d_doe
I understand how deeply you're in love, but as someone who didn’t finish school due to financial constraints and is currently struggling to support your siblings, I think it’s important to reconsider your situation.
You need someone who understands you and the challenges you're
@jon_d_doe
That's why it's essential to insist on a DNA test for your first child.🫨
Many women bring another man's pregnancy into the marriage or have encounters just before the wedding.
It's unfortunate, I wonder why it's so difficult for people to settle down these days.😪
@idringp
@Iamkabareebe
No feelings here
Sometimes you post nonsense too in the umbrella of comedy.
She was joking though just like I can say "she thought this was a frog 🐸", you won't be one but just joking with our comedian.
@jon_d_doe
Wherever she is, she must be bleeding now.
And that's the power of God, the power of human beings.
Mr Anozie, please just settle down and focus. I am sure God will continue to bless you and the family.
With time, get the kids back and then build empire for them.
Marry
@jon_d_doe
Hopefully, humanity will regain strong men who aren't easily manipulated or taken advantage of. Masculine men who won't tolerate nonsense.
Sadly, with the current generation passing these traits to the next, we may never see true men again.
Nowadays, women take on serious
@jon_d_doe
To those still younger to compete for opportunities:
Opportunities come and go!
When you make good use of them, you reap the benefits and enjoy the outcomes.
If you squander them, regret can linger, and it might be too late or take a long time to find another chance.
Embrace
@jon_d_doe
She was a total orphan and tried treating her like an egg.
I found out by tracking her phone (WhatsApp Web) that someone else was sleeping with her.
I was furious for about four months. She cried constantly, but I came off as toxic. She begged me to let her stay with me so I
@jon_d_doe
They will be saved in God's name!
We have lots of people who have been scammed in the same way.
Many ladies from my place here are always fighting harder to leave the country and hustle outside. And should they get a connection of getting someone who falls for them and
@jon_d_doe
First of all, I wouldn't settle down and marry someone I met on Facebook or other social media channels.
I feel that a lady who gets to the point of being seduced on Facebook and all the events that follow is on another level entirely.
Could it be that she turns to social media
@jon_d_doe
That's actually true;
Someone who truly loves you and is determined to stay with you will never move on so easily. They will always try to figure out what went wrong and how they can help to sort things out. They will engage you in conversations and seek answers to their
@jon_d_doe
My only prayer is that
@AnozieOlusegun
doesn't go back to her.
Men are not easy creatures sometimes. After getting all this support and everything, please don't go back to her.
Settle somewhere else, and then get your kids back.
Marry a good wife that's below you in almost
@jon_d_doe
Well summarized professor!!
Let me bookmark this.
You're the GOAT and always class apart.
Thank you so much.
We are blessed to have you and inspired alot.
Everything is noted!
@jon_d_doe
It's only God that will reward your kindness and the gift you have!
More wins always.
We are all gathering here sending our prayers to you in particular for this. And taking the time to interview him and getting all the necessary information.
The kids with time will also
@jon_d_doe
As long as she's aware that you know about her past, she won’t fully respect you. She’ll always assume that your actions are influenced by what you know about her history, even if you did the same things before she or her past came into the picture.
Also, as a man, it's
@Weirdconfension
If you're 40 and still losing control over seeing a 23-year-old, esp your wife's sister, naked, you're a real fool.
It shows you might even cross boundaries with your own daughters or any young naked woman. You can’t give marriage advice despite all your years of experience.
@jon_d_doe
Something He should know is that the female gender can be the most vulnerable when it comes to emotional manipulation.
Women can change their feelings over time, and being in close proximity to another man, especially someone she considers a friend, can lead to complications.
@jon_d_doe
Thank you so much ✌️
I'm carefully taking notes!
This is one of the reasons many families or marriages fail. You'll often hear a woman say, 'He used to provide everything I asked for—food, rent, and more—but he changed after marriage.'😂😂
All of this revolves around clear
@jon_d_doe
Let add this here again;
Hopefully, humanity will regain strong men who aren't easily manipulated or taken advantage of. Masculine men who won't tolerate nonsense.
Sadly, with the current generation passing these traits to the next, we may never see true men again.
Nowadays,
@jon_d_doe
Something you should know is that no one is going to harm themselves just because of you, especially when you're not even supporting them financially.
She's just trying to scare you. If you let that fear control you, you’ll end up forgiving her and getting back together—only
@jon_d_doe
Thank you, colleagues, for your solidarity and love!
Thank you, God, for connecting
@AnozieOlusegun
with Agba. We shall forever remember everyone who has contributed.
It's a sad generation, and I believe wherever she is, she must be crying now, regretting why she disgraced and
@MosunBrown
@jon_d_doe
First things first, why isn't he calling you?
Sometimes we fall for someone, but after a day or two, we realize it’s a mistake to continue the relationship. This realization can come from noticing certain qualities or behaviors that we can't handle. In such cases, instead of
@Weirdconfension
Every time we start to trust women again, one comes along and shatters that trust.
What are we, as men, supposed to do😭?
How could you allow a man who left you 20 years ago to come back into your life like this, all while claiming you plan to marry your fiancé?
Do you
@AfricanHub_
Don't these people come from mixed ancestry, including European settlers, indigenous African groups, and people from other regions like India and Southeast Asia?
@jon_d_doe
A cheating woman is a time bomb! If she does cheat, then just quit—no second chances. They will never change unless you know the reason she cheated and address it. If not, then run for your life.
I had one who cheated on me with a friend. This happened because I was away for
@KakwenzaRukira
I gave on this planet!
It's survival for the fittest.
Everyone is eating and surviving on their brain.
Sometimes I imagine the cains we all shall receive up there.
@jon_d_doe
In the end, you will still need a family. You’ll need people by your side—kids and a wife to share life with.
Otherwise, you’ll live a lonely life. Chasing the bag never truly ends, whether you settle down now or later. It's like we're all in a race for money until the day we
@jon_d_doe
Someone might wonder why he said all of this.
These are the kind of guys who just jump into things without understanding the whole story.
What a shame.
@jon_d_doe
She left the father of her child to be with a new guy she met while upgrading her education.
Initially, he was unaware of her past, but once he learned about her child and previous marriage, everything changed.
The affection he had for her diminished.
He appeared more focused
@jon_d_doe
You said it all!
Thank you so much!
Let her not tell the father for now. He should find it by himself at the right time. And whatever decision he will take, just watch.
And be good to your mother for now.
You might actually be the reason she will stop cheating. Being
@jon_d_doe
The fact that she showed him what he should have done in the first place then it ceases to be the coolest ever!
He should have done the best as a man.
@jon_d_doe
I stopped from where she had sex with some other guy outside when the husband wasn't giving her attention.
And as long as the husband is still outside, she will still give that guy at some point.
I am toxic on women who cheat...
😎
@PiCoreTeam
What has really made people not to get KYC slots despite verifying their accounts as in phone numbers, Facebook and others.
But still ineligible.
This will always delay us from achieving 15M KYC'ed pioneers.
Otherwise, if this wasn't the case, many would have done KYC and
@jon_d_doe
She tried to scare me by threatening to commit suicide, but once she realized I wasn’t fazed by it, she backed off 🤣🤣.
A month later, she was already in another relationship.
These are just games.
It's just like when we men sometimes scare ladies by saying we’ll kill
@jon_d_doe
I totally agree with you on this!
A man who comes for sex has a limited time with you. And if they stay, then it's possible that they're finding something more than that and perhaps wish to settle with you.
I have seen men who changed their initial plans of just sleeping with
@Iamkabareebe
This is complex and depends on several factors, including how and when you met, how long the relationship lasted, and what has transpired since the delivery or even pregnancy.
For example, my friend got a lady pregnant after just a week of being in a relationship. She delivered
@jon_d_doe
Well,you're 100% right
@jon_d_doe
but I just have an exceptional here.
I believe in my lovely, sweet, and darling Gloria. While it's true that women (like men), can cheat, even within a short span of two months if you're not around; I trust her 'completely'.
We've been together
@AnozieOlusegun
@jon_d_doe
Hopefully, you followed every line.
We wish you the best and hope you heed the knowledge and wisdom from seniors.
We thank God for Agba and the followers.
Wishing you success in your every step.
@jon_d_doe
Good advice 😜🤣
Many young women at 20 often lack direction and are uncertain about marriage or who they want to commit to. That’s why she might not be interested, especially after the leak of pictures and videos.
She's still interested in other guys and isn’t ready to settle
@jon_d_doe
In his case, I might just advise him to proceed with the relationship since he loves her, has been with her for a while, and might be worried about starting a new relationship now that he's getting older. Given the current dating scene, some women are primarily interested in
@jon_d_doe
Sometimes I wish, God, would reveal to women which man is serious and who is not.
A man might date a woman with only one thing in mind, Toto, yet still talk about marriage because he knows that's what she wants to hear.
She begins to fall in love, but often, the ending isn't