I used to be the “inclusive” friend and tried to include everyone even if their energy was off. Now I just invite who I know I’m going to have a great time with every single time.
Everybody is not the friend that you are to them. That’s why I shifted my whole perspective entering this new chapter and decided to really pour into those who pour into me.
I really believe God puts certain people in your life to show you exactly what you don’t need so that you’re able to easily recognize what’s for you. That’s in friendships and in relationships.
I used to get so irritated with the thought of starting over, but I realized every time I made the decision to do so, I was so much better off. Never let comfortability hold you captive.
I love this part of my life. I’m literally just LIVING. Not answering to a soul, just here for the vibes. Our time together is our time together, our time apart is our time apart.
One thing I’ve learned in this life as a woman, men don’t have any issue eating up your good years. That’s why you gotta get in and get out fast if it’s unfit.
I decided to really reciprocate the same energy I receive. I always end up overextending or just always making sure people are straight. I’m not doing that at all next year. If the communication isn’t there, the energy, the effort, we will not speak. It’s very simple.
I never want anyone to dwell on me. I feel like if you can get someone who better aligns with your life path, go ahead and do that. What’s for me will be for me forever.