I was posting my mocktails so people wouldn’t suspect I was pregnant. I said that’s smart huh Jay said “No. They gon be like this b* was drinking the whole pregnancy” 😂
I take pride in knowing myself. Knowing my triggers. Choosing peace. Being selective with the company I keep. Taking accountability. & typically when I make a decision, I stand on that 4L.
I know my worth & I know who I am, I bring the table to the table every time. I am that girl. In work, relationship, friendship, in love, in confidence, I am she. Don’t play wit me, ever. Cause it’ll be yo last day playing!
Talking to my friend about having kids. I definitely feel like picking the right partner to have a child with is key. The right man will make you want to have his child.
I don’t like seeing fights, porn, repetitive mess, hypocritical tweets, or fake shit. Basically all I want to see is fashion, home decor, good (preferably balanced) food, and positivity on my TL.
People need to understand a few things:
1. I’m kind, not dumb
2. You have no entitlement to me
3. I read people very well
4. I know genuine & what’s for hype
5. I will spazz on a mfn keep irritating me
❤️ Please take a hint the first time. Thanks and goodbye.
I just want to be a better woman all across the board. Upgrade my health, grow my hair, clear up my skin, secure a bigger salary, build quality connections, get closer to God — that’s all I’m on rn.
Idk what’s the obsession with being envied, disliked, hated on or plotted on but I rebuke that energy & don’t want no parts. I don’t desire to be that girl in that way.
Throughout my entire pregnancy, I had a health issue and went through several rounds of acute surgery. At the time, I couldn’t be treated properly because I was pregnant.
Reciprocation is big for me rn. If I find myself always giving, always showing up, always being the shoulder for someone but that energy is seldom returned for whatever reason, I’m coo.
You’ll be surprised who be chopping you tf up. Tryna figure out yo whole life. Run down everything y’all talk about. Watch you hard af etc. 😂 like I never thought that deep into anything but it’s best to keep to yourself fr.
if you stopped posting and went ghost, who would hit yo phone & be present? that’s the people you need to love on. mfs be keeping up thru social media but never call or pull up. 😮💨
God gives everyone what they need whether it be a job, kids, marriage, a partner, a hard time, a good time. I think we all get what we need in divine timing.
B*tches will friend, sis, cuz you to death just to be in your business and come talk about the lamest shit. I don’t even have it in me fr. & don’t get me started on acting fake spiritual or tuned in just to turn around and be messy as a mf. I be tired af & don’t care.
People be trying to downplay travel so bad. Idgaf if you go to Marin, LA, Vegas, anywhere besides your home is a TRIP! New experiences are always grand. We only get one life. F* a hater.
No alcohol or smoking til April
30 Day Challenge
Eat between 11AM-8PM
No juice or soda
No processed snacks
Dairy & meat free 4 days a week
Gym daily — at least 30min cardio
I feel like ima be snatched!
I hope nobody ever think I’m jealous of them for any reason under the sun. Been there done that, had that & some. Everything that’s mine is here or on its way. Just in case a ho thought otherwise! 💋
It’s never love lost with me because that’s not how real love works. I hold space in my heart for all my people, but I just can’t fuck with everybody the same as I once did. I forgive myself for the times I failed to express that properly.
The way I balance being in a relationship but still showing up for my girls is something I take pride in. I see so many girls just ghost their friends and personal life after finding love.
Not gonna yieee I be looking good but I be going through it. It’s crazy that people can really not look like what they been/go through. Be kind, spread love, spread light as much as possible! Give grace and don’t judge a book by its cover.
Like I’m grown af, why would I want to indulge in hella negativity everyday? It’s really about following like minded people on a similar frequency instead of being in a circus with clowns. Simple!
Karma so real. All that gossip, drama & everything in between ain’t it. It don’t even sit right with my spirit. Free that shit! & remember it can always be you. 🎯
Self sabotage is real. Waiting for something to go wrong, talking yourself in & out of things, assuming, letting outside objects affect the inner being. It’s real & I’m praying it stay away from me.
when I was down bad everybody was cool with me. when I was always drunk, & on a hype my phone was ringing! I went on to be productive, to heal, to claim my blessings .. and nobody was there 😌