Black men need therapy and uplifting friend groups. We don't need a romantic partner to take on all our childhood traumas and triggers as that's not the function of that relationship.
@55mmbae
This is an excuse because my best friend's wedding reception was dry and we propped the back door open and brought handles of liquor and kept them at the table. And I was the MC!!!
@smoke_nd_pearlz
When I found out that other countries' criminal justice systems are centered around rehabilitation and not punishment and revenge I was flabbergasted.
@teamnilly
@doitmuvaaa
Lady writes book about home invaders who murdered her family. Calls psychic for a reading. Psychic brings four friends. Psychic sees that lady is real perpetrator. Lady locks them all in her house and kills them each one by one. Psychic survives and kills lady.
@vagabonggg
@Boe_sike
I could see why you'd draw that conclusion Mr. Bong. I can explain it to you a little more slowly, but unfortunately I can't understand it for you.
@jiggyjayy2
"Jeff Bezos ran Amazon from an apartment"...after his parents gave him $300,000 starter capital. People ignore huge facts just so they can fantasize about doing it too.
@richcoastrican
Notice how he kept it to the matter at hand, didn't call her names, didn't tell her she wouldn't make it, didn't put his hands on her etc. Just a profane way of telling her to try again. That's coaching. None of the extra bullshit.
@loganmbattle
@latishaislove
Oral tradition. Someone told someone about something someone else did and they heard it worked so you should try it too. Same reason most of us had to pay "rent" when moving back in with parents.
@ksdotlewis
...or men shouldn't ask women to go on vacations if they know they can't have fun on vacation without having sex. They should look into potential sex work services offered at their destination if it's that deep for them.
@AmandaDannielle
Another layer I've observed is the visceral reaction to a perceived "not getting our due" since we're socialized right alongside white boys and men, but we hit right on that intersection of race when we come of age. BM misdirect that anger at BW and not patriarchy.
@smoke_nd_pearlz
I talked this white boy off the ledge of exposing a woman's Onlyfans to her Masters program admin for doing the same thing. Men really think they're justified because of a bruised ego.
I'm so blessed that I was able to get my Bonus Kid™ on her first flight to meet my family in VA. They welcomed her with open arms and blessed her with so many awesome gifts!