Afrotopian Christian Wife & Mom. Views expressed are my own. For spiritual guidance WhatsApp on +27 (63) 776-0660, no calls unless by prior arrangement.
Conclusion. Be of service to the world. That’s your gift.
Do the creative thing, not for the money but doing something that’s beautiful from your heart.
@rupaul
In Zulu cosmology the Creator (UMdali/uMenzi) has 7 aspects or messengers known by some as gods because they had greater power and consciousness than human beings. The number 7 is a sacred symbol of divine fullness. Each had a divinely ordained function.
We recently celebrated our 20th Wedding Anniversary. Thank you for all the lovely messages and good wishes. For those asking How did we manage to stay married? TBH, I don’t have all the answers. Looking back here’s what I learnt. A Thread
Candle Colour basics for prayer & communication with your spirit guides.
These + the white correspond to the 7 chakras. The purpose of the candles is to focus your intentions - whether good or bad. You can annoint them with oil to remove energies attached to them before lighting
Surprising signs of negative energy sent your way.
1. Stuff breaking down in your house, like roof leaks, ceiling caving in, geyser bursts - really expensive home repairs.
2. Flu-like symptoms that don’t respond to conventional or herbal treatment
3. Unexplained fatigue.
@Nomcebo_Sibisi
@tanyajunghans
To this day, white medical professionals underestimate or downplay pain experienced by black patients and misdiagnose them as a result. It enabled them to do painful experiments & procedures on black women in America for decades.
I’m a Christian who is rediscovering her roots. I’m learning to practice what my ancestors lived by before colonialism & religious conditioning. Sometimes it involves using herbal medicine, prayer & cleansing outdoors, or making an offering all of which are found in the Bible.
Ladies, if your relationship fails or there’s a repeated pattern, it isn’t always your fault. Sometimes your ancestors make the decision to kick a partner out of your life to protect you. There may be blessings & abundance planned for you & your partner may be an energy vampire.
For people who struggle to remember their dreams, this is an indication of a blockage of the 3rd eye chakra. It’s a common if you have negative energy sent to you. The traditional remedy is to drink impepho tea or put a little ash on your tongue after burning imphepho.
@NonhleBeryl
Because we want to be the only darkie at the dinner table. It’s deeply internalised self hate that manifests as classism. There’s a scarcity mentality behind that selfishness. All because the black elites want the colonial oppressors lifestyle & will do anything to get & keep it.
My cousin died in Harare of heart failure after being on incorrect medication for a year. On his last day, Harare hospital was closed. The private clinic demanded USD500 & a COVID-19 certificate no more than 2 weeks old. Only hospitals are testing. He died on his way back home.
@Fixo249
@marata_helele
You did the right thing. She is ungrateful. You will be blessed in future. You will buy that house & live your best life & she’ll miss out on the blessing. One day she will regret those words.
So you’re gifted or have a spiritual calling.
You’re more intuitive & empathic than most people.
You feel things deeply.
You walk into a place feeling on top of the world then next thing you’re inexplicably tearful.
You contain your rage because you know it can hurt someone.
@tanyajunghans
Having my French exam paper marked 3 times when I was in high school because they couldn’t believe I got over 80%. The teachers even told me she was so surprised she had the paper marked over & over & the Head of the French Dept even added marks. 🙄
Today’s full moon + lunar eclipse ziyakhala bakwethu. Lots of moon magic & rituals being done as people seek to take advantage of the Mercury retrograde & the window of opportunity from April 19 when the satanic rituals started. Stay prayed up & protect your energy fam’!
King’s Kloof in Muldersdrift. Great spot for picnics, hiking & connecting with nature. There’s an entry fee of R50.00 & remember to go early because they close at 4:00 pm.
@vvictorman_uel
There’s a saying that what the axe forgets, the tree remembers. Same with abusers & victims. The hallmark of an abuser is lack of empathy as they fulfil their own needs, so they are unlikely to remember even when something they did is devastating to someone else.
As healers & light workers we regularly share tips on how to cleanse your aura & remove negative energy & attract abundance. However, you need to ensure that you have fixed the big issues in your life for these to work. This includes surname & identity issues - umsamo.
Isaiah chapter 11 tells of the 7 spirits of the Lord. Revelation tells of the 7 eyes of God which symbolizes the 7 spirits of the Lord. This is why the Jewish menorah or lamp stand has 7 lights or candles. Human beings may be divided by religion but are united in the Spirit.
@ramichuene
One day we as Christians need to have honest conversations about divorce. Keeping a marriage intact at the cost of the wellbeing of women does more harm than good to society especially in abusive relationships. Sadly many in churches believe a divorced woman is a bad example.
@JabbaWaLetsipa
@NapethaPrecious
Yes. A boundary is a line that shouldn’t be crossed if you don’t want to risk losing a person in your life. Boundaries can be physical or emotional. Sometimes it’s as basic as not doing something your partner isn’t comfortable with or going through their phone behind their back.
@_SJPeace_
Sadly, when he’s walking down the street alone, he’s just as much a target as any other young black man. It’s still the same country where they hung a 14 year old Emmet Till.
Other ways of clearing your aura are:
1. Dancing, barefoot is especially effective.
2. Standing outside with bare feet to discharge the negative energy into the earth- intention is important
3. Standing in the rain - when there’s no lightning
These are good for maintenance.
Maybe he needed to finish what his ancestors started and complete the training on their behalf to heal the ancestral wounds and past life karma. Maybe his path was never to practice as umngoma at all. I’m not sure about the use of the term “resignation” because it isn’t a job.
@NoxCPoxC
I think the closest are the Spencers. Woollies has the basic ones and then the more advanced heat retaining ones.
Mr. Price & Jet have the basic ones.
They make all the difference.
@Ntandoyenkosi_T
Our ancestors are spirit being & they receive messages from the Creator through the 7 messengers & transmit these to us in various ways. Dreams, visions & intuition. All humans have psychic gifts to enable them to receive messages from the spirit.
Lesson 4.5. You’re married, not dead. You don’t stop being ATTRACTIVE or ATTRACTED to other people. The difference is when you’re married you choose daily to be with the person you chose. Love is about commitment, not feelings, because feelings pass, including sexual ones.
@NonhleBeryl
Manje vele bazolwa nawe at least silently because they buy into the myth of black exceptionalism. However those relationships only work as long as the system gets what it wants from you. Otherwise behind closed doors to most non-melanated people abaNtu abamnyama niyafana nje.
@Kholofe12120549
Introverts generally can only handle the energy for interactions with more than one or 2 people in small doses. Many artistic, creative or spiritually gifted people are like that. Also check for signs of depression & anxiety. You can save a life.
@MasekoValencia
If it’s not justified, they mustn’t take it personally.
Children have trouble processing difficult emotions over their parents’ dying or divorce & remarrying.
They project negativity on the step parent to avoid damaging the relationship with the biological parent.
1. UMvelinqangi is the chief of the messengers. He connects people to all the others. He is responsible for balance and centrality. He is the one known as Modimo wa Badimo, the greatest of all the spirits. Has similarities to Obatala in the Yoruba spiritual tradition.
I think of the late
@GatyeniM
every time I make traditional beer - umqombothi. He made a great YouTube video to demonstrate. Lala ngoxolo lapho okhona dlozi elihle.
@LiamDanny4
It’s never too late. Col Sanders started Kentucky Fried chicken after he retired. The Bible says I will restore the years the locust has eaten. Just take care of your health so that you can do everything else.
Gifted children.
Bantwana besithunya. Those with angelic spirit guides.
Which of you before your awakening enthusiastically sang “Ndi Redi” (I’m ready) by
@simphiwedana
?
🙋🏾♀️
Spirit always has the last laugh shem!
@theseerheals
It works because it’s authentic. You are surrendering. This is where the divine steps in. God will always meet you at the point of your need. Those who have experienced it will understand.
One of the best things about visiting London is catching the train & the bus & still being on time. Then there’s breakfast at Costa, Paddington Station. I totally understand why the bear went to London.
Lesson 8: Love God. What kind of a preacher would I be if I didn’t say this? Seriously though. Spirituality is an essential part of life & sustains relationships. Invest time in prayer, meditation, worship & study to grow in love, get wisdom & effectively manage your emotions.
Amakhosi confer the gifts of leadership, courage, dignity & discernment. This unfortunately triggers those who want to lead but do not have the spiritual ranking to do so. When they are put in authority over you, they will fight with you openly & scheme against you privately.
Fellow healers. What if we stopped using candles when we pray at the river sand leaving the messy wax there?
Would making a small fire not accomplish the same purpose? You put out the fire when you’re done praying. At least the charcoal & wood are natural & biodegradable.
Any spiritual tool candles, water, soil, incense, herbs etc. can be used for good to heal or protect or for evil - to kill, steal or destroy. It is all about the intention you hold when you use it. We cannot control what evil thoughts & intentions people have about us.
@basilokpara
@CNN
It has no veto power or power over funding decisions. I guess the fear is that hole in the wall will lead to a dam burst that will destroy the superstructure of institutionalised racism against the First People that keeps them poor & marginalised.
@curlyhairvegan
@gdlnhrt
People think reading a diary gives them insight. Only the writer has the full context of what they wrote and why. You only get a snippet of what’s going on & often the wrong one at that. If you have to snoop, it means your relationship with the person isn’t open & honest.
2. Ma, the Universal Mother, Credo Mutwa calmed her Ninavanhu Ma. She gave birth to the first humans. She is a caregiver and nurturer. She gave the original blueprint of motherhood and embodies that powerful cosmic energy. There are similarities to Yemaya in the Yoruba tradition.
@MprueDie
She could apply to change the marital status regime from Community of Property but the creditors have to agree. She should seek legal advice to see what her options are.
Alternatively she could could consider making savings or assets in her daughter’s name.
To overcome negative energy you need to raise your vibration by:
1. cleansing your body & your space.
2. praying, meditating & talking to your ancestors & spirit guides.
This will banish & deter incubi & succubi & other negative spiritual entities.
Consult a healer in need.
@abednego82
@ZwivhuyaMulaud2
Only a thief needs a master key that unlocks every door. The same thief locks his own door for fear of being robbed. Locks & keys were invented for a reason. Each lock should have its own key. Otherwise we may as well have an open door policy. No locks, no keys, no problem.
Lesson 2. Marriage is a journey, not a destination. I learnt more about my husband in the 1st of marriage than I did in the time we dated. We bring habits and pattern from our families into marriage. You need understanding & patience to live with someone you weren’t raised with.
Leadership is in my DNA from both sides of my family - generations of royalty. From childhood I was always chosen for leadership roles.
Healing has been part of my lineage for centuries. Only when I embraced it I was at peace with myself & the world.
My indoor plants are having babies. This is gratifying because until I cleansed the space, my indoor plants died despite my best efforts. Sometimes it’s not you but excessive negative energy in your house. Plants bring in good energy but need a positive environment.
5. Somandla embodies the cosmic energy of vitality and power & gives humans the power to achieve anything. African Christians pray to USomandla for strength and capability as he represents the Omnipotence of God the Creator. His colour is red. He shares similarities with Ogun.
3. Sodumo is responsible for the destinies of human beings. He connects the living and the dead. From him, each soul is given it’s Assignment on earth to grow in consciousness through various experiences chosen by the individual before they are conceived. Similar to Orunmila.
Lesson 6: Allow each other to be individuals, respect your partner’s choices & try to join him or her once in a while. My husband is a soccer fan. I went to 3 World Cup matches in 2010. I love music & dance, he goes to concerts & festivals with me. he enjoys some not all of them.
4. Nomkhubulwane governs the phenomenon of rain & rainbows. Ancient priestesses prayed to her for rain. The original shapeshifter, she adopts the form of any animal. She sounds similar to Oya, the Orisha of weather & storms whose symbol is the rainbow.
Is it a coincidence that the Jewish New Year Rosh Hashanah which is celebrated today is aligned with our Afrikan New year which is marked by the Spring Equinox on 23 September?
Just as for us, this is a time for cleansing with water and setting intentions through various rites.
@Bonisile_RMS
Whuu Mihlali! Wow! UBaba wins the Internet today. This story sounds very familiar. My Dad & I are besties now. Bekezela Bhuti. Kuzolunga. ✊🏾✊🏾✊🏾
@MuslimThoughts1
@MoanerLeaser
I used to check my diary first thing in the morning , see the double & triple-booked back to back meetings & get angry & despondent about not being able to do it all. Now I don’t check my diary the moment I wake up. Those 1st 5 mins really make a difference to your day.
@MofenyS
@MJMoremi
It’s unfair for a Dad to not keep his promise. It’s traumatic for the child. They ending having trust issues. Children think it’s their fault their dads don’t love them. That’s not fair & no mother wants or needs that. If Dad can’t make it say he must say so & make up for it.
Lesson 4: Love is a commitment, not a feeling. There were so many times I wanted to give up, pack & leave because things were difficult. Marriage brings other parties into your relationship, children, in-laws, the help... We both had to push past the hurt feelings & be a team.
Lesson 1. Marry your friend. This was my parent’s advice. He wasn’t my best friend at the time, but a good friend. We have great conversations, some deep & meaningful, some not so serious, others - pure gossip. We enjoy being together.
Lesson 5: Sex gets better over time. It takes effort, practice and consideration to get it right. There’s nothing out there that you can’t make happen at home. Really. Just You take care of your body, resolve your relationship issues & be there for each other & 💥🔥🤯.
6. Nomhoyi embodies the energies of sensuality & fertility. She is associated with rivers. She brings spiritual cleansing & consciousness which comes with baptism. She brings peace and protection. She shares similarities with Oshun, the Orisha of fertility beauty and love.
Good morning good people.
Beware of relatives who recently passed away appearing in your dreams. There are evil family members who will take soil from their grave to a sorcerer to conjure up a masquerading spirit that looks like your relative to fool you.
Proud & grateful for my son passing matric & qualifying for university with a 75% pass in Mathematics. He’s one of 40% that made it through 12 years of schooling & 1 of the 5% that pass maths in the SA school system.
#GodIsGood
all the time.
Forgetting your dreams is another sign of negative energy at work in your life.
Negative energy is sent by people not only because they are jealous.
It’s also a way of stealing your positive energy for their benefit while you only attract negative situations in your life.
Do you wonder why healers do things in specific numbers especially odd numbers? Things like pray for 3 days, bathe for 7 days etc.?
It’s because the Universe functions on vibrations. Numbers carry a specific vibration & are used in rituals to support manifestation.
@EMukumbo
Don’t buy lattes & cappuccinos at work unless you’re networking. Carry a flask or buy your own instant latte or cappuccino sachets. At least if you’re networking you’re building a relationship that will result in sone Return on Expenditure ROE.
You don’t have a problem with authority African child. You walk with royal ancestors. This makes you a more effective leader with more gravitas & dignity than sone people in authority over you. Seek guidance on how to align with your guides & walk in your purpose.
There are days when you feel the connection to Spirit & your prayers are heard.
You imagine or dream or conceive of something & it happens. Awesome!
Then there are days when nothing seems to work. You’re exhausted, annoyed & afraid that you’ve lost your mojo.
It happens.
I got the most awesome news this morning. A battle I started more than 4 years ago has finally been won. While I made peace & moved on, the things I fought & prayed for finally happened for a team I really care about. So even if it seems there’s no end in sight, don’t give up.
At yesterday’s team event I was challenged to bring a blue item & talk about what helped me get through the lockdown. I struggled for obvious reasons but eventually wore my blue snake bhayi & talked about my spiritual journey. I was humbled by my colleagues’ reaction.
Raising a child who isn’t yours is difficult, especially with an older child. The child has psychological baggage from the parent’s breakup which we underestimate. Children act up because it’s the only way they know how to deal with the separation. You need unconditional love.
@Mihlali_Adams
At work. I thought he was the man about town that goes clubbing & pub-crawling. After two weekends watching DVDs, I realized he had everyone fooled, he’s an introvert & a couch potato. We celebrate our 20th wedding anniversary next week.
A healer who personifies that energy is
@GogoSkhotheni
She is gentle, loving & generous yet stands firm in her convictions. She offers information freely and tells it like it is, a true mother to all her initiates. Her main ancestral guide is Swati from the Dlamini clan.
So if you’re having one of those days, or several of them breathe deeply. Go outside and get some sun. Connect to the earth. Meditate. Pray.
Your ancestors, spirit guides are always with you even if you don’t feel it.
They will give you a sign. This message could be it.
No one stays on the mountain top spiritually all day every day.
You’re not perfect just human.
You still have wounds to heal from previous lifetimes, vows to undo, self-limiting beliefs to change.
Extend yourself some grace
The valley is where we learn our greatest lessons.
7. Mlenzemunye, (means the one-legged one ) embodies the cosmic energies of courage, protection, & change. He protects people from harm. His Ifa counterpart is Osanyin, also🦵 who is in charge of healing & magic associated with diviners & herbalists.
@dlakza
When his friends asked him if he wanted to go out, he turned to me and asked, “Should WE go?” I didn’t mind him going, but he chose to spend the day with me. His friends never forgave me. We’ve been married for 19 years.
Lesson 3. Money matters, but love matters more. In the first year of our marriage, we had our first child, bought our first home & moved house & were the most broke we’d ever been. We had to dramatically change our lifestyle, no more shopping & lunch dates. We survived.
If you haven’t watched Woman King. Please do. Besides the fight scenes it’s a beautiful story of facing your shadows & reconciliation. Great cast of African actors.
@violadavis
&
@ThusoMbedu
gave phenomenal performances. Like Black Panther this movie gave me goosebumps.
4. Genital pain or discomfort even though you haven’t had sex
5. Rashes, acne or hyper-pigmentation that appears suddenly & doesn’t respond to treatment
6. Relationship drama with your partner or family for no good reason.
7. Trouble at work, gossip, being set up or fired.
Never waste a good face beat.
Makeup is magic. It can transform anyone.
The original meaning of the word glamour was a spell to change one’s appearance.
Happy Women’s Month ladies!
There is a horrid summer flu going around. Symptoms include sinus congestion, sore throat, post-nasal drip which progresses into a tight and painful chest possibly with wheezing or difficulty breathing. If you have a fever or high temperature please get medical attention.
Lobola is:
1. Compensation to a woman’s family for the loss of labour & selling her into lifelong servitude.
2. Rusambo - primary component gives a man unlimited rights to sex with his wife regardless of her consent.
We need to question these practices.
#StartingOver35
Lesson 7. Keep your friends close. Spend time with people who knew you before you became Mrs... I’m an extrovert, my husband isn’t. He makes an effort to accommodate my need to spend time with other people even if he doesn’t need to. He goes out with his friends occasionally/
If you can’t get impepho, the following work as well.
1. Rosemary- steep it in boiling water to make a tea to drink before bed.
2. Star Anise - tea, you can burn it as incense
3. Jasmine tea or incense
Pray & meditate to guard against fear because the dreams are hectic.
I promised to share my thoughts on why some people can see the future & hidden things from exam papers to plots by their enemies & ideas to make money.
Did You Know That There Are People Who See The Question Papers In Their Dreams?
Yes, you red that correct. There are indeed people who happen to see the entire question paper of a test/examination days or so before the actual test/examination date. ⬇️
After God, fear women. I’m the reason they said that.
Someone needs their enemies to know this. The rinse & repeat cycle of spiritual attacks isn’t working. You’re still here, thanks to God & your guides.
Good morning. Happy Tuesday.