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I Love Every Thing about 🇯🇲 My thoughts out loud! Pick sense out of the nonsense. Live in Love❤

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@MamaTea_ And men settle for women like this all the time, marry them, then later come on the internet bitter and broken.
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@authordwhite @fuckingdub I don't care what nobody say, if a man cheats on a woman who monogamy is important to her, and she claims she forgives him and takes him back, she is always going to be plotting on him to make him pay. Sometimes it's best he leave because she is going make his life miserable.
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@xiorabella Nope not all the time. Sometimes you are the block that was blocking your ex's soulmate and soon as you was out the way, the path was cleared for them to meet. It could've happen to you too. This is why we must learn to let go, because you maybe blocking your blessing holding on.
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@benjamindiwa @nottydesignss If you think of marriage as doing a favor to woman please leave us alone. A lot of times it's the women doing men favors by marrying y'all. Y'all show up with your broke down lives like humpty dumpty and we put you all back together again. So do us the favor and leave us alone.
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@ateenyalien This is the reason men keep so much in. They don't have a safe place to let it out. As his woman you should be his safe place and you record him and embarrass him for releasing. Some of us women forget that men are humans too and the same love and support we desire they want too.
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@suggardaddy_ See it all the time and that is not love, that is sign of a broken person looking to fill a deep void that they're missing, and until they figure out what they need to heal, they will continue to cheat. When a person meet REAL love,lust leaves, because REAL love doesn't cheat.
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@Gette369 Yessss I love it when we talk and flirt with each other all day, it builds sexual tension.
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@Rlawsonnnn Yep those are the generational curse breakers. Sent to set the family straight.
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@SoledadFrancis People don't understand how powerful and healing sex is. Some people are sexual healers. Having sex with them heals you, like having sex with the wrong people will harm you. Reason why it's not wise to have sex casually. You can catch more than a STD laying with the wrong person.
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@_bbytorch The most irritating thing a non-communicative man. I love a man who talks to me. Tell me all of your feelings and thoughts, let's be open vulnerable and intimate with each other.
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@domiono Talk about it. When some men meet a woman who challenges them to grow, to become the best version of themselves it's either two response, grow or run back to their comfort zone. Run back to where it's easy, where they know they are not challenged or called out on their B.S
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@_ModernDayHippy @HoodHealer I saw that too. We have to realize that many men are great pretenders. They put on the greatest show for the world, that they love their wives and have a happy family life, meanwhile they're miserable, unhappy dying inside from stress and loneliness, but they keep up appearances.
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@theinfamousjc People don't even realize that's them living out their childhood trauma. Wanting approval from their parents in their adulthood, because they didn't receive praise and approval in their childhood.
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@Theholisticpsyc A lot of people don't understand how they're abusing themselves by living a lie. You hurt yourself mentally, emotionally, and physically.
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@phillupbank @authordwhite @fuckingdub What! Women are very vindictive, don't let them pretty faces fool you, some of us are downright evil.
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3 years
@SayItValencia I starting to understand that relationships are easy when it's with an emotionally heal mature person. The conversation are different and disagreements get resolved differently.
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3 years
Normalize luxury in your life. Normalize being loved unconditionally. Normalize being happy for no reason. Struggle is not a virtue. Stop subscribing to struggle.
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@lowkeyalbert Very attractive, because it shows emotional maturity and eliminate the game playing and guessing game.
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@sonotmyburner I love stories like these, because it shows that good men do exist. Men who are loving, consistent,and do love their women and shows it.
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@_beccababyyy One of the worst thing is to be in a relationship with someone who CANNOT communicate. The level of mature energy it takes to deal with such immaturity is not worth it. Especially for me, where effective communication is very essential in a relationship to make it work.
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@Theholisticpsyc Please talk about it,because society's glorifying of two parent household as the epitome of a great family is crazy. Most of the people I know who are emotionally broken traumatized, and dysfunctional are from two parents household. The damage is great and need to be discussed
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@johnaedascorpio My 13 year old son taught me a lesson I will never forget, I said don't be rude to your Dad. He said this is how parents ruin children, we force children to accept the hurt of a parent because of their title, instead of looking at the person as just a person who is hurting them.
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@amirforeignn Definitely worth it. I have found if a man truly likes you he will invest the time to get to know you. Even if he is just your friend, he still wants to be around you.
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@soulmuva Yep, reading this brings tears to my eyes because sometimes a hyper-independent person truly needs the help, but who can they call? All the other times I was brave enough to ask, I was met with excuses or no help at all, so I stopped asking and figured it out on my own.
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@Sm0ke_Reggie @ashantisearra_ Not because you are not him doesn't mean he is doesn't exist. Ladies keep tweeting he does exist. I have met one and maybe one day I will post him.
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@BigNeyogems Had console a 37 year old this pass weekend who thought she had failed life so miserably that she is clinically depress, all because of social media. I am telling you your self esteem and self love have to be on point to let these curated lifestyle on social media not phase you.
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Can you imagine a relationship without arguments? Just you and your partner calmly talking about the issues and finding solutions. Nobody is trying to win because you're both on the same team.
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@sialdn It's truly simple. If a man wants you and care about you, he will give you clarity of his intentions, because he doesn't want you to overthink. None of the men I have ever wanted was confused,because I always state my position if they choose to not listen then that's different.
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@LilLechon @pettyreligion Crazy how I hearing more and more young people telling me this. That they don't see any marriage that make them want to get married. Even people raised in home where their parents are still married. So sad because marriage is beautiful with the right person for you.
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@TemmyZara I co-sign with you on that👋🏾 Because yes they do! Healthy relationships exist. Relationships that you wake up everyday blissfully happy even if somedays it's rocky, you still are very happy to be having rocky with that person.
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@CASANOVA_2X Most people don't understand how hard it is to find someone who truly love them. Someone who is loyal, value and care about them. They really think these people come a dime a dozen, they mistreat them, then after realized they can't find someone like them again.
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@ML_Philosophy Walk away. One sided relationship is not a relationship. It's forcing something to be that the other person doesn't want.When someone wants be in a relationship,friendship, partnership with you,they put in effort.If you're the only one doing the work eventually you'll get tired.
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@kennysroys @PopCrave I have to laugh when I saw this because I remember how he was carrying on about Will Smith. It's always the self righteous ones who is living the double life. Judging everybody while living in their sin.
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@melanatedmomma I remember my cuz asking me how can I be friends with my ex? I said because in my heart there's no animosity He is a good person but not a good partner for me and instead of me nagging him to become the man I need I leave Me leaving doesn't take away from him being a good person
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@jawnnthadonn Ask many single divorce women what was their intentions when they got married and gave birth, but still end up single? Y'all need to be aware of life's reality. Sometimes both parents together and raising children together, sometimes it doesn't work. But keep dreaming.
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@itsmontyj The crazy thing is people often take for granted the people who genuinely love and care about them, constantly hurting them thinking they're,replaceable until they realize their were one of a kind.
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@josh_uglyasf It's a terrible feeling loving someone so deeply and feel like they're playing games with your feelings. It's a terrible feeling to be constantly questioning their feelings for you, because their actions are contradictory. Everybody desire and deserves a secure reassuring love.
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The best relationship is when everything is in the mix. God Love, passion, attraction, good sex, friendship, laughter, partnership, achievement, adventure and stability. You can't get better than that and I will not settle for less.
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@josh_uglyasf It's disgusting the emotional games people play with people's hearts. It's hurtful, harmful, selfish, and emotionally paralyzing for some people. Many people have been emotionally traumatized by these sick games. If you're not truly interested in someone, don't lead them on.
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@_ZaMarLewis_ This is what many women don't understand. Not because a man have money means he is kind. He is just a mean man with money. A regular guy sometimes treat his woman better than the man with money.
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@Makavela_ Tell me about it. The vulnerability of opening up your heart to someone else is no easy fete
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@prettygirll4L People who don't understand self-love always use manipulative words to keep people in these terrible relationships. I love you beyond words can express, but you're not going to treat me any and any way and think I am staying, myself will not allow it, because I love Me.
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@pettyreligion @SoledadFrancis No people like to live in denial, then act victimize. They will see all the signs that they should let go or let them go, but keep holding on thinking things will change. When there are signs saying time is up.
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@ninagrewal97 Yep the fear of abandonment will let us push away the one who loves us the most, because we are afraid they will leave us first.
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@feyiszn It's not that they don't want to lose you, they don't want to lose what comes with you. They become possessive, because, they see you as another one of their possession, a thing. So they love and hold onto you like a thing.
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@redzss_ Exactly. The same way I have a thing call self discipline, to discipline myself and my body, I expect nothing less of him. If he is unable to do that, he is not for me, because I was not place here to control a grown man.
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@REDSEASHAWTY Yep, our body stores our emotions and trauma, and these suppress emotions and trauma are manifesting as sickness in our bodies.
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@415FL Sex is such a beautiful experience when you can truly trust your person that allows you to open up all sides of you sexually. That type of sexual depth is not for no sneaky link.
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@braylon125 A relationship is easy when you both love yourself, and is lovingly mutually obsessed with each other.
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@Im_FeliciaHOE @msleemp This right here 💯 true!! Ask anybody who is with their partner. The one they TRULY love and wanted to be with, their dream person,not who they settled with. They will tell you when a person TRULY love their partner they don't cheat on them, because true love protects, not harm.
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@abcdrih Yep that's why we have so many with the Pastors preaching nothing, teaching nothing because they lack the anointing. Their whole motives for opening a church was wrong.
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@toosii2x Awww I love seeing men express their feelings because most men are afraid to express their emotions, even though some women don't know how to receive such outward pouring of love and will call him a simp but express your emotions anyway the right woman will appreciate it.
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@nottydesignss It is a compliment. Most men who are thinking consciously about their life knows that being a parent is a life long commitment, and he sees qualities and traits in you that he would want his child to inherit. If you fall for the compliment now that's up to you😁
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@badboyrepublic Sounds like many people with abandonment issues. "I don't want you to hurt me so let me push you away even though I want you to stay then let me see if you still stay, let me see if you really love me." We need to heal bc this is how many lose people who really care about them.
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@nubivn_ No they don't, and this is where alot of their problems stem from. Whether emotionally or physically. Alot of men donot love nor like themselves and hurt others, because they are hurting.
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@defiskyria That's why some of them can't reach anywhere in life. Instead of working on a plan to build together with their woman, they use their energy to compete and be jealous of her. If they are true teammates and she wins, they both win.
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@pallnandi Why is so hard for women to understand that not because a man like another woman's photo means that he is interested in them? Alot of you women are too insecure! Are most women only posting pictures for WOMEN? Does that make sense? So women only want women to like their photos?
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@WhoHawterThenME Because they don't love themselves. Imagine them looking in a mirror and all they see in them self is brokeness and self hatred. You love that broken person unconditionally but they can't accept your love or give you love, because they're wondering why you even love them.
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@XaviercMiller I always laugh when I hear some men say this,because if they ever meet a true poly man, they will know they don't have the leadership or communication skills and money to be involved in these types of relationships.A real polygamist man knows how to keep his women happy.
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@Theholisticpsyc If only parents most parents knew and understood how dysfunction breed dysfunction.
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@t0nit0ne Hey @instagram are you listening. Sometimes you need to stick with what made you instead of trying to be something else. TikTok was never you, but you're trying to be tiktok which is leaving your users frustrated.
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@omfgWAVY This is so true. Wasted years being invested in the wrong person will truly set you back. But once you have the strength and courage to start over nothing is impossible to do better than before.
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@WiredbyHoney Exactly. I keep telling women there are great men out here. Men that love you so good that everyday you wake up you feel like you're walking on air. First change your mindset about men if you think only negative and speak negative about men then you will attract what you speak.
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@Theholisticpsyc @EvlVelma Yes because people truly don't understand how damaging in adulthood staying for the kids is.
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@Theholisticpsyc I was having this conversation this morning.Many think we are doing the right thing staying for children but in the long run we are hurting them. Many adults right now are emotionally damaged from watching our parent's relationships Children live what they see not what they hear.
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@spicebae_ The way she looks back at him, knowing she has his support. This is what women who are aiming to be successful need. A supportive partner who knows when she wins, the whole team wins.Not a jealous, unsupportive, insecure person who will try to keep her from fulfilling her dreams
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@drodom03 I remember my mom telling me never assume how someone feels about you unless they tell you and show you. That's why I need to know my position in someone's life that I can act accordingly.
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@tularosaax I use to think age equate to maturity but being on Twitter change that perception quickly and help me to accept that most of us grown folks are still stuck in high school mentally.
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@MamaTea_ I always tell my male friends when they cheat, it's either you leave or prepare to face the consequences of living in misery, because women say they forgive, but they NEVER do. They are going to let you pay one way or another.
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@Teionnaa Lord send her a man who will remind her not to put her hands on men. Cause the double standard is very real with these nowadays women.😏
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@celesitial Go where love is reciprocated. Relationships are not suppose to be one sided, that means the other person is not interested. If they really want to be with you they will meet you at least half way.
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@ML_Philosophy Don't be afraid to have hard conversations. Honesty and communication is a solid foundation , once you establish a good foundation that is mutually agreeable the sky is the limit in what you can build together.
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@LeshaPsaint Yep, that sounds about right. I keep telling women that marriage is a lot of responsibility, and if you're not prepared to be a wife or love being a wife, you're going to hate it. Marriage is about love, respect, honor, and duty, and many women know nothing about that.
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@AimTrue7 @Theholisticpsyc That's why it's so hard for people to leave toxic relationships, because the toxicity is familiar and sometimes that's all they know.
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@uvlittl @momeenaBano I pray she feels the same about you and you both feel the same about each other for a very longtime to come.
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@pmnycd It's very sad but sometimes very necessary. So many of us married people we had no business marrying. We stood before a pastor talking about what God joined together telling lies on God, when God had no business in our marriage.
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@NedraTawwab Seemingly this is the topic of the day. Many are starting to realize how terrible of a decision staying for the kids is.Many adults are mourning the trauma of their childhood because their parents thought they were doing the right thing staying in a dysfunctional relationship.
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@ehimeora So darn true. When too people are ready they are in flow so their love is easy, unlike some who are going against the flow so they have to fight to make it work.
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@iisabellaxgray Money and materialistic things are just that, they are things. They are replaceable but you can't replace good character and morals.
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@kornyking @pmnycd Marriage is a beautiful thing when you're married to someone who understands what marriage is. But most marriage their foundation is not solid, it was built on Transactional Love. When you get the foundation right you and your spouse will be fine.
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@AlumBaeOfficial @backwoodsammm True.Yes your intentions are pure but maybe they are not capable to receive your love. Some people has never been truly loved and don't know how to love. Imagine you giving your pure love to someone who doesn't know nothing about love.Their rejection sometimes is your protection.
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@withlovesole This is why I mind my business.Some people get involved with people's business, gossiping, interfering not understanding that sometimes it Karma doing its job. They get themselves involved, and now reaping karma for other people's business. You can't talk about everybody.
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@Eziahatoka People don't understand this until you have a person like this. Some had them and took them for granted and now can't find someone like them.
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@DRESPITFACTS This was the conversation last night. Emotional immaturity and not knowing how to communicate is killing many relationships. It's very hard to communicate with a partner who is emotionally immature because everything they take personally thinking their partner is attacking them.
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@_Derrickgg @_bbytorch Only with the wrong people.
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@Boii_McCoy Yes becaus so many of us chose partners based upon our childhood traumas. When we finally work on healing those traumatic wounds, toxic and traumatic relationships loose their appeal to us. Yes heal so you can feel.
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@CountOnNuke Surely is. Sad thing many call their toxic attachment love, not realizing they're just codependent. That is why they're constantly breaking up and making up. Codependency attachment is like a bad addiction.
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@deadpoet______ When your heart is made of pure love, no matter how hurt or broken it always heals and goes back to it's natural state, which is love.
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@divinelypisces @StarlightThelyt @smoke_nd_pearlz Crazy some men get so bothered when you unfollow them. I don't care to see what's going on in your life If your life doesn't include me. I only keep up with people who are keeping up with me or if their life interest me.
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@deadpoet______ It's a beautiful thing to see someone fixing themselves for the better, because of love. Changing shows their commitment to you and your love.
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@omfgWAVY People don't understand how much they limit love by being dishonest. When a person truly love you and can trust you that you feel the same and you're not playing emotional games with them, you unleashed all the good hidden parts of them. The romantic, the freak, their everything.
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@Moneyfetishc Because a rare woman is not common. So when they meet a rare woman they don't know what to with her, because they are use to common. Then they live in regret because of the one that got away.
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@WhoTFissim You have to be very patient,full of forgiveness, and lots of grace, because if you allow them, they will push you to walk away from them even though they don't want you to leave. So sometimes you're torn between your head and your heart.
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@AstasiaWill Crazy how many of my male friends and female friends are complaining they can't find a good woman or man but everyone still single.
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@TarotByBronx If we only knew and understand how badly our parents mess up. That's why as adults we have to heal from those childhood traumas and create our own identity not one our parents expect of us.
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@niicole__nicole Many will never understand this. They will never understand what a toxic household do to their children until the kids get older. A Peaceful home life is not only good for the parents but even more beneficial to the kids.
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@pettyreligion If a man tells you that don't take it personally. He is basically telling you, you are a gem, and his low self worth will not allow him to treat you properly, so my dear you happily move on.
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@KandonDortch Yep, take it slow, build a solid emotional connection before a physical connection.
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@soulmuva It's so upsetting that so many women are abusers to men and children, but society keeps turning a blind eye to their wickedness because they're women.
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@ZorayaBlack_ DONE! You are not going to embarrass me cause people to laugh and talk about me publicly and privately, me looking like the biggest fool amongst my family friends peers and think you get a second chance to do that again to me. HELL NO! I respect and love myself too much for that.
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