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@generalslug I think even women who would be more amenable to such a comment would probably feel uncomfortable about it being used before a first date. It's overly familiar and kind of creepy.
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@abortsons The most absolutely vile thing about this is mentions she's still lactating, so she pretty much just had the birth. He could have done a quick google search to learn that it generally takes 6 months to a year for a lot of these "ugly" traits to disappear (more or less), but-.
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@undefeatedmatt Something I find so fascinating is how common it is for men to be genuinely angry at their partner for breaking up with them after they cheated. If they essentially did this to themselves, how do they justify the anger?.
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@kyrieeleison60 @venus_iscariot Out of curiosity, would you be willing to support a reduction in men's freedom to ensure the survival of the human race? That's assuming, of course, that there was definitive proof that it would be successful.
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@Mlle_N_75 First of all, he’s definitely lying about what his low end is, though I’m much more curious to hear his high end.
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@JessPected @RadfemBlack Respond to every MRA harping on about "no-fault" divorce, and women initiating 70% of divorces with a link to this. Also, after everything she said about his neglectful parenting, it's insane that he would try to get custody, even if it's ultimately just to spite her.
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@highbrowholy You do realize that they didn't even willingly do that on the Titanic, right? They were held at gunpoint and forced to give up lifeboats by the captain, I believe.
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@pravdapolina You know the answer already. They would expect her to grin and bear it, “for the children.”.
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@Coyohma @ValerieComplex @hey__bonita @dubthaprophet It's estrogen-induced body fat distribution, so yes, it's attractive to people who are attracted to women. Also, you realize that even thin women have a tummy like that, right? Saying it's a sign of being fat is like saying women are fat if they have breasts.
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@kyrieeleison60 @venus_iscariot What I mean is, if it were definitively proven that men having less freedom and power /than women/ would save humanity, would you endorse it?.
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@abortsons The fact is, I'm sure this must be quite common. The type of guy who is in his 30s who dates girls under 20 probably has more of an attraction to a teen looking body, so him losing attraction for her after she became older and pregnant was even more of an inevitability than usual.
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@silken_roses @womanstan123 I think it makes it worse that the former is attainable by "diet and exercise." Plenty of developing girls starved themselves for the vs look and caused irreparable harm to their bodies.
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@abortsons The stupidest part of the "90% of eggs gone by 30" thing is that 90% of a girl's eggs are gone by the time she even starts ovulating. A female fetus begins with around 4 million, and by the time a girl starts going through puberty she has maybe 400,000.
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@sukoithirtyfive @StuffWeirdest @abortsons Be honest, is this an actual attempt at a good faith discussion?.
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@abortsons I'm so curious if he would accept raising a more attractive and intelligent man's offspring to prevent humanity from going extinct.
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@generalslug @DadofDraco Plenty of these people just have major subjugation/humiliation kinks, but instead of simply acknowledging that, attempt to justify their desires to themselves by constructing a worldview that paints them as "the most normal and correct." This is pretty common in trad communities.
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@fungifemale It’s good to remember that a large portion of men will literally never be happy with their partners. They will always find something to nitpick and will feel disappointed with whomever they end up with.
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@BallSackLunch @highbrowholy My point was simply that the men of the Titanic, for the most part, did not just graciously allow themselves to die. Apparently in most historical shipwrecks, far more men than women survive, because they overpower the women to take the lifeboats for themselves.
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@ask_aubry I love the keeping secrets thing. Women are more likely to feel the need to warn other women if they hear him say something that's a red flag. I love that he derides it as "gossip." Like, she was doing it just for funsies. Informing other women of danger is a quirky little hobby.
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@BarkingToad @CartoonsHateHer Lol humanity only survived because our female ancestors wore hot pink patent leather pumps while digging for root vegetables in the semi-arid plains of sub-Saharan Africa.
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@Mlle_N_75 Look at this little lying liar:. (When a guy says “women in their 20s are like children to me,” there is an approximately 99.8% he is lying, or he’s a pedo).
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@abortsons This is one of the main reasons (aside for higher potential for abuse) that I would say dating older men when you're under 25 is such an unbelievably bad idea. When they inevitably get divorced she will most likely become a single mother, or at least the majority caregiver-.
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@Soul0Engineer @abortsons Imagine how you would respond to someone suggesting a woman needs more than one husband so that there's always one free to perform sexual favours.
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@abortsons A 20 year old woman will have lost like 95% of her original egg count. Yet no one is having this "talk" with 20 year olds, since it's obvious they are fertile. Like 30 year olds.
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@MoiraDonegan It's absolutely amazing that so many fully grown adults hold beliefs that they seem to have literally not thought through for even one second.
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@10xDEADBEEF @venussarabella @LinnenRenee @theknownoutlaw @KopanoMashishi What on earth is the issue with children knowing about anatomy and reproduction in a detached way? It is not identical to porn.
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@abortsons This is super fucking funny on so many levels to me that I would need to write a dissertation to explain it all.
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@abortsons -entire life destroyed by this man. And of course, the next "woman" he knocks up will become ugly to him too, then he will move on to the next (if he's not too old by that point). His existence is genuinely harmful to the collective.
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@claireternal @silken_roses Why are you acting like being able to strive towards it is a good thing?.
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@jeysoss @FourthWaver Do you think men are entitled to a wife? Do you think it's a human right?.
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@RealSmeth @cooki3faun So, just not doing it again. See, I wouldn't call that rehabilitation, I would call that just not doing the things again. Being genuinely repentant and regretful, not because of the punishment they received but because of the harm they caused their victim, is closer to my idea.
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@ArrowsOfFreyja @abortsons I'm not going to fucking delete this because groypers in rehab for traumatic brain injuries are going to willfully misinterpret it to justify their pedophilia. It's factually correct. It's also factually correct that very young children have worse reproductive outcomes.
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@TheBlockDoctor_ @CoreyJMahler The obvious answer is he doesn't see women as people, but things to be used by men, and that raping a virgin woman is effectively "taking" her virginity away from some hypothetical future husband who wanted to marry a virgin. Though I doubt he's conscious of his own rationale.
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@abortsons - of the child (he's not going to want it getting in the way when he's chasing after a new teenager), so basically she's going to be saddled with this child (who knows what her job is, if she has one, he was probably primary earner), fall into poverty, and basically have her-.
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@CartoonsHateHer It's a sad reminder of how powerful social conditioning is. The fact that girls do often so strongly gravitate towards pink is just a particularly visible manifestation of it. And not all its effects are as innocuous as a color preference.
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@Kremmen101 @heyraodhat @B4mtastic @Babygravy9 Lol you do realize that women can actually just get prestigious jobs themselves now so they don't have to marry high status men to get the power that comes with being associated with them.
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@heartlesslyrich @WeWuzBolsheviks @empathyhaver Do you think that the existence of advanced civilization is contingent upon (esp. in this day and age with automation) the legality of men forcing themselves on their wives? Think this through, please.
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@michael_kubik @ImSilverRose @wil_da_beast630 Give an example of a joke that men are fine with but that offends women.
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@kevinburch @TheEmpressTiff @maevenam @viceroy_gaga "I saw a guy say his wife finds motherhood fulfilling and unchallenging so that must be what it's like for everyone" . See how 2 can play at this game?.
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@randomnesquick @moltopopulare You can check in by asking "do you want me to keep going" or something along those lines. There are lots of articles on this you can read to learn more.
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@ArrowsOfFreyja @abortsons They already don't care what happens to the girls. This will change nothing. I'm simply demonstrating the stupidity of the "90%" claim.
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@CherylSchantz2 @CuriousBunnie12 If there is a situation where you and your husband disagree on a course of action, who gets the final say?.
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@BallSackLunch @highbrowholy Okay, yeah, so it was this other guy, Charles Lightoller (second officer) not the captain. I couldn't remember if it was specifically the captain.
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@sloppy_joe24 @abortsons feelings hurt = being treated like shit and abused nonstop for years on end.
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@10xDEADBEEF @venussarabella @LinnenRenee @theknownoutlaw @KopanoMashishi I don't really see the issue. Aren't these kids supposed to be like 10 years old? Showing, or describing in a very detached way how sex might occur isn't really necessarily traumatizing to children. I had sex ed at 10 and 14 and I wasn't upset or embarrassed by it.
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@StevenS15040426 @kttwose @CherieEd @daithaigilbert Notice how love and submit are different words with different meanings.
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@FourthWaver What’s even the point of Bumble now? It’s one, singular stand out characteristic, literally the sole thing that gave it any appeal, was the ”women message first” gimmick. It never would have gained prominence without it. Now it’s utterly worthless.
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@ask_aubry Also, ask teenage boys if they want their wife to be a Victoria's Secret model or, like, a regular woman.
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@vagolvl100 @miyanesoo @abortsons Try to use your prefrontal cortex for a second (assuming you have one) to figure out why what you've said is stupid.
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@RealSmeth @cooki3faun Also by saying "learn to respect boundaries" as a thing rapist need to learn, you're implying that the reason they raped was because they didn't know how to do that. However, I think most (male) rapists are able to respect the boundaries of other men, so they know how to do it.
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@Le_Fische @BeardedJarl @ChelleDoggo This is still a moral argument. Why is it objectively worse to kill a creature that seeks you for comfort than one which doesn't?.
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@JohnDoe13232 @abortsons No. The fetus starts with 4 million. *At birth* a female infant has 1-2 million. You can literally look this shit up. I'm also obviously aware that gamete quality and fertility declines with age. I'm specifically focusing on the 90% claim which is a non-argument.
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@SAMOYEDCORE That's just lying, which anyone can do. People tend to default to trusting the opinions of those they're close to. That is, until that trust is betrayed enough times.
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@michael_kubik @ImSilverRose @wil_da_beast630 In my experience, there are tons of jokes that women find funny and tell to each other all the time that men are really off put by. Usually they deal with topics that men are more sensitive about. We all have our sore spots.
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@jeysoss @FourthWaver South Korea is an exceedingly wealthy country with a powerful military, owing mainly to technology rather than number of soldiers. Do you think we live in the bronze age? The men (incl. you) who piss and whine about this are just upset at the idea of men being "denied" sex.
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@kommunistn @feministevee In line with desires, maybe. I'm just always hearing a lot of bs sounding stuff about China and I feel like it's usually a 50/50 split on whether or not it's actually real, so I just want some confirmation from a reliable source before accepting the claim.
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@RealSmeth @cooki3faun of a rehabilitated person. What percentage of rapists would you say are capable of actually experiencing that? And how would you go about determining who had and who hadn't?.
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@janessadelanuez @Quinveer The common denominator is "woman." The answer is (of course) that they simply don't respect women regardless of their life decisions.
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@TheMuppetPastor @BasedZillenial The implication of this is that all straight white men with no disabilities, who naturally wouldn’t be hired under DEI, have perfect spelling and grammar, never steal, etc. That is evidentially false.
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@jeysoss @FourthWaver Women would be better off if there were fewer men. Men would not be better off if there were fewer women. Hence, the difference in perspectives. This does not mean men are more selfless.
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@Ofjoseph2 @itstuff50 @abortsons lol you couldn't even say wifi was invented by the patriarchy (by which you mean men) because a primary contributor to its development was a woman. Points for knowledge and honesty, I guess. Also a good number of the people actually constructing the phones are women.
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@JohnDoe13232 @abortsons Egg quality is overwhelmingly fine in the average 30 year old, and hormone levels are generally well within a acceptable range.
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@relationship_ls @fungifemale Really? Women spend *all their time* ridiculing men with “actual” dad bods? Lmao, be serious.
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@abortsons The humor of this is that men are looking at it /so/ much from their own perspective. The worst thing in the world for them is not ever getting any female attention. Little do they realize that, as you said, most young women hope for less male attention, not more.
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@undergroundbrat @silken_roses @womanstan123 "People who eat lead oxide look a lot healthier than people who eat tetraethyl lead." . I'll keep that in mind, thanks.
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