slv bao Profile Banner
slv bao Profile
slv bao

@slvbao

Followers
418
Following
163
Media
43
Statuses
916

The devoted man to the matriarchal @cynthiancult I help sub men & Domme women who are ready to create a Divine D/s relationship.

Joined February 2015
Don't wanna be here? Send us removal request.
Explore trending content on Musk Viewer
Pinned Tweet
@slvbao
slv bao
11 months
The feminine doesn’t need protection because she is fragile. She needs protection because she is valuable. The masculine doesn’t need nurture because he is weak. He needs nurture because he is courageous. A woman without protection, is as lost as the man without nurture.
4
4
24
@slvbao
slv bao
1 year
Submission ≠ passivity Dominance ≠ aggression Submissives as weak losers is a porn trope. Dominants as mean bitches is also a porn trope. Many subs are outgoing, charismatic, & bold. Many Dommes are reserved, humble, & modest. Don’t be fooled by porn.
2
36
115
@slvbao
slv bao
2 years
@SendToVi You should absolutely believe that for yourself if that’s what you want. But why act like you talk for everyone?
1
0
32
@slvbao
slv bao
2 years
Prove your value to the Domme/woman of your dreams by doing something small for her each day, that's just for her. A meaningful gesture that has a real cost to you, and a real benefit to her. A sacrifice by name, & nature. Here's 12 meaningful things you can sacrifice: 🧵
3
5
24
@slvbao
slv bao
11 months
Dear sub men, All the Dommes you love are real-life women. They also sell a persona in a marketplace. Off the clock, these women are still real people. Many of them want a real life divine FLR. Sadly, most of them don't know how to create it. But it CAN start with you.
0
4
24
@slvbao
slv bao
1 year
D/s offers much more than porn. LIVING an FLR life ≠ what 99.9% of X shows. FLR is a symbiotic relationship w/consciously chosen roles. A Domme rising into her divine leadership. A sub rising into his divine servitude. We help & serve each other to 'fully become with love'.
0
5
26
@slvbao
slv bao
11 months
@cynthiancult I'm grateful for you too 💕 Also don't be fooled. I believe @cynthiancult & I regularly go darker in our dynamic than most extremist kinksters, yet also lighter than most romantic normie couples in love. You too can have the full spectrum, but the path isn't what you'd expect.
0
1
21
@slvbao
slv bao
1 year
Women want worship Men want respect Women want protection Men want stable love Women want provision Men want nurture Relationship are easy when we remember these rules. But instead of giving freely, we take, demand, & expect. Loneliness is the unwillingness to give AND take.
0
5
19
@slvbao
slv bao
1 year
@sunrisefall There's way more dominant women than men think too. But most submissive men & dominant women aren't accessed via hardcore porn, kink, or even sex. The access is a deep emotional & energetic connection built on a mutual willingness to trust, surrender, & explore shadow selves.
2
0
21
@slvbao
slv bao
1 year
@sunrisefall Many women want to assume the masculine role, esp in the West. Behaving like, & emulating men Defeating men as a measure of self-worth Pride in eradicating / diminishing men Pop-femdom is arguably toxic femininity. Wounded women abusing wounded men, in the name of empowerment.
1
4
21
@slvbao
slv bao
1 year
FLR = female LED relationship Not female controlled. Not female managed. Not female driven. Not female dominated. Not female superiority. Not female owned. Those are not a FLR. Led > Lead > Leadership Leaders inspire people. Managers control people. Tyrants dominate people.
0
5
16
@slvbao
slv bao
1 year
@VillainatrixXx It can be though. Just maybe not to you. Some parts may not be sustainable, healthy, or enjoyable for those who don't want femdom porn to be THEIR real life. But some people live (and enjoy) living a life depicted in femdom porn. Me & @cynthiancult included. 🤷‍♂️
1
0
20
@slvbao
slv bao
1 year
Subs: Most of you seek a character, called Domme. What you really want, is a woman who is powerful. Who then leads you with love, respect, power, & assertion. Which will include the sexual realm. When you serve a woman who is READY to be a leader, the Domme simply emerges.
0
4
19
@slvbao
slv bao
1 year
Worship is more than kissing feet, endless praise, & being a simp It's ALSO not limited to subs worshiping Dommes! The etymology of wor-ship is 'worth-quality' Subs acknowledging her worth as a woman, person, & leader Dommes acknowledging his worth as a man, person, & servant
0
7
13
@slvbao
slv bao
2 years
How to woo the Domme of your dreams 1. Relate to her as a real human (just like you), with hopes, dreams, fears, doubts, & ideas etc. 2. Listen fully to her – ask thoughtful Qs & make choices that inspire her. 3. Ask about her wants — not what you want her to be for you.
1
0
10
@slvbao
slv bao
11 months
@rachelclif The divine girl commandments: 1. Trust me 2. Follow me 3. Provide me 4. Protect me 5. Allow me 6. Listen with me 7. Do all of the above without resistance
0
3
14
@slvbao
slv bao
11 months
@cynthiancult The dance between light & dark is more than words. It's self love. It's courage. It's vulnerability. It's showing up with the willingness to work rather than throw it all away when it feels hard. A loving D/s relationship is possible, but it's built on humility not control.
0
0
10
@slvbao
slv bao
1 year
Reminder to many Dommes & subs: There's no universal rule of 'what a sub is/should do' There's no universal rule of 'what a Domme is/should do' You are building a complex relationship with another messy human being, not buying a car. 💕
0
3
11
@slvbao
slv bao
1 year
We all have egos. The Domme ego. The sub ego. The ego isn't negative. It's just our chosen identity when we're afraid. The common Domme ego is a wounded woman trying to feel confident & empowered. The common sub ego is a wounded man trying to feel purpose & connection.
0
2
11
@slvbao
slv bao
11 months
Protecting the feminine as divine masculine is NOT code for violence, coddling, or white-knighting. It’s about support & guidance, not overbearing control. My protection of @cynthiancult is from things that try to pull her away from her divinity - incl her own ego at times.
1
1
12
@slvbao
slv bao
11 months
Wounded D/s energy is sexualised abuse, degradation, & subjugation. Divine D/s energy is vulnerable worship, reverence, & surrender. @cynthiancult & I explore BOTH energies as we integrate with our own light & shadows. We consciously use D/s energy to explore, NOT escape.
0
2
12
@slvbao
slv bao
2 years
I'm not anti-findom, but findom has taken a dark turn. Today, it's about creating & exploiting sexual addiction beyond what's sane or good for another human. Most findoms do not understand (or care) for what addiction can do to society/people. It's borderline sex trafficking.
2
2
9
@slvbao
slv bao
1 year
@sunrisefall I like your subs. Proactive, aware, constructive. :) Well done on being the empowering force for them to rise into their divine submission.
1
1
11
@slvbao
slv bao
1 year
EVERY relationship falls on the D/s spectrum. Hierarchy is a natural order of life. But our experience is determined by our context. Love or Fear Love is divine masc / fem Fear is wounded masc / fem Wounded creates toxic relationships Divine creates symbiotic relationships
0
3
10
@slvbao
slv bao
1 year
Sexuality is a core driver of our biology, & social identities. It's a key realm to our power, control, & self expression — with ourselves, & others. It's one way we process & align our mind, body, & emotions. Resisting sexual awareness, is to resist our function as animals.
0
4
11
@slvbao
slv bao
1 year
It took me 20+ years to 'find' a D/s relationship that most men dream of. Guys, I've been there. But reality is, I didn't find her. I stopped looking in fact. I went to work on me. I became more peaceful, self-aware, self-regulated, & self loving. And then, she appeared.
1
1
10
@slvbao
slv bao
11 months
Divine D/s isn't a lack of kink or extreme play. In fact, @cynthiancult & I are more extreme than most. Divine D/s is the CONTEXT in which that play is experienced & expressed. It's not about the kinks. Divine D/s is a full expression & fusion of our minds, bodies, & souls.
1
1
9
@slvbao
slv bao
1 year
@cynthiancult Beach life looks much better on you than city life 😉
0
0
5
@slvbao
slv bao
1 year
@sunrisefall Strong women also don’t fight men. Fighting is fear expressed as resistance, independent of gender. Submission is strength. Leadership is service. Love is surrender. I feel D/s is the paradigm of exploring power & control, with the evolutionary path being mutual surrender.
1
1
8
@slvbao
slv bao
11 months
I'm consciously addicted to @cynthiancult In fact, our daily practice is about deepening that addiction. I'd prefer to be addicted to a Divine Matriarch who guides & inspires me through life, than addicted to hiding, being right, winning, or controlling everyone/everything.
1
1
8
@slvbao
slv bao
1 year
Toxic masculinity = boys being boys. Wounded men abusing others to fuel self worth. Toxic femininity = femdom. Wounded women abusing others to fuel self worth. Fighting toxicity with toxicity is revenge. It's the game of disempowered people with poor self-mastery.
0
1
6
@slvbao
slv bao
1 year
@cynthiancult @sunrisefall Here's the thing: We get triggered. But then we stop, look deeper, & have a difficult conversation. If you and I didn't/couldn't do that, this relationship simply wouldn't exist. I wish more ppl understood that relationships thrive when we show up with humility, not hide!
0
0
6
@slvbao
slv bao
1 year
We worship who we respect. We respect who we admire. We admire who connect with us. Anything else is role play. Women who are genuinely respectful, admirable, & connecting, are worshipped by men AND women. The rest may get praise or attention, but they won’t be worshipped.
0
0
8
@slvbao
slv bao
1 year
One of the best things about a divine FLR is: You can't hide. Most people hide even little parts of themselves in their relationships. Why? They fear rejection / losing the relationship. Ironically, this leads to secrecy & repression which kills the relationship anyway.
0
1
8
@slvbao
slv bao
11 months
Many women want men to be perfect out-of-the-box so they can enjoy all the benefits w/o risk. Many men are the same w/women. Brainwashed into believing that we're entitled to a Gucci life. Relationships that stand the test of time are built, not bought. You gotta work bitch.
1
0
9
@slvbao
slv bao
2 years
Many predatory findoms insist that they are pro-women, but they're really just pro-them. Predatory findom will end up hurting women most, especially the responsible dommes. Women need to speak up abt predatory domination, just how men need to speak up abt predatory submission.
1
2
8
@slvbao
slv bao
11 months
@sunrisefall The tragic irony of women fighting for female empowerment while fully embodying the wounded masculine has never been lost on me. And it's all built on top of a belief that men/masculine and women/feminine are in competition with each other.
1
0
8
@slvbao
slv bao
1 year
@cynthiancult Thank you for having the courage to lead in your divine loving feminine. Thank you for not behaving like a man, and mistaking it for being a powerful woman.
0
2
8
@slvbao
slv bao
1 year
D/s can be many things: • Sexual expression • Vulnerable intimacy • Aesthetic lifestyle • Exploring shadow self • Experimentation • Relationship dynamic • Business/income • Meditative practice Others will tell you what it means to them. Decide what it means to you.
1
1
8
@slvbao
slv bao
11 months
Conscious Addiction: Lovingly choosing what we want to be addicted to. Accepting that: • It will dominate us • It will narrow our focus • It will govern our choices • It will shape our life EVERYONE is already addicted to something. Most just aren't conscious about it.
1
1
6
@slvbao
slv bao
1 year
We ALL have masculine & feminine energy. Domination is fearful masculine. Manipulation is fearful feminine. The divine masculine AND feminine is surrender, not fear. A woman who behaves like a man while dominating men, does not see the irony of her fearful masculinity at play.
2
1
7
@slvbao
slv bao
1 year
@Daddy_AnLi The floor is dirty, it ruins clothes, & it’s really not that useful other than for optics / flexing. I’d prefer to stand just behind her, or be holding her bag, or ensuring she has what she needs at the event, or thinking about what/where she’s going to want to eat afterwards 😂
1
0
7
@slvbao
slv bao
10 months
Kink is a way we experience ourselves. Many never question kinks they're into, or why. They offer deep insight into unresolved things within ourselves, providing both therapeutic & somatic exploration. Two people into the same kink will have uniquely different origin stories.
1
1
7
@slvbao
slv bao
2 years
Summary Just because you offer sacrifice, doesn't mean she'll take it, or owe you. It is counter-intuitive, but the more you can detach from, the closer you'll be to a life of rich meaning, service, and deep purpose. Remember — everything we value is created from sacrifice.
1
1
6
@slvbao
slv bao
1 year
D/s is a torch that can light our shadow if we allow it to. The Domme or sub you're deeply attracted to is often a reflection of your fears, insecurities, wants, & needs. Attraction is typically informed by comfort/trauma. Judgement is the invisible hand that kills your torch.
0
0
6
@slvbao
slv bao
1 year
@SpoilAna He isn't wrong in that dominance IS a masculine energetic trait. But we ALL have masculine & feminine energy, which is separate from male/female gender. The key is harmony. It's when we get stuck in the imbalance that we tend to have a distorted experience of life.
1
0
6
@slvbao
slv bao
2 years
4. Money Money is very subjective. It’s less about the amount, & more about the sacrificial cost to you. The cost of your sacrifice, must have a real impact on you. Give up the thing you want or need, give that value to her, and watch her enjoy your sacrifice.
1
0
5
@slvbao
slv bao
2 years
8. Gifts This isn’t the type you buy at the store, but the innate things that make you, you. Your way with words, your talented hands, your creative mind, physical strength, or ability to make things happen. Choose to give her the very best of what your gifts can create.
1
0
5
@slvbao
slv bao
2 years
3. Sleep Whether lining up for tickets, doing work, saying Good Morning / Goodnight in different time zones, or waiting for a delivery, you may be required to push far beyond your bed time. Choose to sacrifice one of your basic needs, so hers don't need to skip a beat.
1
0
5
@slvbao
slv bao
1 year
@sunrisefall What I love about this tweet, is that you're inviting people to consider a different point of view, while owning your own position in the process. 💕 It's wonderful when you speak from the divine.
0
0
5
@slvbao
slv bao
1 year
@sunrisefall @cynthiancult I do try however the male psyche in particular (as we both know) can be an exhausting realm to navigate. The fear of social inadequacy is palpable in most men which makes the resistance high. It’s ironic that men created a prison for themselves by choosing to rule with fear
0
0
6
@slvbao
slv bao
1 year
A powerful demonstration for resonance, and how energy ultimately seeks alignment even if it competes for a while. This is no different to how people, society, and community function. We are energetic beings after all. Be mindful of who you're resonating with.
@wonderofscience
Wonder of Science
1 year
Metronomes started randomly synchronize after a short period of time as they influence each other through the side-to-side motion of their shared base. 📽: UCLA Physics & Astronomy
157
2K
9K
0
0
4
@slvbao
slv bao
2 years
Please comment, like, & retweet if you enjoyed this thread and would wish for me to create more! Thanks for reading, and please give me a follow, and my Goddess, @MsCynthia_Leone
0
0
5
@slvbao
slv bao
2 years
9. Freedom We all value our freedom — to think, speak, move, do, & be as we please. How often do you take that for granted? Would you give up any liberties for her benefit? Choose constraint for her as a powerful gesture to demonstrate a willingness to be captive in her heart.
1
0
5
@slvbao
slv bao
10 months
The greatest & deepest loves in life will be with those who choose to dance with us rather than fight. The mirror is summoning - not attacking. Embrace it. Explore it. Get delightfully lost in the surrender of meeting yourself through others, And you’ll never suffer again.
0
0
2
@slvbao
slv bao
1 year
The most attractive people have quiet confidence. Which is not the same as loud confidence — arrogance, pride, or narcissism. Quiet confidence comes from self-mastery. Awareness > regulation > love > acceptance Loud confidence is fearful. Quiet confidence is peaceful.
0
0
5
@slvbao
slv bao
2 years
11. Fear We're all afraid of something. Perhaps the loss of something on this list, or something else. Courage does not mean fearlessness, but choosing to show up even when scared. Choose her over your fear, & be courageous in your sacrifice. Feel scared, and choose her anyway.
1
0
5
@slvbao
slv bao
2 years
2. Pride Can you give up something you're really proud of, even for a moment, if it benefits her? Perhaps it’s a need to win, be right, or be recognised? Or in the way you look, or choose to do things. Choose your relationship with her over your ego's need to look good.
1
0
5
@slvbao
slv bao
2 years
6. Time Time is our most valuable asset. Pouring your time into her, her life, & what’s important to her shows a willingness to sacrifice what's most valuable to you, for her. So drive her across town, wait for her, & give your attention. It’s never wasted when it’s for her.
1
0
5
@slvbao
slv bao
2 years
7. Energy Like money, some people have lots of energy while others have less. How much you give, is relative to what you have. Choose to give her your best energy. Then do do all that you can to improve your energy so she can expand both of your lives, by consuming yours.
1
0
5
@slvbao
slv bao
1 year
Important message this Locktober! Chastity is a marathon, not a sprint. If you want to stay locked up for a long time, you gotta keep it clean & healthy. Long consistency always beats short intensity over time.
@HypnoFairy
🎀 𝒞𝑒𝒶𝓇𝒶'𝓈 𝐻𝓎𝓅𝓃꩜-𝐹𝒶𝒾𝓇𝓎 🎀
1 year
#Locktober tip for Noobs: Clean. Clean. Clean. Especially the less expensive plastic tubes. Irrigate w water bottle after every pee. Irrigate and clean w soapy water in shower. You risk rash and infection of the urethra if you don't make KEEPING IT CLEAN a priority.
0
7
21
0
1
5
@slvbao
slv bao
1 year
Life is designed to trigger you into growing — or dying. Life doesn't want weakness. Effective Dommes / subs WILL trigger your shadow. The fork in everyone's road: Face your shadow. Discover yourself. Heal & grow. – or – Avoid your shadow. Remain lost. Stay wounded & die.
0
0
5
@slvbao
slv bao
1 year
Your life = your choices Submission is a choice Obedience is a choice Surrender is a choice Acceptance is a choice Serving is a choice Many SAY you want a D/s life like me And it's never been easier But you're scared, so you'll choose excuses, judgement, & avoidance instead
0
2
5
@slvbao
slv bao
1 year
Creating a D/s relationship is like buying tools at a shop. 1) How deep is your understanding of the task? 2) What's your confidence with that task? 3) What's motivating you? 4) What does success look like? Your choices determine your focus, effort, willingness, & investment.
1
3
6
@slvbao
slv bao
2 years
12. Spotlight When opportunity arises to be the hero of the story, can you hand the mic over, & direct the spotlight her way instead? Choose to pull yourself back in behind her, and elevate her so she may shine as brightly as you’d like to.
1
0
5
@slvbao
slv bao
1 year
@sunrisefall 👏 A refreshing change from the trope of 'insecure woman hurt by the masc, playing a character in an attempt to soothe her own fears & inadequacies via unregulated sadness & anger.' I think matriarchy is lost on many because they've come to view life as men vs women, not 'and'.
0
0
5
@slvbao
slv bao
2 years
10. Space Emotional, mental, or physical space — everything fights for our attention, priority, & focus. And it's severely limited. Choose to make more space by letting go of things you may like, value, or want, so there's more room to create something new with her.
1
0
5
@slvbao
slv bao
2 years
5. Satiation Perhaps it’s an orgasm, a cold beer on a hot day, or the last serving of food. Whatever completes the pleasure loop for you, is something you must offer to her instead. Choose to offer your denial to her so she may enjoy your satiation for herself.
1
0
5
@slvbao
slv bao
1 year
@sunrisefall @cynthiancult Yes, we help each other rise into our divinity. I help her rise into her divine leadership, and she helps me rise into my divine submission. It's a mutual exchange, and a symbiotic process. We both must show up fully, with a deep desire to serve the other for this to work.
0
0
5
@slvbao
slv bao
1 year
@sunrisefall They're not women who live/practice an FLR, but just in the business of findom/femdom. Most of Twitter is just people hustling for cash in the name of 'community.' It's not abt real people, relationships, trust, & intimacy anymore. Just $$$, leads, traffic, & ROI.
0
0
5
@slvbao
slv bao
10 months
The divine feminine is the womb. Safety, nurture, growth, renewal. Too much time in the womb deprives life. So we eject ourselves at ~9 months. The divine masculine is the arena. Danger, focus, change, risk. Too much time in the arena kills us. So we seek wombs to return to.
1
2
6
@slvbao
slv bao
1 year
We ALL have the divine masculine & feminine in us. They are energies, not genders or morality. A man in his divine feminine is sensitive & intuitive. A woman in her divine masculine is assertive & focused. It's possible to be in our divine feminine, AND our wounded masculine.
1
0
5
@slvbao
slv bao
10 months
@cynthiancult 😔 I bring you food x
0
0
2
@slvbao
slv bao
1 year
Where focus goes, energy flows. Observe who, what, & where your give your focus to, and it will reveal your future.
1
0
5
@slvbao
slv bao
1 year
@sunrisefall Most men want to serve, submit, & obey, even in the vanilla world. So submission itself isn't the problem. It's who/what we're submitting to. Our deepest fear is getting that wrong. Submission is the realm of deep trust. When people don't/won't submit, they don't trust you.
1
1
4
@slvbao
slv bao
2 years
@DominaYuki @JoanPrice Well I think many relationships are built on and powered by insecurity and a fear of being alone. So by the time we add poor communication skills, low eq (by both parties), and the drama triangle, we have a disaster cocktail.
1
0
5
@slvbao
slv bao
1 year
@Striplanas haha this whole account is AI pics everyone!
0
0
5
@slvbao
slv bao
10 months
@TheMasculineLaw @WomenPostingLs You’re making lots of assumptions here 🤷🏻‍♂️
1
0
4
@slvbao
slv bao
2 years
1. Comfort Whether it's giving up your seat, jacket, voice, or invisibility, you allow her to challenge your threshold for discomfort, so she may benefit, and/or be more comfortable. Choose to put her comfort and pleasure before your own.
1
0
4
@slvbao
slv bao
1 year
@inchworming @cynthiancult Submitting to a PEACEFUL woman is the most blissful thing a PEACEFUL man can do. Turbulent woman + peaceful man = resignation Turbulent man + peaceful woman = resentment Turbulent woman + turbulent man = war It's less about gender, & more abt where each person is energetically.
1
1
5
@slvbao
slv bao
1 year
Your ego keeps you from having what you want. You wanna serve, but can't take feedback. You wanna lead, but can't be doubted. You wanna be a slave, but need to control everything. You wanna be a Domme, but you're insecure. YOU are the reason you don't have what you want. 🫰
0
1
5
@slvbao
slv bao
10 months
@rachelclif I think you’re fantastically deeply curious. I think you’re a human with a personal realm trying/wanting to integrate with the entire paradigm of divine energy. To expand. Which absolutely includes meeting versions of yourself who challenge yet support you deeper - like me.
1
0
3
@slvbao
slv bao
1 year
It’s like this for me, except when @cynthiancult squeezes things with her claws 🍒😂
@TheFigen_
Figen
1 year
The power of a girl's kiss! He recovered immediately! 😂😂
2K
28K
187K
0
0
5
@slvbao
slv bao
1 year
Dear sub men: DO NOT allow any woman to diminish, degrade, or control you just bc she calls herself a Domme. Similarly, you are NOT owed anything bc a woman is pro-Domme / SW / attractive to you. 1st = you're both equal humans 2nd = make an agreement 3rd = enjoy the dynamic
0
1
6
@slvbao
slv bao
11 months
I hate that 'Domme' is synonymous with a scared woman embodying wounded masculine energy, & avoiding her divinity. Just as I hate that 'sub' is synonymous with a scared man embodying wounded feminine energy, & avoiding his divinity. This path only leads to toxic outcomes.
1
1
4
@slvbao
slv bao
1 year
People get disempowered when things don't line up. We don't see eye to eye. We can't make it work. We don't win. So we throw tantrums. We blame, fight, injure, & punish. 'There are no good subs!' 'There are no real dommes!' BS. You're looking out instead of looking in.
0
0
2