@bigdybbukenergy Imagine if practicing habitual, day-to-day mutual generosity could be seen as positive rather than a shameful failure in our social duty to inflict all the authoritarian boot-stomping we can muster on both ourselves and anyone else in our vicinity as often as possible.

@_bezpilotnik Can't help but feel the desire to be seen 'casting off the weakness of wanting to be kind' is a good description of so many, many things.

@magpie839 @AllyFogg @Finn_Mackay policing which does occur, to shame & stigmatise sensitivity, courtesy, 'excessive' kindness, etc. Let it also be said that if you are a growing up as a sensitive/gentle male, some of the male-sensitivity-shaming you encounter will also come from the women & girls around you.

@bigdybbukenergy Is part of e.g. having high status in a given field/profession etc that your time is valuable enough that however you use it people will see that as valid, whereas for the trainees and worker bees, not so much.

@AllyFogg Never know what to say about the Proudman, saying anything at all seems a guarantee to become entangled in something impossible.

@TheTinMenBlog @RichardvReeves It's just one small piece of information but it says a lot about the reality of things, and perceptions of that reality, pointing towards a different set of issues/ideas than the ones which often get talked about by default.

@_bezpilotnik (subtweet) Since I've had my pop at Yorkshire I will add that every so often that female academic from the midlands pops up on the timeline and it reminds of living in the midlands and the type of things people would say.

@_bezpilotnik "The Playground's Edge" a work of literary fiction with the length and presentation of a formidable undertaking but actually its just longwinded accounts of whatever happened to these guys.

@_bezpilotnik Is this a rhetorical question because unbeknownst to me his terrible e.g. sex-crimes have been revealed?

@_bezpilotnik Paul Joseph Watson is such a grim character, makes my skin crawl just seeing the name in writing.

@_bezpilotnik nauseous thinking about the vibes.