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23 | nonbinary | #blacklivesmatter #freepalestine🇵🇸 #mybodymychoice | i tweet about survivor a lot…sorry!! p.s. ace is my name not my sexuality :)
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it’s always “you have oppositional defiance disorder” instead of “you have cPTSD and the ‘bad behavior’ you’re exhibiting is actually a trauma response”.
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who gives a fuck if someone sits at your concert?? regardless of whether or not they’re disabled they paid to be there…loser ass entitled behavior on full display here.
Madonna questions fan for sitting down during her show then finds out they’re on a wheelchair:. “Oh okay, politically incorrect, sorry about that. I’m glad you’re here.”
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“you’re not deaf or hard of hearing but you still need subtitles?”. yes jan, i still need subtitles.
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@arcanecovet this is what my room looked like when i was in an abusive relationship and severely depressed, it’s so gross like what is even attractive about that.
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@Adwoa_Naii @wildtiktokss people who pretend to be the funniest, sweetest people you’ve ever met until they feel they’ve got you trapped by your emotions or by circumstance.
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hot take: no one fakes having ADHD, if u feel like someone is faking bc they talk abt it “too much” what you’re probably seeing is overcompensation due to imposter syndrome, if u r annoyed by ppl blaming things on their disability don’t fakeclaim them, that’s likely a you problem.
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hot take? “oppositional defiance disorder” is not and has never been real.
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@heyyitsjanea ok so i’m not the only one who’s noticed that milk on the shelves went from having a sell by date a month away to now being two weeks or less on average??.
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@genzalternative the locations of those snaps are less than a 2 hour drive away from each other holy shit.
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@Renegade0x6 @_brandynd_ wow way to bring down the mood, i think anyone involved in ADHD communities on social media is aware that stimulants are not a cure all, idk if you intended for your tone to sound condescending but it did to me at least, maybe add some congrats alongside the warning next time? /g.
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anyone who watches jenna marbles is allowed to be sad even tho there are bigger things going on right now, we’re allowed to love her and be sad she’s leaving while still recognizing the more important things going on in the world, greater grief doesn’t take away from lesser grief.
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@EnclaveNotfurry @Cairospops260 @0c56381c5d56451 @viewsdey or maybe we’ve just had progression in the medical field????? stop taking the credit away from the people doing these things.
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disabled people shouldn’t need an official diagnosis to receive accommodations.
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“oppositional defiance disorder” is a bullshit term used to make abusive parents and caregivers feel like they’re not actually the problem, it’s a scapegoat diagnosis that fully places all the blame on traumatized neurodivergent children.
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so apparently it literally took a godamn worldwide pandemic happening for researchers to recognize that fibromyalgia is most likely an autoimmune issue and NOT a neurological disorder holy fuck, ONE IN FORTY FUCKING PEOPLE HAVE FIBROMYALGIA AND IT TOOK THEM THIS LONG!! #NEISvoid.
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@goodluckbrotha @keyon lmfaooo it’s a bit, she does something different every time she coughs and it’s so good she literally sang like shakira one time
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ah yes, making fun of tourette’s! so cool! totally unexpected ableism from you ted i am SHOCKED to my core!.
They’re all dead. So I think we’re good. And Walt Disney was a Republican. Even though you behave online like a Marxist with Tourette’s (screaming “F U! F U!” is really, really clever), your movies are typically pretty funny. I’m sure you hate that I enjoy them.
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growing up neurodivergent shouldn’t be so fucking traumatic, some days i really am just angry at the world.
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@whitest_injera it’s so obvious that it’s stimming/ self soothing to help with anxiety either for his sake or for both of them, anyone trying to turn it into something it’s not is so gross and has clearly never been loved by a family member ever.
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i don’t see enough people talking about this. i especially don’t see enough white people boosting the voices of BIPoC talking about their experiences with the diagnosis and how it’s rooted in racism more often than not.
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@suminsbestie @Adwoa_Naii @wildtiktokss i stayed w someone after he choked me out and threatened to k¡ll me so i have no problem believing she stayed w him after he made her do crunches in mdonald’s 😬 it’s absolutely a self love and respect issue, but we can’t blame the victim for that, it usually starts w the parents.
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not gonna say this again, but leave jenna marbles out of public internet discourse, goodnight.
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@wittytim @billyspencer21 @mazvitamupazii valid and also showering that often isn’t good for your skin.
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i’d rather this not be a hot take but it seems like there are still people within the neurodivergent/ disabled community that view ODD as a legitimate diagnosis (whether it concerns themselves or others) and have never thought to question its validity which genuinely worries me.
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@niccoyat this reminds me of someone (maybe in his 40s or 50s) who started to explain what a VHS was to me at my retail job and i had to stop him and be like sir i’m in my early 20s i quite literally had a VHS player growing up and rented tapes from the local blockbuster as a kid 😭.
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@rejectedhannah crying bc i looked it up and all of his songs are the same this is so funny 😭😭 (these are the beginning lyrics of his top 4 songs on spotify)
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@arcanecovet every once and a while when i realize how much my opinion has changed on something i keyword search w my username and delete stuff from a couple years ago 💀.
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when neurotypicals researching autism think that toddlers masking their autistic traits is beneficial in the long run it feels like we’ve reached a point of no return.
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@FinesseEness i saw someone post forever ago about how they’re literally formulated to make your lips more dehydrated so you keep using and applying, idk how true that is but i wouldn’t be shocked.
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on average 8 out of every 10 adults with ADHD is undiagnosed, that statistic matters in these conversations especially when it comes to those who are a part of not just one but two or even several marginalized communities.
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@AviatedVisualz @smoke_nd_pearlz contrary to popular belief nonbinary is not a new term in the slightest.
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@buffalo_boy25 @inhumancosmic @JayLovesMilfs @rubyrryan she’s sharing a little victory, something she was proud of herself for, to help others feel seen and less alone, sharing even the smallest accomplishments when struggling with mental illness can help others feel okay or even give them the motivation to do the same.
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@krabfest @arcanecovet @angryblaqwoman bc it seems way cooler w beyonce’s song 😭😭 i love charli but it’s true lol.
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bro why couldn’t elon just say he’s autistic, why did he have to say “aspergers” ughhhh.
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i love @notjulen and @Jenna_Marbles with my whole heart, and while i’m not ready to watch the final podcast yet, i support them fully in whatever they do and my respect for them only grows stronger by the day, their happiness and well-being matters most🥺❤️.
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i’m not necessarily talking about people who say “haha i’m so ADHD” because those are typically people who have very little understanding of what ADHD is, but being upset that it’s becoming a more common topic due to awareness and calling it “trendy” bc you’re bitter isn’t cute.
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@bi_scotti_5 @milesandshi no it’s shocking bc if you haven’t seen the show you’d just assume she’s any other patient and it comes out of nowhere in the clip 😭😭.
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there is a massive difference between warning people about the negative side effects of stimulant medication vs completely demonizing it and discouraging people from trying any at all, many of us with ADHD have had our lives saved by stimulants, i’m tired of the anti-med rhetoric.
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drop your favorite picture of yourself below (if you feel comfortable) let’s hype each other up! y’all are so beautiful and deserve to love yourselves!!!
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@chuuzus @blursluts44 he and his wife do MLM scams, they’re weirdo “essential oils cure everything” girlies, anti-vaxx to the max, and also conservative or at least centrist, i promise he’s way less attractive when you take all of that into account 😭.
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@zoobMer @RightWingCope - women should be allowed to look masculine without people assuming they’re trans.- it’s not an “educated” guess, it’s bigotry plan and simple, nothing educated about it.
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@Sebswuzhere @violentlyepic he definitely has a sense of humor lmao, it seems like he’s fully aware that he was able to marry a young beautiful woman because of his financial status 😭
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jenna. since i was 11 you were my friend when i had none, you were there for me when no one else was, you got me through hard times when nothing else could, and i respect and love you more than anyone else #weloveyoujenna.
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@iceriot2000 @paulswhtn the ableist anti-homeless separation bars on it though 😭😭 it’s probably not their choice but it icks me so much.
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@asterysms @Cannibalicedoll do they not even exercise it?? poor baby :( he should be at a wildlife conservation place or something not in a home with people who just want to show off.
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people with ADHD do experience ableism by the way, it’s not a fucking competition.
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@SpikeGhost @johannaramm @mxmsworld i’m both disabled and mentally ill, we don’t all experience shit the same, it’s still different being stuck inside due to a pandemic :/.
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sarah. i usually like you and agree w you but fuck this take, you are part of the problem, this type of shit makes people’s struggle w imposter syndrome so much worse and encourages so much fear, 80% of ADHD adults are undiagnosed, you’re not special just bc you have a diagnosis.
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you can’t support the “LGB” if you don’t support the T.
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@arcanecovet brb gonna try turning 20 for a second time bc it didn’t work right the first time.
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homeschool shouldn’t be illegal, but it should most definitely be more monitored/ regulated, and this is coming from someone who was homeschooled from 6th to 8th grade and had to repeat 8th bc of it, homeschool is actually necessary for many chronically ill and disabled children.
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@jennacrandumb @PeaceKeeperSta @vexliax @i_Iovemybf @MantleMoky @TheAshenCuck @commentsooc furries are not zoophiles jesus christ leave them alone.
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@vvictorman_uel i remember watching some videos on this a while back and the answer is honestly expected but still devastating, it’s bc to abusers hurting you is a normal everyday life thing, it’s not significant to them, it might as well be a part of their daily routine, so they forget….
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@genzalternative as a disabled driver i’m so sick of this discourse, is it hard on my body sometimes to walk around an entire apt complex when struggling to deliver? yes, but i have never considered telling someone i can’t bring their order to them unless there’s literally a barrier of some sort.
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@tommyviIIainarc @Laika_Draws_ as someone w prof diagnosed adhd i’d say it’s perfectly valid to say “i think i have adhd based on the diagnostic criteria/ research i have done” or if you’re going to say “i have adhd” and u are sure specify undiagnosed maybe? i have no issue with it as long as u’ve researched.
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@__ssfst @robigotsoles it’s definitely different for everyone!! i don’t identify as a girl/ female/ woman but i still want my future kids to call me mom, it’s just about preference, “mom” or any gendered adult/ parental figure terms may trigger dysphoria for some and not for others.
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if a some people think they have ADHD and later end up being wrong it’s not harming the community either because they clearly needed the community and its help/ support in one way or another.
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@PRONTOJOSHY @Soapy777 @kiragoat @g7byy yeah if you have underlying conditions like that psychosis can be triggered by psychedelics, so rather than maybe finding out she was schizophrenic at 30 it was brought to the surface and she found out a lot sooner 😳.
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@heyyitsjanea also half the stuff we buy we’ve been convinced actually goes bad on the expiration date meanwhile it often still has 2-3 weeks left as long as it’s been stored properly, eggs for example, so we end up throwing away stuff we could still be eating, there are so many problems with-.
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@AdrianneKar @k_campolong @LoShearing awe poor dude 🥺 kids seem to take moving especially hard sometimes, it’s awesome that you’ve created a safe word for him and have acknowledged his anxiety, that’s so important ❤️.
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@toastmastermel2 @TasteThisSass @mrjarnottman because big corporations do not care about disabled people despite the fact that we make up 20-25% of the population, they want everything to be as easy as possible and cost the least amount possible so they can make the most profit.
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jenna and julien got engaged and he looks so much happier rn than he has the past few weeks i love them 🥺😭.
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has julien always had his pronouns in bio or is this new? 🥺❤️
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apparently you’re supposed to feel happy on antidepressants if they’re working? what does happy feel like? wtf??.
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@YouCantHelpHer @tylerjasin @72greyhounds @pacoawkward @rhysforyou @theschwasound @kittynouveau of course she’s from florida, as a florida native i do not claim her, or the majority of the floridian population for that matter.
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imagine your future children asking why you’re missing an eye or why you have all those scars and you have to tell them that cops shot and beat you for peacefully protesting the inhumane and downright evil treatment of black people by the system that’s supposed to protect them.
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@ungodlywests she took down the post and uploaded this apology video 20 minutes ago for anyone interested
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