You attend the service, go to the gravesite, come back and eat, hang around for a little while then go find the person you’re there to support, say your goodbyes and go home.
Yini enzima lapho?
There has never been a time where you go to a funeral and not actively seek out the person you are there to support, even if it’s just to wave. Le tshedisa byang lona?
I once saw a tweet from a lady here who said MaYeni is the love of his life, Thobile is the trophy wife, MaNgwabe was someone he had a crush on and went on to marry now they’re stuck together and MaCele is more the mother figure and I couldn’t agree more
This is coming from months of watching him waste away due to cancer. Sehla senyuka ezibhedlela. Funerals are a lot for the bereaved, those people are going through a traumatic experience, be kind. The least you can do is be there for them, not be umthwalo nawe.
I lost my mind when my grandfather whom was the person I lived with passed on. Then while organising the funeral I couldn’t find our funeral plan stuff and they were trying to scam me into paying more money for things that were covered in our plan. Bese nifuna sininake???
It’s really, really heartbreaking to see Wendy Williams like this in an excerpt from the doc airing on Lifetime Saturday. We now know she’s been diagnosed with aphasia and dementia
I’ve watched the show since inception and let me tell you, uSne ungumama obhedayo but a huge part of why she is the way she is stems from how her father treats her. And when you compare that to how he treats his sons, uyabona nawe ukuthi usile.
😂 yazi if you don’t watch the show / see snippets like this, Mseleku is the villain.
BUT if you watch the show and see how Sne acts?🤣😭 uwoah
* just remembered the time she was being asked why she doesn’t send the grant money to her kid and she said she misses her late mom?*
So my father was maintaining my brother and I R300 a month (R150) each😂I didn’t know this until one day we were summoned to court because he wanted to stop paying. It was so awkward seeing him after about 18 years (since divorce), it was tense and he looked embarrassed.
Nope.
It used to though, but I’ve learned that sometimes we meet people and they’re meant to be with us for a specific season/period in our lives. Once that period comes to an end, release and move on.
There’s always more out there.
This lady on TikTok says her son called her for a ride home from a party and she told him to get home the same way he got there. On the way home he was killed 💔
The memulo conversation triggered me because I wanted one so bad, ngazigcina kwathi SHARP turn a few months before I turned 21 😭😭😭 when I catch that boy???? Yeses.
It’s 09:39 and my mom has done the week’s laundry, cooked Sunday lunch and is currently at church.
I just have to tidy up the kitchen because she already cleaned the rest of the house.
I need whoever I end up with to understand how spoiled I am and make peace with it.
😭😭😭 reminds me of when I tried having the “what would you like to happen when you die” conversation with my father wathi umuntu ofuna ukumbulala uyambona and he’s going to tell the family about this😭😭😭
Long story short, I’m known as the daughter that wants to kill him.
Nna this chat about guys telling us our male friends secretly want us hacks me because does this mean you secretly want your female friends while you’re with me????
Who’s fooling who here?
My boyfriend took me out for dinner, my only job was to pay for the parking ticket but I forgot to do that 😭 only remembered when we got to the boom gate. We go back to pay and I take the wrong card😔 I had ONE job and I couldn’t even get that right.
I haven’t been on a date (with a male) in a minute ingathi ngiyi phara or something.
No shade to my friends because we go out all the time but they’re not men???
I���m hosting my friends for my birthday and all of them have been asking me what to bring and I’m like??? Just yourself!
But also, this is why these are MY people🥹❤️
You can’t truly care for your infant child whilst hurting his mother. A baby relies so much on its mother, so much so that the wellbeing of the mother, mentally and physically, has a direct impact on the baby. So if you really care for your baby, you would never hurt its mother
Death is something I’ll always be lenient about. Mawushonelwe nenqondo ayithathi kahle, to expect people to still tend to your feelings in that state is absurd.
ln literally every world lol
Tyla is a Grammy award winning artist. I don’t even listen to her music like that but I could sing Water and Jump, but if you asked me to sing one Sexxy Red song I’d be at a loss.
Sexyy Red, losing best new artist is one of the main reason BET is not a thing in the culture anymore that we give a fuck about. In what world did Tyla have a better year than Sexyy redd ??? They do shit like this then wonder why them views be low
The first time I tried this I was sweating bullets for a week straight because I really wanted the job.
I got the job after a week of complete silence😭 but I was okay with not getting it if it meant getting played AGAIN.
This was us:
Thank you for considering me for the position, but I prefer not to share my payslip as it’s private information. I'm open to discussing salary expectations based on the market rates and my experience. Can you share allocated budget for this role ?
Did Thando secretly give Cyan Their location or was it Zonzo?? Anyway there’s hope for the kids look how scared they are soon as Zonzo mentions Paballo’s mom is down stairs 😭
You can clap for others and still feel unhappy about your personal situation.
The two can absolutely coexist.
I would hate to dismiss my friend’s feelings just because mina kungihambela kahle.
This boy is talented maan. On
#BloodLegacyNetflix
you could tell he was struggling with IsiZulu, but the facial expression and body language was enough to convey the message. Something about him is reminding me of Philip Seymour Hoffman.