When I tell people I bathe my kitties... I love the reactions.
The other two have remained outside & they're definitely startled by my loud shower head.
MuPhasa has adopted me (ಥ﹏ಥ)
Well, I suppose I can put this under here now
1) Thank you all for your sweet words. My babies have taught me a lot about their boundaries n respect
2) I have 3 cats, two are indoor/outdoor.
3) I LOVE love cats. More convos, less demands. Hella communication
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Okay so far, I'm gonna answer this question b/c y'all just coming with answers that don't quite make sense
1) Most wouldn't keep an indoor cat
2) Most assume my baby here is an outdoor cat
3) the process goes: Shower the baby, shower myself, shower the shower.
Literally no one is telling you to take your cat n throw them in the shower to experience this.
Honor your babies, respect your animals.
& Definitely stop acting like y'all don't carry diseases and viruses just like them. It's just a shower. Clean. Thassit
SN: I see that people want this...
But it requires MUCH inner work to have this
Much of this also means dealing with rejection from your animals.
This didn't come naturally and thru consistent, loving approaches, asking for consent, acknowledging her bounds
She TEACHES me.
@_PussNboots
Communicating that she is safe (hand under bum and cheek against cheek) helped US create a safe space with one another.
Thank you for observing and sharing 🌼🤞🏾
@Gxd_
I use Dawn soap
She gets a bath like this once a month
I squeeze the water off her fur n let her go. Since she's still a baby, I bunch a towel over my heating pad so she can curl up.
I shower afterward
Thanks for asking
@arebirthofvenus
Biiihhhhh
Thanks to a GEWD sis of mine,
Yes ma'am !! Got me RIGHT!
I wish I would have captured the actual bath... Now that..... 😩🥺🥺🥺🥺
Is it time we talk about how mainstream media tries so desperately to disprove astrology because they want it to be exclusive knowledge not because they think it doesn't work?
A list of trade skills I've looked into tho:
Barbering
Beautician
Shoe cleaning
Nail tech
Pyrocrafter
Sculpting
Pottery
Tailor/Seamstress
Forging
Carpentry
Esthetician
Masseuse
It goes on...
@browngirlbritt
Which is very true.
Most cats don't require a bath.
My situation is just different from most.
The stigma that cats HATE baths is the interesting part tho...
I don't not need to shit on myself to big someone else up
This isn't a race
A competition
None of that.
YOU are great at what you
YOU speak very well
YOU look extra good today
YOU did the fuck out of that
I think YOU are refreshing
it's an honor to meet YOU
READING IS FUNDAMENTAL y'all.
Please.
Questions about what's INTENTIONALLY happening here are welcomed.
Please keep your assumptions/projections to yourself.
They say less about what's happening here and more about YEW.
R E A D
the best relationships aren’t built on words, words are fickle. they depend on your capacity to be present. to show up and exist in the presence of love, and to find joy in the space of good company. a trusting of time, a love for life. that’s what your partner needs from you.
being responsible for your decisions, actions, & life direction is going to be the most intelligent and productive manner in which you can handle problems you deal with in life
- Yas.
...hours of just existing in these moments with you...
Thank you for choosing me Mu...
Thank you for the endless lick sessions
Thank you for your love
Thank you for accepting me
Thank you for sharing safe spaces n noms
Thank you for helping me showcase love with others
@itsarrttea
Consent and communication
Didn't force her to shower, she told me she wanted this shower.. I just complied. Lmao she run this household, little did I know
I’m thinking of starting a thread for my ships...
I do get questions.. n I want to share..
I am just hyper cautious of how judgmental and self-centered monogamous individuals are..& I literally hate ur kind
Deadass. But.. here’s my babylove Alex and I
@blackshin0bi
Hmm... Lots of communication
Before I would bathe her.. let her sniff the water and ALL the tools.. give her the choice to stay or not..
If she stays, she stays. If she goes, she goes. ⚆ _ ⚆ idk how else to explain
You know what I need?
genuine apologies
undivided attention
being understood without judgments
imaginative ideas
thought provoking conversations
laughter until my stomach turns becomes steel
shoulder massages
head rubs
head. oral. clit to mouff.