I'd like to be remembered as a man who tweeted in a period of ongoing crisis & took important steps to keep this app together, but left it with work incomplete.
@blaxican_bonita
Both of them need to have a sit down first to discuss this tone.
I can see both sides. The delivery is off on both so the point can be missed. I think the “wrong” here is communication.
@Loccdawggg
It’s a simple concept that people will miss. Or find one line to tear apart.
“Just find your kind of wanted people” as the message should be as easy as pie.
@mad_padrino95
@Abdithugger
That’s true. Every joke has a bit of truth to it. I’ve believed that for years.
Same with rumors. They are based on something real.
@ToriToreyTorrie
Whew. It's the policy so I get it. I'd be extremely upset but I have to respect it. I'd ask to reschedule (if possible) or call it a loss. I would hope compassion would be shown. This is me trying to be rationale though.
@MAMA_NISHIA
@ALawyerDog
Yeah, if you confirmed and don't come (without notice), then I'd be frustrated too. Food isn't cheap but don't BEG for said invite.
I'd be upset since sometimes you have to turn others away for family (because we're so obligated to invite them *eye roll*) for them not to show up.
Saw this on
@LinkedIn
the other day. Now I understand everyone has a different perspective on what they want to/should do when closing an interview. No one choice/option is guaranteed or exactly right.
But I’ll say this. The last interview where I used this method? I got the job.
“Grew up without a father” how? Did he pass? Did he leave? Was he aware of his daughter?
I’ve learned to not assume anymore. She could have “issues” with or without a father. I don’t call a red flag as I had a two-parent home but I’m far from perfect to the traditional standards.
Fellas, does it tell you anything when you find out a woman grew up without her father in her life? Do you assume she has daddy issues? Is it a red flag? What are your thoughts??
I saw a tweet the other day from a guy that said (paraphrased) “if the relationship ain’t toxic, then it’s boring.” I was so confused.
There are people who really do like drama.
I had a guy tell me I was “boring” before because I didn’t do dramatic stuff. We had a disagreement that ended peacefully and he was legit annoyed that I didn’t do the most. I was so confused
@ddj93
I heard something on the radio a bit back that has stuck with me since.
I go into everyone’s house thinking they have cameras. Not to record activities but for protection (pet monitors, nanny cam, security, etc). But they can use it for whatever though. And be on any room.
@thecindynoir
You know that feeling you get when you walk into your parent’s (or that loved one who loved you best in your formative years and after) house? Everything feels right and you feel safe? Nothing can harm you and you feel protected.
That’s how I can best describe that loved feeling.
@thecindynoir
An older lady told me something that kinda stands out.
She told me that those are the people you want in your village. They’ll help you feel whole.
On the flip, she said that what you put out (and what they put out) may not be equal *all the time.* Be mindful expecting that.
@sh1millz
@iBeSuckaFree
Those were the kids with the most candy. They walked blocked and cleaned up! lol.
Some folks shamed them (for not having a bucket or only one) but they had the most fun.
@thecindynoir
I recently heard some one say “compatibility is more important than love” and I continue to see why.
Especially as they are intertwined yet separate entities.
Twitter can get you a job. Twitter can get you a date. Twitter can get you help. It all in how you use this app. Use it to your advantage and then flourish.
Story...
Porch robin has eggs. Exciting times.
And if you ask...
She kept trying to make a nest on the porch posts so I made her a spot. Next day, she had a perfect nest. No, I wont move them.
I can nswer this three ways.
1. Just because somebody is “good,” it doesn’t mean he/she is good for you. Good as person, not in relationship.
2. You perceive them as good but it doesn’t reflect what your level of good. You’re both on different wavelengths.
3. You can’t handle it.
Y’all ever wonder why it seems like the “good” people always miss each other? Seems like good men and women tend to wind up with the wrong people and not each other. I wonder why 🤔
Question for the TL: what are some things you will not put up with in a relationship and why? Things OTHER THAN cheating, abuse etc. all of the obvious ones.
@adornjoezee
It really shouldn’t be that big of an argument. I always follow the idea of spouse gets the front seat unless there’s an elder. If the person in the front wants to move, cool. If not, hop in.
But usually it’s whomever gets in the seat first can have it.
Sometimes.
Sometimes.
Sometimes.
I wonder why do y’all get up in arms about a person’s tweet that speaks on one thing but YOU think it’s against another & it didn’t... at all.
Person A: “I love pancakes. You’re the best.”
Person B: “But what about waffles? Why do you hate them?”
@bezy_bby
Easily. Theater may have four people and I’m still in MY seat.
I’d had someone tell me to move out of their seat (sat in the wrong row on accident) so why would I not expect the same. 🤷🏾♂️
I have a theory that ghosting is a term that folks use when the reason doesn’t make sense to them or the explanation isn’t what they want it to be but that’s a convo for another day...
@285Slim
People wild. And stand on it.
I had a friend tell me that his girlfriend said since she was his girl, she had to (roughly) approve any pleasure. She wanted first dibs. 🤦🏾♂️🤣
🤔 Personally, I’ve learned to “ask” what kind of friend do I need to be (at that moment). I can sit in silence or I can help you solve it. Taking that moment creates so much support (if I don’t already know). Do you want a solution or just want to vent? What exactly do you need.
This is why I fully understand those who go to therapy weekly. They need to vent and having a “paid friend” helps to not put that weight on a true friends.
Every YouTuber I follow all said they started doing random (read: their own passion) things that made them happy. Like comedy, advice, etc. And now they have ~10M followers. Don’t start with doing what everyone else wants. Start with what you’d like then make small adjustments.
I’m hesitant to start my YouTube page because I don’t really know what to talk about. I’m not really sure what y’all want to see and I don’t want to half ass it. I have ideas but idk. It really would be tailored to what y’all want to see.
@WaveyForever
His second one was bad. They did too much and I’ve seen a few try to love it now.
His first was okay. I do think him and Emma had the best chemistry (compared to Tobey and Kirsten) though.
NWH played into the nostalgic factor. Watching outside of entertainment, it ain’t the best.