I get this Q a lot: "Do I have to be
#bisexual
/love
#humiliation
/in
#chastity
to be a
#cuckold
?" No, no, & no.
Many cuckolds enjoy these things. Just like many people who cook love ice cream, avocados & ribeye. But you don't HAVE to love those things-they're adjacent interests.
Next Tues night, I'm making a return to presenting!
Join me for the next episode of TES Tuesday (
@TESKink
), where I'm giving a talk on
#cuckolding
. A favorite topic of mine, both from an educational standpoint & speaking from personal experience. *grins*
Celebrate
#CuckWeek
and the release of a wonderful audiobook written on the subject of cuckolding and the female empowered ethical nonmonogamy called Insatiable Wives from renowned clinical psychologist Dr. David Ley with
@RoseCaraway
@headstronghotwife
and
@datingkinkyofficial
Dating Kinky invites you to kick off the weekend w/ another
#free
#webinar
event!
Join us on Friday for Femdom Friday, where host d20domme will be speaking w/ an amazing guest,
@KeyBarrettMSc
, for a discussion about (fitting for
#Locktober
)
#chastity
.
Our Ethical
#Nonmonogamy
webinar blowout is just around the corner!
#notcheatingevent
Two full days of webinars, talks, workshops & more!
We kick off Sat, June 13 @ 8AM ET & will continue thru Sun night.
All are invited - it's FREE to attend live!
@acashmoney77
@Dojafat
The way you phrased that suggests you don't respect sex workers.
"Prostitute" is most often used as a slur.
And using slurs in lighthearted threads against total strangers = shitty.
Just saying.
In our 1st (& hopefully NOT last interview),
@DirkHooper
& I discuss kinky dating. What’s wrong with it (so much!), what Dating Kinky gets right (YAY!), how much Dirk loves dating (hint: he doesn’t), & more!
#DatingKinky
#Podcast
#Dating
#OnlineDating
Dating Kinky presents Int'l Kinky Women's Day, coming to you LIVE on March 8th!
Join us @ 8AM EDT for the Domme Breakfast, featuring
@TheLadyLeigh
, Sandy Starr, & me (Nookie)!
Daylight Savings Time folks, don't forget to set you clock 1 hour forward!
We're now just 1 week away from our Ethical
#Nonmonogamy
webinar blowout. Can't wait to get started!
#notcheatingevent
Two days of webinars, talks, workshops & more!
We kick off Sat, June 13 @ 8AM ET & will continue thru Sun night.
Hope you can join us!
@CuckoldressS
It's also a gift of his love, his support, his...everything for HER. Her to explore. Her to lvoe and laugh and fuck. Her to grow and become all that she ver wanted to be.
<3
Nookie
For those of you interested in joining us this weekend for the
#notcheatingevent
webinar marathon (starting tomorrow), we have a minor last-minute scheduling change:
Kevin Patterson (
@PolyRoleModels
) is moving from 10AM ET Saturday to 12PM ET Sunday.
Dating Kinky is looking for people passionate about kink who want to host webinars, build community, and connect people. We're looking for ALL timezones. We host and provide promotion. *smiles*
@SexTalkTuesday
In kink specifically, it's the snapshot of an extreme scene with no negotiations or realism about how they actually got to that point.
It seems to many, especially those new to all this, like that is how it happens. "Hi, nice to meet you, DOWN WORM!" ~Nookie
#SexTalkTuesday
Nonmonogamy can be fun It can be deeply intimate. It can be loving. Even sexy And it just makes more sense to some of us
This is the event for that some
Mark your calendar for Jan 27-29, 2023 and get registered today
#DatingKinky
#polyamorous
#polyamory
@RealCuckolding
Yesterday, I started teasing him to near-release in the morning. And a couple of times through the day.
In the evening, I got him up to a fever pitch, and he rode my cock, his eyes locked on mine while I dirty talked and told him I loved him.
@CuckoldressV
@Blackdwhitebit1
We are growing, so there's that.
And in 2021, (which I know is FOREVER AWAY), we'll be creating an app specifically for cuckolding/hotwifing and those who enjoy it.
Because, of course, that's a topic near and dear to my heart! *smiles* ~Nookie
#DatingKinky
is having a
#NYE
celebration & inviting kinky folk from all over to spend
#NewYearsEve
with friends!
It might not be safe to attend a huge party this year, but that doesn’t mean we can’t all still get together.
So geeked that we've booked our full lineup for It’s Not Cheating — 2 days of webinars, talks, workshops & more — all about
#nonmonogamy
!
The festivities kick off Sat, June 13 @ 8AM ET & will continue until Sun night.
Hope you can join us!
#notcheating
@TheLadyMiyabi
👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
And everyone who's into humiliation is not into degradation. And there are people into humiliation who aren't into BDSM, really. They might be kinky, but don't necessarily identify that way.
Generalizing and lumping people together is a lazy mental habit! ~Nookie
The Love of a Cuckold
#CuckWeek
When I was thinking about what I wanted to write for
#CuckWeek
, I couldn’t think of anything more amazing than the love of a cuckold to tell you about.
#DatingKinky
#CuckWeek
#FLR
One month from today I will be moderating a panel on a topic I am TRULY passionate about: Women-Centric Nonmonogamy at
@DatingKinky
’s FLR, Femdom & Women in Charge weekend event! 👸🏼🗓
You won’t want to miss this amazing weekend: register now at ✅
@CuckoldressV
Btw, for the non-Fetlife people, here is the event link:
And here is how you can sign up for reminders for future virtual munch & social events.
@CuckoldressV
Yay! Thrilled to have you aboard!
And for those of you cuckolding enthusiasts who can't get enough Venus, I'm thrilled to report we're in talks for more collaboration with her on Dating Kinky in 2021!
In the meantime, PLUS members can enjoy the below:
We're now just 1 week away from our Ethical
#Nonmonogamy
webinar blowout. Can't wait to get started!
#notcheatingevent
Two days of webinars, talks, workshops & more!
We kick off Sat, June 13 @ 8AM ET & will continue thru Sun night.
Hope you can join us!
Thanks for the signal boost, Venus!
That's right-for my April presentation I will be discussing one of my favorite kink topics, Cuckolding!
Show will air on April 29 at 8pm ET. Free to attend live, & I can promise a few surprises to those who attend.
I'm a fun and educational guest on topics of love, sex, romance, kink, nonmonogamy, boundaries, communication, dating, and many of the things in between.
Also currently looking from presenters/sharers in nonmonogamy.
—Nookie
Content creators, It’s time to Collaborate with others.
Use this post to find a guest or be a guest on someone’s podcast!
Post what you’re looking for.
Please be descriptive. Send a DM and start
#collaborating
.
#podcasting
#interview
#PodNation
So thrilled to be a part of this.
I have Cuckold Storytime every weekday this week at 3pm ET on
@TheMONApp
, other live events on Wednesday (1pm ET) with
@headstrongHW
, and Sunday (2pm ET) with
@CuckoldressS
.
Plus a new Cuckolding blog on Friday ().
I LOVE putting on events, but I don’t often step onstage. For this event, I’m presenting a 4-hour workshop!
DEFUCKIFY YOUR DATING: Creating a profile & life to weed out what you don’t want & attracts what you do.
#DatingKinky
What have YOU got going on Fri nite? If you have some time free & would like to join kinksters from all over in some socializing & connecting we’ve got just the event for you!
We're going from 3PM ET until whenever.
#DatingKinky
#KinkyMixer
#Dating
@AdultLanguageX
Paul, there are some people who see nonmonogamy and kink as being very integral.
Others see them very separately, and especially power dynamics getting in the way of authentic love.
#SexTalkTuesday
#dating
#datingchat
Venus, Anne and I were asked: What was the hardest part of becoming a cuckoldress for you?
HAVE A QUESTION YOU WANT TO ASK ABOUT CUCKOLDING?
Submit it, we will post it anonymously across the web, and answer it
#DatingKinky
#cuck
#cuckold
Hi! I'm Nookie, and I'm excited to be a part of
#SexTalkTuesday
today.
Let's start with a basic definition:
pro·to·col
noun \ˈprō-tə-ˌkȯl, -ˌkōl, -ˌkäl, -kəl\
a system of rules that explain the correct conduct and procedures to be followed in formal situations
Need help opening up about your deepest fantasies?
On May 15 @ 8PM EST, we're thrilled to welcome
@janeeboon
, author of the steamy novel Edge Play, for a FREE webinar: "Writing Smut to Share Your Desires".
Bring a pen & your imagination & join us!
We’re nearly ready to test DK apps w/ people other than me & my team, & I’d love to have some of you help, b/c you’re going to find things that I can’t & that the team will miss, before we send it to Apple & Google for approval.
Cuckoldresses & Cuckolds! Join Nookie this week, Monday through Friday at 3pm ET for Cuckold Story time on the mōn app for iPhone!
A different cuckold love/erotica story will be featured every weekday of
#CuckWeek
.
@TheMONApp
#DatingKinky
#CuckWeek
#FLR
Tonight, Friday July 5th, I will be interviewed by
@KeysandAnklets
live on the air beginning at 9pm EST and lasting until we get tired of talking. *grins*
Sumati says, "I've met many people—and I've actually done this once myself—who can transform jealousy into erotic energy."
I'm pretty familiar with this process as a
#cuckoldress
#DatingKinky
#jealousy
#polyamorous
Kicking off our November live
#webinar
calendar, we have an amazing show lined up!
On Mon, Nov 2nd, join host
@NJCole1
for the return of Kinky Book Club, feat. the dynamic duo of
#erotica
authors (& multi-hyphenates)
@lexisylver
&
@ReadCaseyCarter
!
Nov 23rd is National
#Polyamory
Day in Canada.
We at
#DatingKinky
believe that whatever your relationship choices, as long as you practice them with consent, you should be afforded the same rights as anyone else.
So, we celebrate with our Canadian friends!
#EthicalNonmonogamy
It’s a Friday night dating, connecting, & social event to kick off an entire weekend of kinky dating & love classes, workshops, panels, & more!
Feb 12, we’ll begin at 9:30pm ET and go until the wee hours!
#DatingKinky
#Dating101
#OnlineDating
Thanks to everyone who chose to spend part of the Tuesday afternoon with me and
@SexTalkTuesday
!
Please do check out our upcoming free nonmonogamy event!
And feel free to reach out ANY time! *smiles*
#SexTalkTuesday
#dating
#datingchat
And, I would be remiss to neglect to add that we are thrilled to have
@JaneEBoon
booked as a guest on our next installment of Kinky Book Club, which will air live next Monday, July 6th @ 8PM ET (hosted by
@NJCole1
)
Hope to see you all there!
And now for a recurring segment, the
#DatingKinky
Quote of the Day (
#QOTD
).
Today's honoree is
@janeeboon
, as that quote is from her wonderful
#kinky
novel, Edge Play, which was released just this week.
I highly recommend picking up a copy.
@phunforties
Yup. And those are the best. I've had bulls stay for the weekend, travel with me, go hiking...we go out for beers, eat wings, chill. *smiles*
If I don't create friendship, honestly, the dick won't keep me.
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#DatingKinky
#BDSMCommunity
#Kinks
Hi. Nookie here. I'm going to step out of business mode, and speak as just me right now. To share something going through my head.
And to do so, I'm going to share a picture of myself, the real me, just as I was last night, before.
And I'm going to tell my morning story.
@SexTalkTuesday
To me, ownership is always a mutual thing. If I own a pet (for example), I am their owner as much as they are my pet. A servant, I am their queen as much as they are my knight. Rights and responsibilities flow both ways.
#SexTalkTuesday
I’ve Got it in Writing! Contracts For Power Exchange Lifestyles
Dec 6, 2pm
One of my favorite classes to teach is “Living contracts for Your Power Dynamic,” because I have OPINIONS, LOL!
And now for a recurring segment, the
#DatingKinky
Quote of the Day (
#QOTD
).
Today's honoree is
@janeeboon
, as that quote is from her wonderful
#kinky
novel, Edge Play, which was released just this week.
I highly recommend picking up a copy.
You have a right to reject anyone for any reason.
Period.
Full stop.
Your life. Your rules.
That said, if you are going to reject someone, be clear, and whenever possible, be kind.
#Datingkinky
#Dating
#Onlinedating