>meets a new trans girl
>asks her if shes traumatized by cis people t4t or goes after vulnerable early transitioners t4t
>she laughs and says "you're so puppycoded"
>she's goes after vulnerable early transitioners t4t
Asked a transmasc classmates his thoughts on dysphoria blues today and his response was that he dislikes it bc "it sounds like she's just mad that she doesn't have trans community and wants to fit in with everyone else" like. Yes dude that's the point lol
The real defining issue is if u see this as "well groomed individual who has been sweating" or "person with questionable hygiene whose rotting dead skin wafts it's scent into the air through the steam of their McDonald's fryer oil laced sweat"
I think there is an unbridgable divide between trans people who had to sacrifice and suffer to be trans and trans people who lost nothing but gained a fun and colorful group of friends to party with
ppl who would never imagine saying r*tarded in a million years have treated me worse for being noticably autistic than basically anyone I've met who regularly says it idk
bc not to kinkshame but wow all your partners had barely even started hrt and had next to/no access to queer community before meeting you and you immediately started introducing relatively intense kink dynamics to ur relationship as normal queer sex? i lowkey hope u ***
I'm still mad bc like. Just say it's not for you. How dare a trans woman make art about her lived experience. "When I say it I'm reclaiming it" no you're not, nobody's ever called you that.
Like. I do generally like him but sometimes him and the other department tboys do shit that reminds me that like. Our experiences with dysphoria and alienation and bullying are worlds apart
Like usually I'm very anti baedellism or whatever but sometimes I have an interaction with That Kind of transmasc that reminds me that like. Oh yeah some of these guys are absolutely not kin
idk what consenting adults do i just think that its a very grey at best area ethically when i see more established trans ppl encourage and push vulnerable younger trans ppl into relationship dynamics where they have to give up parts of themself to feel loved
Like it's very normal, human even to appreciate just like. The way someone smells that ur attracted to. It's very abnormal to like the smell of what is essentially rotting human waste
slurs as a moral litmus test have had the horrible side effect of essentially allowing whatever discrimination and bullying and oppression you want to fly as long as you pull it off with HR friendly words and phrases
Everybody wants to huff pits until they find someone they can scrape chunks of grey dead skin out of the armpits of and then they realize they aren't actually as much of a freak as they wanted to be for Twitter clout
@nonagesimus99
The joke is making an implication that him contextualizing it like that changed my opinion and made me want him to hit on me. Part of the joke is also that my friends know I'm adamantly Not actually okay with that kind of shit in any serious context, making it funny 4 da audience
girltwink this girltwink that im ngl bro if part of your parameters for an attractive transfem are being skinny and hairless i hope you stay miles away from me thats gross
@LostintheCedar
Yeah no it was a perfect response and Extremely accurate considering I've known him for more than half of my life and cherish him like he was a blood relative it's simply funnier and less vulnerable to make a joke than to go that's really sweet man I love u. Peter rocks tho fr
it turns out it is Not good for your self image for nearly all of your interactions with people who are Like You to be negative interactions with people who are largely Terrible people
@CafeNervosaRegu
Yeah exactly like. Idk there are critiques of her work that are valid but "she seems really upset that she's isolated and struggling to find safe haven" is not a remotely valid critique lmao
@leggyre
@Swag_Nate1
@GheeMoji
people who want to be self employed and handle their own customer/fan interactions get sooo mad when they find out that they actually have to do that
@sorrynotsoryu
no absolutely like idk the medical part isnt as important to me but lowkey it has the same general. ickiness as ppl dating high schoolers like why the fuck do u want a girlfriend/boyfriend who has only just started forming themself as an individual at all
It's so fucked up that at the end of the day having trusted and safe friends, journaling, and going to the gym carried So Much for my mental/physical improvement that's crazy
@Bvtterfly98
@sanareplyguy
My first phone was a Japanese one that my parents got for me from a local shop and I'll never forget wondering why I was the only kid in school whose camera always made a really loud click, and then finding out why Japanese made phones make loud clicks when you take pictures
I don't think anyone's rly properly appreciating just how funny a bunch of men going "we don't treat women poorly you stupid bitch" really is in reaction to a post where I didn't even say they all do
@wanderingdahl
showing inexperienced queers something thats essentially a full time sub/dom dynamic and framing it as a cute thing for gay couples to do for totally non creepy reasons
It is insane to make an art project about how trans ppl are made to harm themselves for the appeasement of cis people and to have cis people say the language I used for it was triggering and need to apologize 2 them for it
Also on the off chance that the main person im vagueing about being a rancid fucking person sees this and feels some kinda way id tell u to come find me and throw down about it but I know im a bit too old for you to lay hands on nowadays <3
Autogynephilia: How an EVIL Fetish Hijacked the Trans Community
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My most brutal, heated, honest video yet but it’s necessary. I’m done playing nice about this.
@GBoyardee
I've met men who do!!!! But yeah lmao like I'm so glad that all of the girls still treat you like a friend and all the guys do too. Do u not question why none of our classmates who aren't queer ever, EVER interact with me
Going thru my old pics and came across one in my first dress and immediately got floored by memories of like. Telling my counselor I wanted to show it to her and her immediately recoiling in what seemed like disgust and telling me she wasn't ok with seeing lewd pictures of me
@thefemiurge
The more that we make being against apartheid and genocide an uncomfortable and difficult experience where sympathetic people are routinely harassed and highroaded the more people will join the cause
@ALYPRlNCESS
@feminterrupted
yeah ppl took "weed isnt as toxic and risky as opiates/alcohol/etc that it can substitute" and assumed that meant theres no consequences to not taking a break from weed for years
@arin8887
Never said that :) this is me venting about a specific person for deciding that the art made by someone else about their own suffering is bad because he refuses to see how someone else might suffer differently than him.
@1_800_dieforme
I don't think I could date any earlier transitioner. somehow it feels like that age gap becomes almost worse than any actual age at some point
@fake_trans
Many such cases. If she's so mad about being ostracized by cis society why didn't she just be born in a community where she'd be supported in her transition from a young age? Skill issue
@KendarMordekai
@WyattPuppers
@Onyx_Batty
"oh, you dislike when i say afab bodies are gross and bad? have you considered thats gonna make people who you dont like not wanna be around you?" lol
@thefemiurge
I feel like the point a lot of activists r shifting to is generally in the ballpark of like. It doesn't matter if I'm doing this because of a fantasy football bet why shouldn't I be allowed to or something
@huntrgatherergf
by themselves? have you not seen "afab owned business" "afab only housing" etc? nobody cares if youre clocky they care if youre bringing bioessentialism into it and turning nonbinary into the new word for tomboys
to b clear not like. as far as bodytype but the subset whose concept of trans community very clearly starts and stops at people they personally want to fuck. its like steven universe queers but hornier
Is it reasonable to file a complaint with any remotely relevant department over the behavior of a professor if they corner you in an otherwise empty room, yell at you, and then immediately leave while you're choking on your own tears y/n
@ShojannahTuriri
@leggyre
@Swag_Nate1
@GheeMoji
ok dude. idk what you want me to do about it im just saying nobodys ever gotten more sales by aggressively going "dont talk to me if you dont have money already on the table"
@sorrynotsoryu
like say what the appeal of dating someone who only realized theyre a girl six months ago is without sounding the exact same as those right wing guys who want a child bride to imprint on
Transfeminazis when they srealize they can't in fact separate the closeted trans women from cıshet men
Closeted and non-passing trans women get abused by the same people that pretend to defend us because they see us as cıshet men and we can't critizice them because "pick me"
@Kairo_Anatomika
Please don't eat this the chemicals in treated wood will be absorbed by the fungi, there's a reason why scrapped wood isn't deemed safe to burn around humans
It's literally just a normal ass dress. I was just Standing in a fucking mirror and the first thought she had when I said I got new clothes was that clearly it's lingerie or fetish shit or something. Every time I get a new memory it reminds me why I'm like this lmao
i think fuckability needs to play less of a role in trans discourse bc holy shit imagine if transfems who didnt shave or take e had people going to bat for them like this
"hey you know how you're trying to stop me from distributing prescriptions? Here's further evidence of me distributing prescriptions. Keep up the good work, you'll catch me eventually!" Acting like the riddler lmfao
The hormone distribution program is going well! I owe you some credit, Chaya. Thanks to the laws you’re trying to pass, more people are sharing their meds than ever and the network has now grown to hundreds. Your FBI and DEA reports only inspired new activists to participate 🥰
@DeCassified
@frottersrights
It straight up doesn't you're literally just an impressionable teenager w low self esteem exposed to one of the most toxic places on the internet for any trans woman to be
@protostarla
i dont have any strong takes relating to this discourse but i think if any licensed therapist has an objective "if x then y" response to things outside of actually hurting/killing people they should probably not be a licensed therapist because flowchart based therapy is harmful.
@d1lfch4s3r
Friends and loved ones after coming out. Like, I will never be able to make someone whose queerness didnt mean leaving behind an entire life understand what it's like to have transitioning be a brutal, violent, painful journey
@lisaquestions
the funniest part is that im friends w the guy like i dont even hate him or nothing i just sometimes get the much needed reminders that he doesnt get it and isnt interested in trying to understand. like ur mad on the behalf of someone who isnt even mad