Unemployment hits different when you’re a man. Family treats you differently. People lose respect for you. Nobody cares about you and what you say. Family is only nice when you have something to offer. May the universe be kind to our unemployed brothers
No disrespect to anyone.. but I wasn’t raised to live with a man and still be struggling 🤷🏽♀️. it’s suppose to become easier NOT HARDER...I can struggle by myself....
Someone posted, “What’s an area you lack in friendship?” and someone replied , “If you voluntarily don’t tell me your business, i won’t ask. That doesn’t mean I don’t care about you, I avoid nosiness in case you aren’t comfortable talking about it”
Husband is relaxing in the house, wife
is washing a mountain of clothes outside under this sun. After this, she'll go and cook. They do this every Saturday and they both go to work from Monday to Friday. You see this kind of marriage? I reject it for all my female friends
Man i envy people who had no generational curses to break. Their homes did not need rebuilding, they studied, got jobs and are living their best life, this thing that we are in is hard.
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Until you date a caring man (I didn’t say rich), you’ll understand that men love to provide for their woman. They don’t wait to be asked, they genuinely find joy in doing it, they take initiative, they take pride in taking care of her.💯
I’ve realized a lot of men really don’t like women being women anymore. You can’t complain, can’t be a lil dramatic sometimes, can’t be sensitive, etc…. It’s almost like they want to be in a relationship with a man.
Leaving a toxic relationship without a child is a big win, i need women to be stingy with their wombs.Don't carry a child for a confused or a toxic man.
Unless a man sets you down and says, "I am ready to be in a committed relationship." I want you to be my woman," and you agree, don't assume you already are. It makes no difference what he does for you, how much you've given him, or what you do together.
I just blocked someone that I really love, because I'm tired of being the one always giving & trying. I deleted their number and just decided to live my life without them. We support those who support us and letting go of toxic relationships/friendships, we are too old to be
Men can lose their job, be in a bunch of debt, lose their parents, have no friends at all whilst going through a divorce and all they will say is “I’ll figure it out”. They are truly built different. Men you are appreciated! I’m SORRY that love is only primarily expressed on
No amount of trauma life has put me thru has erased my desire to be a good person. If anything, it's reinforced the fact that I will always strive to be as kind as I can.
I WANNA BE A WIFE ❤️😍 but I want to be a happy wife. A submissive wife. A cooking wife.A loving wife . A sexy wife. A peaceful wife. A secure wife. A comfortable and safe wife. I want to be a honorable wife to a honorable,ambitious, hardworking , LOYAL , loving husband
People cheat because they're cheaters. Not because you can't cook, or you didn't give enough sex, or you got into an argument. There's nothing someone can do differently to not get cheated on except find someone who isn't interested in cheating.
Some of us are at a point where we don’t know whether we’re cursed or we aren’t trying hard enough.Or God is just basically delaying the process deliberately or better days aren’t meant for us💔💔
Celibacy becomes very easy for a woman when she realizes that there is literally no man worth being involved with if he isn't helping to improve her life and loving her correctly. She can go months on top of months, it’s really nothing
Having people that love you is one thing. But having people who still love you when you’re a burden, still love you when things are a mess, still love you when you’re in the wrong…those are your people. To truly be loved is to still be loved when it’s inconvenient to love you.
Guys, if you lose interest in a person, please make them aware. The coldness in your tone and texts, the emptiness in your hugs, the empty spaces in your conversations... calls not answered, those things hurt more than if you were to tell the truth,
There's something called GRACE OF GOD, when it locates you it's doesn't inspect your certificates, it doesn't listen to your grammar. It simply CHANGES the story of your LIFE!!
I honestly don't wanna be strengthened by difficult situations and be tested anymore. I'm tired. I want soft experiences that teach me God's grace and gentleness towards me.
You can heal all you want and no longer be emotionally attached to someone but still feel that ache in your chest when something reminds you of them, because deep down you’ll never understand why you were treated so wrong when all you were tryna do was make them happy.
I love when a man naturally keeps me updated with his day and is happy to check in and just let me know he's thinking about me. It's really the small things that mean the most to me.
Ladies please go to school, work hard, and become something in life. Relationships/Marriage is not a career and a man isn't a financial breakthrough. Get your own funds!
The way coloureds last longer in relationships should really be studied😭. Those people can start dating in high school, get married, have kids and grow older together 🥹🤌🏻
People are no longer excited to go Home in December. Things are different, there is no money, we’ve lost loved ones, families ain’t united anymore, 💔
How are we gonna celebrate festive?!😔
Do you guys know the pain of applying, applying ,applying, sending endless emails of applications😭😢not getting any response😭At the end of the day you end up giving up even when you see some posts you don't even bother because you know you wont get 😭