I feel so loved and supported. Thank you for everyone tagging and reaching out about Peg the Patriarchy® being at the
#MetGala
🥰.
@Caradelevingne
co-owner of
@LoraDiCarlo_HQ
didn't credit or mention me, so you an support me by buying my art and continuing to tag me. 💗🖤
@TheCut
I'm the creator of Peg the Patriarchy and owner of the trademark. So just came here to say, proud day for subverting the patriarchy when my art makes it to the
#MetGala
. Support queer art: 💗🖤
If you aren't giving your sexual partners feedback because you might hurt their feelings, you might be betraying your own body. Say it with dirty talk, say it with simple instructions, be blunt or say it in a debrief before next time. You're not responsible for their ego. 🧵
Patriarchy isn't a person and it isn't a gender. It's a system. Peg the Patriarchy is a metaphor about subversion. Hate it or love it, if you're down for dismantling patriarchy we are on the same team.
Feeling all kinds of ways about Peg the Patriarchy theft this morning. If you're inspired, I'd love to see pics in your Peg the Patriarchy gear or where your stickers live 😍.
You are all so powerful in your support 🖤💗 You showed up, cared, tagged, spoke out and I'm grateful af. We'll see what tomorrow brings. Time to rest, so here's a pic of my kitten Bubba. 🐈
@CosmicTuna
@TheCut
I wasn't apart of a celeb wearing it at a gala. They just straight up stole my trademarked art and I found out about it on Twitter like you did.🤷🏾♀️
Please don't get your sex ed from Cara Delavigne. In addition to stealing Peg the Patriarchy from me, there are more informed, inclusive, brilliant actual sex educators out there that you can learn from. Broadcast media just loves celebrating mediocre, rich, thin, white women.
Oof showing up with all our patriarchy hanging out today huh. Humbling reminder of all our internalized misogyny. Fatphobia is rooted in patriarchy. The system of patriarchial competition us to tear each other down..so it thrives in and out of us. Our liberation is connected. 🖤
It's 2023 and my Airbnb host sends a message saying "not to cook strong smelling foods, curry is great but not everyone wants to smell it weeks later!" Just get an air filter and stop using racism as your only spice. 🥴
Me, 3 years ago, starting this journey of falling in love with myself. This shoot was hard, I couldn't shake the shame I learned that taught me I wasn't enough. Now I'm older, weigh more, more marks and scars on my body, but I have never felt more unapologetic about who I am🥰
I think I'm about to get kicked off of yet another dating app! My new fav line in response to cis men saying they don't eat pussy: All you're offering is dick and disappointment? 😐
Just saw an event listing on Fetlife for a play party this Saturday. I'm in Ontario, we're still in a lockdown. I cannot believe in a pandemic some people are still organizing/going to play parties. So. Goddamn. Selfish.
Race and Kink Discussion Series! Want to approach kink in an anti-racist way? Whether you indulge in kink, are part of a kinky community, run a festival/dungeon/munch or have fantasies that intersect with race - come join this bi-weekly discussion:
I'd love to see fetish events, fetish weekends, fetish festivals... Show some body diversity. Thin, white bodies in latex isn't the only thing kinksters and fetishists are attracted to, interested in or represented by.
#kinkydiversity
#effyourbeautystandards
🔥TUES JUNE 29 🔥 Want to dismantle racism in kink? Race and Kink monthly discussion series welcomes
@MadamePosh2
! All are welcome in this BIPOC-centered space, no one will be turned away due to lack of funds and tickets are income based & include replay:
📢Clean does not equal odourless.📢 Stop telling vulva owners there is something wrong with their bodies' if they don't smell like ocean breeze or vanilla honey nonsense. We see your lies Vagisil. 🧐
I have messaged over 15 people TODAY selling my trademarked Peg the Patriarchy phrase on different merch on Etsy and tee public. If you see merch with Peg the Patriarchy on it that isn't me, please lemme know or report it to the platform. 🙏🏾🙏🏾
I'm the creator of Peg the Patriarchy and it means more to me today that it did 5 years ago - I've met so many amazing people through my art! Here's my Peg the Patriarchy merch collection:
✨Feelin' myself✨ Gratitude to the younger me that felt sexy but didn't own it and found pleasure anyways. Gratitude to the older me that fights for peace and permission to let go of whatever m*le gaze/diet culture/patriarchal bullsh!t that kept me small.
Who needs more belly love? 🙋🏾♀️ I have been holding onto belly shame for as long as I can remember. Hiding it, desperately trying to shrink it, apologizing for it...so much energy. I am slowly putting that shame down to rest and play.
#uneditingmyself
#unapologetic
#untamed
Please stop asking BIPOC people for free labour. This month alone, I've had 4 requests for free labour, 3 from kink events. Send me your budget, ask me my rate and we'll kindly part ways if those don't align. This is my livelihood. My free time goes to Bubba, friends & cooking.
Dear men on dating apps: stop with overt, unsexy, vulgar, entitled sexual comments way too early in the conversation.
Me: hi, how's it going?
Men: good. U?
Me: great, I went for a bike ride and now I'm starting work.
Men: I like rides in the morning lol 🍆
Me: Unmatch yourself.
I have grown more comfortable, simply saying: thanks for reaching out, unfortunately, I don't work for free. 🤷🏾♀️ My charity, volunteerism and free services are up to my discretion and not everyone is going to be comfortable or ok with that. I don't have to own their discomfort. 🤷🏾♀️
No cheetahs were harmed in the taking of this photo. 🐆
I did a sexy selfie photoshoot using a tripod, my phone and this attitude of reclaiming my gaze. 👀
Read more about how and why this was important for me:
Fetish festivals/kink events/porn - we need to do better. Not everyone that likes D/s likes is white, thin, young, submissive cis femme being dominated by older, white, daddy-type doms. There is so much more diversity and so much more sexiness to enjoy.
#SexEdPornReviews
Hi
#DatingCoaches
for men. 👋🏽 Please stop teaching men more confidence and start teaching them how to reframe their masculinity in relation to love, sex, and dating. Give them skills to unpack patriarchial bullshit, learn to practice nurturance and embrace empathy. Thanks. ✌🏽
eeeeeeeee! Season 2 of The Plug drops September 15! 👯 On Season 1, I got to chat with the fabulous
@TheLadyPim1
all about PEGGING. Listen wherever you listen to podcasts or here:
My uber driver started talking to me about sports - and I said, I'm gonna stop you right there, I don't care about sports. He continued on and I just stopped responding as he campaigned for sports. So I said, what are your thoughts on abortion?
#WeDroveInSilence
What does the wearer get out of strap-on sex?
💦Physical pleasure
💦Sexy visuals
💦Connection
💦Affection
💦Sensuality
💦Fantasy
💦Surfs the pleasure of their receiver
...and lots more!
If you like to strap-it on, what do you get out of being the giver?
#SexEdPornReviews
Giving myself some belly love before I head out to a fam jam, where there will be explicit and implicit fatphobia. I got this! And if I don't, I'm gonna be gentle with myself. 🙏🏾🥰
Partners who care about your pleasure will be curious about your likes/dislikes and welcome feedback - because it actually leads to more confidence and mutual pleasure for both people, and less potential trauma, dissatisfaction and miscommunication.
Therapy isn't inherently anti-oppressive. Most of the foundations of modern talk therapy are rooted in research, norms and biases that center whiteness, patriarchy and individualism. So yeah, just cuz Jonah Hill went to therapy doesn't mean he worked on his patriarchy.
Fetish festivals/kink events/porn - we need to do better. Not everyone that likes D/s likes is white, thin, young, submissive cis femme being dominated by older, white, daddy-type doms. There is so much more diversity and so much more sexiness to enjoy.
#SexEdPornReviews
Consent isn't just yes or no, it's an on-going dynamic of navigating giving and receiving between people. If you haven't heard your partner's 'no', are you sure you trust their 'yes'? Ask curious questions during or after, invite feedback, learn their non-verbal 'no' & 'yes'.
Knowing your worth while on dating apps is 🔥🤯. My self esteem used to get bruised by all the fatphobia, racism and misogyny. Now, the audacity patriarchy has steeped cis het men in just rolls right off my Goddess length cape. 🤡
So many of my relationships that were based on zero boundaries are coming back to bite me in the ass now that I grew some edges - and I'm here for it. 'Don't worry self, I'm not gonna betray you this time. It's gonna be uncomfortable, but it's gonna get done and then we rest.'
My asshole no longer hates me. I installed a new bidet without sissy assistance this time! 🙌🏾 It was more physical labour, less emotional labour 😜.
#bidetlife
#bidetme
Hi loves, if you have the spoons to try to help me get my Instagram account back, you can go into your account, find Settings, choose Help, Report a problem and let them know lunamatatas was wrongfully disabled and ask for it to be restored. In the meantime I'm spamming appeals.
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