RE Matt Black: a quantum of solace. I was lying in bed with my boyfriend when he requested a nude from me. We sent him a picture of my boyfriend’s butt. It gives me a strange sense of satisfaction to think that he beat his meat to a picture of my boyfriend. 😂
This lockdown has me feeling agitated constantly. Like am I hungry or anxious or bored or thirsty or horny or tired or stressed or sick of doing the dishes or claustrophobic or lonely...?
Oh my fucking shattered nerves. We got fucking chased by an elephant this evening. We had to reverse down a dirt road for about a kilometer! 😰 it was like some Jurassic Park shit.
I am driving home from my vax and in the car next to me there is a hun eating a whole bowl of cereal (ceramic bowl, metal spoon, alles) as she drives and it may just be the most chaotic thing I’ve ever seen 👁👄👁
Elon Musk’s brain-machine interface company Neuralink is currently looking for their clinical trial director to start testing brain chip on humans.
“You will be able to save and replay memories. You could potentially download them into a new body or into a robot body.”
A lot of people are being tjoepstil in the wake of Dr*g*n’s exposure as a serial abuser and it’s just not sitting right with me. The silence is almost as disturbing as the girlies twirling to defend him.
The year is 2009. You’re walking into the club to smash double jäger bombs just before buy one get one free ends. I Gotta Feeling by the Black Eyed Peas is playing. You know you’re going to be scream-singing Summer of 69 on the dancefloor after midnight. Life is good.
South African Horror Story: when you’ve been watching YouTube videos and Insta stories the whole weekend and you ONLY JUST realized your WiFi was switched off.
@Summer29582547
This post was inspired by watching a domestic worker - a mature woman - being dragged down the road by a boisterous Labrador and it sent me into a rage. She was clearly unhappy and struggling; this was most certainly not her choice.
If you were considering living in Fourways and working in Rosebank might I suggest that you don’t. Fucking. Ever. Do. That. Clusterfuck doesn’t even cover it.
While I appreciate the men on my TL admonishing any sort of impropriety towards women, I hope you apply the same energy to calling out men in your WhatsApp groups, friendship circles, out at bars, on social media. Until you make changes in real life, your allyship is performative
I muted yesterday’s post because a lot of people were responding with nasty takes. I want to thank each and every one of you who reached out, offered advice and sent me love. It means more to me than you know.
I’m having a bit of a hard time with my mental health at the moment, so I put together a list of affirmations to ease my mind a bit. I thought I’d share them here, just in case someone else needed to hear them [thread]
This is Chubby. As a purveyor of the Soft Life, he hates adversity.
1. Could not step over the cable because it was scary
2. The terrifying rake was in his way
3. Would not walk over the carpet because it was folded
4. Could not get in through the door gap (got out just fine)
#ThrowbackThursday
to when Google didn’t exist, and when you wanted to learn the lyrics to your favourite songs, you had to pause the song every 3 seconds so you could write the words down.
I am a whole 31 years old today. 30 was a tough year, but I’m grateful for both the love from friends and family, and the lessons. As my stepdad told me this morning, I am now within my fourth decade; here’s hoping it brings with it amazing things.
I’ve quite enjoyed the anonymity of masks in that I don’t even feel remotely bad about rocking up to the shops looking like an absolute dog’s breakfast
Our beloved Ever Given and it’s 25 crew members has been seized by Egypt, and will not be released until a compensation payment of $900m is made.
The best part is, the ship is being held in a place called - I shit you not - The Great Bitter Lake.
So midway Cyril’s announcement, my sister panic-went for an petrol station run and returned with:
- 4 x Jelly Babies
- 1 x bottle of long life milk
- 1 x box of Romany Creams
- 4 x boxes of cigarettes
- 8 x buddy Cokes
- 2 x small bags of Tumbles
In light of recent conversations, I would be remiss to not flag a widely-loved SA Canadian-based doctor who struck up a repartee with me during lockdown. Claims to be divorced; turns out he had a long-term girlfriend in Canada. I genuinely hope I’m not the only woman he fooled.
I am spending New Years in the bush with my mom, aunt and sister and I couldn’t imagine anything more perfect. Happy has a clam. Here’s to a gentle and happy 2022 to you and yours ❤️