My
#1
tip for growth on X?
Speak in spaces.
Add value when you do. Don't go and tell your whole life story. Be respectful and mindful of people's time.
If you want to level up, co-host a space.
It helps the host get more eyes on their space, enhances your hosting
Whether you've come across me in a space as a host or cohost, seen one of my tweets or just somehow come across me on these X streets, hi!👋
I'm Lazolia and I'm a values-based coach who helps people figure out their core values to live meaningful lives that match those values.
@julienbarbier42
I appreciate that Julien walks the talk. He doesn't just say, "do hard things"; he DOES them. He's in the trenches with us, asking for feedback, making necessary changes and encouraging us. Thank you for being an excellent example of what being a leader really means👌🏽🙏🏽
🔥Get ready to dive into the extraordinary world of our
#FacesofALXSE
! Join us on our brand new podcast where we uncover the incredible stories of our visionary, trailblazing, and game-changing
@facesofalxse
. Don't miss out! Listen on Spotify NOW🎧:
Finally published my first blog post on Hashnode😅. Thanks to
@ehoneahobed
for the idea of turning the key takeaways from the space into a blog post and
@blackgirlbytes
for your technical writing article!
Read it here and let me know what you think:
One time on call with
@Mssophia_
, she said if 2 people graduated, it'd be us; if 10 did, we'd be among them. Ironically, we struggled with C then, but all we had was belief. Today, we made it! Congratulations to us. Grateful for the journey and excited for what lies ahead!
Join
@ehoneahobed
and I this Friday, 16 June, at 6pm GMT as we celebrate his inspiring one year software engineering journey at
@alx_africa
and hear his insights on what it was like as well as celebrating those who helped him make it this far 🎉
I am happy to announce my first Twitter space to be co-hosted with
@LazoliaB
Join me this Friday as I reflect on my Software Engineering journey, celebrate the successes and appreciate everyone who has helped me on this journey.
oooooh, so
@guillaumesalva
is behind the notorious checker🙆♀️. The more you know😁. Loving the ALX SE Preparatory Guide so far. Job well-done
@ehoneahobed
👏
This whole week I've gotten 100+ pushes to start my own space & I've been hesitant because what am I going to talk about? I'm an introvert who loves listening to others but after today's space with Tim, I give in 😭
Join me on Monday for my first space!
The Glass Onion Introduction
Welcome to The Glass Onion, where freedom, privacy, and innovation intertwine. The Glass Onion reshapes the internet into a space that prioritizes YOU the individual.
Why the name the Glass Onion?
The answer is transparency. But there are other
Are you a content creator, entrepreneur or professional ready to identify what's holding you back, set better goals and take action but don't know where to start?
Then the "Live Your Values Quickstart Edition" program is just for you! 🎉
During the 6 action-packed sessions,
What a wonderful surprise 😲
I'm a top 2% earner on
@buymeacoffee
shop!
And this is with me not promoting it like I should and using it for less than two months.
This is your sign to sign up NOW!
Here's the link:
It's takes 2 MINUTES. No excuses!
#wcw
@Zee_Hammouda
@kasiemobieke
&
@Mssophia_
for unapologetically taking up space in the tech world, sharing their highs and lows, wins and lessons and everything in-between with humour, authenticity and "don't give up" attitude. I wanna be like you when I grow up 🥹😂❤️
Connections, connections, connections.
They cannot be overstated.
It's important to show up as your authentic self so you can meet people aligned with you and your values.
It's a win for everyone when we work to help each other, irrespective of how we work.
We must just
Your career choices should reflect your values.
When you align your work with what truly matters to you, you'll find fulfilment and purpose that exceeds your paycheck.
Choose wisely, for your values shape not just your career, but your entire life journey.
To all those embarking on the road to S(h)ell, you've got this 💪🏽
Remember to breathe deeply, sleep properly, hydrate and RTFM!🤓
You win or you learn.
You win or you learn.
I repeat, you WIN or you LEARN.
May the gods of C be with you on this arduous journey 🧑💻
2023 was a nightmare.
I almost lost my mind and will to soldier on but I'm here so I guess that counts for something, right?
In celebration of making it to the end of yet another year in one piece (somewhat), here are 23 profound lessons I learned in 2023:
Calling all artists, be you a visual artist, writer, musician, etc! I am participating in the multi-artist "Humanity" event from May 25 (that's today!) by
@faerian_art
on , with a live stream on
#NFC23
. Let's get creating!👩🎨🎻✍️
#HumansofFaerian
Ever feel like you're constantly busy but not really making progress on what truly matters?
It's time to rethink your approach to time management.
Let's look at how living by your values can transform your productivity and fulfilment:
Step 1: Reflect on your values.
What
5 things we need to say no to because they don't serve us:
1. Unhealthy relationships
2. Negative self-talk
3. People-pleasing behaviours
4. Fear of failure
5. Perfectionism
Bonus points: excessive workload, unrealistic expectations, toxic habits, comparison, and mindless
I hate it when I ask someone 'how are you?' and they reply, 'I'm good', and it ends there.
And me? I'm good too, thanks for asking 😒
God punish you for your lack of manners 😆(jk 👀)
Anyway, come and chat with me about how you're feeling. I actually care to know.
We want to
Fuel your motivation with these simple methods:
- Set inspiring goals.
- Celebrate small victories.
- Surround yourself with supportive people.
- Visualize success regularly.
Incorporate these to keep moving forward towards your goals.
Happy Monday! ☀️
There will be no
#MondayMusings
space today. I need to pour into myself more.
But I have a thought for the week for you to mull over:
how can YOU pour into yourself this week?
What does it look like?
- going on a mini vacation?
- sleeping in?
- catching up on
"A cup is most useful when it is empty." - Confucius
Are you willing to empty yourself of preconceived notions, mindsets and limiting beliefs to become the best version of yourself?
What a space👏. When you share what is on your heart, it touches those you come into contact with and changes lives. Let this be your sign to act on what you are called to do as I was.
I am so thankful for taking the plunge in holding these weekly spaces🥹
A million thanks to
Every time I host a space, I am filled with so much gratitude and awe at all the amazing people I get to meet and serve.
To my co-host👩:
@AskIntuition
you helped the space run smoothly and shared powerful thoughts. Thank you.
To my speakers🎙️:
@ds_groundupbiz
@mamiof3kids
Accidentally started the original space 🤦🏽♀️ X never loved us.
Saying no is one of the most powerful things you can do for your growth and wellbeing.
But are you saying no enough so you can say yes to things that serve you more?
Set a reminder for my upcoming Space!
Here's
The way
@ehoneahobed
's YouTube videos on singly linked lists have me feeling like a genius 😁Now let's go and apply this knowledge to the tasks accordingly 💪🏽
Authenticity tip: Regularly check in with yourself.
Ask yourself: 'Am I showing up as my true self today?'
If not, identify one small change you can make to be more authentic.
And we're back to our regular scheduled programming!
Join me Monday evening as we talk about satisfaction.
Is it possible to be content with where you are even if it's not where you want or had hoped to be?
Let's talk about it!
Set a reminder for my upcoming Space!
"When you get to the top, take some people with you." Wise words from
@JeremyCMorgan
👏🏽
This is the kind of energy and mindset we need today, especially in these turbulent times.
Let's help each other succeed.
Everyone wins when we do so!!!
Thank you to everyone who shared their wins for the month of May with us🥳I am so proud of you and rooting for your continued success in June👏.
Celebrating our wins is going to be a end of month thing thanks to MamaB, so yay!
My heartfelt thanks to:
Co-host👩🦱:
@AskIntuition
So before I went to bed last night, I started reading "Paris for One" by
@jojomoyes
and didn't sleep until I was done because I wanted to know how Nell and Fabien would end up and I was NOT disappointed.
I'm not a romance novel kinda girl (thriller, suspense, mystery, science
Strive to be authentic in all areas of your life.
Be true to yourself and your values, even when it's challenging.
Authenticity attracts genuine connections and opportunities.
#ThankfulThursday
because as
@StephGray_VAC
always says: "There's always something to be grateful for" and she's so right.
Today my heart is so full. I am so thankful. I never thought I'd have met the people I have or done the things I've done if I hadn't stepped out of my
I'm sooooo thankful to
@joinmelonio
for enabling chat history from Feb 22 because I started Mar 5 & was devastated when I thought I had lost my first chats🥹
It is THE best thing after sliced bread. I'm learning so many things about myself.
Thanks
@Christel_OCC
for the plug!
Quality sleep = staying true to your values!
A well-rested mind is more resilient, making it easier to stick to your principles and make decisions aligned with your beliefs.
Prioritize restful sleep to fuel your authentic self & live your values with clarity and conviction.
When faced with tough decisions, ask yourself: 'Does this choice align with my core values?'
Trust your intuition and choose the path that feels true to who you are.
Self-awareness hack: Ask trusted friends for feedback on your strengths and areas for growth.
Their insights can reveal blind spots and help you improve.
Happy Monday!
Feeling like everything is going too fast and you just need to pause and breathe?
Join me as I discuss the beauty of living at our own pace when it seems like we're being pressured to be everything and everywhere.
Set your reminder👇
The gems
@AritDeveloper
shared in the Tech Success meeting were everything I didn't know I needed.
She overflows with so much wisdom, compassion and spice 😅
Took so many notes that I'm going to go over and compile into something more legible lol
Thank you ma for all you do!
Happy Friday! 🌞
Join us on Monday as we talk about doing what we say we will.
Are you trustworthy?
Why or why not?
What can you do to get better at it, not just for others, but most importantly for yourself?
Set a reminder for my upcoming Space!
Saying no is one of the most powerful things you can do for your growth and wellbeing.
But are you saying no enough so you can say yes to things that serve you more?
Let's talk about it next week Monday 8 April!
Set a reminder for my upcoming Space!
Ways to 5 ways to live your life at your own pace without losing yourself:
1. Know thyself,
2. Choose your friends wisely,
3. Limit your inputs,
4. Regularly assess that what you want is truly coming from you and not outside influences
5. Be willing to adjust when something's
“If you hear a voice within you say “you cannot paint”, then by all means paint, and the voice will be silenced.”
– Vincent Van Gogh
Itching to create something but feel you're not the right person to do so?
This is your sign to go for it.
Helping others is the goal.
Struggling to find balance in your life?
It might be time to reevaluate your priorities and how you manage your time.
Here are 3 steps to help you live more intentionally and in line with your values:
Step 1: Define your values.
What do you truly care about?
Is it spending
"Tech hires for competence, not knowledge."
"Your true competition is those who show up, not the stats."
"Optimize your job search activities to sync with your energy profile as a person."
@AritDeveloper
dropping gems again!
Kind reminder for the job application Excel template 🙏
10. Appreciate the good people in your life.
Whether they have helped you emotionally financially, or otherwise, say thank you and stay thankful.
Shout out to
@ehoneahobed
,
@dohoudaniel
,
@Zee_Hammouda
for consistently showing up for me.
@julienbarbier42
@ehoneahobed
@block_cs
@guillaumesalva
@FredSwaniker
@alx_africa
This came out sooner than expected for sure😅You have really outdone yourselves with this one. Thank you!👏 Pity one has to drop out of the SE program to do this one if chosen but at least there's always the option to come back and finish the SE course if the need arises.
Want to live a fulfilling life?
Live with integrity.
Integrity is the cornerstone of a life lived in alignment with your values.
It's about more than just doing the right thing when no one's watching—it's about staying true to yourself, even when faced with challenges.