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@Afro_Bella90
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My hair's full of secrets...
Milwaukee, WI
Joined November 2010
@kendallybrown “Her being so feminine just turns me on more” where “being so feminine” means not being able to fight back and begging him to stop. Often times even the men we love, whom we trust, find genuine pleasure in seeing us endure pain for them.
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@cruellittlecat This tweet right under yours is taking me out 😭😭😭😭 it’s truly an epidemic
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@JulianaLung Since you don’t want people to have access to hormonal birth control, what are you doing to stop unprepared people from having sex and conceiving children that they can’t take care of, so they don’t have to resort to seeking an abortion?.
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@ali_sivi “I am someone who is so extremely aware of all the facial expressions I’m making” is so sinister. This culture of ours really drives some of us mad.
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@Obliquities @JulianaLung Keeping in mind that the “consequences of their actions” is a living breathing child that will be entirely dependent upon the care and good-will of a person who didn’t plan them, and/or want them, and/or is not prepared to take care of them….
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@drgoodusername @lporiginalg Y’all sobbing about terms that you invented is hilarious 😂 nobody told your ancestors to call themselves white and everybody else colored while stealing people and pillaging their lands.
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@thecindynoir I feel like with most super celebs their fans love them, admire them, are awestruck and inspired by them. But I think Megan is unique in that her fans also really CARE about her and want to see her happy and prospering. They wanna put a smile on her face and that’s just so sweet.
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@ceciATL Lemme get this straight: an Indian woman made a video about HER OWN ethnic features, didn’t mention us ONCE, a bunch of hit dogs hollered, parroted anti-Indian racism, the smell lady RIGHTFULLY pointed out how ignorant & stupid that is, & your takeaway is that SHE’S the problem?.
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@andrewchihiro She seems to think that she is the only celebrity who has ever received public scrutiny and judgment, and has crafted her entire public persona around that imagined victimhood. Constantly complaining about how every body doesn’t like everything she does and it’s just boring now.
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@FutureHRick So you get to threaten women with SA but others are wrong for threatening you in return? We’re supposed to feel bad that a man who thinks women deserve SA now fears for his own safety? You’re a “good dude who’s been hurt” so you get to lash out however you want, no repercussions?.
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@gemkabeerah Dig even an inch and you’ll find that the men who are the most vocal moral police, who enjoy shaming women the most, are also almost always the biggest perverts. They expect women to carry ALL the shame they refuse to have for their own disrespectful, depraved behavior.
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@raventbrunner 😂😂😂😂. On another note, I absolutely loved Demi’s arc this season. My sis GREW! She learned her worth and she stood on business! I’m so so glad she didn’t settle for the crumbs that Ollie was offering 🙌🏽.
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@Notofworks7 @HazelAppleyard_ They’re dependent on the nurturing of their mother because they know that their father can’t be counted on for that. If you were actively involved, they would reach for both of you.
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@EleanorBell So a bunch of EUROPEANS spent centuries carrying out pogroms and genociding Jewish peoples, and somehow that’s supposed to be justification for oppressing PALESTINIANS??.
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@nsbambi222 @JulianaLung Please explain how banning abortion helps stop people from having sex and conceiving children they can’t raise?.
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@Obliquities @JulianaLung and the rhythm method has a FAR LOWER efficacy rate than 99% in typical use (not even to mention the plethora of women whose cycles are not predictable for any variety of reasons), simply telling people to be abstinent is just not a sound policy plan.
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@haydeebabyy It really speaks volumes about the beauty double standards that we take for granted in our culture when a man who looks like THAT feels as comfortable as he does talking about fat women in such a derogatory way and not once get pulled up for his audacity lmao.
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@SouthlandPost If she accused him without footage, y’all would say “prove it”. In fact, he proved her right, ON CAMERA, and men in these comments still defend him and say she’s the problem. I don’t wanna here “not all men” EVER again.
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@djozone99 @lovvewolf You immediately jumping to dismiss any potential problem your partner might have feelings about and need emotional support with as “dysfunctional” tells us all that you’re unprepared for and have no business being in a relationship.
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@redheadranting Phew! Imagine writing a novel making someone else’s decision to remove their breasts all about you and your feelings and your judgments, and then still having the gall to call *them* a narcissist!.
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@LaramieRat @banalplay To this day I cannot figure out what gives people like you the confidence to speak so blithely and conclusively on topics that they KNOW they know nothing about!.
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@DamnDeShawn @Wildebee_ Belittling a woman’s experience, flexing your own, and then taking credit for her skills is your idea of flirting??? If you ever wondered why you get no play from women, well now you know 😅.
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@bysosa_ Only a man would think divorcing someone and then specifically seeking out their clone to marry again is some sort of flex 🤣.
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@pierrefleury_ Some men (too many) are perfect paragons of emotional cowardice. If they aren’t dismissing our concerns and fears around sexual violence (and men’s hand in it), they’re silencing our ability to share our experiences of it.
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@trectrl Right cuz its AMAZINGGGGG that Beyoncé was able to put on such an iconic performance so soon after giving birth, but in what world are we trying to normalize that as the standard for all artists who just had a baby? IT IS OK—GOOD, EVEN—FOR WOMEN TO TAKE IT EASY AFTER BIRTH!.
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@dadreadedgemini @strongblacklead He is wrong. Nobody forced him to sign up for love is blind. If physical appearance is that important to him then he CHOSE to go on the wrong dating show.
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@jamesjonesesq Right cuz it’s fine if that wasn’t your experience. I think it’s also fine to argue that it’s not a “universal” or “typical” black experience. But it is VERY disingenuous—and lowkey mean-spirited—to pretend like you can’t fathom WHY that might have been some folks’ experience.
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@MrsJellySantos “The entire room was vibing off my energy” proceeds to monopolize the bridal party’s entire day and suck their special day dry in the name of “content”. Surely this is mental illness. Wtf??.
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@brivirgeaux If Cardi B can prevent her own child from listening to her music, THEN WHY CANT YOU?? 🙄.
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@Tippipani_0801 @hisuuk YOU played the race card, be real. And in what world is Disney doing something that you don’t like justification for being racist against the actress? If they cast a live action Sleeping Beauty with a Korean actress, would you be cool with us calling her anti-Asian slurs?.
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@capricorn_Meh @_ayannaE As long as it confirms their conspiratorial, paranoid delusions they’re happy to toss any and all logical reasoning out the window!.
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@_Stemfem You can dislike Amandla for any reason—I think repeatedly taking roles more appropriately filled by dark skinned actresses is a good one—but this outsized outrage at HER rather than at the people who approved this casting choice is misplaced and unproductive.
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@JoshyBeSloshy And are we under the impression that the orange color is natural? Cuz ummm sorry to break it to yall….
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@nsbambi222 @JulianaLung Which do you think is a more pressing issue: poor people with few resources having babies that they can’t afford to take care of; or middle class women who get abortions out of financial convenience?.
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@stoppfeenin Some men can’t seem to voice their preferences in a manner that isn’t disrespectful and dripping with general disdain. “If you don’t know the difference…” “it’s a disorder…” “she prolly got a bad wig…” At that point it’s just about flexing his sense of superiority.
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@shesungodly @slexiesrivera “Let me ask you this, what country is this happening in?” VERY GOOD QUESTION CUZ HUH!???.
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@DINUUUUUUUUUUU @FunnyHumanRace He was tryna fight a girl. Forced a girl to physically defend herself against him. Had her backed up against a wall. It wasn’t her responsibility to pull her punches when DEFENDING herself. Every blow he received was well deserved.
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@WeaverBask @Pray2Helena @SalvoPancakes So he’s the only one allowed to make “jokes” at other people’s expense?.
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@andreoshea @hbcushaderoom Their line is trying to walk through the middle of a packed club full of people who aren’t part of their organization and don’t owe them obedience or deference or uninhibited use of a shared, public space. Grow up and move tf out of people’s way.
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@malachi__datguy Yall are gonna learn one day that the racist lense you view beauty through in which “black = ugly” is not natural, normal, or universal. That is an objectively beautiful woman & you only tell on yourself when you assume anybody in their right mind would agree that she isn’t.
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@lifeofkhi @talleyberrybaby But it’s not just losing an accent. It’s gaining a different one. Everybody has an accent when speaking/singing, it’s an inherent quality of oral language. What’s interesting is how some Brits take on an “American”-ish accent when singing.
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@lilstephabee @8BitProletariat That’s nice & all but I think a bigger issue is people feeling not only the need, but the apparent “duty”, to broadcast every brain dead “conspiracy theory” that pops into their mind without even once thinking to fact check by, oh I don’t know, reading the fucking receipt!?.
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@Dani_Knope @ceciATL No. An Indian woman made a video directed at those who make fun of “Indian genes” wherein she showed off her “real hair, nails, and lashes”. It was NOT directed at bw, mentioned nothing about us, and did not warrant the vocal defensiveness let alone calling all Indians smelly….
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@MoreAndAgain @_ItsMarisWorld_ Everything dies out eventually, and language especially is always shifting and evolving. I sometimes think the same even when watching vids from the 90s and early ‘00s, we sounded so different then. We don’t talk how we did 20-30 years ago, let alone 50-60.
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@daenerysunnie It’s wild to me how many people who watch and rewatch and agonize over this show and each episode still manage to misunderstand its very basic premises and themes. How do you listen to that line, within the context of that conversation, and still interpret it as blaming Luke?.
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@dadreadedgemini @strongblacklead This clip isn’t viral because he said anything groundbreaking or controversial (since it is neither of those things). It’s viral specifically BECAUSE of the context in which it was made, namely, a show about falling in love based solely on heart and soul, not physical appearance.
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@MalFromTheEast @LateefSaka Interesting. What, pray tell, was the Le Roux family doing in South Africa back in the 1600s? 🤔.
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@Whitleysdaughtr @NoEmmeG Honestly this post feels like gaslighting for anybody who’s ever dated and been cheated on by an autistic person. These kinds of posts all too commonly feel like a convenient excuse for bad behavior from ND ppl.
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@light_kitee @MellyBoominnnn @DAndreXMiller @_tinynauti He can NOT flaunt his meal in front of the woman who is currently undertaking one of the most taxing and painful processes that the human body can endure, who is likely starving but unable to eat at that moment. He can be an emotional support rather than an emotional drain.
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@Marvisace1 @spicebae_ Not when women are frequently assaulted, even killed, for saying no. Men made saying “no” dangerous so go take it up with them.
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@Yang_0641 @fernydyke Why do you think so many women feel the need to fake it with yall but not with women?.
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@brittneyxpeach And imma just say it: the design is hideous and the art is bad. It’s a cheap knock off of Japanese traditional. The pagoda is cartoonish, the kois look like dicks, the katana is muddy & distracting, and the colors are tacky. & don’t even get me started on the waves and mountains.
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@GiselleAlexax @keatingssixth Do you have children or have you ever spent time with children in any significant capacity? Were you aware that kindergarten age kids often touch themselves and even each other? This is a normal part of child dev, so it’s important to teach them safe ways to explore.
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@HannahCCoach @WappelH …but, artists shouldn’t make this sort of art available to audiences? Or people shouldn’t watch it? Or if they do watch it, they shouldn’t enjoy it or celebrate it? Like genuinely, how do you reconcile this argument here with the one presented in your main thread?.
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@Notofworks7 @MrsMZ2u @HazelAppleyard_ A man of Christ who believes he has no shortcomings. Makes sense.
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@inyoureyes1001 @ceciATL We actually undercut the impact of important conversations around mysogynoir and anti-black microaggressions when we insert them into discourses that don’t warrant them. There is nothing microaggressive about an Indian woman celebrating her own ethnic features….
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@andreaisawriter I definitely don’t think I’m better than anyone who doesn’t have a degree. I do however KNOW I’m better than anyone who forges a degree, brags about lying and cheating, and then gloats about it on the internet as a flex against those of us who worked to earn our degrees.
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@LydiaLyon5 @FunnyHumanRace Bc they are all pitiful cowards. Probably racist themselves too. Think it’s funny watching a black girl have to fight against a boy. They do not see her as deserving of protection. Rest-assured it would have gone down very different if she weren’t black or even dark-skinned.
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@LophiAmericanus @bellezzavitale @signulll Who do you think gets drunk and goes to bars to hook up? Aristocrats? Sociopaths? No average people go to bars and get drunk and have one night stands? That’s your argument?.
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@itssohardJAY @KameronBennett I’m saying! He’s in an actual relationship and these niggas are mad he didn’t shit all over it to entertain their tired social media hypotheticals?????.
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@djozone99 @lovvewolf Reading comprehension…. I did not say that focusing on a solution is dismissing the problem. I said labeling it as “dysfunction” and an “emotional rollercoaster” is….
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@aerolvr8842 @rahsh33m She knew exactly how to get one over on him cuz he was probably lazy and passive and uninvolved the whole marriage smh I wanna feel bad for him but damn….
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@wayinthere @JulianaLung For 1000s of years in most cultures, pregnancy and bearing children was compulsory for post-pubescent girls and young women. Women should absolutely be educated about their bodies, but that doesn’t actually solve the issue of ppl who shouldn’t have kids being forced to have kids.
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@arshdhillonk @monetdoII Don’t do that then. The first time you try a recipe, follow it exactly as written as much as you can. Try it, decide what you like and don’t like, then the next time, change 1, maybe 2 things. Build from there.
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@DJJHEAT973 @nhoodpublicist How’s the kid supposed to know dad admires his efforts if he just stands there barely even acknowledging his presence?.
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@Dani_Knope @ceciATL As for the smell lady, all she said is that it’s disheartening to see WOC backbiting each other, and in the process helping keep white supremacist talking points alive, WHICH IT IS.
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@formaStudios @datepsych Oh sure, because Indonesian women can’t possibly have any first hand knowledge of abuse and domestic labor imbalance! Those could only be “international feminist talking points”! 🤨.
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@LophiAmericanus @bellezzavitale @signulll I’m noticing a pattern with you. You like inventing personas for people who do things you wouldn’t (or couldn’t) do in order to feel justified in condemning them (ie projecting your inadequacy) for doing the thing the thing you don’t (but perhaps wish you did) do….
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@rosadona Every time I watch this I have to scream laughing at the sight of Bananas’ little arms and legs just flailing in the air 😂😂😂😂 he was like a cockroach flipped on its back tryna roll over.
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@DaRealKarimba @thisiskashmir It was made public so that the public could help find her. NOT for your personal entertainment or satisfaction. Now she’s been found, and the folks who helped search for her can feel relieved and proud. That’s it. The public isn’t owed shit else.
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@RReapzTV @yikes_07 @victorgsal @coldhealing If this guy can be nice to his wife and load a dishwasher after spending his day sat at a desk then why can’t you?.
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@Rayo84883994321 @AnthonyGSupreme Sure but it doesn’t warrant blatant disrespect and then acting like an innocent victim when pulled up on it.
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@shaTIRED Untoasted bread, cold butter, dry fries, cold cheese, a gallon of mayo… just sadness after sadness after sadness.
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@speak_dev @Xhakaed He’s making fun of the racists who somehow made the Baltimore bridge collapse all about DEI and affirmative action bc the city’s black mayor wore a letter jacket during a late night press conference.
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@DeoxysTriforce @datepsych Too chicken shit to have a normal conversation with a grown woman, but yet somehow you imagine that a big scary gun-toting patriarch would just jump at the chance to let you take his daughter “off of his hands”.
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@zorangecats @BrandonLBradfor Are you as outraged about him shaming vaginas as you are about her shaming penises?.
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@djozone99 @lovvewolf Nobody implied any excess amount of complaining. The OP is about the IMMEDIATE jump to imposing solutions & the total REFUSAL to offer ANY emotional support at all. I’ll point out again that it is telling you choose to frame the scenario in the least charitable manner possible….
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@LexiAlex The second tweet doesn’t boil down to “who gives af about genocide” AT ALL. AT ALL, and you know it. This is why you’re seeing a shift. This refusal to engage with ppl in good faith without misconstruing their words or intent tends to breed frustration, resentment, and anger. 1/x.
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@kieutougf Being hurt because someone lied to you about something that was never your business to begin with is a skills issue.
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@_BasedPerry @BruebelliesBoo TEACH a grown man how to wipe a counter? You think so lowly about your own gender huh? You can’t be serious….
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@thtsnotkay @reesirie To be clear, they never said those words. You misunderstood. They said “what KIND of odor would you have during your period other than blood”. That is not the same as saying that blood IS an odor. And you know it. You’re just being difficult to distract from how dumb you sound.
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@emilykmay To those reading this and choosing to miss the point, can you answer these questions: WHY is a woman with a 24in waist labeled a “size 0” in the US? WHY aren’t men with the same waist measurement labeled a “size 0”?.
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@ode_to_fyodor @datepsych Going to school and having a job doesn’t stop her from doing any of that as many men well know.
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@LophiAmericanus @bellezzavitale @signulll Instead of just saying “I don’t go to bars and have casual sex”, you say “only fuckbois go to bars and have casual sex” so you can pretend the only reason you don’t is that you’re morally superior lol.
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@inyoureyes1001 @ceciATL and using a black woman who chose to project her own self-esteem issues onto that Indian woman by spewing virulent racism as a basis for deflecting to a convo about microagressions against us is disingenuous and counter-productive.
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@ITISMESB @sukihanagoat Rewatch the clip, Amara didn’t insult her looks until AFTER Flo called her “ugly as fuck” & “a black ass bitch”. And more to the point, Amara didn’t say she looks bad because she’s light skinned, she said she looks bad because she’s BLEACHED. Bleaching looks weird, that’s a fact.
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@HollyGrayle @samah_fadil Well it clearly inspired you to abandon your soul so why don’t you tell us: was it worth it?.
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