Sometimes people online say that we should be more forgiving of narcissists. But when you tried that for years and got nowhere, you know it's a fools errand. Does this resonate?
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Narcissists gradually get their partners used to their abuse. So that after a while, they barely realise it's going on. Only after the relationship is over do they realise the full extent of their mistreatment. Did this happen to you?
Some narcissists get drunk to disguise their narcissism. Because it allows them to let out their narcissistic behaviours, whilst people assume it was "just the drink talking". And they usually give them a free pass...
Narcissists sometimes accuse others, just to distract them. Because whilst they're focussed on defending themselves to the narcissist, they miss their suspicious behaviours...
Many people are fooled into thinking the narcissist suddenly changed for the worse. They didn't. They were always this way. They hid their true self, until they knew they could get away with showing it to you. Has this happened to you?
Has a narcissists come down with a "mystery illness", or started a fight, at someone else's celebration? It may have been their attempt to steal the spotlight...
Narcissists love a fight, and they know you don't. So they turn minor disagreements into blazing rows. Because they know you'll back down to keep the peace. And they get their way...
Rather than getting back at narcissists, use your energy to make your life great. It's more beneficial to you, and it annoys the hell out of them!
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@karenmitchell__
Exactly this happened where I used to work. The owners enabled a narcissist manager for years, despite numerous issues and complaints.
@lovewins11011
It's your platform to say what you want! They can use their own platform if they want to say something nice about narcissists. Why should you?!
Did the narcissist claim to be your soul mate? Narcissists often claim to be soul mates, to convince you that your relationship is divinely inspired. So you stay with them, no matter how badly they treat you.
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Narcissists push people into no win situations by causing trouble. If you passively accept it, then great. If you fight back, they play the victim, and YOU are the bad guy. Have you experienced this?
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@danwootton
Also not one question about immigration either. If these "journalists " were impartial in any way, it would have been their first question!
Narcissists put people in "no win" situations. For example, they may leave a half eaten sandwich on the table. If you throw it away, how dare you mess with their food. But if you leave it, you're lazy for not cleaning up. Have you experienced this?