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I rant about social issues so much they gave me a degree in it | I am over 21…(he/himbo/sé/é) priv/fandom: @snarkycatboy
Mirkwood, Éire
Joined June 2011
All that’s left is to varnish it 🥲
The way my spine is like a shrimp rn but this is coming along pretty ok. It’s inspired by and not a copy, I’ve amped up the saturation and vibrancy to fit with it being a depiction of my dad and stepmom
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By the end of this comic you’ve shown exactly why the red person acted that way. You’re reinforcing their trauma responses.
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So as a legal adult she intentional sought treatment that she knew was only wanted bc she “felt left out” with her friends….
MEDICAL SCANDAL: In a groundbreaking lawsuit, detransitioner Cristina Hineman is taking on Planned Parenthood for its role in handing out opposite-sex hormone prescriptions like candy. Watch her story told in the #IdentityCrisis series:
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Right I’m muting ye cause way too many of you seem to think relationships must be dictated by only your wishes. If you want a relationship of any kind you gotta work with the other person. Y’all took “protect your peace” as “fuck anyone with messy emotions/responses”.
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I’m seeing girls defend the fuckin stuffed shark harder than they defend other trans women 😭.
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AND ANOTHER THING (bc I’m annoyed now). Not talking to someone for a day is not ignoring them. And if it was ignoring them that isn’t automatically bad 💀. People be busy we can’t always be in constant contact with everyone, either cause time or emotional bandwidth.
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At a point there’s personal responsibility at play. My best friend is cishet, most of our other friends are trans and/or gay but she’s not rocking up to a doctor asking for hormones 💀.
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And frankly if reassuring someone that you like them is annoying to you then your not worth their time. They’re meant to be your friend, not a doll.
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I’m very sorry for her pain but Christina made an informed decision to pursue this healthcare. It takes a lot of forms and doctors to access (it took me a decade to get HRT).
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Bro americans really can’t handle other countries existing with different language huh.
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@ashe_to_dust Same! Like not talking to someone for a day is so normal. I can go weeks without talking to friends and often it’s cause one or both of us is just too busy. We don’t need to be in constant contact.
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Borderline personality disorders development is heavily associated with the person being traumatised consistently over a long period of time in childhood. Maybe think about that before adding to the already overwhelming stigma.
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Then act like it.
"wear a pronoun pin" ok but some of us are grown ass adults.
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A tgirl I was flirting with settled on a name for herself, it’s my deadname 😭. I shall not be telling her that cause I know she’d feel bad (she has nothing to feel bad about).
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there is frankly no way to say you are not aware of what this healthcare entails unless your dr is a cartoon villain.
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The way eirian is clearly talking about abortion access and reproductive healthcare generally and somehow a bunch of people decided it’s actually an attack of transfems/women…. .
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How the fuck am I seeing “leftists” retweet this scum. She’s outright and loudly.- antisemitic.- racist.- transphobic.This is not news. She has been these things for years.
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No. By saying this you are watering down what rape is. A sex worker can (in many but not all cases) revoke consent. Legitimation of sex work as a recognised & protected profession allows for better protection of the sex workers.
"the other 6 were completely innocent" they were buying sex from her which is a form of r@p3. Consent can’t be bought.
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@nunyabizness_a She looses sympathy by joining in on the demonising of trans healthcare. There are plenty of people who detransition to different degrees who do not do this shit.
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The "they/them"ing someone is misgendering shit is maddening - like .1 no those are not the default prounouns for nonbinary people.2 you can then correct the person with the right pronouns.3 we should not be encouraging gendering strangers based on appearances actually.
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Love the just blatant transphobia and racism of white women in the replies. Very cool.
I do not like how permissible antitransmasculinity is on here.
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Fucking morons out here PROVING HASANS ACTUAL POINT.you take 13 seconds of a 20 min convo about how he feels bad that streaming drains HIS social battery more than when HE worked a sales job so he struggles to socialise after streaming. He’s talking about his own experience.
Millionaire streamer Hasan Piker claims that "A real job doesn't suck the soul out of you in the same way that streaming absolutely will."
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“Cys allies are also likely queer and our first line of defence” DAWG TRANS MEN ARE QUEER TOO 😭.
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Nah radfem is and always has been predominantly white, transphobic cys women.
"radfem" has just become the new "feminazi".
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Somethingmoder is notoriously fucking awful….like she creates new lows with every other post.
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I need these fucks to shut up right now. ALL TRANS PEOPLE ARE TARGETS!! This is not the time for your gender essentialist mean girl shit.
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Bro just blames Hasan for anyone else’s actions…but cried when people blamed Hasan for HIS actions. 💀. Frogan is only a rep of HERSELF! She is a whole ass person separate from Hasan ffs.
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@ScottsScr0te Huh. Medical consent is not the same thing as consent to a relationship or sex 💀.
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This is directed at english speakers primarily but if you think the reason they/them is used in place of she/her or he/him is because of people whose preference is they/them I need you to revise what a pronoun is and how they work.
@SarcasticCatBoy making they/them the neutral pronouns is specifically done for the comfort of people who use those pronouns, at the expense of everyone else who doesn't.
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The irony
i truly need trans men to get critical thinking skills for .3 seconds. yall just reuse your t needles and vibe dont you? god.
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This is blatant transphobia btw.
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@The_Augustus Nope take that misogyny away and unpack it. There’s something to be said about white people wanting to be victims but we can say that without the layer of misogyny.
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@trans_catboy Isn’t it great she had the bodily autonomy to choose for herself… almost like it’s a process led by the person not something forced on anyone 🙃.
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The way some people talk about Kurt Cobain goes past parasocial and into clinically unwell.1 Cobain wasn’t trans & speculating on this is not anyone’s place.2 Courtney love is a cys women so wtf is with the “birthday boy husband” shit.3 His daughter is ALIVE & can see this shit.
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@peachdoesart1 You know trauma doesn’t get fixed after you decide it should be ya /nm. There’s a difference between a wilful pattern and the process of adjusting behaviour.
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Quick remind me who “autistic girls mutilating their breasts” is about?.Or the revenge porn of phalloplasties?.Or who has some of the highest“corrective” sexual assault stats.Who are told they are abusing their kids for being trans.Who can be charged w/felony for having diy HRT.
Trans men once again mad that a joke was told which *checks notes* calls them men
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💀they had to make it antisemitic. Using the menorah is so gross. That’s a Jewish symbol and using it like this immediately makes this antisemitic. They could have used the Israeli flag.
Iran drops a powerful ad depicting an Israeli Olympian with blood on his hands.
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All I’m saying is if you use “Steven universe” and refer to trans men/mascs in the same sentence I do not take you seriously and probably dislike you heavily.
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@sunfl0xer_ Red is communicating here and being punished for it tbh. Like they’ve told green what & why. Yes healing trauma (if it’s a trauma response) is the individuals job but that can’t be done on their own. It takes external positive reinforcement & a support circle willing to help.
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Look. The trans misogyny that is rampant is inexcusable. Always. Transmisogyny happens in so many ways & often is done by other queer people. But can we please not rewrite queer history as if no other queer demographic had been called rapists and pedophiles for being queer.
I'm sorry but if you've never been casually called a rapist and a pedophile for no reason other than being transfem then you don't fucking get it.
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The very reason is that being a man has gotten a weirdass stigma for trans people. They legit thinking being a trans man is “choosing evil” and shit. No wonder people are scared to identify as a binary man.
there is an epidemic of people who call themselves "transmasc" for the simple reason that they do not want to identify as men, because they have bad and simplistic gender politics, and this tweet has apparently & unfortunately galvanized all of them to the very front of my tl.
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Literally anyone would feel emotional at being shown that much care as an adult….especially if they are struggling in that time.
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Very glad she told me over text cause I did have a “jfc pls no” moment. Suits her tho and I’m glad someone finds joy in having it as a name.
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They/them ARE NOT THIRD GENDER PRONOUNS! .Jfc.
@sewushere Third gendering trans women and demanding them to be okay with it - is bad.
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The lesbian radfems are being so normal about this….legit some of the most homophobic people I’ve ever seen tbh.
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This is drawn by joy moon who draws fem sonic the hedgehog porn. Including a comic with fem sonic fucking Kim Jong Un. As well as multiple blackface comics that are insanely racist.
You know when you can just tell by someone's art style that they usually just draw sonic porn
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Guys I’m not defending joy….idk how ye got that but I despise her lol. I’m literally shitting on her here. She’s defending a fuckin plush toy more than she does other trans women nvm trans people in general.
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So blaming it on BPD didn’t work so you’re switching up huh. Some people legitimately should not be allowed online.
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Why do some of you think that someone should immediately know a person is a trans women…like no I won’t immediately she/her a fem appearing person not bc I think they might be a trans women but because .I DONT KNOW THEIR PRONOUNS UNTIL I CAN ASK!.
The "they/them"ing someone is misgendering shit is maddening - like .1 no those are not the default prounouns for nonbinary people.2 you can then correct the person with the right pronouns.3 we should not be encouraging gendering strangers based on appearances actually.
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I hate this shit so much. No transition can be called “easier”. You do not know what others go through or how they are perceived in relation to their personal identity. All this does is shift blame to other trans people from the society that others us all.
@PunishedHimeno FtM transition is so much easier its insane.
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@Iomlttpd @Choclat33095895 She was not a minor at 18. Stop misusing the word minor ffs. This is completely different to dating. She intentionally daughter Medicare care and signed off on the informed consent forms (of which there are many).
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Nah if you in anyway support this person please just block me now. Calling a symbol being used to mourn a women who was horrifically taken from life, a women you mocked repeatedly online, a “white supremacist” symbol is disgusting. Legitimately a vile person.
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@ScramRatz That doesn’t make it ok. You can cosplay disabled characters but do not cosplay the disability. This is something we’ve been trying to get people to hear for years.
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That’s kinda how propaganda works dawg….
you ppl rly needed to download an app and interact w chinese ppl to realize that youve been hating them just bc your country told you to?
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@resident_emma Ethan has been wiping the floor with grifters recently. You’d think after the first time they’d stop showing up so unprepared.
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@LenkaRowenaXIV Legit like there could be so many reasons to ignore someone. To cut them off for just that is a fast way to be lonely.
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How tf has this become a convo about trans women???????. Meme: is explicitly about CLOSETED trans men. Ye’s: trAnS WomEn! You’re being transmisogynistic! by talking about trans men!. Fuckin shut up and let trans guys have two seconds to talk about a thing that feels like shit.
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Like the whole “theyfab” shit for example - that gets smacked on any trans man that becomes the hates dude of the moment.
Why do yall act like people never default to they/them for trans men/mascs lol. Degendering doesn’t just happen to trans women/fems. Sure we’re more likely to experience MALgendering but I’ve had people use they/them for me when I was trying to pass as a guy, masc as possible.
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She’s literally Māori !.Can you freaks keep your literal Black or white thinking to yourselves.
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Wild comment. I think we can all agree that misgendering/degendering and being bioessentialist about trans women is wrong so why are ye fight so hard to do that to nonbinary people.
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Blaming trans people for “loosing an ally” is such manipulative bs. I as a trans man get to comment on how I am spoken about. Allyship is not conditional.
@raygrets Except there were trans folks that were coming with a level of aggression. And good job, you are part of the group that is going to lose us an ally on Twitter, and we need all the allies we can get.
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This is so gross and transphobic. Nvm that as ever y’all disregard transmascs that are not white.
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Need young LGBTQ peeps to stop acting like they know everything & their exp is the same as everybody else’s. They’re all slurs. Not that difficult to get.
@SarcasticCatBoy dyke is still a slur. gay and homo has been reclaimed by their respective communities. quick question why do yall wanna say a slur that yall cant reclaim.
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🙃 fyi transmasc stats are fucked because we are misgendered in death.
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the way people insist any trans man talking about trans issues and not acting like a doormat is angry is so weird. unpack your genderessentialism and stop acting like trans men aren't also transgender.
You’re literally frothing at the mouth because trans women keep talking about the distinctly transmisogynistic way they are they/them’d in public lmao. FROTHING.
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@VoynichSolver People also seem to think going no contact means you dont have to deal with those family members anymore. like nah dawg I havent spoken to my mother in years but that doesnt mean she doesnt find any way possible to harass me still.
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Source???for like any of this?? Cause holy shit are those some wild ass things to claim with no backing.
Trans men abuse trans women on the regular, have greater access to pretty much all resources than us and face lower rates of sexual assault and murder than we do. There's no force that can explain the difference beyond (trans)misogyny.
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Swear I’ll stop after this but that weirdo thinks BPD isn’t real 😭. Dawg our brains are literally wired differently due to trauma. It has physical affects and symptoms 💀
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Just remaking toxic masculinity based gender roles but in a ~progressive~ way.
trans men really get their feelings way too hurt. learn how to not cry like a man goddamn.
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No hate to her but like this is part of that puritan shift that is very concerning. Cursing isn’t bad, it doesn’t make you a bad person either.
I stopped cursing Feb 2024. It’s honestly not hard once you put your mind to it. The key is to speak slower so you can catch it before you slip up and then it just becomes normal to not say.
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@Jawss2017 Ya and there’s ways to trick out a “wheel chair” as part of the story. Again it’s lazy and uncreative to just “heal” instead of understanding that a player might want to make their disability part of their play.
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@dnfslover Imagine how Palestinians feel being bombed on the land they were born for generations…. they don’t even have recognised citizenship for their own country bc they are occupied by Israel who do not recognise them as a people.
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Reminder that Puberty blockers were developed specifically to use at that age range 🙃 because starting puberty that young is a physical & psychological health risk.
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Treating trans men as creeps off the bat is transphobia 101. You’re the one doing the harm.
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Putting literal rapists and war criminals at the same level as a twitch streamer…some of ye are clinically unwell.
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Before y’all screech at me. 1. I was a sex worker. 2. Most of the human trafficking is based on manual labour not SW. 3. You endanger those actually trafficked into SW by spreading this rhetoric.
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People love to say transmascs/trans men “use observed sex at birth to get privilege”.1. What fucking privilege comes with being considered a women?? Like hello.2. Ya a lot of use CANT disengage from the fact we have a uterus IN A TIME REPRODUCTIVE HEALTHCARE IS BEING OBLITERATED.
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Joy you are a straight women yourself. Fuck off already.
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I’m so fucking tired of people talking over trans men. Like we do actually not that ye ever acknowledge it.
@raygrets But you don't get accused of pedophilia like trans women do. Have some perspective eh.
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@offbeatorbit As a strong believer in assisted dying I am also very concerned about HOW it is being handled. Disabled people are pushed towards it as an option solely bc their gov won’t support them. That’s still removing the autonomy one should have in their death.
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@critwhiskey no. its the neutral pronoun because thats how grammar is structured in english.
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@FlanneryFrogger @punishedmother Stop talking about real human beings as if they are some throwaway latest fashion item. Jfc. Those are actual people. Those are children.
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@nunyabizness_a Dawg I said I was sorry for her distress and I am but I’m also sick of people using the transphobic agitators for personal goals. It’s causing irreparable harm. We have a massive suicide risk in the UK right now because healthcare to trans youth is being cut off. This causes that.
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THIS IS SO INSANELY INAPPROPRIATE!!. Never ever should you have pictures of your students and you definitely shouldn’t be SHARING THEM ON YOUR PUBLIC SOCIAL MEDIA!!!.
hi let's not say "be my friend and ill send you pictures of the children i work with" especially when the parents probably have no idea who you're sending those pictures to 😁
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Telling trans men we are wrong about the prevalence of transphobia against us is calling us liars actually. You seem to love saying “trans women have it worse” for someone not wanting it to be a contest.
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@SophiaNarwitz So she’s doing what literally every YouTuber does and asks the community to boost a video…even stating that it is her team that put the video together…wow ya. She’s clearly evil 🙄.
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"someone left their bag here" - "they" is used because you do not know the pronouns of the person being mentioned, and they are not there to clarify. The singular "they" has always had that use case. It's the most common use case.
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@EuphoriTori Wild thing is anyone who’s detransitioned that I’ve spoken to is actually for looser control of access to gender affirming healthcare. The strict rules of you have to do X before Y means they didn’t get to pick what suited them best.
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