Recently cleared out the past to make space for the future. To answer some questions:
- We're still together.
- We still consider ourselves "open".
- Our "regular" lives have been through a lot lately.
Thanks for being friends and fans through it all.
For every Swinger/ENM couple or person you see creating content, there are tens of thousands who enjoy the experience privately, without cameras involved.
We enjoyed our time as exhibitionists, but creating content was never the focal point of what we enjoy.
Obviously we don’t post much on here, but grateful for the love and support of those who interact with our old stuff AND the manyvids link.
Hope everyone has a beautiful Saturday.
Don't kid yourself, swinging is a risk.
If you or your partner have uncommunicated vulnerabilities, insecurities, or issues you've been avoiding, swinging will intensify and expose those problems.
Difficult conversations are the gateway to MORE fun.
A mentor once shared the wisdom of "Get curious, not furious" when you encounter challenging things.
I get that this is twitter, but engaging with these topics seems to have better outcomes when we engage with them in good faith.
Keep that in mind as you interact with ENM people. The ones that enjoy showing off publicly are the minority.
Most LS/ENM people have too much to lose to risk being totally open.
There will always be people that don't understand non-traditional relationships. As long as they are respectful, there's nothing wrong with that.
When people demonize non-traditional relationships, you have to ask "Why are they barking so loud?"
#guiltyofsomething
Watching “Money Shot: The Pornhub Story” and trying to follow all of the content creators I see. 😂
I’ll probably follow from my solo account:
@HeloSwing
Non-Traditional Relationships come in many forms:
• Swingers
• Hotwives - Stag/Vixen, Cuckolds, etc.
• Open-Relationships
• Poly
What other major relationship dynamics can you name?
Wrote a blog some time ago that puts into words how we see the "The Lifestyle" and it's subcultures. Feel free to read through and offer your additions in reply.
@IntegrityIsKey
We can only recommend what we have experienced:
@ColetteLabelle
in Dallas for a swingers club
@DesireResorts
in Cancun for an LS friendly, all-inclusive resort.
@Kasidie
for a website to connect you with local people/events/venues nearest you.
@SwingDownUnder
It's odd to gatekeep a casual sex space from others engaging in casual sex.
I understand couples wishing to engage with people/circumstances that make them feel comfortable can be caught off guard by unexpected circumstances. But, it's a big, swinging world out there.
Third time's the charm!
Here's a list of ~120 fetishes, selected mostly by factor analysis from my bigger survey. This is ~30k people for interest, and ~1,300 for taboo ratings.
This chart also contains info on bio sex disparity and cis/noncis disparity.
@SteakAndTequila
Sometimes have one-two year breaks from fucking other people. A lifestyle can be a mental perspective, not necessarily a consistent physical activity.
“When I hear ‘swinger,’ I think white, middle-aged, conservative and heterosexual, perhaps with a little bisexual fetishism thrown in but only if it's towards bisexual women,” says Leanne Yau, polyamory educator and creator of Poly Philia.
@ZacharyZane_
@Bphotography562
Find single friendly clubs, resorts, and websites to start networking on. Focus on making friends, not fuck buddies. Friends will include you in their plans. It’s a challenge, but once you have a friend group, you’re golden.
@BrownSugar85555
Our culture has created the expectation of desiring *more* when we should find reasonable joy and happiness in what exists.
While you single reply is intended to be light-hearted, imagine living an existence where people are consistently demanding more of something that you…
@danielsaynt
A venue that resembles a nightclub in which members of the business are legally allowed to have consensual sexual activity.
Details vary by location, butI think that covers the jizzt of it.
Someone is trying to dodge responsibility for how they behave on this platform.
She insulted our relationship; we called her on her bullshit for being a follower; then she tries to insinuate something far more degenerate than her original insult.
Bless her heart.
@n50_jassim
What made Swing so great is that almost all of us are normal people. We never intended to be porn stars, and now... over 10 years later, we are still the same. We don't want to be porn stars, but we enjoyed having sex on camera in our 20's.
@thesiridahl
I think we miss flirting with you back in the day on tumblr.
It was a LONG time ago, like... 11 years, I think, since we met you before you moved out of Texas. Back when you were still on SDC.
@ThreeLegSailor
@MilfBecca
@TwitterSupport
If I remember correctly, she used to have a NSFW profile pic right? I think they started cracking down on that rule and suspending accounts that had not changed them.
@thegingerbanks
Consider being part of the solution. You have influence. You have people that respect and value your input. Mobilize them for voter registration drives, door knocking, and being the little bit of difference needed to erase what seems written on the wall.
@ermasankuneri
There’s always been more to us than our looks… which is one of the components of growth we’ve gone through that social media does not have a positive influence on.
@sexandtheswiss
@HeloSwing
Your incorrect assumption about who is “using” whom is wholly based on your negative biases and is not grounded in the reality of who we are or how we conduct ourselves.
You decided to be rude to us because your life experiences have sucked. I wish you better luck…
@SarahNikitten
It feels refreshing, but also like some solid pressure to make sure your "clean slate" doesn't get distracted again. We did it recently...