@_TallTattedNFit
This is what insecurity sounds like.
Sounds like you can’t handle a woman who is doing well, because it makes you feel less valuable.
That’s on YOU
YOU should address what contributes to your own personal value before you date.
@tiannelisex
Relax fellas. They just say this whenever you say something they don’t like. Whether you talking about sports or YOUR OWN experiences in dating, they’ll call it gossip to emasculate and belittle your content.
Keep creating. They’ll be aite
@kashmirigirl_
Y’all don’t like the eye emojis.
Y’all don’t like flame reactions.
Y’all hate being asked “wyd”
List gets longer and longer. Got a problem with everything
@hale1914
@toyyalynai
@talleyberrybaby
Facts. Majority of men have no idea what it means to be submissive because the common belief is that it detracts from our masculinity. The only thing men know about submissiveness is “na bruh, my girl ain’t having that”. And there’s way more levels to it than that
When Denzel and Ray Allen played 1on1 in He Got Game, Denzel was supposed to lose 11-0. So Denzel decided if he was supposed to lose that bad, they might as well play for real and he ended up giving Ray Allen buckets lol
@tam_k12
@tiannelisex
It’s literally not tho. If you’re talking about experiences YOU were personally involved in. That is not gossip. But if y’all wanna move the goalpost to be right, feel free.
@talleyberrybaby
Every time the “submissive” topic comes on the TL, the women bring their guns out lol. Can someone educate me on what submissiveness is? And what it looks like? No one seems to know what it is besides the fact that it’s apparently not good.
Don’t be a jerk, genuinely curious
@twithersAP
If there are Browns fans under this tweet saying Odell left behind a mess, yall need to understand that thats part of y’all problem. Making excuses. Odell left quietly while the media was baiting him to blow up. Blaming anyone other than Baker is ridiculous. Y’all don’t wanna win
Remember that time Da Brat shocked the hell out of all of us and popped up in a bikini with bone straight hair and a metallic lip telling us what she wanted in a man with Tyrese screaming in the background?
@httpsnimroood
Is it worth it tho? That’s what you gotta ask yourself. Is the end result worth the energy being put into the journey? A lot of ppl continuously sign-up for the toxicity they claim they can’t stand.
It CAN work. But should it?
@melaninmatchmkr
This is why it’s important to put the phone down and go outside. We’ve always married and coveted our own. The problem is, black ppl are EXTREMELY hard on each other. And whenever we speak on this topic, we exaggerate the reality of it because we take it so personal.
@princessivri
Y’all are projecting what you feel about YOURSELVES when you’re “bummy”, onto men who aren’t bothered by it.
A self sabotaging habit.
Stop it.
@LongLiveK_
This is true, but men also set the bar pretty low in dating. If you look good and don’t cheat, that’s half the battle for us. And I’m not saying this is a good thing lol
@thickassyonnaa
@1freeJoshua
@ChineseDoll___
This is only a valuable exchange IF the woman does those things….willingly. An extremely rare case in todays dating scene. Everyday the women on this app tell us they REFUSE to do so, but still desire the benefits of a provider.
But yes, if that’s the arrangement, then cool.
@Brycetv1
@CharriseJLane
And there’s too many ppl in this world who are dating or married who’d be considered fat or broke for me to believe these “standards” you speak of have anything to do with it.
See how that works?
You’ll learn. It’s okay. Give it time.
Run along little one
@_ParadiseParis1
Inconvenience myself to help her. Even I have somethin goin on or a crazy agenda for the day, ima still make time to make sure she’s good.
I do NOT do that for just any girl.
@buymenandoss
@tiffykiing
YES. That’s basically what I means. Lol. You can even prosper within our credit system if you don’t have debt. It ain’t THAT sweet over here
@Brycetv1
@CharriseJLane
You’re not connecting with what I’m saying because you don’t know what it means to be proud of you who really are. It’s not your fault tho
@zodiak_frank
@tiannelisex
You should fix. Men need to talk to each other about their experiences MORE. This idea we gotta be tough and quiet has never been a good thing.
@EmporiumCeo
Because I want to. Lol. That’s why. If stayed home without seeing the world and died tomorrow…wtf was it for???
Or
I can build the passive income I want, enjoy life in the process, and retire when and IF I want to.
Is that too fairytale-ish for y’all? 😅
@JMonee_
As a woman…that’s definitely true. But mostly because too many men lack standards. Having your shit together SHOULD help you in selecting a partner because hopefully you have better priorities/boundaries and are fishing in a better pond.
It’s a requirement for men tho.
@SkipBaylessShow
@RealSkipBayless
I don’t have a single issue with this. He’s honest with himself. It’s HIS life, and he’s achieved everything he dreamed. And life brought him a woman to complement it. Stop all the projecting. No one is (legally) obligated to have kids
@TAURUS1UT
@285Slim
One day y’all gon realize this isn’t a concrete at it sounds. Having enough time for a person is Time available vs Time desired. In REALITY, desire is not enough if needs aren’t met.
@RVAReid
Shiiiiiiiiiiiid!!! If anything, you’re supposed to do it first date to set the tone. This is what we do bae! 😂.
If she can’t rock with it, she might not be the one FOR ME lol
@RealLathan
Makes them feel closer to you. They know men prefer not show that side. So therefore, if she is the cause of that coming out, it reinforces that she holds a stronger position in your life than others. Ultimately making them feel more secure in their involvement with you
@FWGRANDEE
But they get upset when we (Americans) act like the whole world is obsessed with us. Lol. Look at what y’all care about? PJs at the store?
Y’all got it 😂
@_PhallonX0X0
Yup! We’re used to not getting anything OR we’ve gotten enough trash gifts to where we we’d rather have some peace and quiet.
Don’t get it twisted tho, a good or thoughtful is appreciated
@___inCANdescent
Just curious….how many male podcasts have you listened to? Like, how much male podcasting have you actually listened to to assume that isn’t being discussed?
Because there’s literally HUNDREDS that discuss those topics in detail. Y’all just say anything