Associate Professor of Urology University of Arizona | HoLEP Fanatic | FPMRS | Husband | Father | Angler | Likely Not A Good Person | Views/Language are mine
I’m saddened but shouldn’t be as shocked as I was when a patient told me he was coming to me because his prior urologist attributed his elevated PSA to being homosexual and “the things you gays do with each other. I didn’t hold back. That urologist is a bigoted asshole. 😡😡😡😡
@AshleyGWinter
@AmerUrological
Totally get it. I skipped the winter meeting for
@sufuorg
as it was in Florida. I have 2 courses and a talk at AUA tho so I had to make a choice…would much prefer if
@AmerUrological
considered my female colleagues health needs for future locations…
@DrPayItBack
“Patient’s insurance carrier has denied needed imaging to safely evaluate, diagnose and treat condition. In my opinion this is a necessary Dx/Tx intervention. This is solely the determination of insurance carrier and contrary to my medical opinion” -Me in EHR. Every time now.
Pt married 21 years and in tears over that statement. I was right there with him. If you’re a homophobe, you better block me now because I hate you and you are a horrible person…love is love….
I’ll repeat it. Again. The training I experienced didn’t make me a better doctor. It made me a more damaged person. Less empathetic, less altruistic and less wholesome. Those who cling to that system with “rose tinted glasses” are promoting Stockholm syndrome and PTSD….
WSJ covered resident unions today.
Article dropped 3h ago; 400+ comments already.
My fave is “There was no issue with work-life balance until women became MDs!”
But don’t worry, Stockholm syndrome, the bootstraps brigade, and socialized medicine fearmongering are there, too.
@AshleyGWinter
Urologist: Sir, you really need to stop masturbating so much
Patient: “doc, that’s just closed minded. It’s a natural and healthy thing to do”
Doc: “Yes, but I’m trying to examine you”
The clitoris is a testosterone dependent organ.
The vulvar glands are a testosterone dependent organ.
I use low doses of testosterone in cis women all the time to treat conditions affecting these organs.
There are no guidelines.
We need more research.
But the physiology is there
To the urology applicants: don’t spend money on a fancy ring light and expensive camera for your interview. I care about what you say not how you look. Please see any picture of me as evidence, looking good isn’t part of being a “successful” urologist….
Urology Match Applicant:
Tomorrow’s outcome doesn’t define you or your intrinsic value as a human.
You are FAR more than a successful or unsuccessful match cycle. 🤜🏼🤛🏼
@UroResidency
#Uromatch
#urology2023
Before 14 years of training/after 13 years of being an attending. My ride or die is still putting up with my mercurial disposition and endless hours of work dominating family time. Luckiest. Guy. Ever. We celebrated 25 years married in June and 31 together. HS sweethearts 4ever
@vasisht
@DrPayItBack
While this is true, the practicality and empathy of a jury to a patient is gonna be high. Trying to wall myself off from medico-legal risk, as best I can and provide the patient some footing…and I feel better so there’s that.
20 minutes post-HoLEP/MoLEP with irrigation off. 165cc gland. Enbloc technique. 75 minutes even with laser brick failing and only being able to work at 45W
#AEEP
#UroSoMe
#endourology
#WCE
#HoLEP
That’s no moon…470cc gland. Retention, ARF, refractory gross heme.
#HoLEP
yesterday. 2.75 hours, 1 morcellating.
@gpollock9
my chief resident played the role of primary surgeon. Catheter out at 16 hours. These cases are why I love
#AEEP
@bsc_urology
@LumenisU
@Tokirbymd
@sulmoney
I’ve started doing this and documenting in the EHR the insurance payor/“peer reviewer” denying what in my, board certified opinion, is the best option….
1/ Since the major urology conference is happening now & a whole bunch of y'all are looking at Twitter so I want to say that abortion is healthcare & this issue is in our lane as urologists.
#AUA23
When you get images from your former resident about his
#HoLEP
game.
@gpollock9
is the real deal. 200cc gland enucleated in 30 minutes. It IS teachable and the learning curve is manageable. NOLA is fortunate to have him! Pre and post enucleation coronal images.
@bsc_urology
@travisakers
I say as a Urologist, he should be encouraged for his intellectual curiosity. stigmatizing genitals as “private” is a significant contributor to misogyny, LGBTQ+ bias, and sexism. We need to break the mold. Be proud of your son’s curiosity and normalize gender talk!
I love my patients and am still passionate about caring for them. I also realize how our medical system, training, insurance, EMR, etc has broken a part of me that probably can’t be fixed. Hoping this little princess and her emotional support will help. I love her already. ♥️
HoLEP efficiency and speed example: 103cc gland. 36 minutes scope in to catheter placed. Younger patient who said “I want this fixed for good”. Satisfying to know he’s set for life from an obstruction standpoint!
#AREP
#HoLEP
@bsc_urology
@AshleyGWinter
Ashley, literally was in a full angry cry when the patient told me this. We can advocate all we want. All it takes is one “urologist” like this to undo that effort. Thank you my friend. 🙌🏼♥️🤜🏼🤛🏼
My work “mom” and my North Star of patient empathy retired today. She has guided me as a surgeon, as a husband and a father for a decade. While I know I will find a way forward, right now I feel adrift without her. Value your NPs. They are critical.
@UAUrology
@so_uro
Operated with a MS3 today as no resident was available. I need this in my life more. The enthusiasm is real. Reinvigorated.
@UAZMedTucson
@UAUrology
#MedEd
Urology applicants: regardless of what that email says this morning, my only advice is one thing: You. Are. Enough.
If you are facing the scramble, keep your chin up and keep aiming for that dream. You have worked too hard thus far to give up!
Last day of
#AUA23
and I’m here early for a last minute slide deck check. Still not sure
@SocietyofBPD
sent the invitation to speak on “Enucleation for Everyone” to the right email address….(no, I’m not wearing a suit, everyone knows I don’t suit🤣)
There are no words to describe this incredible human. She has guided 37 years of our residents, myself included. Mentor, therapist, shoulder to cry on, cheerleader. She has been it all. While sad to see her retire, it is well earned. Miss you already Rosemary!!!
@UAUrology
Come join the SMU for a morning discussing
#AEEP
. I am honored to be invited to speak. And though I am working on my Spanish, the talk will be in English 😉
When a twitter handle doesn’t allow you to comment, it’s a sign they are a looney or live in an echo chamber of quackery. Post-menopausal vaginal estrogen has level 1 evidence to reduce UTIs, improve storage LUTS and DOES NOT INCREASE CANCER RISK.
@AshleyGWinter
#UroSoMe
Estrogen cream is a VERY EXPENSIVE placebo for urinary incontinence.
If you’re ever prescribed estrogen cream for bladder disease, apply it on the prescriber's face instead!
I saw Clinic patients today. Yes. It’s Saturday. But through no fault of their own, these pts were scheduled for a day I will be out of the office. One asked “How can you be so positive working on a Saturday?” My answer? “I truly love what I do.”
#blessed
#grateful
@pgj98m3
@drrachelrubin
Not cool. Twitter is a better replace if negative comments just don’t happen. Especially random Dr Heck(ler) comments to an expert in this field. Sit down sir.
6
#HoLEP
cases ranging in size from 90cc-209cc, 3 with prior outlet surgery and add into that a huge horseshoe urethral diverticulum and a 8mm UVJ stone in a solitary kidney in the last 36 hours and I’m DONE! Please call gods don’t hurt me this weekend.
How to reduce your no show rate in clinic? Have a long enough wait that if the patient no shows they can’t get back in for 6 months. Pavlovian training at its best. Follow me for more crappy tips about being overloaded with work.
The Idiots of Urology will open the application process soon to join us at
#AUA24
in San Antonio. You prolly want in on this. The executive board has already approved
@KeithKow
and
@CaseySeidemanMD
as new members.
@kjdelay1
can’t be tagged in photos due to a restraining order…
I would never want my residents to experience what I did. It didn’t make me a better doctor. It made me a more broken person. Why would we want that to continue?
@UAUrology
@AmerUrological
@acgme
A cardinal rule of responsibility is to shield others from the suffering you endured.
Good parents refuse to dump their childhood baggage on their kids. Good leaders and coaches refuse to perpetuate abusive patterns.
You can choose to do right in the ways you've been wronged.
Don’t move here.
#Arizona
sucks. The weather is awful, it’s always brown and dusty, all the animals want to kill you, everyone has a gun, too many undocumented immigrants. Yep. It’s awful. Stay away! 🤣🤔😉
Recently my professional integrity was questioned, followed by being told that sharing my pride in our residents’ growing ability is a detriment to my practice. Let me be clear: The residents in our program are my profesional “WHY”. I won’t be shamed for celebrating them.
“There is a sacredness in tears. They are not a mark of weakness, but of power. They speak more eloquently than ten thousand tongues. They are the messengers of overwhelming grief, of deep contrition and of unspeakable love.”
-Washington Irving
No. Truer. Words.
Hug those U Love
More commonly doing urgent
#HoLEP
for massive prostates and refractory bleeding. Patient w/ FIVE+ visits to ED for retention and catheter occlusion from clots. Finally found his way to us and we fixed it. 250+ gm specimen. 1:55 operative time.
#AEEP
#UroSoMe
@UAUrology
@BrooketheOstomy
My staff purchased a porcelain llama for the days when I’m being a “drama llama”. It gets placed on my desk It’s true. It happens and I find it hilarious. They get me. 🤣reminds me to not be so extra and I need to chill.
You will never regret standing up for yourself and your well being. Work should never replace your family and your personal goals. Leadership is taking action so those who follow can see this is what matters.
#wellness
#moralinjury
#burnout
@NLN
So less than 7 weeks of training, relative to current physician residencies (3+ years of 80-ish hour weeks) is sufficient? Asking for a whole 3.5 weeks more is wrong?
Please rethink how you are valuing training hours vs patient safety and quality of care…..
Telling a physician “Think of how you would want your family cared for” when arguing for more patients and faster response times is the definition of moral injury and physician abuse. Esp when it comes from another physician in a leadership role. 🛑
#wellness
#physicianburnout
I am surrounded by amazing colleagues and friends. The
#HoLEP
Mastery course hosted this weekend by
@NM_Urology
was incredible. Inspiring to spend the day with urologists who see the future.
@amy_krambeck
deserves all the gratitude for her efforts to make this a reality.
@so_uro
The BPH hands on course was another RESOUNDING success at
#AUA23
. Thanks to
@amy_krambeck
and
@AssmusMark
for herding all the 🐈 to make it happen. And Akhil Das needs a twitter handle!
The father of
#HoLEP
here in the US, James Lingeman sharing nearly 3 decades of experience. The
@UCI_Urology
HoLEP course is star studded. I’m geeking out over being part of this!
#AEEP
#UroSoMe
An in redoble group of faculty. A little surreal that I am on this team with urologists who have inspired me for my entire career. Humbled and immensely grateful to Akhil Das and
@UCI_Urology
#HoLEP
#AEEP
@jonhagedornmd
No. I worked clinic and academic meetings from 7a-17:30p. I then drove home on work calls and continued those until 20:00. I then ate dinner and collapsed in tears because administration says I’m not showing “tangible improvements” in our peri-operative process…
#burnout
After the
#AUA2022
hands on BPH course, if anyone is interested in seeing live cases, in person, feel free to reach out! Always willing to have guests here in sunny Tucson and provide support to develop your own
#AEEP
program!
@bsc_urology
@LumenisU
Hear this:
Comparison is the death of Joy
Don’t let others social media “highlight” reels dim your light. We all have a behind the scenes
You are enough.
My daughter has been raised to do whatever the fuck she wants. Including seeing the warning signs of a patriarchal asshole like this and avoid them like the plague….
Read this and if you don’t agree that safe access to a legal abortion is a human right, unfollow me now. You are part of why this happened and why it will happen again and again until WE fix this.
HoLEP Case
#2
Example PGY-5
-180cc on mpMRI
-Enucleation time: 61 minutes
-Morcellation time: 15 minutes
-Tissue weight: 171 grams
-OR Time: 83 minutes
#AEEP
is teachable and for all size prostates!
@bsc_urology
@UAUrology