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Nelly V
6 days
Patriarchy kills love.
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Nelly V
5 months
@emilykmay Are they evangelicals? This sounds like evangelical shenanigans
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Nelly V
8 months
@HighnessOphelia @Kissmyazz24 “Come on, you’ll like it” and then gave me an std. I’ll never forgive him.
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Nelly V
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@emilykmay This is so real. Having my two younger ones surpass my eldest in many ways, over and over again, has been a quiet heartbreak alongside cheering them on…
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Nelly V
6 months
@BecomingAdamCom I married as an 18 year old in a fundy cult, and definitely wish I would’ve had the freedom to express my sexuality without tying myself to a man who was in fact preying on me, and nearly drove me to suicide over the course of ten years.
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Nelly V
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@AniseNot It’s an ad for Mormonism, like most perfectionist mommy content since the early aughts 🤷🏼‍♀️
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Nelly V
7 months
@hollowearthterf Men like this use “love” as a coverup for nasty pranks and rude treatment of the women in their lives. “Oh come on, it’s a JOKE! I thought you had a sense of humor, but now you’re acting like you don’t enjoy being my punching bag!”
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Nelly V
4 months
@hollowearthterf This is why it’s important for the man to be “more in love,” ultimately. The woman will do relationship work no matter what- he needs to be obsessed with his love for her though
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Nelly V
8 months
@myopinionokay_ Weren’t the same men JUST super mad about fully clothed girls dancing in a parking lot like… a day and a half ago??
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Nelly V
4 months
@currentlyrestin Becoming ever more of a doormat will make things all better, right?? 😃
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Nelly V
6 months
@Radfemfuture They hate single moms but sure love making them.
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Nelly V
9 months
@Methistophales I think it’s subtly influenced by sex dolls…
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Nelly V
5 months
@DelaKram75 I’d wager a good percentage of these women have developed chronic illness *because* they are married to a theobro.
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Nelly V
6 months
Bottom line- they hate you. They hate you when you’re not what they want and they hate you when you try to contort into the mold. Women will always lose when they center men.
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6 months
A pick me getting owned by a male she is trying to pander to. Many such cases.
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Nelly V
6 months
@Kissmyazz24 Listening to your wife is not equivalent to your wife having her body penetrated. So tired of this.
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Nelly V
5 months
@TheEcho13 It’s never been easier to order flowers. You can spoon feed what you want/need directly to someone like this, and they’ll still act like it’s a mystery when their refusal to be a good partner results in a split.
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Nelly V
5 months
@KaeleyT Most of what the far right thinks was “the 1950s” is just glossy advertisements from the era anyway, not the reality of what life was like.
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Nelly V
5 months
@pravdapolina “I was blindsided, I tell ya! I had NO IDEA SHE WASN’T HAPPY!!”
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Nelly V
8 months
@HighnessOphelia @Kissmyazz24 Thank you. I think just about every woman has a story. I hope the tide is turning.
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Nelly V
8 months
@Eli_B_Again @HighnessOphelia @Kissmyazz24 When you’re naked and cornered on the bed, yes.
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Nelly V
8 months
@Kissmyazz24 @Waldo_the_doggo Give him facts and it’s just “waaaah you hate men” The logical sex, ladies and gentlemen
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Nelly V
3 months
@_nomadic_soul Anyone who knows the first thing about breastfeeding knows larger breasts don’t necessarily equal more milk. It’s an excuse for their fetishization thinly veiled in “for the babies.” Sick
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Nelly V
5 months
@Strangeland_Elf “She should be held to account” says who? Some guy’s injured feefees?
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Nelly V
9 months
@pravdapolina My ex husband used to talk about wanting to skydive. It always concerned me since I was a SAHM of small children, and that self centeredness is one of many, many reasons he’s my ex.
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Nelly V
5 months
@bizlet7 Guy on the left has been living rent free in incel heads for many moons
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Nelly V
5 months
@redpill_lies The red pill is a bunch of snippy high school girls, change my mind
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Nelly V
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Nelly V
3 months
@Radfemfuture I guess no blowjobs then either 🤷🏼‍♀️
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Nelly V
4 months
@Meeersssss @hollowearthterf “The only time they should refrain from sex is when they’ve both agreed not to” Is a torn clitoris NOT something a reciprocally loving couple could AGREE is a condition to nix the sex for a while???
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Nelly V
4 months
@KaeleyT If they think people aren’t getting married enough, JUST WAIT til no-fault divorce is disposed of. Every mother will warn every daughter never to bind herself so perilously. Marriage will effectively be over as a legal institution, we are not going back to the dark ages.
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Nelly V
10 months
@Methistophales Oh yes, the magic sperm theory
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Nelly V
6 months
@hollowearthterf I am directly descended from PA Amish, and while I’ll always have a soft spot for some aspects of the culture, the abuse and neglect is too much to overlook.
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Nelly V
4 months
@hollowearthterf Disrespect for animals reveals a lack of wisdom.
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Nelly V
4 months
@DelaKram75 I tried the latter for a decade and all my ex-husband did was take me for granted and disregard me more and more. A good man heeds his wife’s words.
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Nelly V
9 months
@CarissasNewLife One of my SILs didn’t know the mechanics of what goes where until a week before her wedding. The results of this were to be expected from such educational neglect
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Nelly V
7 months
@PetiteNicoco @hollowearthterf This man is not stable.
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Nelly V
7 months
@Lauren_Southern She could take the high road like I did in my divorce and still have an uphill battle of unending nonsense. I *should’ve* cleaned every last penny I could from my ex, but I tried to be the bigger person and got nothing but spite for it anyway.
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Nelly V
8 months
@Eightysixscar Did you see he calls it “choreplay?” Men really don’t like being asked to pick up after themselves 😂
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Nelly V
7 months
@Zurbluee @JojoSeaman2 @mikepantile It’s all “generous husband shares wealth” until you divorce and then it’s “reeeee she took HIS MONEY!!”
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Nelly V
6 months
@Radfemfuture Another woman’s pregnancy and labor wasted! He should apologize to his mother for how his existence sullies the world.
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Nelly V
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@emilykmay Weird way to advertise that they had a healthy bm
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Nelly V
4 months
@jholy901 To be clear, a church setting is not a fighting ring, so the hypothetical context would be to produce harm by pinning, throttling, and covering the mouth of a woman. You are foul and disingenuous.
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Nelly V
8 months
@pearlythingz If you watched more of her videos you’d find out he was cheating on her with prostitutes but then your narrative would be punctured
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Nelly V
8 months
@Kissmyazz24 There are a lot of women currently living out the consequences of trying the “traditional” way. In the end, the women and children are just collateral for the man’s ego.
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Nelly V
8 months
@Kissmyazz24 @Eli_B_Again @HighnessOphelia I don’t mind because they’re just revealing who they are.
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Nelly V
5 months
@redpill_lies Spiritually gay, they resent that they are attracted to women
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Nelly V
4 months
@WomnOfValor I wonder if he’d be brawling quite so jolly if we began bandying abortion jokes.
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Nelly V
11 months
@americanperidot Sounds like someone needs to be disinvited from a hospital visit when baby is born!
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Nelly V
4 months
@redpill_lies Saying he’s a predator with his whole chest
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Nelly V
7 months
@louise122884 Weird way to admit they can’t appreciate a good joke!
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Nelly V
8 months
Divorced women often keep their married names to make things simpler with their children. Don’t act like the man who threatened to “fuck her shit up” when she was heavily pregnant with twins deserves our pity for her continuing to use the name she took on years ago.
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Nelly V
8 months
@SWENGDAD I was burnt out, crying on the phone for just a couple hours of help. He calmly told me no. I didn’t know he’d been intentionally spending the last months (Covid lockdown) trying to “toughen me up,” and it was driving me to insanity. That night, I realized he did not love me.
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Nelly V
9 months
@WomnOfValor My ex husband and I used to brag that we never had fights. Guess how that was accomplished? By me being so entirely subsumed in his ego that when I dared to beg for the bare minimum, he told me I didn’t need it. 2020 woke me up and I got out, but not without significant damage
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Nelly V
9 months
@hollowearthterf My ex husband’s family did this (11 kids) and their adult children have so, so much trauma. They spent their childhoods in varied ramshackle cabins and tents, and they are so screwed up because of their parents’ selfish “holiness”
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Nelly V
9 months
@MBostick7 The story about her being violently ill on her wedding day and Luke forcing her to eat wedding cake anyway broke my heart.
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Nelly V
10 months
@Birdinacage17 His vote counts as much as ours 😕
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Nelly V
8 months
The man I married and had babies with invalidated my suffering and mental anguish over and over until the night I was ready to end my life, it finally clicked- the babies weren’t the problem, he was.
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Nelly V
5 months
@Zurbluee @hollowearthterf And god forbid there be birth complications which leave you sexually impaired any longer than the barely-tolerated six weeks.
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Nelly V
8 months
@Kissmyazz24 Not all members of a given species end up procreating. Also, we are cognitively higher than the species who do so indiscriminately.
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Nelly V
5 months
@constans Car seat safety is one of only a couple things I ever stood up for and argued with my ex husband about. Ex.
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Nelly V
5 months
@WomnOfValor I can see how Debbie has had to become hard and heartless toward other women in order to survive marriage to this monster.
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Nelly V
7 months
@Radfemfuture If he went into debt for that and they divorce, some of that debt will probably go to her. 😡
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Nelly V
8 months
@HolywoodHatesUS It looks like prednisone side effects 😢
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Nelly V
8 months
@v8562x0 @HighnessOphelia @Kissmyazz24 They’re bad people, pure and simple
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Nelly V
7 months
@SwearingsCaring Such a vile mentality.
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Nelly V
4 months
@redpill_lies I don’t think being straight is working out very well for him
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Nelly V
8 months
@PeonyPrincess27 He should kindly explain the number of women in abusive “Christian” marriages where their fundamentalist fathers presided over the match
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Nelly V
9 months
@CuriousBunnie12 And not everyone wants kids so why is he making it about that anyway
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Nelly V
4 months
@WomnOfValor The part that makes it not a joke is that it’s what they actually wish they could do.
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Nelly V
5 months
@_nomadic_soul They’re trying to Christianize a kink. There’s nothing more to it.
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Nelly V
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@DoomScroling Societal benefits = “makes my weenie tingle”
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Nelly V
4 months
@hollowearthterf The redpill natal fetishism is repackaged porn addiction. It still reduces the woman to a sexual object.
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Nelly V
3 months
@hollowearthterf Most men want children the way early 2000’s celebrities wanted a chihuahua in a handbag.
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Nelly V
4 months
@redpill_lies Pregnancy at 18 messed up my spine permanently, I shudder to think what it would’ve done to me at 16. I also got hella depressed 🙃
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Nelly V
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@CarissasNewLife Thank you Satan for the hot makeup sex, I guess
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Nelly V
4 months
@Radfemfuture If she thinks feminism benefits men then wait til she hears about this thing called patriarchy
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Nelly V
5 months
@hollowearthterf Honestly, yeah. Married I had 4 kids, divorced I only have 3.
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Nelly V
10 months
@FenwickDragon When I married my ex, we were so poor, I told him not to buy me flowers. Years later, he was making far more money and I told him that yes, I actually would like flowers, especially in the bleak winter. Guess who still never bought me flowers?? BAR TOO LOW
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Nelly V
7 months
@_nomadic_soul Little boys stomping their feet and demanding “give me my thing NOW!!”
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Nelly V
3 months
@mrsdobbins_ To get people to stop asking when they’re having another after this one
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Nelly V
7 months
@Radfemfuture The logical sex, y’all
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Nelly V
7 months
@getabass Men who ascribe to patriarchy seem to often be extremely sensitive to how they’re spoken to. They wish for all who approach to kiss the proverbial ring.
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Nelly V
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@R777Matthew @Eli_B_Again @HighnessOphelia @Kissmyazz24 I’m not a rape apologist so I’m worlds better than you, cupcake
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Nelly V
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@chrisusclueless @TheEcho13 Don’t be shocked when exactly zero women sign up
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Nelly V
8 months
@Slatzism That poor guy, such a people pleaser that everything he does is about himself 😔🙏🏻
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Nelly V
6 months
@FenwickDragon My boss encourages me to take PTO when I need to. The dbag ex husband never did that when I was tradwifing it up
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Nelly V
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@brianlevine33 @Radfemfuture @KrizoSusanna He’s so angry. All he has is provoke. Uncle did a job on him.
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Nelly V
6 months
@CuriousBunnie12 I’m so glad I have a man who worships me whether I grow my hair king or crop it. Real king shit.
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Nelly V
9 months
@arod_twit These people are simply raising the next generation of deconstructionists and religiously trauma survivors
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Nelly V
4 months
@hilcrowder My honest reaction every time the accusation is made
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Nelly V
5 months
Why is the 4B movement growing??
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Wife won’t fuck you? Fuck her friends.
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Nelly V
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@_nomadic_soul If it wasn’t for those meddling women, I coulda just interpreted the text how I want, devoid of cultural context and coincidentally what I am biased toward!!
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Nelly V
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@Radfemfuture Men say it’s easy, LOL
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Nelly V
7 months
We’re here and we’re very angry.
@Radfemfuture
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Nelly V
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@louise122884 They like to quote this faulty stat ALL. THE. TIME. Ignoring the fact that, because women are default caregivers, fathers have to be above average in order to have fully custody, meaning that these stats are showing results of average moms against above average dads.
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Nelly V
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@Radfemfuture If you don’t follow their script, their only recourse is empty threats. They’ve created a boogeyman of some elderly, female Scrooge, who learns too late that she squandered life- when the actual nuance of our options and relational investments is far too deep for them to grasp.
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Nelly V
8 months
@The_Feminist_TM “File for divorce” just means finally calling the time of death of the marriage. Heartbeat stopped way before that.
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Nelly V
3 months
@ExaminingMoscow There’s no such thing as “spiritual gynecology” though, Doug! You just want to have everyone’s blackmail. 😉
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Nelly V
7 months
@louise122884 If only he’d gotten his beautiful sexy 10, then he’d never complain about hating his wife
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Nelly V
3 months
“I NEVER SAW IT COMING!!!”
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Men would rather blow up their whole marriage than clean up after themselves and throw their socks in the laundry! Pathetic they are.
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Nelly V
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@Yusuf98281862 @WomnOfValor Was he even having sex *with* his wife, or doing sex *to* her? He’s an absolute swine, and it’s a tragic story.
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