@4sp4rtame
Fr, one of the main reasons I developed an Ed was because I developed early and I’d CONSTANTLY be harassed by middle school boys. They’d make comments about my boobs and ass all the time and I literally wanted to di3 bcs of it. Men piss me off so bad
If your irls notice when you lose 5-10lbs then what makes you think they won’t notice when you gain the same amount? Do you really think they won’t notice how your jeans fit tighter, how your face and fingers are puffier, or how your collarbones aren’t as prominent?
It’s really interesting how people with eating disorders have collectively agreed that shitting urself or hair loss are the worst ed symptoms instead of….idk like death
Every disordered girl can relate to, "You have to be thin, but not too thin, but you can't say you want to be thin. You have to say you want to be healthy, but healthy means thin, so you have to be thin."
@daspondent
They’re probably talking ab her waist to hip ratio. You can tell she’s quite overweight but most of her fat isn’t around her stomach, it’s around her thighs (and probably her arms tbh) which will give her a nice shape when she loses the fat.
@viceroy_gaga
You’re expected to carry out most of the household labor, emotional labor, parental labor. Many of these women are working moms as well because being a SAHW/M is a luxury, while men get praised for helping out every now and then. It seems maddening to me.
I will lose 5 lbs this week
I will lose 5 lbs this week
I will lose 5 lbs this week
I will lose 5 lbs this week
I will lose 5 lbs this week
I will lose 5 lbs this week
I will lose 5 lbs this week
I will lose 5 lbs this week
I will lose 5 lbs this week
Every person with an Ed has shat themselves at some point and if it hasn’t happened to you….well, let’s just say you have something to dread in the future
@rosieskcals7
They both have similar causes. Many people develop restrictive eds with the intention of becoming more frail, delicate, etc so they can be cared for. Like age regression, this is often caused by a lack of attention and care being given to the child in their developmental years.
@whorescut
@opiumnova
No the f*ck it’s not. I’m turning 18 and I wouldn’t even befriend a 14 yr old because of the age difference let alone DATE one. Any age gap like this is predatory. You’re in completely different stages in life.
@Tumehlo
Yea but eds tend to be misunderstood by the general public, and esp by cis men. It’s seen as a disorder caused by vanity when it’s actually a combination of factors, some of which are contradictory to one another
So instead of blaming beauty standards you blame an innocent trans woman who had no clue that her body was being used as th1nsp0…I’m so sick of terfs smh
Dylan Mulvaney is a terrible role model for girls.
This is from ED Twitter, which is made up mostly of teen girls with very real disorders.
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The comments are heartbreaking. I’ll share some below, but I’m editing out names.
@mirubunnie
The abuse endured by Brooke shields was moreso due to misogyny than pretty privileged. Attractive male celebrities hardly ever experience similar treatment and that’s because patriarchy has conditioned everyone to view women as property. Ugly women deal with this as well.
I think you’re fat. It’s just my opinion! I’m not bullying you, I’m just giving you a bit- *pauses* I think you’re ugly, I think you’re fat, I think you’re stupid.
@RU3YJANE
It's so easy to get Terminated on there tho. I like the concept of it and everyone is so welcoming but I had to move here bc I was running out of emails to use 😭
Some of us have social lives, extra curricular activities, do well in school, get good grades, and study…..I wouldn’t expect ur dumba$$ to get it tho tbh
@www_bolita
I only remember it very vaguely but essentially it was about a cheerleading girl who developed an extreme case of ana. It has a lot of triggering pics and the storyline is also pretty motivating from what I recall.
@nyxdiet
LITERALLY!!! Meanspo has to catch me off guard/sound passive aggressive for it to be effective. Calling me "piggy" or "fatty" isn't going to motivate me 😭
@guavadietcoke
Ik it won’t, men rarely change their minds when it comes to womens issues. I was hoping that other girls and afabs would feel a a little less lonely considering how common this is.