Lebogang Itumeleng
@Sledge_Master01
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@Ndaba_Luh
Cheating doesn't affect your benefits in the relationship. It only affects your feelings because it makes you upset when it happens and when you think about it.
But if you change your attitude towards it, refuse to invest your emotions in response to it. It won't affect your
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@pallnandi
The dating game is rigged. They want a man to depend on when they are broke but when they have money they want independence.
Men are getting wise and saying two can play that game.
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@destinyzee
English is a complicated language. It doesn't need to be spoken perfectly. You don't even get accolades for doing that. If you get the point another person is making. You don't have to care about anything else. You can. But you don't have to.
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@pallnandi
1. Lack of desirable women to date.
2. Obsession with independence
3. Confusing financial independence with being independent in a relationship.
4. No accountability
5. Not knowing what she wants.
6. Lack of femininity in character.
7. Competing with men instead of
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@pallnandi
I have. I find sex overrated and unnecessary unless you want to have a child which has nothing to do with pleasure but a decision to be a parent. This realization will make you see women differently. Most of them have self-importance they can't even justify.
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@pallnandi
It's not unconditionally if money is involved. Money is a condition to which that man is loved. Isnt it?
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@Mlu__N7
A happy man doesn't exist. Whoever claims to be happy as a man is a liar. He probably confuses having money and material things as happiness like women do.
A man is not supposed to be obsessed with hedonism. He needs to grow a pair and take on life just as it is because he is
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@JustDineo_
Forcing them to go to school is just as evil because you are programming them to do what you want as opposed to letting them decide for themselves what to do. Maybe they want to be independent thinkers. School doesn't teach people that.
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@tsakihyp
Because cheating is not always a result of unhappiness
It could be a bad habit caused by men's failure to control their sexual desires and women's unregulated LOVE OF MONEY and material things
Sometimes it's caused by lack of intimacy as punishment for unmet expectations.
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@KaroroMitchelle
Because we understand the rules. No means no and mind games is for children and the immature.
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@Miz_Ruraltarain
I have 3 questions:
1. How do you get into another country without identity and travelling documentation?
2. Aren't you supposed to be arrested and deported back to your country?
3. What is xenophobic about these questions?
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@_Makhanya_
@Ms_Logical
I have seen a couple of them who believe men are the ones who supposed to keep the fire burning. They were decieved by all romantic rhetorics which plays more emphasis on the men being romantic and the woman being the receiver of romance.
This nonsense about love being romantic
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@TwaRSA26
Because a car and house serve different purposes and therefore have different benefits. The two shouldn't be compared with each other.
It is one's priorities in life that determine which one is much needed and should be bought first.
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@MaleAdvocate28
It doesn't make sense to pursue another person only to bring them into your life to give them your money, feed them, clothe them, put roof over their head, make them cum, and still cater to their emotional needs.
This game is rigged beyond comprehension.
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@AyandaTankiso
That's a wishful thinking. South Africa has more foreigners than any other African country and they all like it here. If South Africa was as bad as most make it out to be we would be seeing the multitudes of foreigners leaving, including some South Africans who participate in the
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@Thembisile_Q
In addition, ladies. No one goes into a relationship blindfolded. Your choice of a man is very important.
And remember, you are responsible for what you agree to in a relationship. Don't do something you don't want and say a man decieved you, manipulated you or tricked you.
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@sellomkn
The concept of Ubuntu in SA has never been anything practical. It has always been a subject of political rhetorics but never carried out practically post 1994.
Generally people look out for themselves and some capitalise on other people's misery for personal gratification.
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@r0timi_Snr
Nope. Getting a job is not a blessing if people can get it through corruption, nepotism and favoritism. You don't measure how blessed you are by getting something another person can steal, lie, extort, and manipulate the system to get it.
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@eNCA
Xenophobia is a made up term invented to insult South Africa because there's a general expectation on South Africa to do better and not be hateful on fellow Africans like other African countries.
Who exactly decided to put South Africa on a pedestal to be used as an example for
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@GodPenuel
Quick question: How did ladies in the modern world become so stupid that even men have to teach them obvious things?
Women of the past were smarter than this.
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@_LeratoMabuza
They don't use their education to measure or increase their worth or self-importance when dealing with their marital affairs
They only do that with dealing with people outside of their union with their partners. They don't know what education contribute in their marriage exactly
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@pallnandi
The battle between feelings and reality. Reality always wins, irrespective of how you feel about her.
Even if you have to fake what's real to achieve what you were supposed to get naturally, reality still wins because you are still copying what is real to get the same
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@pallnandi
Because humans are the only species that want to be asked, pay or paid for sex as opposed to giving it away as a natural obligation.
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@MrBlackOG
Land. Something we all found here on Earth, which doesn't even belong to anyone but people still thought it makes sense to sell with exorbitant amount of money.
Why can't Land be given for free and only charge for municipal services like water and refuse collection?
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@ChrisExcel102
She's talented, alright. I could listen to her present all the day all night and never get bored. She sure knows how to capture the audience and viewers.
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@pallnandi
Marriage is for sustenance of purity. It requires a woman to be a virgin. which is where the practice of bridal price or lobola came from. To appreciate her for keeping herself pure.
A man, on the other hand, doesn't have hymen. So the concept of virginity doesn't apply to him
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@ChrisExcel102
I find it funny that even after all that feminism has achieved, women are still expecting to be pursued or approached for the relationship. Why?
Don't they realize that they can do anything men can do? This includes asking men out, courting and taking them out on dates. Why
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@Shadaya_Knight
The rationality behind it is:
if a person doesn't like what you post. To them they are victims because you are hurting their feelings
So they don't necessarily want you to block them. They want you to post things they like. If you block them you are victimising them again. 🤣
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@firdaouzz
The lies continue. If you have to lie and deceive a person for them to do what they are supposed to do naturally, for their own pleasure.
It means something is wrong with them. Not you.
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@destinyzee
Saying something is "completely untrue", and try to support the statement about what you believe and hope SHOULD BE HAPPENING as opposed to saying what is actually happening is not a good way to refute anything.
The line between expectation and reality is not that blur.
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@Ori_RSA
This app will show you that you are all sinners. The worst sinners are those who usually get offended when their sin is exposed because they are too judgemental yet try to get holier than thou. Especially the so-called celebrities.
Morality and ethics are just concepts we use
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@JustDineo_
Let? It's not up to me. My wife is the owner of the house, she knows female nature better than I do and women don't like each other. I'm defeated already. 🤣
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@Musa_Khawula
They are refusing to move on with times and claim independence feminism fought for and made available for them. This is really confusing because the same men from whom money is expected are competing for jobs with other women to make money to give to their women.
The confusion
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@fanamokoena
This is one the reason some of us don't take politicians serious. They keep mocking us and insulting our intelligence with cheap sarcasm.
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@_BlackZA
Lol... don't worry. Any person can do this depending on how they use their money. It is not demonstration of richness, but a simple choice on how you use your money.
Some people use theirs differently by paying for their kids' expensive education, expensive cars, and get married
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@B_Yandaa
Men, in general, are weak. Immediately when they get money, they don't think about spoiling themselves, going on vacation, and exploring the world. Instead, he brings a woman in his life and gives her his money. Some make children and increase the financial burden they placed on
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@KaroroMitchelle
Loving someone and keeping them are two different things. You don't need money to love anyone, all you need is feelings of attraction and a decision to be in a relationship with that person and then love them. Money has nothing to do with that.
If you need money to be kept then
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@pallnandi
Love is for a man to give. I don't trust a woman who says she loves me. This is because a man is capable of loving a woman even when she is broke and deep in poverty. A women's love is driven and motivated by money and material things.
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@ChrisExcel102
Unfortunately, there are simps who help women think it's offensive to NOT prefer a woman on a basis of her being a single mother, and how she looks.
Women have recruited a lot of simps to join them in this thing. Before having a preference can be normalized and accepted for men,
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@FabAcademic
Weeeee... I think I will do the dishes after this meal. The kitchen is on fire!
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@uLolo_mmkhize
Can't she be peaceful and well mannered because it's just her character to be sweet and kind but not because her man is treating her like a princess?
Why should a woman's behavior always be associated with the treatment she's receiving from her man?
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@lekoloanemanam2
Poor people talk about money they don't have.
Rich people talk about material things they have.
Wealthy people talk about ways and ideas to make money. And they don't talk with just anybody.
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@complexrori
Men have no kids. Kids belong to women, and men only help women get them.
If you do a social experiment and ask random people on the streets: to whom does a child belong between men and women?
They won't even stutter or think twice about it. They will tell you exactly that
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@GodPenuel
And both of them will never put you on a pedestal because your self-importance doesn't mean anything to them.
You are just a church member like other church members, and you are just an employee like other employees. You are not important.
You see why you should only submit to
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@PSAFLIVE
In South Africa, people join the police, the army and private security companies because of lack of employment. Most aren't even concerned about looking the way they are supposed or expected to. Feeding their families is all they care about.
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@EL_Shade_E
@NoloBoqwana
When someone says "Modimo le badimo", (God and Ancestors) and the other one says: "Modimo wabo Abraham". (The God of Abraham). They are not saying the same thing.
One is an ancestral believer who places Ancestors and God in the same category, and give them same respect. The
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@RefilweSeboko
I don't feel anything because feelings weren't involved in it. It was just a Meaningless exercise and shouldn't be dwelt much into. The fact that I came back home should mean something.
It's like getting a quick snack at a restaurant even when there's food at home. It doesn't
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@collinstimbela
There's no excellence in academics. Politicians understand this way better than anyone else, that's why some of them don't have academic qualifications but they're living the best lives some most of us can only wish and hope for.
We were sold a lie in academic education. Even
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@GodPenuel
These are the type of questions they use at school to trick you into answering a question to which answers are already given
And then people graduate thinking they are smart because they got the answers right based on the question paper memo.
None of the them is my answer
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@Am_Blujay
That's a hurt man being honest about how he feels. Losing a child is a painful experience that gradually subside as you progress with life.
But having a child you can't be part of his life because of baby mama drama and still expected to pop out money for him because you are
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@_BlackZA
That's right. If your parents couldn't have kids then infertility wouldn't be your issue because you won't be here to experience it.
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@Mlu__N7
Whoever said anything about unhappy man?
Depression is what you get because of your entitlement and self-importance. If you think you deserve to be happy you will be depressed if your expectation is not met and fulfilled. You don't have to be happy. But that doesn't mean you
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@Thembisile_Q
South Africa is not a real place. It is a direction to somewhere in Southern part of Africa, where people go there to do as they please.
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@Tsele_MK
When a man refuse to date a woman who is after his money and expect him to buy her things instead of asking her own father or looking for job, it's because he doesn't want to deal with the drama of being called stingy or broke.
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@ChrisExcel102
Any feminist who attacks a woman is proving that feminism agenda is neither about women nor is it for women. That's all the proof you need.
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@robertmarawa
@jerome_k_damon
Not necessarily. Because what you are saying is not a reflection of the reality of what happens in the field of play during a game. We see players take free kicks quickly all the time without necessarily waiting for their opponents to organize their defense because they are
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@KingDon_za
Like what's the standard for her beauty?
How much does it cost to maintain?
Is the financial burden for this beauty going to placed on you?
How does her outward look compliment her inward look?
Is she obsessed with outward appearance?
How is this look going to benefit you?
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@sellomkn
There will never be a time for that kind of discussion because women are generally disinterested in things which don't benefit them, and more likely to expose them.
I think paternity test should be made compulsory in all health facilities where children are born.
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@ChrisExcel102
The weakness in modern men is extremely embarrassing. Our patriarchal male predecessors must be tossing and turning in their graves, seeing how weak we have become.
It all started with paying lobola for non-virgins, being providers as boyfriends and paying for sex.
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@SithaleKgaogelo
They probably don't see a point because there's no sufficient political education for people who need it the most.
Politicians are at each other throats, everyone seeking their own way. Most voters don't know what is in it for them coz they vote every 5 years yet suffering.
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@malopemojapelo
@pallnandi
They wouldn't have to do that if hymen owners protected their hymen from being punctured. Would they?
A man has no power to sleep with any woman who doesn't want to sleep with him. He only initiates it, which it's her own prerogative to agree or disagree. That's what consent is
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@ChrisExcel102
Having no money is not a problem for a man. So, how others sees him is none of his business.
Just say that the society have prostituted women and encourage them to monetize themselves in relationship with men. When a man has no money to give to a woman he is useless in her
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@RefilweSeboko
Actually, marriage doesn't benefit men. Men pay ridiculous amount for lobola, and still have a lifetime debt/financial responsibility towards his family which he assumes simply because he decided to get married and have children.
A woman doesn't have to work to provide for the
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@pallnandi
Those are religious concepts. Without religion there's no need to be empathic, loving, caring, and tolerant to anything because everything is a matter of opinion and no one should actually care about what anyone else think.
Life would be all about survival of the fittest,
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@Manqoba_Mbuli
Asking for money from a man simply because he says he loves you is the most manipulative some ladies do with no shame. They know it won't be easy for him to deny them because most men are suckers for love. They can't handle feminine energy and certainly don't know how to deal
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@ChrisExcel102
Absolutely! We are all sinners, and our behavior doesn't define us.
What defines us is our talents, skills, and contributions in the human family. Whether it's through music, entertainment, or construction of buildings and roads for our convenience. It makes no difference.
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@KingDon_za
There's so many things to miss when viewing women outwardly using their looks and overall physical appearance.
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@Kearabile_
You don't, because they could surprise you by doing good for themselves and suddenly become your type.
All the nonsense about types are simply our own judgement of people based on the present circumstance of their lives, and therefore a lie.
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@ChrisExcel102
South Africa is done. Finished! The only thing that is left is for us to live by Faith. I feel sorry for those who hate religion. Having hope in your leaders is equivalent to living without hope.
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@Chymamusique
Change their lifestyle or upgrade their lives by adding more financial responsibilities prematurely.
Everything takes time. There's no reason to put yourself under immense pressure to prove that you are working.
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@collinstimbela
Simple, I don't have unnecessary financial burden I imposed on myself as it is a norm for most people.
Most people thought were suffering until they got a job and started paying for things they didn't have to pay for before. And now they are suffering. That's not my experience.
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@Shadaya_Knight
Having a child because you are running out of time is not a good reason to have one.
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@mbalis_bakery
This is why Paul said:
"I do not permit a woman to teach... she must be quite." (1 Timothy 2:12)
This had nothing to do with patriarchy, sexism or misogyny. It was about protecting them, Because once you speak you're judged by what you say. So stop teaching what you don't know
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@dramadelinquent
I think a professor would know better. At least, that is the impression academic education is giving us.
Supporting a person's talent and contribution in the entertainment and music industry is not the same as endorsing his behavior. Whatever the behavior is. I could be wrong,
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@mbalis_bakery
Exactly. Love is for a man to give. That's why the relationship starts by a man declaring his love for a woman, invite her in a relationship with him, and all she's required to do is to accept the man's love and agree to be in a relationship with him.
The second thing that
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@Shadaya_Knight
It's easy to get a woman to do what you want at a workplace, than it is anywhere else.
How?
By telling her it's part of the job and team building. She will do it and enjoy doing it. This includes things she won't even imagine doing with her husband because he's either boring
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@Mo_Magoda
Black people will never unite for the sake of achieving common goals. Even if you pay them, they will still find something to cause divisions amongst themselves.
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@AdvoBarryRoux
A typical example of how education is just about indoctrination and programming people NOT to think independently and be critical thinkers in their own right.
It's interesting how this would even be considered "nonsense" when its actually congruent with reality. Lol
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@AdvoBarryRoux
It's because most of them worked and stayed far away from their families and the chances of them getting caught were very slim.
There was no need for their suspected cheating to be investigated, their wives weren't squeaky clean either. Most men died raising kids not theirs.
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@GodPenuel
Consent should be clarified because it seems the word has multiple interpretations. Are we headed to a point where sex requires a written contract like marriage?
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@ChrisExcel102
They are not actually broke. They have to act broke to monitise themselves because that's what being in a relationship means for them.
It's an unwritten rule for ladies to expect payment just for being in a relationship. That's why some of them are quite honest and bodly say it
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@ChrisExcel102
Exactly. A woman's anger is always temporary. This is always revealed in the following situations.
1. She can forgive a man and accuse other ladies of trying to steal him if he's cheating. Especially if that man is rich or funding her expensive lifestyle.
2. She can forgive
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@AdvoBarryRoux
It is a success! You don't have to stretch your imagination even the slightest to see it
It is most people's wish, and a reality for few. The society makes it looks easy to achieve it, but then make it hard for family oriented men to participate in the economy and make it real
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@SizweDhlomo
Exactly. There's something more fulfilling about the presence of the father in a child’s life. It is not something you can explain or demonstrate, you can only experience it.
If you didn't experience it, you would not relate.
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@GodPenuel
And spending half of their lives pursuing academic education which doesn't yield any positive result at the end, but leave them bitter and angry. If people actually taught their children about the practicality of agriculture like crop production and animal farming in an early
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@pallnandi
Why even make him pay when the child doesn't even belong to him?
There's a general assumption that children belong to women by virtue of women giving birth to them. A man can only claim ownership of the child if he can prove that their mother is incompetent, neglectful, and
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@Capitol_HaYWhY
@pallnandi
Stimulating your mind through sexual pleasure is not a necessary human act. You won't die if you don't have your mind stimulated that way because there are other ways to relieve stress which doesn't need sexual pleasure,
like going to a gym and participating in other physical
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@Solphendukaa
No need to apologize because I'm wasn't aware that you were bothering me. That should be your response.
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@ChrisExcel102
Because most men have been successfully indoctrinated to believe that they exist for women. To make women's lives easier and enjoyable even at their own demise.
When you detach women and their expectations from your ideal type of life as a man. You will see life differently.
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@ApheleleJody
I understand her concern because certain behaviors can also be nurtured as much as some are natured - nature vs nurture.
We're not always born to do what we do. We can also be taught how to do it through behavior modeling and constant repetition even as adults. Think about it.
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@moflavadj
@DJNAVES
Rele did the same thing to Zungu, Saleng did to Jali on the same cup game. The flair of football.
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@KingDon_za
If I can't have it for free then I don't need it. I can live without it.
Imagine how the world would've been if all men had this mentality.
No human would ever think they're special than others coz they think they have something the other person need like the ability to cook.
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@ChrisExcel102
Damn, this reminds me why it's important to only forgive evil things done to you but not who actually did them.
There's a lesson there.
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@Ese7391
Yes, not all mental disorders have been officially declared because they are deemed offensive and controversial. So we have to live with mentally disturbed people and act like everything is normal.
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@KakwenzaRukira
The same way you explain to them how your brain forgets to remember what you learned at school but still remember to forget it.
The same way you explain to them how you can't use your eyes to see your eyes.
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@Chymamusique
It's not an expire date. It's BB date. Which means the bread will be Best for consumption if eaten Before that date.
If that said date has past, the bread can still be eaten although it won't be soft. But if it doesn't have mold or greenish stuff on it. You can still eat it.
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