@Evie4Freedom
That's a very selfish choice.
If you're making it, please don't plan on using social services like social security, public healthcare marketplaces, city water or sewer, etc built only to work with a stable or growing population.
You can have a voice without acting like a bitсh. Rude =/= assertive
Being rude just reduces sympathy and people's willingness to listen. Which would be beneficial to your victim complex and the only conceivable reason you'd encourage people to be rude in the first place.
How is knowing that I can’t physically, mentally, or financially provide for a child in the ways that they would need or deserve in any way selfish or immature?
People will spit at me never to have children because I’m “woke” while simultaneously vilifying me for being sterilized because I’m not fulfilling my “duty” as a woman.
It’s not about babies, y’all just hate that women have agency
I don’t want kids, why does that make people mad?
I’m 31, bout to elope, own a home, have a plethora of pets, & a steadily advancing career.
In my free time (which I have a lot of) I get to play video games, work on my house, and enjoy life with my partner. Stay mad✌🏼😌
To whoever needs to hear it; It’s okay to admit that you don’t want children and that having them would take too much of a toll on your mental and physical well-being. Prioritizing yourself in your own life is okay.
Why do so many parents want other people to have kids?
You don’t have to prove to me how happy you are, I’m happy for you if parenting is your thing. It’s not mine and that’s okay ✌🏼
Them: “why do you keep posting about being childfree!! Why is it your whole personality?!!?!!??”
Their bio: ✝️ ✝️CHRIST IS KING 🇺🇸 😇🕊️Christian, Jesus lover, sinner, child of god, random Bible verse, MAGA, repent 🙏🏼
I say I don’t want kids and men say I should be raped and killed. But yeah, I’m the big ole meanie for shitposting about angering men. Y’all absolutely do not live in reality. But that’s just par for the course. Women are the bad ones for being mean to the men want them dead
Honestly, when people come at me saying that abortion is homicide/murder I just have to laugh. How immature do you have to be to believe this is true? How immature do you have to be to think that a pregnancy should be more valued than the wants of the person it is inside of?
Some of these reasons why I don’t want kids:
I love getting high, playing video games, spending time with just my partner, sleeping in, and not worrying about raising new humans under the crushing weight of late stage capitalism 😊
Do people actually think like this or is this just intentionally inflammatory? Cause 2 of my best friends are dudes, and my partner’s childhood bff is a woman lol y’all are so insecure
“Who’s gonna wipe your ass when you get old if you don’t have kids???”
What a weird response to someone saying that they are childfree. Fear of loneliness is not a good or selfless reason to have kids. Your kids aren’t free labor or extra caretakers ffs
I’m genuinely happy for parents that have kids, love being parents, and have the means to support a family. I think it’s valuable and admirable. I’m not lesser because I don’t want to do it though
@Jon_in_TX
Never said I wanted your respect, go wash your ass
This post has nothing to do with interactions with randos on the internet and everything to do with women and girls being taught that the comfort of others comes at our expense, we are to be polite or silent
“You’ll regret not having kids!!!!!! Change your mind before it too late!!!!!”
Meanwhile, I’m one year post-op from my bilateral salpingectomy this Sunday 😜
@Controv89488022
This post was about being childfree by choice. Don’t be bringing in anti-abortion bullshit into a conversation that was in no way about abortion just to give yourself some sort of pat on the back
It seems i have pissed of a coven of lesbians/feminists. I am starting to notice they are terrible at ad hominem attacks. They seem to think telling me I am not very good looking is somehow an epic burn. Feminists really aren't very bright.
Can we stop being so cruel to women who choose to gestate after being r*ped?? I’ve seen it today in some abortion discourse and it’s fucking gross. The whole point of being pro-choice is to support people’s right to CHOOSE FOR THEMSELVES.
I work next to my local Planned Parenthood. Y’all, one of the protest signs this morning said “stay pure, stay chaste, stay virgin” or some shit
Excuse me while I vomit
@freedom4alltime
Fear of loneliness is a terrible reason to have kids. Children are not free caretakers, our job is to raise them and let them go on to build their own lives.
Also, I’m sterilized so cry harder lol
@Evie4Freedom
I know a girl who lost her virginity at 13 to a 19yr old. Do you think her father was ok with it had he known? He's a shit father, obviously. But had he taught his daughter right, would she have had sex so young?
@ClaireLiz4Life
I’m not fucking broken because I don’t want kids. I just value my money, sleeping in, alone time with my partner, the love of my pets, and my goddamn silence
@MatherDaryl
@AriDrennen
You don’t speak for women, Daryl. I don’t give a fuck if a transwoman pisses next to me. I’ve never felt endangered by a trans person. I have felt unsafe around cis men like you though.
@TheDrRansom
Bruh I don’t even know why you’re here, who mentioned anything about what men say to each other? This is about assertive women being called rude bitches
@JPoliticalChess
@OwenJones84
More power?? She’s gotten nothing but vitriol, cruelty, and straight up hatred ever since coming out. How is that more profitable? Why is her existing on her own tiktok account SO obscene to you?
@KevoModesto
Why is living my life how I want to and finding fulfillment elsewhere than a biological family considered “bad”?
Having children for self-fulfillment and legacy is actually pretty selfish tbh
@Jon_in_TX
I don’t owe you politeness and it’s not my job to teach men to see women and girls as people with voices.
Really rich for a man to tell a woman that her lived experiences are lies ????
@AlayneAdelaide
Same! I love kids, but mostly in small doses. Having any of my own would require things that would be too much for me, mentally and physically.
@bones410
@Evie4Freedom
But you are. Unless you are willing to off yourself or be offed by the government before you turn senile and decrepit in old age, you are then asking society to provide manpower and resources to your elder care through your existence.
@therealdavearn1
@AlayneAdelaide
Respectfully, I disagree. Parenting should be an active and sought after choice, not something to stumble into. It is HARD and more people should think about their reasons for having them and honest with themselves about their capability and emotional maturity