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@Lee_Mthi
Men don't recognise emotional abuse, as actual abuse. Many of them will be proud not to have laid hands on a woman but their loophole is breaking women's spirits and calling themselves kings for being different.
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@PaperchaserCM
@Puff_Iya
Men are dragged because they don't want to do anything about it. No therapy, no shadow work, no introspection, no accountability. At some point you need to stop blaming others for the damage you do to people who try to love you because you refuse to heal.
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@ulxma
The notion that women wish they were younger, insinuates that our entire existence depends on being desired. Which is crap. Nothing is fulfilling about being wanted sexually and not having someone understanding you as a person.
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Black parents should stop the cycle of being emotionally unavailable to their kids.
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@Luthando_Nk
I'd rather have someone say this than be a jerk to me so I can eventually leave. I really like straightforward simplicity. And don't come back.
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@JasmineSW3
He's right. Outside of racism and having sex with women only, what else do straight black men stand for? The black LGBTQ+ community? Black mental health? Black women? Black fatherhood? Black financial literacy? What else, when "black excellence" serves only them?
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@kwets11
Because a man committed to humble women on the internet to make other men giggle is exactly what a winner looks like. You guys don't have a personality outside being the mean girls we are frightened to befriend.
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@_fuego98
People are watching too many movies. People in real life are dealing with more serious things outside of dating. To have a roster would also mean your options don't have lives.
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@iSamukelo
@Phelisaaaaa
@akreana_
Tell a girl wassup so she can bring a laptop or make a plan. The biggest issue is men don't communicate then we're both in a tricky situation and we have to act like things are normal when they're not.
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@owojeloche
For example, June is Men's mental health month. Where is the noise from men? Who must create, nourish, celebrate their safe spaces? Us?
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@techieshay
You watch them pour out their efforts in other people/things, and you're supposed to understand their unfortunate events. I believe people who "want to", would at least communicate.
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@brando_man83
@IamSaintOndres
This generation of men is not only low effort and quality but expect women to be patient through it like they saw their moms and aunties. Stop making women having fun a weird concept when y'all not that great to settle with in any case.
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Why does the whole Rachel Kolisi thing have to turn into Xhosa/black men being cheaters? Why are women bringing her down? Why are we quick to laugh at a married woman's insecurities? Is she not human? Why is supporting each other as women selective to certain women?
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@fifikinssss
Bad parents 🤝 being hurt by the slightest insinuation that they're bad parents.
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@Chaantellie
We either love hard or we nonchalant, no in between. The upside is that people never have to wonder where they stand with us because our actions show. And we don't mind our love being rejected. Just don't play us.
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Keabetswe is not God. She tries her level best to help every single person. She has her own life, her own challenges. She has no control over someone else's actions. You WILL NOT blame her for Kerry's death. Never. Don't be annoying.
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@mspeacherino
@Phatima_Kills
She can still eat her up. She's going to that wedding wearing YELLOW. She'll bring gifts, positive vibes, tell the bride she looks gorgeous and wish her the best in her future endeavours, exit the venue, and her life- all this while being disgustingly, breathtakingly beautiful!
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@Ludo4PF
Lol It's easy to say someone switched up and not see how your actions pushed them away.
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Being a girl and your mother not being your place of safety is wild. Mothers being our first bullies, competing with us, being jealous of us, belittling us, dismissive of our emotions, is not normal.
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@AHaitianMermaid
You don't want to provide. You don't want an educated woman. You think women are gold diggers. You don't want them to earn more than you. You hate women who are half naked/twerking. You hate those who display their degrees.
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I fully understand that Siya should be respecting his marriage. How he reacts sets the dynamics of it. But why bring Rachel down? When we say things like, "this is what she should expect" we also become enablers of normalising nonsense from men. Allow Rachel to human.
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@_OhAces
Men date virgins and worry that they'll want some other man or cheat because of curiosity. There's no way around pleasing an insecure man.
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@LesegoMahlako
"Your side chick is working with the police and getting information about your next move from your pillow talks. But nobody is ready for that chat."
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"How else do you think your well calculated plans never follow through and you "almost" get caught?"
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There's evidence. There are witnesses. These stories have surfaced for years. After all of this, there are people who still think R. Kelly is innocent. That is a direct reflection of how perpetrators are treated in society. Uncles, Professors, the man next door
#SurvivingRKelly
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@_OgStu
The community doesn't care about BM getting in interracial relationships unless they have a history of mistreating BW or saying we're too masculine, can't submit, can't grow hair, overweight. You KNOW dark skin BW are bullied by their own to uplift other racial groups of women.
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@euphorixa
Like, how can I submit if I'm literally on panic mode half the time? Women only relax and let you lead if you know what you're doing.
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@kiaraERB_
@dmndshy
Mom's like that have a, "you took my man" mentality. How sis? I hope you're okay.
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@D3rodreas
@_AndeKarim
It's not a character trait. They just hope it will get them in someone's pants. We ALL get rejected. Every single person. That's what they don't get.
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Musa is so insensitive. I genuinely can't believe how indifferent he is over the wives' feelings. He gives these men so much authority to bring pain. As long as he delivered the message, it's grand.
#mnakwethu
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@Sthem056
You saved pictures of her and posted them here, you're clearly bothered. Did she hurt you or is she problematic in any way we don't know about? What was your expected outcome when you did this?
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@Tumi_Axe
Everything is not a joke. It's disappointing how some of you say harmful things about someone who seems happy. Ask yourselves why you choose to bring people down, when you can use your platforms to uplift.
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@RealGClash
He disappeared on me all weekend. How this nigga come back telling me he was swallowed by a whale for three days? I love Jonah, I just don't know what to believe. 😓
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@BrotherGram
Majority don't want love. They want to be desired. The fewer his options, the more the anger build up. The more broke, the less control. That's frustrating b/c you can't use money to say "sorry", or prove your love. And so the "all women are gold diggers" seed, comes to fruition.
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@KCollenm1
@resego_senatle
They know, that's why they start being manipulative and putting you down. Making you feel so worthless that you think you don't deserve any better. So you also stick around because you are convinced you're problematic and lucky to have someone love you through that.
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@Buhlenomuhle
This is an old "joke" and I don't know why you'd want to repeat something so disgusting. Nikhula nini?
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@jiggyjayy2
"That degree won't keep you warm", literally them last week.
It frustrates them that we're not panicking in a way that broadens their options. Who is marrying the women with wife material qualities? Why not choose from them and ignore the modern woman?
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@SimplyRisque
Right?? Feminism is supposed to preach equality but some women have toxic behavioural patterns then claim to be feminists. You can be empowered without being shitty to every man and speaking on relationships you know absolutely nothing about. It's tiring.😴
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@AmalaSilwana
Group project mentality typa gent? Crowd pleaser? Seeking approval for every decision because bazothini? A big, bold, italics, underlined zero.
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@SimplyRisque
Some feminists don't even practice what they preach. They come on social media saying they won't do anything for a man but they are the ones doing the MOST for their relationships. Don't believe the hype.
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@BuddyNoLove
Some people think romantic relationships are one long porno. We need to start having conversations around intimacy. You can't possibly think sex is the only way to get close to someone or feel good in their company. There's also work, stress, fatigue etc.
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@JaysRealityBlog
You see when she cries, dismissive moms do this thing where they are indifferent to your vulnerability. They show zero emotion. But let it be an extended family member or her friends, she offers hugs. This is why the outside world barely believes you or labels you as problematic.
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@t_shmo
@CallMeReelax
Sex is about control for women. Everything is supposed to be deep for us. The notion that the person who broke your virginity comes from the belief that we aren't liberated enough to belong to ourselves.
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@Tamsanqa_M
I don't hey. I think somewhere deep down I feel I'm meant to do this life thing alone.
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If "Still I Rise" was a person. Turning pain into power. How many times did people try to vilify her image, hurt her, break her? Bonang embodies strength and most importantly- Success.
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@rieslingbeauty
He's constantly pushed to be the face of mental health because admitting that he has been an asshole about many things would force a lot of men to realise that they're actually narcissists. They hurt people and sulk when not everyone agrees with their behaviour.
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@Mediterranean_Z
@kenbaeee
@thedigitaldash_
But sometimes it's not the enjoyment of the act but the outward or fake (egotistical) validation that comes with it.
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@ntsikimazwai
You constantly hold yourself to a higher standard because of who you are. You provoke, subtly insinuate you are what we should all aspire to look like as African women. That's limiting, unattainable. We're all different. Maybe start respecting other women and their individuality?
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How "love" works these days.
We're dating on defensive mode. You never know the true intentions of someone. You shouldn't let them in like that. You have to be perfect. You're not good enough. You're too much. You should tone yourself down for them.
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@Tshepiso_Says
I hope he doesn't. Guys who think like this ruin women who try to love them. Toxic people must be with toxic people.
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@Biggersis
Adults are like this. They be chill when you need their protection and assurance then are shocked when you don't place them on the pedestal.
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@MalaikaMazwaii
If I was umntana weh Bongo Muffin, I'd do it every hour. I wouldn't let them rest. 🤞🏽😭
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@senzo__radebe
I don't know about these modern day women, but I believe that as a woman you must cook, clean, iron and serve your man.
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@ShanduLindo
@zangothando
It's projection. Your own inability to remain faithful doesn't mean everyone cheats. Not everyone wants to ruin something they cherish and bring all kinds of imimoya to their relationships because they lack self discipline.
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@Katleemkhwanazi
Mina tbh this is why I fail at being the bigger person. People know exactly what they're doing and the emotions they want to evoke in you.
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@Karabo_Mokgoko
Some rich/wealthy people don't want to be found because people knowing your financial status can cause problems. The big mistake people make on I Blew it, is tell people around them. Unfortunately, abantu (especially friends) aren't always happy for you.
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@StanleyMawu
@brando_man83
@IamSaintOndres
Niggas gone be niggas whether you wait, go, be celibate, or a hoe. For most women it's trial and error. Stop acting like good men who have done internal work and are ready to settle come in abundance. Relax.
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@AnamSamla
"I like you but I don't want to fall for you, and don't want to lose you. So I do all these things to create a bond between us, w/o labels. I want to see other people too so understand that I won't always available. But you need to be there for when I need to feel loved."
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@33Lamb
@euphorixa
Lead first and the rest will follow. How dumb do i look trusting you enough to let my guard down just because you have a penis? You pleyin.
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@ReaMopeli
Crazy thing is if he had an affair there would've been a family meeting where they'd tell the wife to bekezela. Men need to get their emotions intact. You can't go around killing people out of anger. Omg. 😭😭😭
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I think this is refreshing.
No one represents and is proud of being Zulu like Sjava. I love this a lot.
I applaud him for staying true to himself. It takes guts. 👏
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@_imsiccud
@spicebae_
She's guilt tripping her mom for her own mistake. She only brought up abortion because her tears didn't work and knows her mom pulls all the weight in raising her kid(s). She will use it as leverage in future, ("you made me keep this baby") and is playing on her mom's soft spot.
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@delafro_
I just saw a tweet where a man was stating that imagining his future wife gaining weight makes his skin crawl. It's so hurtful/inconsiderate as our bodies go through more strain. It's definitely tied to misogyny and is hypocritical in most cases. We're just objects.
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Black people are the most forgiving, most loving, most hard working, most obedient and most patient race in the world.
How many times are we provoked but still be the ones that want peace??? We still get up in the morning, smile and keep it going like we aren't hurt.
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@Dumisan69080991
@Nozi_Michelle
Family always sides with the man. How he treats you is people around him will treat you. They barely stick around to listen to your side of the story.
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@StaxCooks
The comment section is exactly why "teaching men" is pointless. Something as simple as behavior, appropriate time/place, boundaries and consent still need to be explained. Her change in body language doesn't make men bat an eye then they wonder why women are afraid of them.
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@dwd082
@roestorff_karin
@ErnstRoets
Oh honey Apartheid gave birth to them too. That system stripped black people off everything and those who had the power to speak were either silenced with money or death.
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@Ghanasfinestx
Also proves that religion plays a part in the patriarchy system where men have a constant need to control their partners.
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@ChefStuga
Being wholesome gives people a false sense of forever. They think you won't leave. They only see your value once you no longer want them.
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@glacier_heart
When they say no one cares, no one is there for them emotionally, they're blaming women. The accountable is never towards the friends they glorify so much. Once they stop idolizing each other they would see that braais and bonding over being alpha, is not "friendship".
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The Maps and Nomzamo story is an example of how this generation would rather celebrate a couple's downfall than their union. We put sex on the pedestal, treat each other like trash or glorify cheating that witnessing a healthy black relationship was too good to be true anyway.
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This episode shows how we have several opportunities to address and talk about mental issues, but black families constantly sweep the topic under the carpet.
#PapaPennyAhee
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@thecindynoir
@pholanthropist
There is a similar joke saying we could be home sipping mimosas with our girlfriends at 11am but we chose the right to work. People forget financial abuse, total control of your life, having so many chores that spoiling yourself would mean buying quality soap/appliances etc.
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Today's show
-"Friends" don't want the best for you.
-People have ridiculous standards with other people's money.
-Well mannered guys are considered boring.
-People point out other people's flaws but don't look in the mirror.
-Spending on expensive alcohol=success
#DateMyFamily
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@dinixluna
Also straight men's biggest fear is their son's being gay. They rush the exposure to sexuality to push them into the "right" direction. Deciding on their own would leave too much room for choice. The playboy mag, bonding by looking at women who pass, it's all grooming.
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@blaqueword
You guys are such bullies. Just because a real existing race in South Africa does not fit your [American] history, you create a haha thing about it. You have a "me me me" outlook and pay no mind to how that may make others feel.
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