Imagine being a Female PGA Professional and some guy comes up to you telling you how to swing 😂
She's a better person than I am because no way could I hold in my reaction
Every time I see older women that look like this, they be vegan or have plant-based diets... and idk if giving up trash food is worth it. Looking good is fun, but food makes me happy 😭
Also, Cardi having a baby in the middle of all this makes me so hopeful for the girls after her who desire family. Too many times girls hear that they can’t do both, but men can. People assumed it would hinder her but Cardi did it, and dominated.
Everyone deserves to be loved but many people have earned their loneliness. Some folks end up without friends/family/romantic partners because they’re not likable or nice to be around for long. And it’s that lack of accountability that’s keeping them there.
I know we are in the yearly recap phase on social media and everyone is announcing their biggest wins, but please don’t compare yourself and your progress to others. If your biggest achievement was just staying alive, then that’s a win too.
Women’s bodies do all kinds of things after child birth that they have no control over. Enlarged body parts like hands, feet, nose, breasts.. acne, loss of edges, extra skin/ stretch marks, hyperpigmentation/ discoloration, extra body fat, etc.
Really sad about how we’re sold these patriarchal ideals that being a “good” woman will get you love, adoration and respect from men (who you MUST base your life around) then you grow up and realize that everything was a lie. Then you’re called dumb for buying into it.
We poor, can’t meet milestones because poor, not having a lot of sex, isolated/lonely, poor, anxious about political/personal/climate future, and poor.
Men are allowed to be so flawed. They can spend their better years causing chaos in women’s lives, then one day grow up and learn to be better and wind up partnered with a beautiful (often times younger) woman.
Idk Ayesha situation but mother’s and wives often fall into a rut because their whole lives revolve around being moms and wives and they don’t have an identity outside of that, couple that with not feeling desirable. It’s very human.
Nah the attention I get when I wear my fro out is insufferable. Niggas start calling me all kinds of “Queen” and shit. I ain’t Mama Africa or one of them super woke ethereal chicks. I drink my henny from the bottle just like the rest of these regular bitches bro.
IG standards are causing a lot of body insecurities and even a little dysmorphia for a lot of girls (and guys) ... for even the most confident and secure people. Don’t forget to love the body you’re in. You look fine.
Did.. they really say there were no mixed people to look up to when the majority of black elites and black Hollywood in the 70s-80s were mixed and light skin... being light skin is and has been the standard of black beauty since slavery 💀
It’s really insane to me how much time we dedicate to work. It doesn’t leave much time to follow passions/ hobbies, learn something new, self-care, spend time with friends/family, build new relationships, and other adult things we have to do like run errands.
I love her come up story. I actually remember when she was doing the tours at those small venues. She hustled for real and I’d argue she kicked the door down for everyone else.
I get it. These grown women who spent decades in wife school have mental breakdowns when they realize A) liberated women who do wtf they want are happier B) these men you’ve groomed yourself for were not groomed for you & they’re not all they’re cracked up to be. Tough shit.
“If you looking for a meal.. just go” should’ve never received a response. I really want us to stop engaging these men and be better about preserving our energy.
I want to know the real number of people who don’t like their kids and regret having them. I don’t think we’ll ever be at a place where people would speak that honestly and candidly. Just anonymous reddit posts lol.
Imagine making it to 32 and having nothing that was promised to you for being a “good woman” & realizing that you‘ve wasted your good years by not living your life for you. The contempt for that outcome must be great. Ima try to have some compassion for those ladies lol.
I’m not even the darkest on the spectrum but my god, how do people not see what darker women go through? What is so bad about having honest convos about privileges?
All those men who are only concerned with “speaking from a logical place” are usually manipulative, have no emotional intelligence, and usually lack the analytical skills they think they’re so strong in. Throw them in the garbage.
For example: I’m a brown/ dark girl.. whatever.. but I’m also pretty and I have a nice body. Things are easier for me because of this fact. People are nicer to me, I get free things sometimes, men are drawn to me a lot more. Life is made easier for that reason.
This Eric Gardner shit hit differently because of everything that transpired after his murder. Ramsey Orta is targeted and jailed by cops for recording. Erica Garner has a heart attack at TWENTY SEVEN and leaves her kids without a mother. So many lives and families ruined.
“Charge your worth” created a bunch of under-skilled folks charging premium prices for lackluster services. And the fact of the matter is, a lot of people are delusional about the quality if their work.
As soon as I think I have a handle on things and a deep understanding of self, I peel back layers and realize there’s more work to do. More bullshit ideals and bad habits I have to unlearn.
I met this girl at this event. She hit me up telling me it was nice to meet me and she wants to do lunch.
I’m super excited and giddy at the thought of a new sister-friend. Is this what dating is like?
So twitter made me google something called “super commuters” and apparently there is a big community of people who cant live in cities like SF so they commute 6+ hours a day for their job. Oh wowww.
Also, men are really mean when they’re broke and stressed about money. I get it though. When you’re socialized to attach your manhood to providing, your ego takes a hit when you can’t. Still not nice to be around though.
Random opinion (bc idk if it’s unpopular): when your partner is likable & fun, your friends wont mind if they come out during girls night bc they aren’t a kill joy. They actually become the DD & make sure niggas don’t bother y’all.
Thinking about going to work tomorrow and being around people who won’t feel the impact of this loss like we do. Like when Nip died, or Trump’s win during the 2016 election, or when Ferguson erupted from Mike Brown’s murder. It’s a sucky reminder that we live in two America’s...