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please consider helping Lissa, she's been dealt a wretched hand for the next few months. if you can contribute, i'll buy you something of comparable value from my fave trans leather worker
@butchsystm
/ riverqueer dot com
A bunch of people have been asking if they can support me remotely while I'm trying to survive this absurd series of surgical complications (as well as the inevitable next round from the colostomy), so here we go.
Every bit helps, thank you 😭
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i just introduced myself to someone as beth, while wearing a skirt and a full beat, and got asked my pronouns. please just put me out of my misery now because im not gonna make it through pride month at this rate
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i did everything right. no amazon basics skirt, just wool slacks and a sensible sweater. hobbies: cooking, going for walks. i run windows and use a normal keyboard. and yet here we are: my boyfriend is making jokes about "new vegas". this is where respectability politics gets you
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the biggest lesson i took from irl kink spaces: you can't be welcoming to everyone simultaneously. you can uninvite an abuser and deal with the fuss, or you can let them keep showing up, and you might not even notice how many other people quietly stop coming back...
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@anarchosuccubus
@FatDiscoDyke
sorry, i thought his fics were hot, didn't realize he belonged to an oppressive aristocrat class, unfollowing now
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"tits or ass" bro her flinch response when i take her chin between gloved fingertips and gently tip it upward
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lotta guys in the qrt's not realizing that you can signal you're chill and safe by shrugging off lighthearted jokes at your expense
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@vengefulbutch
every day I get up, slick back my hair, square up my shoulders, and clock in to my shift at the fumbling bad bitches factory
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was just sent this by an old friend who's a poli sci prof, do you think he's trying to flirt
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finally figured out what the cadence of this tweet reminded me of
@BlaireCelestia
@woodstockSSB
Have you considered that some afab people have trauma with amab people and simply dont want to be around them? or do you live in your own head and cant fathom how a problem like that exists
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love when someone says "you guys" or "aww man" or w/e and then backtracks to explain at length that they didn't mean to misgender me. like dont worry babygirl, it's all good, that's not even in your top ten worst routine microaggressions
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here's how I'm being asked to describe my own gender identity btw
intake questionnaire for my doctor's appointment is asking about my sexual partners and uhhh. maybe i should just let you all tag yourselves
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i genuinely thought i was going to live out my days without ever recapturing the thrill of livejournal poly groups and the revelation that a guy's wife was a horse, but here we are
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when she invites you on a "casual hike", and shows up at the trailhead dressed in aramid-reinforced tights and offers you milspec-looking chocolate rations that "don't contain amphetamines, don't worry about it"
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the cishet couple that i unicorn for bought me a le creuset dutch oven for Christmas
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went to the dykë function yesterday and the most daunting cïs-trans cultural barrier was just "i only use signal" vs "i only use instagram"
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...but there is no third option where nobody has to be excluded. yes this takes discernment and hard judgment calls, yes it's good to keep hot allostatic loads in mind, but it's just the fact of the matter
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formative experience a decade ago: one housemate got another evicted, by telling us she "felt unsafe" around them and letting us fill in the blanks. afterward, she clarified that she'd meant just a literal feeling of being uncomfortable and activated
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kink concept: forget using someone as a footstool or an ashtray, i want a girl i can use as an altar. inscribe a goetic seal on her forehead, gaze into her dilated pupils instead of into an obsidian mirror to catch glimpses of a demonic form
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(sulking) older women never want ME for a gullible side piece, even though i think id be really good at it, and maybe even thrive under those conditions,
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craiglist ad for a "bipoc only" room for rent
list of current housemates includes:
"55 yo queer femme white gal with working class roots who came to own this property"
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"in queer spaces, we don't infer pronouns based on presentation" okay give that a try at the leather/levi bar and let me know how it goes. or do cis gay men once again not count as "queer"
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i just brought home a thrifted Himalayan salt lamp, only to discover that instead of an incandescent bulb, it has an LED bulb that slowly cycles through the rainbow. so now the ambiance in my bedroom is something i can only describe as Gamer Wiccan
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i've been struggling for months to articulate a nagging, inchoate sense that some folks on here approach gender stuff as fundamentally a game or a puzzle, and she just... tweeted it out
if you’re trying to answer “what explains people’s attachment to gender”. i think “fun” taken in an expansive sense, is a pretty good answer.
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um, excuse me?? i believe the lady has already made her feelings about irregularities between sisters VERY clear 😤
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in my experience, my non-trans partners do not want to kill me, and in fact are disappointingly resistant to my suggestions of even light bedroom roleplay along those lines
t4t lesbianism is not necessarily about having shared trauma its also about hole and love and having fun together and not being around people that want to kill us
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this is such a deeply funny misapprehension of what life is like for people like us. the part of finnster's whole shtick that is demanded by market forces is not the feminine presentation, but the insistence that he's a crossdressing guy rather than a trans woman
@soberlezzz
@sidhe_her
@a_lanno
@Capsandnumbers
@MagsVisaggs
A male cross dresser who identifies as a man despite crossdressing. Someone who's work makes him present as fem.
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"the non transitioning afab enbies aren't gonna hurt you"
trying to think of the least “stop being a little baby” way to say this but the non transitioning afab enbies aren’t gonna hurt you just cause they don’t understand gender theory
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watching halimede interact with Max graves in the replies is giving me the exact same dopamine rush as being a kid and reading crossover issues of a comic
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"came to own this property" they invented the cop passive voice but for landlords
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sorry in advance to everyone around me, but i WILL absolutely be running this phrase into the ground
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need a girl who stands at parade rest one pace to my left and half a pace behind me. ominous lieutenant gf
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if you use the word "infohazard" this is pretty much exactly what i assume your politics are
infohazard: i don't think i know any gay people who aren't massive degenerates
if you think you do then you're wrong
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ok so you know how plant based meat substitutes have cutesy names like chick'n, be'f, and so forth? that's how im gonna start talking about the strap. really need to get properly dik'd down rn
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you will be profoundly unsurprised to learn the latter person's agab
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it's so cool how i have to first ensure my body language is maximally nonthreatening at all times, then watch people fetishize how meek and rapeable we are, and THEN hear complaints about the shortage of physically intimidating trans women tops
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me: hey so uhh when you say you "wish you had a body like mine," how should i take that?
my grindr match, eyes glowing like cave fungus, flexing her fingers jerkily as soft sinuous things coil and distend her skin: oh itszz a flirty compliment. im szzsaying you're hot
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dragging another puppy girl home by the collar because i need a breeding pair, no matter how much she struggles and pleads... call that CNC milling
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"i cannot weave, slender Aphrodite has overcome me--" okay but where does "slender" come from here? other translations of this line seem to have e.g. "soft" instead, and, after all, Her epithet is precisely not "slender" but "thicc" (καλλίπυγος), right?
???
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rip deleuze you would have loved having a sparkledog pfp and putting "it/they | ΘΔ" in bio
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doing my best to stay appropriately awed and intimidated by the esoteric, reality-bending schizoposters on here, but i'm starting to suspect that some of you need to be given a hug and fed a vegetable
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am i the one singular person who read that "trans girl with zero drip" tweet as self-evidently jokey and warm and affectionate??
oh god
are my own attempts at gentle teasing falling just as flat?
oh god oh god
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"you should buy flowers for a trans woman, probably no-one's ever done that for her" you wretch. my path is strewn with petals by my acolytes, i crush them under my feet and am perfumed thereby. attend rather to fanning the inner spark that will make of your self an offering-pyre
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@chhopsky
i think a lot of other nonbinary people would have been just as uncomfortable being singled out for the pronoun question in front of a mixed crowd of friends and strangers actually
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"why would anyone try to do a reparative reading of radical feminists, instead of just turning to queer theorists" and then these are the queer theorists
I ACTUALLY GASPED SO FUCKING LOUD HE REALLY SAID THIS. SIR JUST WALK INTO A MEN'S RESTROOM WHAT THE FUCK
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seeking "someone able to hold the multiple relationships of owner and housemate and collaborator and possibly friend arising at different times"
she sounds like a collaborator, alright, just in the Vichy sense
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just saw a lex ad with "CW: sex toys" and it was just someone looking to sell their vibrator, i'm going to walk backwards into the ocean
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intake questionnaire for my doctor's appointment is asking about my sexual partners and uhhh. maybe i should just let you all tag yourselves
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current intrusive thought: someone sends me nudes and i text back "lgtm"
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@princess_worms
@lambdavee
I have known SO MANY people in vaguely social work adjacent fields who have precisely this view. girl RUN
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the year is 2054. my handler is debriefing me in a SCIF on a derelict military base. he fuzzes my eye implants, wary of lip-reading algorithms.
"what about your binder, sir?" i ask. he unbuttons his shirt to reveal vintage Ace bandages. "if they think you're technical, go crude"
a) how does a binder company have the money to buy autostraddle?
b) gender tracking app?? and this copy???
c) the gender tracking app doesn't have a privacy policy so lord knows what they're doing with your gender evolution data
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the sense of mingled relief and embarrassment at seeing someone else perfectly articulate a line of thought that you thought was perfectly unique to you
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when bf pulled up waze, it was still set to the paw patrol voice, and i was NOT prepared to receive my driving directions interspersed with "you're all good pups!" 😵💫😵💫😵💫
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(me, deciding that transition is a marginally better choice than drinking myself into an early grave) hahaha wheeee
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inverse forcefem scenario, where I'm made to put on lipstick and heels by an icy theyfab, and they laugh and gloat about how this has absolutely no implications for my manhood because gender is all performative anyway
i wonder if there's a way to eroticize the class shame i feel w/r/t academics
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"just stay away from trans guys then" I tried that, and iirc you complained about the fact that we weren't all making out sloppy style
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@bun_floofy
@SiliconeAndBone
they could have just joined in the conversation and paid attention to how my friends talked about me. they could have asked me or a friend later one-on-one. any of these would have been preferable to singling me out in front of a mixed group of friends and strangers
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yes i am still banging this drum
girltwink this girltwink that im ngl bro if part of your parameters for an attractive transfem are being skinny and hairless i hope you stay miles away from me thats gross
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wow, even lex is better out here... just saw someone trying to deal coke to fundraise for a friend's top surgery
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@H3liumWings
somewhere out there, surely, is a person who would feel seen and empowered by this diagram, and I hope they make it to this clinic
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"trans for the same reason that God made grapes but not wine" except im just making increasingly off-putting and messed-up looking kinds of little pickled vegetables
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you can tell when I'm getting close to cumming because my attack pattern changes and my weak points start flashing
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i just want to bring you home, where there are three locked doors between you and the world and all the duties it asks of you. and maybe there you'll let me unfasten some of your armor and gently slide it off, just for a while, and press my lips slowly to your soft skin
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rationalists once again baffled by the fact that people try to be cooperative conversational partners -- e.g. trying to figure out why you're asking a question, in order to give a salient answer
A: "If I were going to Paris, where would be the best place to get a baguette?"
B: "Oh! You're going to Paris?"
A: "No, I'm just saying, where's the best place in Paris to get a baguette?"
B: "Oh yeah, sure, you want to go to.... etc"
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ohh holy shit you all have really been mistreating your switchy transfems huh. like, fix your hearts, but also i am extremely reaping the benefits of your negligence~
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@tronsgender
you're telling me that somebody who's overly invested in the concept of "twinks" is using racially insensitive language? now ive heard everything
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if you really feel it is important to know someone's pronouns immediately upon being introduced, may I commend to you the strategy of giving your own first, and letting them take that opening or not
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@utilitylesbian
would it surprise you to learn that the ad contains 3 instances of "womxn" and 6 of "folx"
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a lot of nominally progressive people just don't believe, deep down, that transition works. but I've never heard one come right out and say: "factually, nothing you do or say changes what you are"
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"sex-positive" is rapidly climbing my list of self-descriptors that actively make me disbelieve you, right up there with "high-iq" and "empath"
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yeah no you're not allowed to call me "dude" either
no, not for gender reasons
it's because i don't tolerate over-familiarity from people i don't respect
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i don't want to "co-top," i want to let one of my needy pets off her leash to ravish the other one, while i murmur encouragement and fake sympathy, ready to intervene the instant things get TOO rough
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bonding with my daughter over shared experiences (our orchiectomies)
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@CisHetKayFaber
exactly lmao. i assume what they actually want to know is whether i take it up the ass, for STI risk profile reasons, and i can't adequately express how much less offensive it would be to just come out and say that
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local lex update: just saw a post advertising a "trauma informed potluck"
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APRIL 24, 1982
BARNARD COLLEGE
LESBIAN SEXUAL PRACTICES ARE NOW BATTLEFIELDS
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@bun_floofy
@SiliconeAndBone
they could have just joined in the conversation and paid attention to how my friends talked about me. they could have asked me or a friend later one-on-one. any of these would have been preferable to singling me out in front of a mixed group of friends and strangers
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@tronsgender
(guy standing up bravely meme)
boy pussy is great, but in basically the same way and for the same reasons as boy cock. and it's a little weird to make so much of the distinction
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like, please let's at least be honest about what's at stake here. i don't think i know a single trans woman who hasn't been HAL'd by someone in the broader ~queer community~, or sexually assaulted by them, or something of similar severity
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got teased by a pretty lady about what a little bitch i am, how if my own subs turned the tables on me, i'd fold instantly, etc. i can feel my ntr fetish undergoing a pokemon evolution as we speak
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@sempiternalsap
idk i feel like expressing discomfort when men are being incel creeps (which I take to be the context here) is better than just letting it slide?
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@stsDrex
@scumbelievable
yeah no i'm currently living in a co-op house in the bay, the "movement space" / "womb room" didn't make me bat an eye, this is horrifying for other reasons
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why are gloves sexy? their non-reciprocal nature. to touch and handle, while you yourself remain inviolate, aloof, untouched. logically speaking, then, it should be even hotter to grope your sub through a nitrogen glovebox setup. a combination opera gloves + glory hole
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@ThatBebx
it feels perfectly gender-neutral to me (midwesterner), i know it grates somewhat on other people. in any case, the worst part by far is the explanation / justification afterward
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hate how pronoun discourse so quickly gets bogged down in litigating edge-case scenarios. the exact language people use about me is only a tiny part of what i really care about, which is being *treated as a woman* in the ways that I move through the world
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@EloanElo
im not sure if calling me "bro" is supposed to be a dig, or if it's an actual representation of your ability to read the room and show a modicum of respect
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@gfaunaa
"yeah actually MY womanhood is so subversive that it can only be located in THREE dimensional coordinates, but your thing is cool too I guess"
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was getting to know a v cool new person and didn't try to use sexual availability as a way to escalate, please clap
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@ahumblecabbage
i feel like there is maybe a teensy bit of selection bias in "everyone i know who has this unusual and stigmatized thing going on in their personal life is very loud and in-your-face about it"
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