marcia ⚢♡
@marcia36251
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eclectic lesbian mess. minors dni. private @marciaspvt (mutuals only)
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Joined November 2023
one of the worst parts of this is people insisting that they constant use of they/them on people who are extremely obvious trans women it's not targeted and is universal. these people are lying, they do not they/them cis people.
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imagine getting mad at a trans woman for saying she is transitioning to look like a woman and be perceived as one. do yall think wanting to pass is problematic? do you think getting ffs is misogynistic? is taking estrogen bad because we're essentializing womanhood?.
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i think i like puppygirl stuff so much in part because it means i can be kinda needy and clingy in a way that isn't a red flag.
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got added to a list of "weird queerphobes" that has Andrew Tate on it 😭 I'm begging tenderqueers to go outside.
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if getting called theyfab is the worst thing you have to worry about as a "trans" person, I think you're gonna be okay.
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this is just the "big naturals, you're just jealous of my female body" discourse again lol
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can't wait for the day transfemininity stops being a vehicle for cis people to participate in radical politics moral grandstanding and is just a kind of woman.
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yes they do. trans men hold privilege over trans women. pointing this out is not hate or resentment.
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crazy how everyone assumes I'm talking about medical steps to transition here (I'm not). I'm saying nonbinary people who don't even make an effort to stop identifying as afab (or amab for that matter) can not be trans, because they exhibit none of the things that make you trans.
@LoverOfQueers are you trans if you take zero meaningful steps to transition? I don't think so personally.
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insane how desperate people are to insist they don't speak over trans women about our lived experiences and then they take a comment not directed at them super personally. and then immediately tall over us describing shit that happens to us all the fucking time.
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actually no, trans women pointing out the transmisogyny of theyfabs isn't because we're jealous of their bodies lol. what an insanely misogynistic thing to even suggest lol.
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misgendering trans women cause we're worried about gnc cis people.
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and no, not taking hrt doesn't make you not trans. consistently identifying yourself by your asab makes you not trans though. that's kind of the *whole fucking point* of being trans whether you're transgender or transsexual.
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I did not transition medically and socially to get they/them'd. most trans women I know, both online and in real life, agree with me. we have all experienced it. we give so many signals that we are women.
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@gabriel49380721 @fishmoding @wokehammerLs yeah plenty of those are reason to think someone is evil if their opinions align with the political right.
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@raygrets it literally is used like this. theyfabs are a very real kind of person who insist on self-identifying as "afab" while also claiming to be nonbinary and slapping on some they pronouns so they can speak over trans women in queer spaces.
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my gender is extremely obvious. my name is Marcia, I look like a girl, I have the damn lesbian symbol in my username, and if all of that doesn't clue you in, my pronouns are *right fucking there*.
It's actually normal to use "they" when you don't know the gender of the person. Stop being annoying.
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crazy it's almost like they all think we're like inherently liars or something.
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god forbid a girl wants srs, didn't you know girls with dicks are actually so valid? you should keep existing in the body you hate because I, someone with no dysphoria, thinks it's cool and radical.
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people ignore them and they/them us because they are more scared of misidentifying someone as a trans woman than they are interested in affirming us. they would rather degender us than upset a cis gnc person.
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you don't need a diagnosis to be trans, you don't need to be on hrt. you do need to not want to be associated with your assigned sex. I thought this was something that was pretty common knowledge about trans people.
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patently false. you are projecting. the average person uses she or he based on assumption.
@marcia36251 @timmyin_ almost everybody in the world uses gender neutral pronouns on everyone else. its not something meant for non binary people specifically.
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so if you insist that it's neutral, when a million trans women start telling you that neutrality often gets weaponized against us and used to deny us womanhood, maybe you should listen. it's okay to assume trans women want to be called she.
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right but *im* the terf. not the people telling me, a trans woman, that I shouldn't want to be assumed to be a woman.
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@Lexxine21610 @raygrets don't appreciate being called bro :/. and yeah okay that's great, you wouldn't be someone I'd call a theyfab then?.
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@LoverOfQueers are you trans if you take zero meaningful steps to transition? I don't think so personally.
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first hate message 🥹 these are the people calling me transphobic btw
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going private for a while. thank you for all the kind messages. the love of one doll outshines the hate of a thousand birthday brigaders and transphobes ♡♡♡.
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great thing to wake up to. these are the people ur siding with to harass me
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I simply have no interest in listening to women talk about men. I'm sorry, it literally makes me hear static. I can't even pretend to be interested.
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I'm sick to my stomach I really did not know it was this fucking bad.
100k likes on a tweet not about the increasing political violence against trans women, not about trans organizing or activism, just about how evil a trans woman is for being irked that someone called her they. sorry i'm going insane over this.
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@Lexxine21610 @raygrets it happens in real life all the fucking time though. I live this shit every day of my life, I'm not cïs passing and am vocally trans. I run into this type of person constantly.
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Ive never seen a woman look good with armpit hair, please dont try and prove me wrong i would actually hate that so much.
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and then everyone believes the non-trans women. we should come up with a word for this.
anytime a post by a trans woman complaining about a way people are weird or rude to her blows up the replies are 50% other trans women saying "yeah this happens to me all the time" and 50% ppl who aren't trans women saying "this literally never happens what are you talking about".
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if you read this and get "Marcia hates nonbinary people" you are crazy reaching, like please read the *last* sentence.
@verocirapter @Gungun7J honestly speaking though she is most likely just mad cuz she hates NB people like i get it her pronouns are she/her but they/them isnt gendered and in the context it was used in WAS the proper grammer like jesus we cant be mad at proper english being used
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@pierbiwierbi taftaj is literally just a bad take machine, it has to be on purpose. deeply unserious person.
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this only applies if you they/them every single person you see before asking or hearing their pronouns, which almost no one does. also why are we putting the feelings of closeted transmascs over out and transitioned trans women?.
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dude come on this whole thing started cause I got misgendered and ur gonna fucking they/them me.
Nobody should deal with the harassment they're dealing with. What they said was extremely stupid but that's not an excuse to act like this in response.
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what the fuck is "identifying as trans culturally"??? seriously like wtf. this shit is my lived experience. I did not choose to identify as trans. I just am trans. literally fuck off.
@YAOIPATHIC @marcia36251 Ntm how this ideology also throws ones who identify as trans culturally and don't transition under the bus but “theyfabs” are the problem (they aren't. It's white queers who are the problem.).
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it works on me idgaf they/them chaser pussy goes crazy.
non-transsexual they/them lesbian chasers discovering the t4t label is a masterclass in PR. not even hating cuz if i weren't a trans woman i'd do the exact same thing.
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coworker listening to true crime podcast about brianna ghey. I am so fucking tired. I'm sick of being a morbid fascination, I'm sick of people only caring about us after we're dead and burying us as men.
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obviously not. those people *want to* transition.
@marcia36251 @LoverOfQueers Sooo, what, does this include closeted trans people? Trans youth who are kept from taking any of these supposed steps by their parents? Are they all suddenly not trans?.
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it *should* be a thirst trap but instead it's this shit
Since it’s almost the end of the year, what was your biggest tweet?.
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it's literally impossible to get a fucking date as a trans lesbian.
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@toxopneustes I'm an out trans woman, I've been made homeless for this. I've been discriminated against at work for this. I've been harrased on the street for this. I am not tender.
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@gothamshitty Hi I'm gen z and ur being puritan. The internet has made porn widely available for two decades.
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my life has gotten way better since I started being openly horny I'm ngl.
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this is a really minor point but this is *exactly* what happened to me. this dogpile started because I pointed out that theyfab describes a type of person who does all those things. some people got upset at the word usage, but others tried to deny that those things even happen.
@JoyMoone again ive seen discourses get reframed as about usage of theyfab when they were about afab only housing, degendering, tfem safety, so on. never seen discourse get reframed because of a "uhh this doesn't happen".
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will never not repost.
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okay this is maybe my favorite picture of myself ever honestly.
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:)
People with glasses are hot btw.
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inb4 some tgirls are like "no u don't get it that's totally what I look like".
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literally I gained like 40 lbs over the past two years and it's amazing. hrt isn't gonna do anything if you're emaciated.
“hrt doesnt do much” eat food and stop getting dosed like a menopausal woman. then we will see what doesnt do much.
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get on estrogen.
You meet your 15 year old self. You’re allowed 3 words. What are you saying?.
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I'm not in community with you, I'm in community with people who aren't transmisogynistic.
@LoverOfQueers @marcia36251 Will never understand how we have so many people in community that believe their gender identity HAS to be performative.
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I literally need to be a stress relief toy for a girl ughh I'm sick of using my brain anyway. .
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calling me a terf and also saying my life is "an act for other's benefit" literally what are you smoking. these people unironically think trans women are privileged.
@marcia36251 And back with the diet terfy bullshit. But again. If you are going to be a pig headed fuckwit about trans people that do not make their life an act for other’s benefit; and think they cannot comment on your experience, then you have no business talking about Enbies.
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@timmyin_ because I'm not gender neutral. I'm a woman. I transitioned to be seen as a woman.
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can someone please explain this to me in a way that's isn't just "the women in it are bisexual"? how is a gay relationship between two women not a lesbian relationship.
@novaaknight if a relationship is woman x woman, what is bisexual about it.
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STOP calling this transphobic it's FUNNY.
trying to take socks blood pressure when lillith has four fingers up his pussy is a little difficult to say the least.
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hair spam will continue until you all get sick of me
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oomfs can get it slapped on their tongues if they so please ♡.
"can oomfs dm you?" oomfs can slap it on my tongue if they so please.
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pda is cool y'all are just nerds.
rubbing my packer up against my femme’s miniskirt in the movie theater line🤤 unfortunately we are that kind of couple.
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it's not any of the signifiers individually but all of them summed that makes it pretty safe to assume.
what’s ANNOYING is her calling the other person transmisogynistic because they met her with the same energy. also the lesbian symbol doesn’t mean someone uses she/her nor does having a feminine name… i know many nonbinary lesbians who resonate with that symbol and.
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